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[QUOTE=Jasse1;3813239]Texted back and forth for a couple of weeks. Sends some really hot pics which makes the whole experience somewhat tolerable. We meet for a drink. Not very warm kinda odd personality. After a couple of hours she has to go. Hits me up for $100 bucks for her babysitter. Hand her $40. Kiss a little in the parking lot. Two days later I get a message she needs a break from the site.

Parting with the $40 didn't hurt but just felt like this is her game.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7db4cd85-329c-fee0-18e0-f29e0d25b103[/URL][/QUOTE]Your first red flag should have been the picture of Julia Louis-Dreyfus sandwiched between two lower-quality pictures of her.

[QUOTE=Chad213;3813655]Well why don't you share with the class so other can know or proceed themselves.[/QUOTE]Comes up on a gossip site. I'm not in the market to publicize or slander.

But you can google Backroom Couch Casting Tatum.

[QUOTE=BumLick1;3813679]Your first red flag should have been the picture of Julia Louis-Dreyfus sandwiched between two lower-quality pictures of her.[/QUOTE]That would be funny but that's not Julia Louis-Dreyfus. Pic is her but younger.

[QUOTE=Chad213;3813655]Well why don't you share with the class so other can know or proceed themselves.[/QUOTE]Not into doing it publicly. If you'd like to PM me I will be more than happy to share.

Below is a response I use when I get the allowance for "talking, texting, meet ups" etc. It's direct and to the point but also polite.

I do not give an allowance for just talking and texting. I do prefer to meet for dinner or coffee to see if we connect. My allowance per meet is $XXX. If you decide to stay the night $XXX. Please let me know if you are interested. If not. I know it's not personal. But good luck to you.

This was probably six years ago. Had been contemplating doing the SD / SB relationship as I was growing tired of the escort scene. I was seeing high end girls but after a while I was becoming less and less satisfied. Was looking for more depth if that makes sense.

So I joined SD4 ME. Starting chatting away with an AA girl from Milwaukee. Very attractive in her pics with a great body.

We decided to chat on the phone and had a great conversation. We had made plans to meet the following weekend.

Next morning she calls me. During our conversation she says she really needs a favor. She had court coming up on Friday and needed $1500. Of course I asked why and she replied she bounced a check. Apparently her dog got his by a car and the vet needed to paid upon doing the surgery (Do places like that still take checks?) Anyway the check ended up bouncing and she was arrested. She needed to make payment at the court date coming up. I told her I was not prepared to give this amount of money nor was I going to give money to someone I had not met. To get her off the phone I told her I would have to think about it.

Her name was on my caller I'd so I decided to google her name. Wow! Her name came up and her being arrested for the bounced check was true although the reason for the check was not given. However as I continued to scroll, more and more info about her was available. Turns out about 3 years prior she was arrested for making false rape allegations against a Green Bay Packer. Holy shit!

Next day she is blowing up my phone. I finally decided to answer and told her I was not giving her the money. She blew up at me, made threats, called me names, etc. I ended the conversation by telling her she should spend more time trying to find a sucker to give her the money and less time yelling at me. The calls continued until I blocked her.

Moral of the story: Google is your friend.

I have met her once, and she is fun, but a major wild card as far as texting, setting plans, constantly asking for money to be sent for random issues. Her ass looks even hotter in person than the video, she works out. Also she gave great head and was very willing in the bedroom. She said to wear a condom so I did. I gave it to her from behind after she sucked me awhile and I blew it. I think it could be uncovered if talked about more.

[QUOTE=Getreal;3812906]Do you guys pay for a membership? 90 a month is ridiculous. I don't mind paying for well dates but to pay a company that is absurd. Are there other ways around chatting on the SA site?[/QUOTE]If you are concerned about $90 you probably shouldn't be in the SD game to begin with. Hate to sound like a dick but it's true, $90 is the least of your worries when playing in the sugar bowl. SA is a monopoly experiencing unprecedented popularity, they can unfortunately charge whatever the hell they want since they are the only real game in town.

To answer your question, no, there are no ways around it. You can browse for free but if you want to message with the girls, you have to be a paid member.

[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/1f79da3e-afbb-4293-9224-3f5aab554924[/URL]

Katya Rodriguez. Porn star visiting chicago here for the convention. Asking $1500 per meet. Just sharing if anyone wants to partake. Too much for me LOL.

Working on setting up dates with the following:

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2db7b49c-7fa8-0d7d-c549-81d52a25c537[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ad50b426-be99-4827-83c7-cf1f1238dd8d[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/14887685-e1fa-bd8f-e16b-672c43d54065[/URL]

[QUOTE=TheMidwestExec;3814184]I have met her once, and she is fun, but a major wild card as far as texting, setting plans, constantly asking for money to be sent for random issues. Her ass looks even hotter in person than the video, she works out. Also she gave great head and was very willing in the bedroom. She said to wear a condom so I did. I gave it to her from behind after she sucked me awhile and I blew it. I think it could be uncovered if talked about more.[/QUOTE]What was the damage?

