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[QUOTE=YavaRaj;4085539]TheresaJoy.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0885c08d-ea40-ac83-3cc8-90f62250ebfc[/URL]

Good to go!

Senior members PM for details.[/QUOTE]Your mail box is full.

Cleaned up the mailbox. Also, sent you a PM.

[QUOTE=TravlinMan9;4101721]Your mail box is full.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b6afce47-b772-495d-984d-50496caa442b[/URL]

Any intel? I could swear there was a report before the site went down but I can't find it now. We move right to text, she sent me a naked picture pretty quickly, seems legit and doesn't sound really like a true pro but moving to picture so quickly seems odd.

[QUOTE=GobBluth;4121340][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b6afce47-b772-495d-984d-50496caa442b[/URL]

Any intel? I could swear there was a report before the site went down but I can't find it now. We move right to text, she sent me a naked picture pretty quickly, seems legit and doesn't sound really like a true pro but moving to picture so quickly seems odd.[/QUOTE]Some of the girls know we've figured out the messages, how to read without upgrading. They know we have 10 one-way freebies and want to make contact before we run out. I have 2 fish on, a 20 why / o college girl who moved to text after 3 messages, then quoted $$$ before the end of the day, but said she's negotiable. Another is a hobby hooker who sent her email in the second message, quoted $$ for 2-3 hours but says she will go lower if we click. Both are verified and both have FB with the same pix under the same names. I like this new game.

[QUOTE=Hal1957;4122866]Some of the girls know we've figured out the messages, how to read without upgrading. They know we have 10 one-way freebies and want to make contact before we run out. I have 2 fish on, a 20 why / o college girl who moved to text after 3 messages, then quoted $$$ before the end of the day, but said she's negotiable. Another is a hobby hooker who sent her email in the second message, quoted $$ for 2-3 hours but says she will go lower if we click. Both are verified and both have FB with the same pix under the same names. I like this new game.[/QUOTE]I didn't know about the freebie thing. This one asked me how much I'd be comfortable with. I avoided this far. Trying to give it a go on Sunday.

[QUOTE=GobBluth;4123499]I didn't know about the freebie thing. This one asked me how much I'd be comfortable with. I avoided this far. Trying to give it a go on Sunday.[/QUOTE]You can see from this thread and on other city boards the going rates. Mostly it will depend on how hot she is and how badly she needs money. I had one quote me a number, then when I asked what this would involve, crickets. I think it also depends on whether the arrangement is with a pro, semi-pro, hobby hooker or bonafide in-need. If you're looking for something fresh, you're going to have to work it a little but next time I will avoid discussing particulars. Once you're sure you have a serious prospect, arrange a meet / greet at a nice restaurant or bar and see where it goes. Get one of the hotel booking apps on your phone and you can set up a room quickly and at a bargain price if the situation warrants. I really think this one is about the thrill of the chase. It's going to cost a little more but if you want a fresh fish, you have to use fresh bait and play it easy or they'll spit out the hook.

Anyone have any luck with the [URL]secretbenefits.com[/URL] site? I've been talking to a few ladies on there and then went to texting however haven't met anyone yet? Just curious if anyone has had any luck yet?

[QUOTE=UncleJohns;4162359]Anyone have any luck with the [URL]secretbenefits.com[/URL] site? I've been talking to a few ladies on there and then went to texting however haven't met anyone yet? Just curious if anyone has had any luck yet?[/QUOTE]Sure, out of the 36 or so SB's I have been with about 60 to 70% were from SeekingBenefits, the others off SeekingArrangements and WhatsYourPrice.

[QUOTE=Wolf66;4162438]Sure, out of the 36 or so SB's I have been with about 60 to 70% were from SeekingBenefits, the others off SeekingArrangements and WhatsYourPrice.[/QUOTE]Past few months have been awful. Seems like everyone is a scam. The active Virginia and Chicago boards seem to reflect the same. Anyone still getting any SA action?

[QUOTE=GobBluth;4389914]Past few months have been awful. Seems like everyone is a scam. The active Virginia and Chicago boards seem to reflect the same. Anyone still getting any SA action?[/QUOTE]I've gotten better results in June, but July had been horrible. Met 1 girl with good results, but lots of work required.

There seems to be more action in Orlando.

[QUOTE=Macumba;4392362]I've gotten better results in June, but July had been horrible. Met 1 girl with good results, but lots of work required.

