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[QUOTE=Peter_Girth] I guess I will simply have to lie when questions about my "past" come up, I cannot imagine anyone even wanting to hear the truth let alone being comfortable with it.[/QUOTE]Pete:
The past is just what it is, the past.
And, you don't know where you are going until you know where you've been.
We all have a past, be it good bad or indifferent. Just realize that your past is not an open book but your future is.
The very best of luck to you, you will be just fine.
[QUOTE=Toasty Ears][QUOTE=Peter_Girth]...But only time will tell. I guess I will simply have to lie when questions about my "past" come up, I cannot imagine anyone even wanting to hear the truth let alone being comfortable with it. I hate to do that, but I do not see any other viable alternative....
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I struggle with this too. It might go over OK if you only saw a couple providers say in you're youth maybe in the military or something like that, but how do you tell someone you used saw providers as a hobby. I'm thinking complete honesty would not go over very well. This is a tough situation. If it will work maybe the best thing is to explain that you have done some things in the past that you are not proud of and that you would rather not go into detail about it. If this works then you have avoided lying to her.
Anyway good luck-wish you success.[/QUOTE]
I think keeping your mouth shut and moving on with life is the best choice. The less she knows, the better life is going to be. This is a hard life to give up. I did it for about a year but things changed and I came back. I will leave it again and probably for good when that time comes.
[QUOTE=Peter_Girth]I guess I will simply have to lie when questions about my "past" come up, I cannot imagine anyone even wanting to hear the truth let alone being comfortable with it.[/QUOTE]That can be a problem if you can't keep a secret, like me. About two years or so into our marriage I blurted my monger history out to my second wife during a conversation about my ex. When she asked my why I didn't tell her earlier, I told her I didn't want to scare her away 'cause she was so damned right for me, and then once the emotional component kicked in I was afraid to for fear of losing her. Oddly enough, she was okay with it after a day or so, and seemed to be secure about it after she had some time to be sure I wasn't a hobbyist anymore and wasn't sneaking out for pay-to-play on the sly. These days she thinks it's funny. And having met her, she agrees that my ex was and is a complete ***** and accepts everything I told her about that disaster. I've been with a sex worker about 40-45 times that I can honestly recall (that is after doing a mental census of the number of times I visited Memphis, how many other cities I visited during vacations, memorable faces and so on). I never got busted, not even a LEO sniff. I have to thank the old paranoia.comwebsite and what I learned from the alt. Prostitution Usenet newsgroups I visited back in the 90s for the for my pristinely virginal criminal rapsheet. I wish I was as good at speeding and not being ticketed as I was at being a hobbyist!
Wifey loves sex and we partake often enough that I don't "need" to monger, unlike the situation with my first wife. I don't cheat on her at all, not that I don't look. I'm faithful, not dead! And yes, I know I'm damned lucky!
I guess what I'm saying is keep your mouth shut, and if you can't, look for the right person who can accept your history and look past it.
[QUOTE=Peter_Girth]Folks, I did not envision that this day would ever come, but a confluence of factors have led me to the decision to hang up my codpiece and exit the stage. Without getting sappy, I just feel that staying in the hobby is incompatible with with the way I want to live my life going forward.
I will stop in from time to time as I attempt to wean myself away from and conquer my urges, and maybe offer some sage advice or caustic commentary. I may backslide a time or two, although that is not my intention. I expect it will be kind of like quitting smoking, which I did manage to do successfully several decades ago, so I will apply the same principles. But going cold turkey after over 3 decades of "the life" will present it's own unique set of challenges. It will not be easy for me to establish "normal" relationships with "regular" women, but I am going to try like hell to do so. I am already out there and have had a few bites, so the hurdles might not be as high as I originally feared they might be. But only time will tell. I guess I will simply have to lie when questions about my "past" come up, I cannot imagine anyone even wanting to hear the truth let alone being comfortable with it. I hate to do that, but I do not see any other viable alternative.
This is about as close to spilling my guts as I am going to get, so just wish me luck. Be safe, stay healthy and stay out of trouble.
Pete
P.S. You have no idea how hard it was to write this letter or one like it until you sit down to do so.[/QUOTE]
I enjoyed reading your posts.
