Safe Sex Information and Advice

When I first started out in this I got a few BBBJ's from questionable girls, because I was dumb at the time and figured bbbjs have basically no risk because its so common. I turned out to be fine though. Got tested a few times since then, and that was over 2 years ago I think.

Its probably hard to say how risky it can be. But its proabbly pretty low risk if its a clean looking girl, no hard drugs, marks, how her teeth look, etc.

It always shocked me that there are some people that do BBFS with providers they don't know really well. Now that is risky.

Recently got a nude massage body 2 body, her bottom half touched me a few times on my butt didn't think much of it just curious if there's any std risk in that? I know it sounds dumb but paranoia kicks in sometimes.

[QUOTE=NBboy25;3168786]Recently got a nude massage body 2 body, her bottom half touched me a few times on my butt didn't think much of it just curious if there's any std risk in that? I know it sounds dumb but paranoia kicks in sometimes.[/QUOTE]Not judging but you may want to reconsider your taking part of this hobby.

[QUOTE=NBboy25;3168786]Recently got a nude massage body 2 body, her bottom half touched me a few times on my butt didn't think much of it just curious if there's any std risk in that? I know it sounds dumb but paranoia kicks in sometimes.[/QUOTE]And I quote.

"IF you have not heard of MRSA (methicillin resistant staphylococcus aureus) yet, you will very soon. MRSA (it is generally verbalized as mersa) used to be found only in hospitals. But as a result of 50 years of prescribing penicillin-related antibiotics for infections, the bacteria that cause staph infections have mutated and grown resistant to common antibiotics. Those resistant bacteria, MRSA, have presented themselves in the form of a new "super bug" that has moved quickly into the general public. And it's a super bug that's much more difficult to kill than previous staph bacteria. ".

I occasionally have taken some of the antibiotics neccasary to kill some of these STD's that atre out there but not in high doses they mention so I'm not sure where this came from but I had a nasty case of it on my lower groin from skin contact from, and this is the only place I can think of, fuking a a street walker, body contact. Finally had to go see my PC to clear it up. An immediate shot in the ass of penicillin then high doses of anti biotics for a couple weeks. You think a UTR or chlymidia are nastyConsider this the new "STD". And I continue to have a linger case on my body which is in remission but flairs up once in a while.

So even with that condom on your dick theres still other diseases you can catch.

[QUOTE=Renagade;3169471]And I quote.

"IF you have not heard of MRSA (methicillin resistant staphylococcus aureus) yet, you will very soon. MRSA (it is generally verbalized as mersa) used to be found only in hospitals. But as a result of 50 years of prescribing penicillin-related antibiotics for infections, the bacteria that cause staph infections have mutated and grown resistant to common antibiotics. Those resistant bacteria, MRSA, have presented themselves in the form of a new "super bug" that has moved quickly into the general public. And it's a super bug that's much more difficult to kill than previous staph bacteria. ".

I occasionally have taken some of the antibiotics neccasary to kill some of these STD's that atre out there but not in high doses they mention so I'm not sure where this came from but I had a nasty case of it on my lower groin from skin contact from, and this is the only place I can think of, fuking a a street walker, body contact. Finally had to go see my PC to clear it up. An immediate shot in the ass of penicillin then high doses of anti biotics for a couple weeks. You think a UTR or chlymidia are nastyConsider this the new "STD". And I continue to have a linger case on my body which is in remission but flairs up once in a while.

So even with that condom on your dick theres still other diseases you can catch.[/QUOTE]MRSA and VRE (which doesn't get as much publicity for some reason) are very common in the prisons, so if the girl has been to jail there's a good chance she's been exposed to them. Anyone who's ever worked in the medical field has certainly been exposed to them as well. It is possible to carry them for years without ever actually having an infection yourself. Many people are very likely exposed to them daily, but never have any issues. Shower, use antibacterial soap, and you'll probably be fine. Shaving on the day of any sexual encounters can increase your chances of infections. So will brushing your teeth or using mouthwash containing alcohol, if you're engaging in any oral activities.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

