[QUOTE=KrishKrish;4242136]I got her offline. First she says she is in Columbia and will be in the US soon. Then she says she is in Columbia and needs $$. I wished her well.[/QUOTE]I will avoid her. Thanks!
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[QUOTE=KrishKrish;4242136]I got her offline. First she says she is in Columbia and will be in the US soon. Then she says she is in Columbia and needs $$. I wished her well.[/QUOTE]I will avoid her. Thanks!
I've been looking through the ads on SeekingArrangement, and thinking about dipping my toe into this pool. I have lots of questions about what kind of profile to craft (name, pic? Keywords), how to pay without using personal credit card, and what strategies people use, and buzzwords people look for to root out the good girls from the scammers.
I'm reading back through recent posts, but are there any good summaries or primers posted farther back, with an intro on how to get started?
[QUOTE=BunkerBuster;4242911]I've been looking through the ads on SeekingArrangement, and thinking about dipping my toe into this pool. I have lots of questions about what kind of profile to craft (name, pic? Keywords), how to pay without using personal credit card, and what strategies people use, and buzzwords people look for to root out the good girls from the scammers.
I'm reading back through recent posts, but are there any good summaries or primers posted farther back, with an intro on how to get started?[/QUOTE]Check the Richmond forum. Search through the Sugar baby post, they offer a wealth of knowledge and how-to type of info there.
[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;4243301]Check the Richmond forum. Search through the Sugar baby post, they offer a wealth of knowledge and how-to type of info there.[/QUOTE]I used to look through the Richmond forum 5-6 years ago when I was first thinking about the SB world, then forgot that they were the pioneers in all of this.
I've since read back about 30 pages in Nova and Richmond, and have a decent handle on a lot of the procedures.
The thing I'm stuck on is a profile pic for myself. I don't want to show my own face; do most smart guys just use a body pic, or find a similar face online? There's a famous person out there who looks almost exactly like me, but unless I use an online photo editor to change his photo, girls will recognize that I'm just using his pic.
Are there any apps out there that find non-famous doppelgangers?
Thanks.
[QUOTE=BunkerBuster;4245984]
The thing I'm stuck on is a profile pic for myself. I don't want to show my own face; do most smart guys just use a body pic, or find a similar face online?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]BB, I crop my head off of a pic and use that for the profile, then I'll have the uncropped pic in my private photos. I generally won't share my private photos until we have chatted for a bit and are moving toward the 1st meetup.
I have a date set up with her this weekend. She's been around the block before, anyone have any insight or reviews? She's going to meet me at the hotel and has already shared some nudes.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c9c2c503-72ab-45bb-84bd-22b04a93cd0c[/URL]
[QUOTE=BunkerBuster;4245984]I used to look through the Richmond forum 5-6 years ago when I was first thinking about the SB world, then forgot that they were the pioneers in all of this.
I've since read back about 30 pages in Nova and Richmond, and have a decent handle on a lot of the procedures.
The thing I'm stuck on is a profile pic for myself. I don't want to show my own face; do most smart guys just use a body pic, or find a similar face online? There's a famous person out there who looks almost exactly like me, but unless I use an online photo editor to change his photo, girls will recognize that I'm just using his pic.
Are there any apps out there that find non-famous doppelgangers?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]I use a series of pictures from a set I found online. I don't exchange face pictures at all. I've never had an issue with getting to the first meet.
[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;4247043]I use a series of pictures from a set I found online. I don't exchange face pictures at all. I've never had an issue with getting to the first meet.[/QUOTE]Did you find the set by luck, or through a deliberate search?
Other than a few famous people who look a lot like me, I don't usually run across people who could be my twin. I even tried image searching my own pic, but came up with wildly different faces.