Met with her over drinks. She is a knock out. Seems to have fallen on some hard times and she was explaining her situation.

After feeling comfortable we went back to her place and I was quickly reminded why I should never break my own set of rules. I don't know if she was getting evicted but her whole place was packed up except her bedroom which was s

I jumped out of bed and told her I was out of there. She apologized and stated he was her back up because I was running late. I sat there perplexed, nervous, etc. After a few moments I somehow was able to calm down. She texted him and said she wasn't around. We continued on the bed but my mind was elsewhere. Then, as we were making out, she asked if I would mind if she went out to the car and took care of him. I firmly said no.

As we proceeded. And looking back I don't know why I did. And after going down on her she tells me doesn't give head. WTF? I turned her around. Had to cover up and did the deed. Stayed in bed for a bit then left. Total damage $$.

Every now and then I am reminded why I have to stick to my set of rules. I let her have control of the night and of course it was a horrible experience. Going back to her place. Paying her first. All things I've said I would never do and because she was smoking hot I allowed myself to be compromised. Lesson be learned. Treat every encounter the same no matter what.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/84559e73-8cc6-c194-2b58-f86965c30f8c[/URL]

[QUOTE=Jasse1;3814106]This was probably six years ago. Had been contemplating doing the SD / SB relationship as I was growing tired of the escort scene. I was seeing high end girls but after a while I was becoming less and less satisfied. Was looking for more depth if that makes sense.

So I joined SD4 ME. Starting chatting away with an AA girl from Milwaukee. Very attractive in her pics with a great body.

We decided to chat on the phone and had a great conversation. We had made plans to meet the following weekend.

Next morning she calls me. During our conversation she says she really needs a favor. She had court coming up on Friday and needed $1500. Of course I asked why and she replied she bounced a check. Apparently her dog got his by a car and the vet needed to paid upon doing the surgery (Do places like that still take checks?) Anyway the check ended up bouncing and she was arrested. She needed to make payment at the court date coming up. I told her I was not prepared to give this amount of money nor was I going to give money to someone I had not met. To get her off the phone I told her I would have to think about it.

Her name was on my caller I'd so I decided to google her name. Wow! Her name came up and her being arrested for the bounced check was true although the reason for the check was not given. However as I continued to scroll, more and more info about her was available. Turns out about 3 years prior she was arrested for making false rape allegations against a Green Bay Packer. Holy shit!

Next day she is blowing up my phone. I finally decided to answer and told her I was not giving her the money. She blew up at me, made threats, called me names, etc. I ended the conversation by telling her she should spend more time trying to find a sucker to give her the money and less time yelling at me. The calls continued until I blocked her.

Moral of the story: Google is your friend.[/QUOTE]Google is definitely your friend, back in my CL days I would look up numbers on Facebook, 75%+ use the same number if they're really a sb or p2 p girl. I don't believe you go to jail for not having money in your account you go to jail for writing a check for an account that's not yours or an account that you closed and know the check is no good.

[QUOTE=Jayp80;3815131]Google is definitely your friend, back in my CL days I would look up numbers on Facebook, 75%+ use the same number if they're really a sb or p2 p girl. I don't believe you go to jail for not having money in your account you go to jail for writing a check for an account that's not yours or an account that you closed and know the check is no good.[/QUOTE]I always thought it was based on the amount. Like over $500.

You could be right though.

Met with her a while back. Body is great but looks older than pics. Met prior to any sort of hook up and her breath and body odor was out of control. Seemed to be pre-occupied with a personal matter. May have been physically present but mentally was somewhere else. Didn't see any need marks, could be prescription meds. Anyway finished up our meet up with a handshake and a hug while holding my breath. May have been a bad day and maybe someone has had better experiences. I'd stay away.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/903c4079-bf92-472f-9c8d-e92126df2166[/URL]

[QUOTE=Jasse1;3815017]Met with her over drinks. She is a knock out. Seems to have fallen on some hard times and she was explaining her situation.

After feeling comfortable we went back to her place and I was quickly reminded why I should never break my own set of rules. I don't know if she was getting evicted but her whole place was packed up except her bedroom which was small.

I jumped out of bed and told her I was out of there. She apologized and stated he was her back up because I was running late. I sat there perplexed, nervous, etc. After a few moments I somehow was able to calm down. She texted him and said she wasn't around. We continued on the bed but my mind was elsewhere. Then, as we were making out, she asked if I would mind if she went out to the car and took care of him..[/QUOTE]Damage was actually $$.