There seems to be more action in Orlando.[/QUOTE]Thanks. I guess I'm just not into working so hard at it lately. Exhausting. I have a semi-regular but in more and more of a rush every time and I'm losing interest. I know about her personal life and she has a boyfriend. I'm just not into true pros. I have seen one every few months who lives out of state.

I travel to Pinellas often and cruise the listings. I've found several ways to weed out the time wasters:

Search the SA listings and view the interesting ones. The eager ones will reach back within a couple of days by viewing you, messaging you and / or favoriting you.

Anyone who hasn't been active in the past 5 days either isn't serious, has serious personality issues, or has paired off with someone.

Platonic and luxury in the profile is a bad sign.

Friends with Benefits is a good sign.

Never pay for a Meet and Greet. Someplace casual for drinks and finger food is a good way to gauge interest and habits.

Never pay for more than one session and never in advance. After a few sessions, if you're really sure you want to keep this one around, only then consider a long term arrangement.

Research FCs in advance. Nothing worse that finding an eager beaver and no place to take her. Browse through the local AirBnB listings and load one of the hotel booking apps on your phone. You can book a room in less than a minute for the same night.

I'm not married so I'm not worried about being discovered. If you're married and discovery is a concern, research anonymous payment methods for the room in advance. Again, nothing worse than finding an eager beaver and you're not ready to pull the trigger. Get a burner phone or a G--gle V-ice number to maintain your anonymity.

This part of the hobby is about the thrill of the chase. There are plenty of PYTs out there looking for a part time daddy. Just be aware many of them have psychological issues that make them prime candidates for clingy, obsessive behaviors.

[QUOTE=GobBluth;4389914]Past few months have been awful. Seems like everyone is a scam. The active Virginia and Chicago boards seem to reflect the same. Anyone still getting any SA action?[/QUOTE]

Ok so I just joined SA. Filled out a good profile and some discreet pics. I get messages but have to upgrade to read. How can I discreetly join the site or is there a way to meet these girls or chat with out paying the monthly fee?

[QUOTE=MFever;4394365]Ok so I just joined SA. Filled out a good profile and some discreet pics. I get messages but have to upgrade to read. How can I discreetly join the site or is there a way to meet these girls or chat with out paying the monthly fee?[/QUOTE]Read the Richmond VA SA thread. Tons of info.

Read through the Charlotte NC and Richmond VA boards on Sugar Babies. There is a lot of detailed information about how to succeed, a lot on anonymous payment methods.

I can't remember if it's 7 days or 10 days, but if you load the SA app on your android phone, you can get a short term membership for something like $30. Otherwise you have to pay the regular monthly rate. If you sign up for the monthly rate, go back into the payment section immediately and turn OFF the automatic renewal feature. Otherwise you will forget and get charged over and over.

Be realistic. If you have the resources, the "look" and the energy, there are lots of college babes looking for you. If you're on a budget, over 60 with a bit of a paunch, there are still PYTs out there looking for you. You'll need to do more sampling and be willing to accept the 6/10's and 7/10's.

And you're going to have to invest time and energy into the hunt. Be realistic and you will notice the patterns. Girls looking for luxury and travel and going to be a pain in the ass. Girls looking for tuition and rent assistance will be more accommodating. Girls under 30 will be a better bet. Girls who joined recently will be a better bet. Girls with more than 25 but less than 100 words in the profile will be a better bet. Girls who sound inexperienced and nervous will be a better bet.

There was a trick to reading messages without paying for a membership, or after your membership expired, but SA has closed that loophole. With a new unpaid membership, you get 10 free messages, but they sift through your messages and delete anything that contains your contact information. So eventually you're going to have to pay for a membership. Sift and sort through the girls profiles and read the discussion boards here on the sex guide before you put your money down. Do a one month membership to get a good sampling. Once you pay for the membership, don't overdo it. I don't know how many messages a day or week it takes, but if you overdo it SA will mark you as a spammer and cancel your membership.

I think the most important key to success is to move off the SA message system as soon as possible. Go to email or text or one of the messenger services as soon as possible. Don't discuss Pay Per Meet on SA messages! Someone will report you and SA will cancel your membership, and there is no recourse. Then you'll have to start with a new profile, new picture, new payment method. Because SA compares new members with cancelled members and they will cancel you AGAIN.

Happy Hunting.

[QUOTE=MFever;4394365]Ok so I just joined SA. Filled out a good profile and some discreet pics. I get messages but have to upgrade to read. How can I discreetly join the site or is there a way to meet these girls or chat with out paying the monthly fee?[/QUOTE]