Reading through SA, I'm still imagining how good those 18-23 year olds are, but once I start dealing with the issues I'm reading about, such as GP $ and trying to get them to spot my message among the 500 other ones they have, I may have to up my search parameters and focus on the late 20's.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8b9776d5-f1cd-46bc-b0f4-cc04e537b88b[/URL]
Very easy to get her offline. Says she is in dupont circle, has a place and asked 500, I said 300 and she comes back with 350. Her pictures make me kind of suspicious. I right clicked and did google search. But coulnt find anything. Anyone know her, any info, is she legit? Look like a pro though.
[QUOTE=KrishKrish;4247418][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8b9776d5-f1cd-46bc-b0f4-cc04e537b88b[/URL]
Very easy to get her offline. Says she is in dupont circle, has a place and asked 500, I said 300 and she comes back with 350. Her pictures make me kind of suspicious. I right clicked and did google search. But coulnt find anything. Anyone know her, any info, is she legit? Look like a pro though.[/QUOTE]Pro. Goes by a similar name on TNA and Tryst.
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4246703]I have a date set up with her this weekend. She's been around the block before, anyone have any insight or reviews? She's going to meet me at the hotel and has already shared some nudes.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c9c2c503-72ab-45bb-84bd-22b04a93cd0c[/URL][/QUOTE]What the $$ damage?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b0d67673-d86d-4885-80a9-9b9e45ec6f62[/URL]
Talking to her. Has anyone have any knowledge or seen her? Please PM me.
[QUOTE=OldPilot71;4246248]BB, I crop my head off of a pic and use that for the profile, then I'll have the uncropped pic in my private photos. I generally won't share my private photos until we have chatted for a bit and are moving toward the 1st meetup.[/QUOTE]Post a pic of Ben Franklin.
[QUOTE=KrishKrish;4247418][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8b9776d5-f1cd-46bc-b0f4-cc04e537b88b[/URL]
Very easy to get her offline. Says she is in dupont circle, has a place and asked 500, I said 300 and she comes back with 350. Her pictures make me kind of suspicious. I right clicked and did google search. But coulnt find anything. Anyone know her, any info, is she legit? Look like a pro though.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Deranged;4247553]Pro. Goes by a similar name on TNA and Tryst.[/QUOTE]Now she's on Eros as Stacee. No details, no rates tho. [URL]https://www.eros.com/washington_dc/files/7855267.htm?cat=6208&wn=1[/URL].
The rate you got from her (her counteroffer) isn't horrible, but I would not be surprised if she has very limited menu, very mechanical, etc.
[QUOTE=DCGuy1234;4248261]What the $$ damage?[/QUOTE]$250, she was a dead fish. Nice body but just laid on her back and took it. Definitely been used a lot.
[QUOTE=BunkerBuster;4247410]Did you find the set by luck, or through a deliberate search?
Other than a few famous people who look a lot like me, I don't usually run across people who could be my twin. I even tried image searching my own pic, but came up with wildly different faces.
Reading through SA, I'm still imagining how good those 18-23 year olds are, but once I start dealing with the issues I'm reading about, such as GP $ and trying to get them to spot my message among the 500 other ones they have, I may have to up my search parameters and focus on the late 20's.[/QUOTE]Quick search on IG.
What kind of stuff do you guys in first messages? I just sent out a dozen messages. Three people looked at my profile and left me on read. One person responded.
[QUOTE=Deranged;4249435]What kind of stuff do you guys in first messages? I just sent out a dozen messages. Three people looked at my profile and left me on read. One person responded.[/QUOTE]I tell them I'm better looking than anyone else on there and ask for their number.
Erika is fantastic, hot petite GWU student with DD naturals and a fantastic spinner body. Everything is on the menu and then some. Showed up on time, BBFS, CIP, Greek, and even suggested watersports and bondage. She does keep some hair on her kitty but is clean and well groomed. Highly recommend, she is a true freak.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a6ecc203-7828-4341-985d-2860df579c86[/URL]
I set up a date with AU coed Maddy, who is on the site as Collegeprofessional, because I was seeing an SB that was flaky and wanted to make sure I had a backup.
