You Seem To Agree To Agree
[QUOTE=SinfulDreams;2050870]And you might find some that say you haven't been with me yet and not be impressed. It's the way of the world. But just because she charges a higher rate than others, she might be at the top of her game also. No need to single out anyone, when the ones that are in this truly enjoy what they do. The ones that don't, that is what the reviews and discussions are for. To let other hobbyists know and the providers in question either step up your game or get out of the business. I know I am not a 9 or 10, or have a porn stars body. Frankly I don't want that kind of body, because I am happy with all of my curves, and my clients are too or else they wouldn't keep coming back.
It's about attitude and personality, and the willingness to please. It's about customer service, and follow through, and making sure these guys have the time of their life, if even for that short while, or to come back for more. It's about variety, and the spice of life. There is so much that goes into being a provider than just looks is what I am getting at. You don't have to have a perfect body to be good at what you do.[/QUOTE]You pretty much just restated everything he just said. I think you agree with him more than you understand. Whether it is true or not in your case, not sure until the two of you fuck and he reports back, but still, you summed up his exact position with:
[B]"making sure these guys have the time of their life"[/B]
That seems to be exactly what A2 is looking for.
I think most guys feel the same way, if they are being honest. I won't speak for them, but I know I feel I am willing to pay what I consider to be a fair price for the [b]experience[/b], and the only reason I might ever consider paying above my threshold budget would be if she happened to have a Phd in Literature (if I am in the mood to converse and fuck) and was drop-dead-gorgeous, or a celebrity I have always wanted to fuck, but the key is, they still have to provide that intense experience.
A2 described this as being so incredible his mind was caught in a WTF loop.
All things being equal with regards to skill and service, there is not much difference between a 7 and a 10, so why take money away from a frequent sure thing on a gambit of pretty eyes, legs, or whatever you are into? With me, I am not much to look at, so for the sake of the lady, I keep the room dim in candlelight, and since I am half-blind without my glasses, the ladies "looks" don't mean much once the clothes fly off, I am more about how she feels when my hands roam over her body, and since my ultimate goal is to sneak up and rock an attractive woman's world I live for that freshly fucked face and bed hair. Ladies can doll-up in lingerie, some guys dig that, but it just gives my fingers more things to do than if she were just in a towel and ready for a grape seed oil massage and everything it causes. I like the idea that after they count their money when they get home, they go, "holy fuck, I got paid to feel that incredible." How well they were put together before I ravished them only has so much impact on my spending discretion, since in the civilian world, most woman are out of my league, until they learn what I can do to them.
Hahaha! YOU FOOLED ME For A Second!
[QUOTE=NKY747;2051261]Last night about 3 am I had a come to life moment when I opened up a box of cheese-its. Starting thinking about WTF am I doing with myself these days, wondering why I can't go into a store and buy milk, see a woman without undressing her head to toe. Or go to my bank and not stare down the lush greatness of neverending cleavage of the bank teller assuring me she's just doing her job and thank you for appreciating the view.
Trying to figure out how much 'time' I've invested in just the activity of women in general, how much more efficient I'd become if I stopped, looked and listened. I could have money in the bank, nice house. A big boat I could take all my friends on.
I can't believe I actually think about women undressing. For shame. How rude am I to think that's not their personal privacy I'm invading when I lust for their created image. What were you thinking, a famous Dr. Phil quote.
So what I've decided is I'm going to change. I am going to wait till marriage to have sexual relations with my wife. Never will I look at a naked woman again. This way I can dedicate my pure and honest thoughts right to the one I love and no other. I'll refrain from all pornography, delete all 590 bookmarked favorites and complete this life cycle of purity to cleanse my soul, never look at a vagina again unless it belongs to me in a covenant of love.
I figure this is the best place to see if there is anyone willing to join my conquest to live as true men, here this April fools day.[/QUOTE]ROTFLMFAO -- YOU FOOLED ME For A Second! I thought to myself, what the hell is he talking about. . .then the punch line smacked me square in the face! Good one! --SA007.