[QUOTE=HoHunter328;3170209]MRSA and VRE (which doesn't get as much publicity for some reason) are very common in the prisons, so if the girl has been to jail there's a good chance she's been exposed to them. Anyone who's ever worked in the medical field has certainly been exposed to them as well. It is possible to carry them for years without ever actually having an infection yourself. Many people are very likely exposed to them daily, but never have any issues. Shower, use antibacterial soap, and you'll probably be fine. Shaving on the day of any sexual encounters can increase your chances of infections. So will brushing your teeth or using mouthwash containing alcohol, if you're engaging in any oral activities.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.[/QUOTE]Everytime I have an encounter I get home wash up and wash again with chlorhexidine gluconate.

Does anyone know if there is any risk of getting HIV from a BBBJ?

[QUOTE=JDapper;3170587]Does anyone know if there is any risk of getting HIV from a BBBJ?[/QUOTE]Unless blood somehow came into the act there's no meaningful risk from getting a BJ. Def a risk for catching other stuff though.

[QUOTE=HoHunter328;3170209]MRSA and VRE (which doesn't get as much publicity for some reason) are very common in the prisons, so if the girl has been to jail there's a good chance she's been exposed to them. Anyone who's ever worked in the medical field has certainly been exposed to them as well. It is possible to carry them for years without ever actually having an infection yourself. Many people are very likely exposed to them daily, but never have any issues. Shower, use antibacterial soap, and you'll probably be fine. Shaving on the day of any sexual encounters can increase your chances of infections. So will brushing your teeth or using mouthwash containing alcohol, if you're engaging in any oral activities.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.[/QUOTE]Have talked to many a ho out of jail that complains of getting "spider bites" while incarcerated (as well as many others.) Pretty sure every case is a staff infection.

I first want to make sure I don't want any names, but more of a "something to keep in mind" type of response. I'm fairly new at this, the last couple of times I've dreamt of providers I dreamt about BB Greek, from girls who have been mentioned on this site. Overall, are most girls clean? Part of me would say yes because they know how to be more wary than some random girl at a club would be. But then the other part is the high volume. I always ask if they're clean and they always respond yes. But who knows if they mean it or not just to make a few bucks you know? What are your thoughts on BB anything?

[QUOTE=JetSweep49;3178584]I first want to make sure I don't want any names, but more of a "something to keep in mind" type of response. I'm fairly new at this, the last couple of times I've dreamt of providers I dreamt about BB Greek, from girls who have been mentioned on this site. Overall, are most girls clean? Part of me would say yes because they know how to be more wary than some random girl at a club would be. But then the other part is the high volume. I always ask if they're clean and they always respond yes. But who knows if they mean it or not just to make a few bucks you know? What are your thoughts on BB anything?[/QUOTE]I guess it's a sensitive subject around some circles -- I got a swat on the hand from an admin on another thread for asking that very last question a while back, or maybe it was just the way I asked it. Was told it was none of my business what anyone else chooses in that regard. It was then that I realized, although it seems like we're all here for generally the same thing on the surface most level, our motivations are actually all very different. As tempted as I am to write an essay on the subject, I'll just say that although it's very tempting to BB everything when I read some of the hot reviews in which others have done it, the big head ultimately rules me, and I don't do anything uncovered except BBBJ, which still has risks. I also recognize that I am ultimately responsible for myself, my choices, and results of them, no matter what I am offered or what anyone else is doing.

[QUOTE=JetSweep49;3178584]I first want to make sure I don't want any names, but more of a "something to keep in mind" type of response. I'm fairly new at this, the last couple of times I've dreamt of providers I dreamt about BB Greek, from girls who have been mentioned on this site. Overall, are most girls clean? Part of me would say yes because they know how to be more wary than some random girl at a club would be. But then the other part is the high volume. I always ask if they're clean and they always respond yes. But who knows if they mean it or not just to make a few bucks you know? What are your thoughts on BB anything?[/QUOTE]If you believe a single word a provider tells you. You're already setting yourself up for failure. I personally would never bb with a backpage girl, even if she's telling you she's low volume it's probably not the case. You need to understand one golden concept. You are not special. If she says "I only do this for you". It means she does it with plenty others. If the risk is worth it to you go ahead but a lot of guys like myself stop seeing providers who go no glove on the regular.