She is a big girl, which you can tell from the pics and she won't send full body previews. In person she is EVEN larger and has a stomach that looks like a three day old chobani yogurt. She is a women's studies major who told me she thinks trying this kind of work is important because she is very involved with "sex worker's rights" at her university, so her personality is pretty awful unless she has a man sausage in her mouth.
She arrived at my hotel 30 minutes late and as soon as she walked in the door I lost my appetite. Still, she was there so I took her top off and spoke Russian to her until she finished me with a very good BBBJTCWS. After that she started to remove her pants, but I didn't want to lose the steak I had for lunch so I gave her a piece of my mind and sent her packing.
If you're into big girls she would be fun, offers just about everything: BBBJ, BBFS, CIP, Covered Greek, and likes it very rough. But for my money, she can liberate women with a different monger.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/170c0b36-c486-47f0-a913-21367630134b[/URL]
She quoted me $$$$ firm plus I have to host. I put her in queue as I have a SB lined up this weekend. Supposed to see her next week. Looking forward to it.
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4250135]Erika is fantastic, hot petite GWU student with DD naturals and a fantastic spinner body. Everything is on the menu and then some. Showed up on time, BBFS, CIP, Greek, and even suggested watersports and bondage. She does keep some hair on her kitty but is clean and well groomed. Highly recommend, she is a true freak.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a6ecc203-7828-4341-985d-2860df579c86[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Grasshopping;4250215]She quoted me $$ firm plus I have to host. I put her in queue as I have a SB lined up this weekend. Supposed to see her next week. Looking forward to it.[/QUOTE]Thats's what I paid. She lives in a dorm so can't host.
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4250250]Thats's what I paid. She lives in a dorm so can't host.[/QUOTE]I meant to put $$$$ not $$. I went back and corrected it. She wouldn't budge from $$$$.
[QUOTE=Grasshopping;4250299]I meant to put $$$$ not $$. I went back and corrected it. She wouldn't budge from $$$$.[/QUOTE]This site screws up when you use the $ & . In the double secret probation code.
For now on let's all agree to drop the bull shit & use real numbers. $400.
I for one am sick of having to go back in to change the donation amount.
[QUOTE=Grasshopping;4250299]I meant to put $$$$ not $$. I went back and corrected it. She wouldn't budge from $$$$.[/QUOTE]These girls are always getting spoiled by some dumb monger. I've got a gorgeous 19 yo white college athlete who has met for BBFS before for $250 but some A**HOLE paid her $500 for a quickie and now she thinks that's the prevailing wage.
Erika is good, but you should really put her through the ringer at $400.
[QUOTE=JulioJones11;4236964][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5029f5b7-5aa0-4990-b872-4e008e9b6f8e[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/228bfad0-482a-4b5e-aa64-e08f5f4ecb01[/URL][/QUOTE]Haven't met her but we chatted on SA. I mentioned $$ for a meet and she gave me some blah blah blah about connection, dates and long term blah blah. I just stopped talking to her. Let me know if you get anywhere.
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4250329]These girls are always getting spoiled by some dumb monger. I've got a gorgeous 19 yo white college athlete who has met for BBFS before for $250 but some A**HOLE paid her $500 for a quickie and now she thinks that's the prevailing wage.
Erika is good, but you should really put her through the ringer at $400.[/QUOTE]Could be that or could be that the girl has heard from some people and giving a B. S. About her getting a higher wage and seeing where that lands.
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4250329]These girls are always getting spoiled by some dumb monger. I've got a gorgeous 19 yo white college athlete who has met for BBFS before for $250 but some A**HOLE paid her $500 for a quickie and now she thinks that's the prevailing wage.
Erika is good, but you should really put her through the ringer at $400.[/QUOTE]Honestly you should always expect the deals to expire sooner or later. My latest fling was a 21 why / o beauty, BBFS, CIP, etc. $150 per meet, then she had a guy drop a one time meet payment triple to mine, and she thought it would be consistent. Things just fizzled after.
Do you guys bluntly say what you're looking for over Seeking? Or do you transition the conversation to texts first?