[QUOTE=Jasse1;3815195]Damage was actually $$.[/QUOTE]Four bills.

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Anyone had any luck with these two?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/722a60cc-b3da-4c63-80c5-f387257198f5[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d97d2d4d-6d0f-492a-9d1a-1cd93a04e5ea[/URL]

PM me if you have please. Thanks!

[QUOTE=Jayp80;3815131]Google is definitely your friend, back in my CL days I would look up numbers on Facebook, 75%+ use the same number if they're really a sb or p2 p girl. I don't believe you go to jail for not having money in your account you go to jail for writing a check for an account that's not yours or an account that you closed and know the check is no good.[/QUOTE]I always google their phone numbers and email addresses, if available. There is a very high probability to find out about a new girl some info that she wouldn't want us to know.

[QUOTE=ChiNorthside;3816103]Anyone had any luck with these two?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/722a60cc-b3da-4c63-80c5-f387257198f5[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d97d2d4d-6d0f-492a-9d1a-1cd93a04e5ea[/URL]

PM me if you have please. Thanks![/QUOTE]I messaged the second link and she also read, but did not receive any response.

Any review on the below. There is not much progress but just exchanging messages at this time.

[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/67dd7a6d-4dc0-4c4a-ae94-9cc3328168a4[/URL]

[QUOTE=ArielDude28;3816434]Any review on the below. There is not much progress but just exchanging messages at this time.

[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/67dd7a6d-4dc0-4c4a-ae94-9cc3328168a4[/URL][/QUOTE]Someone else asked about her not long ago. Can't remember if the question was answered.

[QUOTE=ArielDude28;3816434]Any review on the below. There is not much progress but just exchanging messages at this time.

[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/67dd7a6d-4dc0-4c4a-ae94-9cc3328168a4[/URL][/QUOTE]We messaged back and forth. Tried to set up a meet then nothing. Will keep you posted if that changes.

Any intel on this beauty. I never get a return message.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e9a0fa06-aac4-4d24-a0d0-7da43598f73c[/URL]

This was my first non pro college girl. Only saw her once because I was busy and it wasn't convenient. I think she was 19 or 20.

[QUOTE=FruitNinja;3816501]This was my first non pro college girl. Only saw her once because I was busy and it wasn't convenient. I think she was 19 or 20.[/QUOTE]Nice work.

Hey Guys,

Just recently signed up with the site. I was wondering if you guys use real pictures and how much information do you share. Sorry if this has been covered in the past. I know it all depends on how much we feel comfortable sharing our real information but I'm curious if its safe or what peoples thoughts were. Thanks ahead and feel free to message if its easier.

LK.

[QUOTE=FruitNinja;3816501]This was my first non pro college girl. Only saw her once because I was busy and it wasn't convenient. I think she was 19 or 20.[/QUOTE]Too busy and not convenient to see this girl? I would say to hell with being busy and convenient. I'd drive 100 or more miles to see this girl.

[QUOTE=RonM;3816700]Too busy and not convenient to see this girl? I would say to hell with being busy and convenient. I'd drive 100 or more miles to see this girl.[/QUOTE]Ron,

No money no play. .

[QUOTE=Lowkeyx;3816569]Hey Guys,

Just recently signed up with the site. I was wondering if you guys use real pictures and how much information do you share. Sorry if this has been covered in the past. I know it all depends on how much we feel comfortable sharing our real information but I'm curious if its safe or what peoples thoughts were. Thanks ahead and feel free to message if its easier.

LK.[/QUOTE]My advice is not to use a real pic. Go to google and do some random search for dude in hat, or guy with sunglassess, and then find a random guy that looks kind of like you. I would not post any real info. Pick a town that is close to where you live or work but is not the actual city, unless it's a city the size of Chicago.

[QUOTE=Lowkeyx;3816569]Hey Guys,

Just recently signed up with the site. I was wondering if you guys use real pictures and how much information do you share. Sorry if this has been covered in the past. I know it all depends on how much we feel comfortable sharing our real information but I'm curious if its safe or what peoples thoughts were. Thanks ahead and feel free to message if its easier.

LK.[/QUOTE]Real pictures only pose a problem for those who have reason to hide. Are you married? Kids? Do you know a lot of people and have a large social circle? Are you CEO of a big company?

If you are a single dude just chasing some tail, who cares if you use your own pictures. I would however make the very identifying ones private so they don't come up in google image searches down the road.

[QUOTE=PauFord;3817570]Real pictures only pose a problem for those who have reason to hide. Are you married? Kids? Do you know a lot of people and have a large social circle? Are you CEO of a big company?