[QUOTE=JetSweep49;3178584]I first want to make sure I don't want any names, but more of a "something to keep in mind" type of response. I'm fairly new at this, the last couple of times I've dreamt of providers I dreamt about BB Greek, from girls who have been mentioned on this site. Overall, are most girls clean? Part of me would say yes because they know how to be more wary than some random girl at a club would be. But then the other part is the high volume. I always ask if they're clean and they always respond yes. But who knows if they mean it or not just to make a few bucks you know? What are your thoughts on BB anything?[/QUOTE]I'd say you might as well play Russian Roulette. Most of the girls doing this has a habit and therefore has no care in the world. They will lie, cheat, steal, whatever is needed to seal the deal and get the money for the next fix. It would be hard to convince me they know more about being clean than a club girl since most just don't care.

[QUOTE=SH5027;3178998]If you believe a single word a provider tells you. You're already setting yourself up for failure. I personally would never bb with a backpage girl, even if she's telling you she's low volume it's probably not the case. You need to understand one golden concept. You are not special. If she says "I only do this for you". It means she does it with plenty others. If the risk is worth it to you go ahead but a lot of guys like myself stop seeing providers who go no glove on the regular.[/QUOTE]Frankly, the epidemiology does not support that bareback sex is particularly dangerous. The risk of pregnancy can, of course, be high. I have the opportunity to read quite a few studies in my course of work. I've posted a rough summary to the following image.

[URL]https://postimg.org/image/rsowbglr5/[/URL]

Most of the figures I present I adapted from a fairly good summary by Dr Constantin (she doesn't prevent the data very clearly):

Primary source: [URL]https://srconstantin.wordpress.com/2015/04/30/std-statistics/[/URL].

The only real risk for lifetime issues from this hobby. Is having to deal with genital warts from HPV and herpes. This is a factor more of the quantity of sex partners and is not because of condom use. Unfortunately, neither of these viruses are particularly well prevented with condom use. Skin on skin contact in the genital area outside of the coverage of the condom is where much of the transmission occurs. The bacteria infections are fairly well prevented with a condom, but they are also easily cured with common antibiotics. HIV and Hepatitus are very, very rarely passed through heterosexual oral or vaginal sex.

Anal sex is another animal altogether. It ALWAYS causes some rupture of small blood vessels in the anus. This is true even if there is no blood visible. The most danger is to the receiver, but there is a much higher incidence of transmission to the giver. HIV and Hepatitis are very fragile viruses. But they flourish in a bloody anus. Blood from vaginal sex is almost always from the uterine lining and poses a much much lower risk to both partners. I would advise against BB anal sex. To each there own though.

[QUOTE=FooteRoger;3179369]Frankly, the epidemiology does not support that bareback sex is particularly dangerous. The risk of pregnancy can, of course, be high. I have the opportunity to read quite a few studies in my course of work. I've posted a rough summary to the following image.

[URL]https://postimg.org/image/rsowbglr5/[/URL]

Most of the figures I present I adapted from a fairly good summary by Dr Constantin (she doesn't prevent the data very clearly):

Primary source: [URL]https://srconstantin.wordpress.com/2015/04/30/std-statistics/[/URL].

[b]Anal sex is another animal altogether. It ALWAYS causes some rupture of small blood vessels in the anus. This is true even if there is no blood visible. The most danger is to the receiver, but there is a much higher incidence of transmission to the giver. HIV and Hepatitis are very fragile viruses. But they flourish in a bloody anus. Blood from vaginal sex is almost always from the uterine lining and poses a much much lower risk to both partners. I would advise against BB anal sex. [/b] To each there own though.[/QUOTE]Good stuff there! What this all boils down to is RISK MANAGEMENT! There are things one can do to lower risk, like use a condom every time.

But for the most part humans are pretty bad at evaluating risk and managing it in a rational way. It doesn't help that, faced with an epidemic (HIV), that gubmint went on a scare tactic "public service" mission to scare everyone onto believing BBFS = death sentence. People get that in their heads and it becomes a "belief" like religion and they will never change it regardless of the evidence presented.