She's legit, she's actually a working girl. She does BBBJ, msog, all the works.
[QUOTE=KrishKrish;4247418][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8b9776d5-f1cd-46bc-b0f4-cc04e537b88b[/URL]
Very easy to get her offline. Says she is in dupont circle, has a place and asked 500, I said 300 and she comes back with 350. Her pictures make me kind of suspicious. I right clicked and did google search. But coulnt find anything. Anyone know her, any info, is she legit? Look like a pro though.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Deranged;4252079]Do you guys bluntly say what you're looking for over Seeking? Or do you transition the conversation to texts first?[/QUOTE]I lay out in general what I'm looking for over Seeking and transition to text to set up a meet. Only in person do I then go into full detail and discuss allowances, etc.
Thought I'd add something different since much of this forum is based around SA and other websites. I do the majority of my hunting in real life and thought I'd share a quick review of one that worked out.
So, I travel quite a bit for work and I always make it a point to do my remote work in a coffee shop that is near a campus. Last week while in Starbucks working, this young beautiful shapely grad student sat right beside me. She was funny, very smart and a pleasure to talk with. She never asked me the entire time about family kids, etc and I didn't volunteer information. As I was getting up to leave I wrote my SD number on a piece of paper and she was surprised and happy at the same time. She in turn gave me her number as well and said don't be a stranger. Turns out that she is down with the program, she doesn't need or want anything financially. She has her own place and car. She basically is looking for some companionship and someone who understands her schedule and limitations. She also doesn't want to be exclusive. That's a win.
[QUOTE=KimberLuvr;4252274]She's legit, she's actually a working girl. She does BBBJ, msog, all the works.[/QUOTE]Are you sure? She has a lot of reviews on TNA, and many of them insist that she is a safety girl.
I've seen her, but maybe YMMV? When I saw her it was BBBJ and MSOG.
[QUOTE=Deranged;4252713]Are you sure? She has a lot of reviews on TNA, and many of them insist that she is a safety girl.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;4252007]Honestly you should always expect the deals to expire sooner or later. My latest fling was a 21 why / o beauty, BBFS, CIP, etc. $150 per meet, then she had a guy drop a one time meet payment triple to mine, and she thought it would be consistent. Things just fizzled after.[/QUOTE]First of all, I'm a fan of CIP and I'm happy to give them an extra $50 for a PlanB if they have concerns. But, in an other thread there has been a lot of concern about the girl later claiming rape or some other #MeToo related nightmare. Is this not a concern if you dump a large load of DNA inside? Not that she's likely to immediately scream for a rape kit. But let's say she's knocked up and says you raped her. What's next?
[QUOTE=PeteMc;4253725]First of all, I'm a fan of CIP and I'm happy to give them an extra $50 for a PlanB if they have concerns. But, in an other thread there has been a lot of concern about the girl later claiming rape or some other #MeToo related nightmare. Is this not a concern if you dump a large load of DNA inside? Not that she's likely to immediately scream for a rape kit. But let's say she's knocked up and says you raped her. What's next?[/QUOTE]Which thread? Was this a "what if?" scenario or did it happen. Link please?
Honestly the whole reason I jump through the hoops for SBs is because I prefer young (preferably teenage) amateur girls who are fresh enough to go bareback with and willing to allow CIP. Otherwise escorts are a hell of a lot easier and less hassel. But 90% time and 18 or 19 yo escort is 25 and lying LOL.
There's risk and concern in this entire game. That's all I'll say about that, just be aware and do your due dilligence on every situation and encounter.
She's had a couple different profiles. Anyone ever successfully met her?
We had date set up a few weeks ago, coffee then FC. She even sent some very dirty preview pics but day of she ghosted. Now she is open to meeting again. Anyone successfully close?
Beach6 um.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1583f9ec-caa6-4336-afd7-e0f1b2d933c0[/URL]
Dollbaby delaney.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/35d87ce8-0244-4fe9-b4ed-2b53640a1a7b[/URL]
Just want to provide a quick summary of my endeavor. Most SB simply never responded to my messages or stopped responding in the middle of conversation (on the site). So I won't include those. I hope this will help the brothers out in filtering some of possible time-wasters out there.
