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[QUOTE=MichaelGem88;3047333]This may sound stupid but. I don't really get it how LEO can bust a monger. Like "they" always say $ is exchanged just for time, and whatever happen is between 2 adult persons. So what is the case here?[/QUOTE]Assuming you're serious, it's because your legislature has passed a criminal statute making it illegal. That's the case here, and all other States except for one county in Nevada.
[QUOTE=Addiction69;3047090]I tried taking one for the team today with this girl, but she refused to send me any pics nude. I first asked her where I could find reviews of her (as there were none on here). She said she has no reviews because she is just starting in the business. So I said I needed a way to verify her and she informed me she doesn't send nude pics. I explained I have to have a way to verify her, my thoughts are because her pics are very tame, no nudity.
I then asked her if she would be willing to meet somewhere for a drink to meet in person, she declined and said she doesn't do that.
So much for her.
My question is what are girls hang ups with sending nude pics? IMHO that verifies they aren't LEO or part of a sting. But I've been turned down on numerous requests to different girls over time.
Do anyone have any info?
Regarding the recent string of busts, I am trying to be cautious, but also tired of the same old girls and same old reviews.
[URL]http://cincinnati.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-in-town-mya-is-here-qv80-hh130-hr200/31067108[/URL][/QUOTE]Why should she send you nude pics? She doesn't know you. How can she know you're not a minor pretending to be a monger asking for nude pics? How can she know you're not LEO trying to build a case against her in a sting?
How about this, since you obviously don't think it's a big deal and consider discretion to be "a hang up", why don't YOU send her nude pics first, to prove you're not LEO or a minor, then maybe she can feel safe enough to send you one.
A nude pic is not required for verification. How about asking her, "Hey! Can you verify it's you in the photos in the ad by sending me a photo with your fingers doing the Peace sign? How about a winking picture? Or blowing a kiss?
Seriously! The level of entitlement some guys have to EXPECT nude photos from someone who has never met them, and to actually complain about it in an open forum when their demands are not met, is astounding.
With that said, if you only did some searching, you would have found another ad, in CALGARY, for the same girl. If you did, you need not have bothered trying to get that girl to jump through hoops.
http://calgary.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-in-town-mya-is-here-special-before-3-am-outcall-only/14460510
[QUOTE=Addiction69;3047090]I tried taking one for the team today with this girl, but she refused to send me any pics nude.
My question is what are girls hang ups with sending nude pics? IMHO that verifies they aren't LEO or part of a sting. But I've been turned down on numerous requests to different girls over time.
[URL]http://cincinnati.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-in-town-mya-is-here-qv80-hh130-hr200/31067108[/URL][/QUOTE]Would YOU want someone you don't know to have a nude pic of you that they could hold permanently and use against you in the future? These women have personal lives beyond their sex business, and many of them are not sure how long they are going to be doing this. They may have children, significant others, or parents and not want a picture in the hands of someone they don't know that could be used against them later.
[QUOTE=DNut;3047955]Why should she send you nude pics? She doesn't know you. How can she know you're not a minor pretending to be a monger asking for nude pics? How can she know you're not LEO trying to build a case against her in a sting?
How about this, since you obviously don't think it's a big deal and consider discretion to be "a hang up", why don't YOU send her nude pics first, to prove you're not LEO or a minor, then maybe she can feel safe enough to send you one.
A nude pic is not required for verification. How about asking her, "Hey! Can you verify it's you in the photos in the ad by sending me a photo with your fingers doing the Peace sign? How about a winking picture? Or blowing a kiss?
Seriously! The level of entitlement some guys have to EXPECT nude photos from someone who has never met them, and to actually complain about it in an open forum when their demands are not met, is astounding.[/QUOTE]My first inclination is to tell you to Fuck Off! But I also see you actually did give some suggestions regarding me requesting a specific picture of her doing something with her hand or me sending a nude pic and also another post from LL made me realize that these women are probably getting this kind of request all day every day. It is still too sketchy out there for me to take any major risks right now, so that is why I chose to pass on her, and especially given that area of Sharonville and the heat that has been discussed on the forum.
But back to the Fuck Off part, entitlement? Give me a break! Expecting nude photos from a woman I've never met. WTF, us mongers show up and have all sorts of sexual adventures with women we have never met before. Literally, walk in the door and within 2-5 minutes completely naked and having intimate encounter with a complete stranger. Your logic in your statement regarding asking for nude photos from someone they never met being out of the question is just silly.
In this moment of mongering in our area, its better to be overly cautious than not. I don't owe this woman any sort of anything to begin, especially considering she has no reviews and no history.