As FooteRoger's links point out, the transmission rate from female to male is VERY LOW! That is if the skin on your junk is 100% intact! But if you have a cut, open sore or maybe even raw, chaffed skin the transmission rate increases.

Add that to several other facts:

1) There is nothing out there right now that will kill you, with proper medical treatment.

2) The rate of incidence of "people living with HIV" is generally less than 2% meaning 98% do not have HIV.

Now all of that said, I do agree that BBFS anally is NOT a good idea. The risk of transmission is significantly higher!

[QUOTE=ArtWater;3178973]I guess it's a sensitive subject around some circles -- I got a swat on the hand from an admin on another thread for asking that very last question a while back, or maybe it was just the way I asked it. Was told it was none of my business what anyone else chooses in that regard. It was then that I realized, although it seems like we're all here for generally the same thing on the surface most level, our motivations are actually all very different. As tempted as I am to write an essay on the subject, I'll just say that although it's very tempting to BB everything when I read some of the hot reviews in which others have done it, the big head ultimately rules me, and I don't do anything uncovered except BBBJ, which still has risks. I also recognize that I am ultimately responsible for myself, my choices, and results of them, no matter what I am offered or what anyone else is doing.[/QUOTE]Hey, perhaps I am reading incorrectly (if so my bad!) but seeing a bit of hurt, so let me add what I know.

YES! If one posts safe sex discussions in the normal threads two things happen:

1) It starts a fire storm of "opinions" and flame wars.

[I]So Admin does NOT want a bunch of arguing clogging up reports on girls, so he set up this place where the discussion can take place. One is free to discuss Safe Sex practices or lack thereof here. No need to hold back on one's essay here! [/I]

2) The post gets taken down by the Admin and the poster spanked. I know this for a fact as I have made that mistake and gotten spanked before. I'm still alive!

I applaud you on your resolve to not do something because that is what everyone else is doing. That is a good philosophy to follow. Kudos.

That said, I think one should examine the facts surrounding the issue as to re-evaluate the actual risks involved. If one can be objective, set fear aside and rationally examine the facts, then perhaps one might change their beliefs?

Stay safe!

[QUOTE=FooteRoger;3179369]Frankly, the epidemiology does not support that bareback sex is particularly dangerous. The risk of pregnancy can, of course, be high. I have the opportunity to read quite a few studies in my course of work. I've posted a rough summary to the following image.

[URL]https://postimg.org/image/rsowbglr5/[/URL]

Most of the figures I present I adapted from a fairly good summary by Dr Constantin (she doesn't prevent the data very clearly):

Primary source: [URL]https://srconstantin.wordpress.com/2015/04/30/std-statistics/[/URL].

The only real risk for lifetime issues from this hobby. Is having to deal with genital warts from HPV and herpes. This is a factor more of the quantity of sex partners and is not because of condom use. Unfortunately, neither of these viruses are particularly well prevented with condom use. Skin on skin contact in the genital area outside of the coverage of the condom is where much of the transmission occurs. The bacteria infections are fairly well prevented with a condom, but they are also easily cured with common antibiotics. HIV and Hepatitus are very, very rarely passed through heterosexual oral or vaginal sex.

Anal sex is another animal altogether. It ALWAYS causes some rupture of small blood vessels in the anus. This is true even if there is no blood visible. The most danger is to the receiver, but there is a much higher incidence of transmission to the giver. HIV and Hepatitis are very fragile viruses. But they flourish in a bloody anus. Blood from vaginal sex is almost always from the uterine lining and poses a much much lower risk to both partners. I would advise against BB anal sex. To each there own though.[/QUOTE]Correction on the Herpes HSV2 no condom transmission rate. Should read. 015% or 1/6700 sex acts.