Sweetdulcelatina.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/62cf9e4d-8048-4372-bfe1-238de9dc6486[/URL]
Got her digits. Been texting back and forth for a few weeks. Planned to meet up for a M&G but stopped responding to me text the day before the M&G. Never got into discussing detail of arrangement.
Jennifer0627.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/5060c0a5-8d08-4b2e-a997-d807b0ceb56a[/URL]
She immediately gave me her phone number. She wanted to meet that same evening. I couldn't. She said she's very busy and told me to text her when I'm ready to meet. Ok. A week later, she followed up asking if I want to meet. I asked her about details of the arrangement. Then she called me and left me a message saying that she prefers to discuss the arrangement over the phone. It's kind of my pet peeve that a SB calls me (I use google voice so it's not my actual number). So I never responded. I got a feeling that she's going to quote high price. I might reach out to her again if someday I feel like it.
YellowBri.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c98f32d6-a9ed-48f5-9632-861165332447[/URL]
Starting messaging on site. She asked me how much I'm offering for a ppm. I told her 250. She stopped responding. I asked her after a few days what allowance she has in mind. She just responded "something not even close. Good luck. " So, there you have it. Not sure what number she has in mind but I'm sure it's at least 400 and up.
La da de da.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/377907a8-42ca-4bed-b488-cda24c6d3068[/URL]
She's a BBW. Her profile photos must been at least 3 or 4 years old. Add another 40/50 pounds to what's on the pic. She now has a HUGE belly. Asked for 300 but agreed on 200. I got there and probably should have walked but figured what the heck. FK, HJ, (no BJ), CFS. Not bad but nothing too special to speak about either. She did me a favor by only showing her tits but keeping her belly covered. I did the deed and got out. A nut is a nut I guess. If you don't mind BBW, she's actually pretty cool to talk to.
Viktoria.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/0054973f-ff48-4b97-adbe-495024d69612[/URL]
She's pretty hot. Very nice ass, meaty and felt good. Quoted me 500 to 600. I told her I won't go over 400. Did a M&G with her and confirmed that she is pretty hot looking. The only thing I didn't like were the hard bolt-ons. M&G was done. We had good chemistry and good conversation and we seemed to like each other. I offered to walk her back to her place. On the way to her place, I told her that I'm changing my mind and we should go to the FC. She agreed. Got to her place, I told her that since I did not plan to follow through with any arrangement with her, I only had 200 on me (I actually had 300 in my wallet). She agreed but only for a quickie. I did a quick wash down of junior, jumped into bed and she gave me an enthusiastic BBBJ. DFK and DATY is also on the menu but she didn't like FIV. We had a good time and both were happy. K9 was great with her because of that ass she has. After the deed was done, I gave her another 40 since I feel bad about scamming her. She's cool with it. She lives in NY but said she comes to VA quite often. Will keep her on my list but not sure if if she will let me slide at 200 next time. I was taking advantage of the fact that she liked me and I used the unplanned arrangement as an excuse. It worked this time.
I met with another SB that is the ideal SB. Very low mileage college student looking for some supplemental income. She gave me true and complete GFE (YMMV) and stayed with me the whole night (YMMV). Will keep her to myself for now or if any senior member wants to trade info, let me know. She's just very average looking and small tits, that's the drawback. But she is slim and 5'7" tall.
Have another SB lined up for this weekend in Baltimore. Will see how that one goes.
[QUOTE=Grasshopping;4256400]Just want to provide a quick summary of my endeavor. Most SB simply never responded to my messages or stopped responding in the middle of conversation (on the site). So I won't include those. I hope this will help the brothers out in filtering some of possible time-wasters out there.
(Snip)[/QUOTE]Just a heads up: 4 out of the 5 links you provided go to your message inbox, not to the girls' profiles.