Need some help getting started (not a metaphor)
Hello fellow mongers. I'm trying to get more into the non pro game, but I can't seem to figure out how to use SA without spending my entire paycheck. Do you all really fork out that kinda $$ for sending messages? If anyone could help / pm me some info on how to get started or what I'm doing wrong I'd be willing to trade a few numbers I got from some "pros" in the bb forum.
Same girl tried to get me
[QUOTE=RomanticIdiot;6677311]She is a scammer, run away from her as far as you can. I met her at a restaurant. After dinner, she wanted to go to QFC to get a oral test kit and requested money. I obliged, gave her 200 (stupid I know) and told her I would be coming with her. However, I couldn't find the parking easily and let her go into the store alone as there were other cars behind honking at me and I was nervous.
By the time I parked my car, I was sure it was a scam. Lo and behold I got this exact message from her after 5 minutes.
I left out the back door, I parked in the qfcparking lot and am on my way home, I'm sorry but I am fleeing from a DV situation and needed the help. I live in south Tacoma and it is going to be a two hour drive, I'm so sorry. I don't want to waste anymore of your time, thank you for the donation. You saved me and my kid.
In hindsight, there were lot of red flags but I ignored as I was new to this experience.[/QUOTE]She also asked me for money after the restaurant I told her no money until I see you naked, she bailed.
She has borderline personality, probably soon to be homeless.
SA: The Island of Broken Toys
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She has borderline personality, probably soon to be homeless.[/QUOTE]Probably half to two thirds of the girls I meet off of SA have mental health issues of one sort or another. I don't know if you can extrapolate that to society in general (although a lot of people these days are obviously messed up) or if SA or SB is just where a girl is likely to land if she is too dysfunctional to work at a strip club or escort.
I've been doing the sugaring thing off and on for about fifteen years. It seems to me that there are more girls who are seriously fucked up in the head these days than there were before. But that is a small sample size and there were no shortage of nutjobs when I started doing this in 2008 and 2009.
Recently I was in communications with an (apparently) pretty cute 20 yo off of SB. We were chatting on text and basically it came down to she wasn't willing to meet, or wasn't willing to meet very often, or could only meet for ten or fifteen minutes at a time. She said this was because of her severe anxiety and panic attacks when she was in public. On the other hand she was polite and respectful when I politely explained to her that there was no way any money was going to change hands unless we met in the flesh. Also it was pretty obvious that her expectations for compensation were outside of my comfort zone. Blocked and moved on.
Info on Mia, a premium subscriber female on SA
Not sure what to make of females who are premium subscribers on seeking. Have a date set, she's been on seeking a year, hopefully some info?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/10f84b7a-8c14-4b65-90e2-d202a2eea63a[/URL]