Don't rule out 2% tincture of iodine for herpes or genital warts. The medical hoopla media only has you believing it won't kill viruses, and it oftentimes kills jock itch when nothing, doctor given, will. Just give it a try, and once the symptoms subside, you can worry yourself sick about hidden demons at work within you. You can get a gallon of this stuff from California Veterinary Supply for a fraction of what it cost at the drugstore if the drug store even sales it anymore. Lugol's iodine can be bought on line and is safe to ingest for antibiotic resistant bacteria. Lugol's doesn't have the methanol base that makes traditional iodine poisonous. I've, nevertheless, used a few drops of traditional iodine per quart of uncertain drinking water without consequence. I've also put this stuff in chicken water along with sulfa to control acute fowl Cholera. All kinds of stuff on the internet for and against Lugol's can be pulled up. The gubmint is scared to death about us finding out about it. BTW, I'm pretty sure I was first to use "gubmint. " Anytime, I'm talking IRS I use Prince Fedgov, but with police interference with docs it's gubmint. The simple fact of the matter is that before penicillin, they gave iodine to people all of the time. At one time it was the gold standard for clap and syphilis. Not being able to get this stuff at the drug store, now, has nothing to do with meth labs. Big Pharma feels threatened. Immigrants from socialized medicine countries, where they have no worthy doctors, are up on this matter and have been kind enough to reintroduce it.

Usually one practices safe sex by using a condom. But, which brand provides the most sensitivity while still protecting against STDs and pregnancy? And what about getting a covered blowjob? Which one is the best to use that provides the greatest pleasure?

[QUOTE=JabberWorky;3254105]Usually one practices safe sex by using a condom. But, which brand provides the most sensitivity while still protecting against STDs and pregnancy? And what about getting a covered blowjob? Which one is the best to use that provides the greatest pleasure?[/QUOTE]The best condom for sensation during intercourse is the female condom, but you have to add lots of lube. It allows you to feel friction, whereas the male condoms typically only let you feel pressure.

The best male condoms for sensation are the thin, non-latex ones. The thinnest is the Unique Pull at .015 mm. The Japanese thin condoms like Sagami 001 (actually .018 mm) get good reviews for sensation, but they are too narrow and tight fitting for most American men to wear comfortably. There are also condoms with a loose fitting head that are lubricated on the inside, like the Trojan Double Ecstasy. They give a little bit of friction for added sensation. Some men just add a drop of lube inside the tip of a regular condom to get the same effect. That should work for a BJ.

[QUOTE=JohnDough;3256408]The best condom for sensation during intercourse is the female condom, but you have to add lots of lube. It allows you to feel friction, whereas the male condoms typically only let you feel pressure.

The best male condoms for sensation are the thin, non-latex ones. The thinnest is the Unique Pull at .015 mm. The Japanese thin condoms like Sagami 001 (actually .018 mm) get good reviews for sensation, but they are too narrow and tight fitting for most American men to wear comfortably. There are also condoms with a loose fitting head that are lubricated on the inside, like the Trojan Double Ecstasy. They give a little bit of friction for added sensation. Some men just add a drop of lube inside the tip of a regular condom to get the same effect. That should work for a BJ.[/QUOTE]I did find them on line. Funny the Unique Pull only comes in sizes of medium to long and large.

Gambling, & alcohol aren't my only addictions in life. In my last 30 years of mongering and being active I've used condoms for Anal and Vaginal Sex but 15% of the time failed to do so.

I get involved in Oral sex activity very commonly without protection, & I get a blood test every 6 months and to my surprise my test results came out clean and negative for both A blood test and urine test, So my question is this I hate the use of condoms but very well aware you can still catch stuff especially with very nasty Hookers and is the percentage high or no? I talked with my doctor and said HIV is slim but HPV is very common but usually your body will self fight it over time. Am I just lucky? Or does it happen? I carry my condoms at all times but will fail to use them on oral and will use it for vaginal penetration 85% of the time. Any thoughts?

What's a good brand for latex Condoms? I usually get them from my doctor and not familiar with the brands.

Thanks.

[QUOTE=Gringo2123;3406761]Anyone have experience with her and her open sores on her thighs?? Took some antibiotics but I still worried.[/QUOTE]Hold up are you saying that you saw open sores and proceeded to go ahead away?

