Posting reports on providers
Used to be that some mongers here would get bent out of shape if you admitted to talking to a provider about this board. Like the guys wanted to be able to talk about the women in private. But the reality is the providers know about this forum and probably keep close track of it. Recently a provider asked me if I go online to these boards. She opened this conversation herself. And when I admitted I do read and contribute to this forum, she asked me to post about her to help her drum up business. I realized I was in an ambiguous position all of a sudden. I like this provider as a person and would like to help her out. But if I post, I am not willing to just try to do a white-wash sales job for her which is what she would most like. I've got to tell my experience, the good with the bad, or at more accurately, what I liked and what I didn't. So this woman, or similar providers, may not in the long run be so pleased with what I say about them if I'm not describing them in strictly glowing terms 10-10-10 etc. !
Reporting performance and natural consequences
[QUOTE=CosmicKid;2142576]Used to be that some mongers here would get bent out of shape if you admitted to talking to a provider about this board. Like the guys wanted to be able to talk about the women in private. But the reality is the providers know about this forum and probably keep close track of it. Recently a provider asked me if I go online to these boards. She opened this conversation herself. And when I admitted I do read and contribute to this forum, she asked me to post about her to help her drum up business. I realized I was in an ambiguous position all of a sudden. I like this provider as a person and would like to help her out. But if I post, I am not willing to just try to do a white-wash sales job for her which is what she would most like. I've got to tell my experience, the good with the bad, or at more accurately, what I liked and what I didn't. So this woman, or similar providers, may not in the long run be so pleased with what I say about them if I'm not describing them in strictly glowing terms 10-10-10 etc. ![/QUOTE]Good performance will increase volume. Over charging with poor service results in diminished clients. Everyone expects to receive fair service value.
Will be returning home to honolulu this summer for vacation after being away 5+ years. Need a lot of teasing to charge a 78 year old chaji. Any suggestions?
Mahalo and be safe.
I know what you are talking about.
The thing about this industry is that it is entirely cloaked with lies. The mongers (most of them) lie to the providers, and all the providers lie to the mongers. Personally, I don't like to lie because I can never remember what I lied about. So, all the providers know I have an SO and a dependent. They know the reason for my visits (most ask why I go to AMPs). I have never been burned by a provider using honesty (yet), although I have seen and heard the horror stories.
I have had a couple of providers come back and say "why did you say that?" I said that is my opinion. They cannot argue about opinions / feelings. But if you are confident enough, I would say that anything negative should be discussed with the provider during the session before posting about it (ie give pointers on how you like it. More tongue during BBBJ, no DATO, sit on my face, etc.). Give them a chance to correct or make better whatever it is (unless its looks or smell- can't help that during a session). If they ask to you to post, just tell them you don't want to ruin / abuse your relationship with them.
Yes, providers do read here. Some learn from it to get better, other just get bitter. PM is for things that you don't want to the provider to see. You can always PM a member and request more info. If you have legit posts and seem real, then most will respond with more details.
All-in-all, Happy (and safe) Mongering!
[QUOTE=CosmicKid;2142576]Used to be that some mongers here would get bent out of shape if you admitted to talking to a provider about this board. Like the guys wanted to be able to talk about the women in private. But the reality is the providers know about this forum and probably keep close track of it. Recently a provider asked me if I go online to these boards. She opened this conversation herself. And when I admitted I do read and contribute to this forum, she asked me to post about her to help her drum up business. I realized I was in an ambiguous position all of a sudden. I like this provider as a person and would like to help her out. But if I post, I am not willing to just try to do a white-wash sales job for her which is what she would most like. I've got to tell my experience, the good with the bad, or at more accurately, what I liked and what I didn't. So this woman, or similar providers, may not in the long run be so pleased with what I say about them if I'm not describing them in strictly glowing terms 10-10-10 etc. ![/QUOTE]
Rappongi Mimi is now PT Coco
[QUOTE=YungEvr;2142727]She's long gone. Last I heard she was an attorney or some sort.[/QUOTE]Another monger is reporting in the PT thread that Korean Mimi formerly of Rappongi is indeed at PT working under the new name of Coco.