But like John Lennon said...whatever gets you through the night.......
As for me. I am never, ever leaving the 'hobby.' It's too much fun, too much adventure, and too much of something, like Mae West said, is a wonderful thing.
[QUOTE=B Mann]Pete:
The past is just what it is, the past.
And, you don't know where you are going until you know where you've been.
We all have a past, be it good bad or indifferent. Just realize that your past is not an open book but your future is.
The very best of luck to you, you will be just fine.[/QUOTE]
I hate to see you go but I thoroughly understand. I have many issues with the hobby myself. I quoted you, B Mann, because I couldn't have said it better if I tried for days.
Just letting you guys know about this scammer. I had a run in with her and she took me for almost $$$. She had dropped off the radar from what I heard she was arrested in Shelby CO.
Here is her link with photos so you too can watch your wallets.
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[QUOTE=Peter_Girth]...As hard as it was to write, sending it came damn close to bringing me to tears because I knew there was no going back without seeming to be a hypocrite. And that was the easy part, following through will be the hard part. I hope I have the guts to do it.[/QUOTE]
PG, best of luck. I have enjoyed your comments, postings, and when necessary, snipings. lol
Although I never met you personally, based on related past posts, I think we must have crossed paths -- to the extent of being on Lamar at the same time and place -- several times.
About mid-2003, I was pretty much out of this for about a year and a half. In fact, it was shortly after I moved here and had little time. But it is very hard to get of it completely or forever. I hope that you do accomplish this if that is what you ultimately want.
What brought me back, believe it or not, was a chance ride down Lamar on New Year’s Eve 2004. I was heading to the airport and took the street because of a wreck on I-240. It was in the afternoon, around three-thirty, and there had to be 9-10 SW’s in full regalia up and down the street. I didn’t have time to stop, but the “charge” I got out of seeing all of those SW’s dragged me right back in.
By the way, in those days, you be could out on Lamar after three p.m. and still see the best of Memphis SW’s on the stroll.
Well, you may be getting out at the right time. The stroll hasn’t been the same for at least 6-8 months, although there will always be sporadic action. Also, some familiar faces keep popping back up, so there is hope for the future.
Since this board is anonymous, my advice, for what’s worth, is to just keep your memories, but to yourself. There is absolutely no reason you have to tell anyone in your future about this part of your past – Past is past. Start anew and find some other hobbies like fantasy football.
I also have given alot of thought recently of leaving the board myself. Too much fiction and not enough action or whatever. No good reporting going on.
I know a coupla girls thats gonna miss you. Like ckg says keep it to your self.
I think you still have my phone number. If you have a change of heart and want to dash in and out give me a call. Got some new ones and some thats been around for awhile. I think most are in hiding.
Good Luck
BC
[Quote=BootyCall]I also have given alot of thought recently of leaving the board myself. Too much fiction and not enough action or whatever. No good reporting going on.
I know a coupla girls thats going to miss you. Like ckg says keep it to your self.
I think you still have my phone number. If you have a change of heart and want to dash in and out give me a call. Got some new ones and some thats been around for awhile. I think most are in hiding.
Good Luck,
BC[/QUOTE]Well put as always BC
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Hey guys,
Guess Lamar won't be too busy today. I just wanted to say "Hi" to all those stuck inside with no one to play with or toys with no batteries. Sucks!
Kisses,
Sweet Melissa
[QUOTE=Snoop Deville]A few backpage ads that make me wonder if they are legit. If anybody can verify legitimacy info would be greatly appreciated.
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The girl in the first 4 pics (Ali) is legit. In fact when I met her she was wearing this same outfit (that I later got to remove myself). Very nice young bod. Don't know about the rest.
[QUOTE=Sweet Melissa]Hey guys,
Guess Lamar won't be too busy today. I just wanted to say "Hi" to all those stuck inside with no one to play with or toys with no batteries. Sucks!
Kisses,
Sweet Melissa[/QUOTE]God, that's the best photo your ever posted girl, planning on seeing you on the 8th of Feb.
Oral
Well Hello, everyone Just wanted to let everyone know I am alive and well. Just on here reading all the crazy mess I have been missing out on LOL. Take care Ladies and Men.
Safe hunting! XOXO Alissa