[QUOTE=KingOfTheBlues;3407428]Hold up are you saying that you saw open sores and proceeded to go ahead away?[/QUOTE]Haha Gringo's post made you consider retirement.

[QUOTE=Gringo2123;3406761]Anyone have experience with her and her open sores on her thighs?? Took some antibiotics but I still worried.[/QUOTE]Thinking only with your little head I see.

[QUOTE=Gringo2123;3406761]Anyone have experience with her and her open sores on her thighs?? Took some antibiotics but I still worried.[/QUOTE]Failed to even notice that last statement.

"Took some antibiotics"?

What did you take? Did you TAKE ENOUGH? Of the RIGHT KIND?

Overprescribing & self-prescribing antibiotics, is the reason WHY we have resistant strains of staph out there now (MRSA / VRSA).

My dermatologist tells me pretty much everything out there now, are resistant strains of staph.

That's why these chicks are walking infection factories. STD's aside, overdoses aside. These girls walking around with huge abscesses, that won't go to the ER and get treated (and don't take their antibiotics if they do) are time bombs. The reason why KC walks around with a limp, is an infection that went right down to the bone. That's why these girls are dying of heart failure, or ending up with heart valve replacements. They pick, they touch, they spread.

All we need is for one of them to catch a flesh eating bacteria, and a bunch of us are going to end up as eunuchs.

I'm just finishing dealing with a prostatitis and an infection of the testicle (epididymitis, usually caused by chlamydia or some other bacteria). Probably monger-related, and I do cover up to fuck EVERY TIME.

Sorry for the Public Service Message. Just that these girls don't hardly give a shit about their OWN HEALTH, they damn sure don't care about ours.

Rick.

I got the bbj and was going to do f. S. if you read my post before. Said jr said no way and didn't proceed but I had already received bbj.

[QUOTE=KingOfTheBlues;3407428]Hold up are you saying that you saw open sores and proceeded to go ahead away?[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=SickRick;3407788]Failed to even notice that last statement.

"Took some antibiotics"?

What did you take? Did you TAKE ENOUGH? Of the RIGHT KIND?

Overprescribing & self-prescribing antibiotics, is the reason WHY we have resistant strains of staph out there now (MRSA / VRSA).

My dermatologist tells me pretty much everything out there now, are resistant strains of staph.

That's why these chicks are walking infection factories. STD's aside, overdoses aside. These girls walking around with huge abscesses, that won't go to the ER and get treated (and don't take their antibiotics if they do) are time bombs. The reason why KC walks around with a limp, is an infection that went right down to the bone. That's why these girls are dying of heart failure, or ending up with heart valve replacements. They pick, they touch, they spread.

All we need is for one of them to catch a flesh eating bacteria, and a bunch of us are going to end up as eunuchs.

I'm just finishing dealing with a prostatitis and an infection of the testicle (epididymitis, usually caused by chlamydia or some other bacteria). Probably monger-related, and I do cover up to fuck EVERY TIME.

Sorry for the Public Service Message. Just that these girls don't hardly give a shit about their OWN HEALTH, they damn sure don't care about ours.

Rick.[/QUOTE]This is all really true, we got to remember who were dealing with here and trusting them to take care of themselves is asking a lot. Between LEO, STD's, MRSA, or worse you got to pick and choose and ask if its worth it sometime.

[QUOTE=SickRick;3407788]Failed to even notice that last statement.

"Took some antibiotics"?

What did you take? Did you TAKE ENOUGH? Of the RIGHT KIND?

Overprescribing & self-prescribing antibiotics, is the reason WHY we have resistant strains of staph out there now (MRSA / VRSA).

My dermatologist tells me pretty much everything out there now, are resistant strains of staph.

That's why these chicks are walking infection factories. STD's aside, overdoses aside. These girls walking around with huge abscesses, that won't go to the ER and get treated (and don't take their antibiotics if they do) are time bombs. The reason why KC walks around with a limp, is an infection that went right down to the bone. That's why these girls are dying of heart failure, or ending up with heart valve replacements. They pick, they touch, they spread.