If you are a single dude just chasing some tail, who cares if you use your own pictures. I would however make the very identifying ones private so they don't come up in google image searches down the road.[/QUOTE]I used my real pics by converting then to black and white with low resolution so its just a little faded. My pics are with shades and all my pics are private. I share after exchanging some messages. If someone does not respond for sometime, I remove their permissions quickly. I never keep them open with someone for long. When I get on text I share a pic if required. I am not a ceo but in a decent position and don; t want to get into any problems. Its always a interesting balance. I don;t think you can get good date with fake pics as you have to meet them sometime to move things forward.

It will be good to know if anyone got into trouble due to pics. Its interesting that all girls keep their pics public and don't seem to care.

Has anyone seen this girl? I rode the train home today across from her and heard her reading messages from SA to her friend, who also appeared to be responding to SA messages. Nose ring is on the right side of her face IRL, so her pictures are reversed on SA. Thinking of signing up to SA again for premium to contact her.

[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/a7c52051-bbc5-ae3a-2aed-999e1cc04213[/URL]

[QUOTE=Lowkeyx;3816569]Hey Guys,

Just recently signed up with the site. I was wondering if you guys use real pictures and how much information do you share. Sorry if this has been covered in the past. I know it all depends on how much we feel comfortable sharing our real information but I'm curious if its safe or what peoples thoughts were. Thanks ahead and feel free to message if its easier.

LK.[/QUOTE]I use real pictures, I'm single, not anyone super important so discretion isn't that big of a deal to me.

I do use a google voice number though for all of my fun.

[QUOTE=Lowkeyx;3816569]Hey Guys,

Just recently signed up with the site. I was wondering if you guys use real pictures and how much information do you share. Sorry if this has been covered in the past. I know it all depends on how much we feel comfortable sharing our real information but I'm curious if its safe or what peoples thoughts were. Thanks ahead and feel free to message if its easier.

LK.[/QUOTE]The picture I use is a picture of me that is available online in a social media account. I crop it and do not show my face. I am private about this part of my life as most of my family, friends, and business associates that I depend on for work would not look favorably on this. I think most would look down on this type of arrangement.

[QUOTE=FruitNinja;3818167]The picture I use is a picture of me that is available online in a social media account. I crop it and do not show my face. I am private about this part of my life as most of my family, friends, and business associates that I depend on for work would not look favorably on this. I think most would look down on this type of arrangement.[/QUOTE]By day he is the mild manner Peter Parker, Clark Kent, Bruce Lee, or Jet Li- quiet, unassuming, good family man, friend, and friendly co-worker, but by night he turns into the ninja Oshikuru. A covert agent who uses his superpowers to sneak through the Chicago area, have his way with sugar babies- one with more stunning, deadly looks than the next who terrorize most men just with a mere glance demanding extravagant vacations, boots, shopping trips, and money. The ninja's goal is to rid them of their evil GPS powers that they use on helpless, red blooded American men. Only his faithful dog and sidekick Kato knows his true identity. Tune in to the next exciting adventure of the Ninja haha!

It says if you post a public pic you can message with the ladies is this true?

Or would you still need to pay?

A few people emailed asking about pictures and anonymity.

What I do:

I have a social media account that can be accessed by anyone. I use one of the pictures on that site but crop my head. Plausible Deniability. "That's my picture, but anyone could have downloaded from my _account. ".

I share the same picture with my face showing over text. It gives you some cover. My concern isn't an individual sb is going to cause problems. My concern is someone in my circle stumbling on the site and seeing me there. I have one picture that I share with the girls. If they want a selfie or another picture I tell them I have no other picture of myself that I'm willing to share.

A lot of guys ask what my first message looks like. I don't have any single opening line. I've tried from writing a paragraph to a simple "hey. " I have no data on which gets more replies. As in everything else in life "timing is everything. " I do know that around finals the hunting gets slow. They are all cramming. My only wish is that there were more Indian sugar babies. I've only had three in my life and all three were amazing in bed.

Do not give them too much information. Stay away from ghetto chicks. Pay attention to what they say. Read between the lines. I can spot a pro in two messages. I'm not a big fan of pros as it's always a problem. SB's are the real GFE that we're all looking for.

At last count since my divorce 13 years ago I have gone through some 200 non-pros. A handful were long term arrangements. Some lasting years. Out of the handful of long terms only one wouldn't hook up for a threesome. Out of those one from SA was a dud in bed.

Good hunting.

Does anyone know why the SA app no longer appears in the iOS App Store? Is this another knee-jerk FOSTA reaction or something more mundane (upgrade needed, etc)? I looked around on the actual SA site and other blogs, etc but couldn't find any reason for it. I never liked the app itself, but loading up a dummy App Store account with gift cards was a great way to renew anonymously. After a pretty good run last summer & fall, I took a long hiatus from anything other than browsing so deleted the app a while back and now there's no way to re-install. If it doesn't re-appear has anyone had recent success with any particular brand of prepaid gift cards that don't require registration with actual name & address?