All we need is for one of them to catch a flesh eating bacteria, and a bunch of us are going to end up as eunuchs.

I'm just finishing dealing with a prostatitis and an infection of the testicle (epididymitis, usually caused by chlamydia or some other bacteria). Probably monger-related, and I do cover up to fuck EVERY TIME.

Sorry for the Public Service Message. Just that these girls don't hardly give a shit about their OWN HEALTH, they damn sure don't care about ours.

Rick.[/QUOTE]I've got to agree here. I always cover for f / s no matter who the girl is.

Last month there was a post here about hiv infection odds. They give odds of getting aids in the US and they give much different odds for other countries. Let's face it, the ghetto girls we're dealing with are walking infections and we're probably closer to the risks with sub Saharan Africa than we are with suburban San Francisco. Does anyone really think that the diagnosed girls in the area are taking their meds on a regular basis? How many have not been in for testing?

In the first 12 weeks after contracting HIV, the infectiousness rate increases by 26 times. Add on top of that a secondary infection like an STD increases the odds by another 8 percent. Suddenly, the odds of contracting HIV and other diseases increase rapidly and those numbers are not that slim. I've done BBFS too many times, but I'm covering up for my remaining years.

[QUOTE=Pison00;3331243]What's a good brand for latex Condoms? I usually get them from my doctor and not familiar with the brands.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Durex is always my go-to brand.

I have a regular sugar baby I've been seeing a couple of months. IDK that we are exclusive, she still has a profile up on SA, and earlier on some bowl brothers suggested it portrayed her as an UTR escort, on the other hand our interactions (not just her words) suggest we have more than a physical relationship. She has told me that she gets tested every 3 months (also something that, unfortunately, suggests she's UTR). She's Russian, 30, and absolutely smoking hot, 10's across the board. Has a regular job, apartment (I did some sleuthing and tracked her down. PM me if you want details).

We were supposed to meet and she tells me at the last minute she awoke w / a cold sore in the middle of her lip. She offered to meet w / nothing oral, I said better safe than sorry, we can reschedule.

My main question at this point is just a reminder of something that may have been beaten to death on this board in the past, but I can't easily find it. Cold sores are HSV of a certain type, yes? Just like genital herpes is HSV of a certain type? I seem to recall that either can be either place. What is the best advice to a sugar daddy on a SB in this condition? Is there transmission risk only while the cold sore is present? Of course it's a virus, its there all the time. Does this mean I should bag this girl all together? I don't want to have a cold sore, and I damn sure don't want genital HSV.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3421911]I have a regular sugar baby I've been seeing a couple of months. IDK that we are exclusive, she still has a profile up on SA, and earlier on some bowl brothers suggested it portrayed her as an UTR escort, on the other hand our interactions (not just her words) suggest we have more than a physical relationship. She has told me that she gets tested every 3 months (also something that, unfortunately, suggests she's UTR). She's Russian, 30, and absolutely smoking hot, 10's across the board. Has a regular job, apartment (I did some sleuthing and tracked her down. PM me if you want details).

We were supposed to meet and she tells me at the last minute she awoke w / a cold sore in the middle of her lip. She offered to meet w / nothing oral, I said better safe than sorry, we can reschedule.

My main question at this point is just a reminder of something that may have been beaten to death on this board in the past, but I can't easily find it. Cold sores are HSV of a certain type, yes? Just like genital herpes is HSV of a certain type? I seem to recall that either can be either place. What is the best advice to a sugar daddy on a SB in this condition? Is there transmission risk only while the cold sore is present? Of course it's a virus, its there all the time. Does this mean I should bag this girl all together? I don't want to have a cold sore, and I damn sure don't want genital HSV.[/QUOTE]Genital herpes are caused by HSV 2 cld sore are caused by HSV 1. Unfortunately genital herpes can also be caused by HSV 1 and she can give it to you through oral even if she isn't having an outbreak the best prevention would be avoid oral during an out real and have her take an antibiotic viral such as valtrax but it's still not a guarantee.

Hopefully this is the right place for this.

Just wondering how you mongers with an SO manage STD risk. I am familiar with the basic statistics regarding STD transmission rates. I realize the risk, especially with use of condoms, is very low. Unfortunately it is not zero which really fucking sucks.

I have availed myself mainly of FBSM independents and AMP HEs. I am very tempted to expand my menu of options, but the thought of being caught cheating (by way of giving the Mrs. An STD) really gives me pause. In short, I wish I had the balls you guys seem to have.

I read all these forums about married mongers banging hot escorts and SBs and I'm green with envy. How do you pull it off? My (possibly limiting) belief is that given non-zero risk, it's more a matter of when not if I would be outed.

Is there some other way you come at this? What is your frame? What is your protocol to minimize risk?

There is now a condom available that has a "skirt" at the base to provide extra protection against skin to skin transmitted diseases like herpes and warts. It is non-latex, so it can be used with any type of lube. It is called the Unique Plus. I couldn't find it on the web site of the Colombian manufacturer, but I think it is the same as the Unique Free, under a different name.

You can buy it here: [URL]https://luckybloke.com/products/buy-unique-plus-brand-new-condoms-best-reviews[/URL] .

The Colombian manufacturer's website is: [URL]http://uniquecondoms.co/[/URL] .

Here is a youtube video: [URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hm8WFz-b8nM[/URL] .

It might only fit well on guys with a thicker penis. The material is not stretchy. If it fits loosely, it might make crinkling sounds or slip off. You will have to try it to find out if it works for you. Maybe the guys who aren't thick enough could use a cock ring to hold it on.

[QUOTE=NilbogTwo;3499166]Hold up. You want let them suck your dick because their mouths are dirty but you will kiss them? Seems backwards.[/QUOTE]Allow me to explain since there's confusion.

When I kiss a chick on the lips, it's usually pecks. No tonguing involved. I kiss on the face and neck at times. Thats how my kissing goes. When they give me head, I prefer a condom. I would much rather love it to be bare, but I do have a significant other I am with, so I don't want to infect her with something. Which I'm aware BBBJ might not do that but I just can't chance it man. Getting a bare BJ, and pecks on dry lips are certainly different. Nothing backwards about that. Sorry if you misunderstood that.

[QUOTE=MnLookIn;3499313]My thoughts exactly! She's not a GFE provider if she doesn't offer DFK and BBBJ. There's a difference between DFK and her kissing you on the cheek. What good is a CBJ? Not worth my hard earned pay. I want her to suck my dick, without a layer of latex between her wet lips and my dick.

Mnlookin.[/QUOTE]I see your point man.

Here's mine though.

If you have a wife, or girlfriend, fiance or whatever, you got to be careful who you do anything bare with. If you were to get something from bare oral, you got some explaining to do to your ole lady. LOL.

Now if you had a few reliable people that you knew was clean then OMG yes, have it down their throats all the way dude. LOL.

But this is backpage and the risk of stds is more common, so I would love to get bare BJ, but unless I know her and know she's not swallowing everyone else cum, I got to put protection on this bad boy. LOL.

I'm curious, do you guys know if SW (or BP, or any other adult sites providers) play safe or bb, "not who" , just if you think any do? IF so, do you think you would post about it, or if someone did partake do you think they would say it was bb play?

From what I have noticed for the most part (there are always exceptions) when BB is offered most guys mention it. Not sure on those who actually partake though. I have only seen it listed as if it were offered.

[QUOTE=KiraXXX;3499523]I'm curious, do you guys know if SW (or BP, or any other adult sites providers) play safe or bb, "not who" , just if you think any do? IF so, do you think you would post about it, or if someone did partake do you think they would say it was bb play?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=KiraXXX;3499523]I'm curious, do you guys know if SW (or BP, or any other adult sites providers) play safe or bb, "not who" , just if you think any do? IF so, do you think you would post about it, or if someone did partake do you think they would say it was bb play?[/QUOTE]I think a majority of them will BB and have offered BBFS. Absolutely. I also think if offered, a lot of men will partake be it the small population on these sites or the larger iceberg population not on these sites. I do not believe it gets reported as often as it happens and instead is reported as covered.