[QUOTE=LusciousLips;3047418]All the girls receive tons of texts each day from guys who have absolutely no intention of ever visiting. These men Always ask for nude pics. This is the main reason,but there is also a safety factor. Just like you guys are nervous to get caught up with LEO, the girls are to. If you tell the girl your username for the USA site and they can see that you really are serious and you do follow through with visits,they probably wouldn't have a problem sending. Hope this helps.[/QUOTE]Thank you for your response. You made me realize how many requests for pictures I had not taken into consideration. I wasn't thinking about all the horny teenagers and other guys not ever planning to actually make an appointment.
Because you have reviews, I wouldn't ask that of you. But when you were first starting out, and didn't have reviews. If someone had messaged you and asked for some way to try and verify you. How would you respond?
This girl never gave any offer of how to resolve the issue. Simply said she had no reviews and wouldn't send nudes and wouldn't meet me for a drink close to where she was out in public place. Even when I said I really wanted to meet her and wanted to try to overcome that challenge.
If she and I were as smart as DNUT, I could have suggested a specific pose and her make something with her hand, but I really never thought about that as it was almost 5 PM and I wanted to get it done. Or if she truley has been traveling the country, I find it hard to believe she wouldn't know about this site and wouldn't have any reviews from other locations she could have referenced. DNUT posted a link to a Calgary ad. And another monger posted that she actually is advertising on USA now too. But who cares about the ad, I want to see reviews to verify this person.
Another point is that quite a few women on here also request verification before meeting any new clients. They won't see you unless you have proof from another provider you are not LE.
[QUOTE=MichaelGem88;3047333]This may sound stupid but. I don't really get it how LEO can bust a monger. Like "they" always say $ is exchanged just for time, and whatever happen is between 2 adult persons. So what is the case here?[/QUOTE]If your just paying for time then you can't complain when she pulls out the checker board for whatever time you payed for.
[QUOTE=Addiction69;3048021]Thank you for your response. You made me realize how many requests for pictures I had not taken into consideration. I wasn't thinking about all the horny teenagers and other guys not ever planning to actually make an appointment.
Because you have reviews, I wouldn't ask that of you. But when you were first starting out, and didn't have reviews. If someone had messaged you and asked for some way to try and verify you. How would you respond?
This girl never gave any offer of how to resolve the issue. Simply said she had no reviews and wouldn't send nudes and wouldn't meet me for a drink close to where she was out in public place. Even when I said I really wanted to meet her and wanted to try to overcome that challenge.
If she and I were as smart as DNUT, I could have suggested a specific pose and her make something with her hand, but I really never thought about that as it was almost 5 PM and I wanted to get it done. Or if she truley has been traveling the country, I find it hard to believe she wouldn't know about this site and wouldn't have any reviews from other locations she could have referenced. DNUT posted a link to a Calgary ad. And another monger posted that she actually is advertising on USA now too. But who cares about the ad, I want to see reviews to verify this person.
Another point is that quite a few women on here also request verification before meeting any new clients. They won't see you unless you have proof from another provider you are not LE.[/QUOTE]When a girl doesn't have or won't give out reviews its simple, TOFTT or move on. Pics still don't give you any idea as to performance whether nude or peace sign. With newbies or most any BP girl its a roll of the dice on any given day. YMMV applies always.
So I just read some articles about spros stings. Turn out there should be a cop undercover to be a monger to bust the girls, or undercover as a h004 er to bust a monger. So, it should be safe if we go with the girls we already known or at least got reviewed.
The reason I asked that stupid question was I affraid the cop would bust in when we are in business.
[QUOTE=Glockman;3047898]Assuming you're serious, it's because your legislature has passed a criminal statute making it illegal. That's the case here, and all other States except for one county in Nevada.[/QUOTE]
Hello All,
Long, long time lurker here but I been around a while. Such a long time that I remember Dallas and the old "Sinsinnati" website. I think he went by the title "the Mayor" back then.
Anyway I used to get out a lot more than I do, of course you got to have the $$ to play and that sometimes is hard to come by.
If I get out I'll write a review as best I can, that seems to be what we in the "hobby" can do for each other.
Until then be careful.
IWP.
[QUOTE=Addiction69;3048005]. But back to the Fuck Off part, entitlement? Give me a break! Expecting nude photos from a woman I've never met. WTF, us mongers show up and have all sorts of sexual adventures with women we have never met before. Literally, walk in the door and within 2-5 minutes completely naked and having intimate encounter with a complete stranger. Your logic in your statement regarding asking for nude photos from someone they never met being out of the question is just silly. [/QUOTE]Sending nude pics just because you asked and having an intimate encounter has absolutely nothing yo do with the other. Anyone can make a nude pic request with nothing vested other that a few key strokes and 1 kb of internet bandwidth. What does that get the girl? Most likely nothing other than compromising pbotos being in the hands of someone she has never met. Meeting and having sex is her job, and for that she gets paid, and her bills paid, and food, and housing, and car payments. To be in that room with her means you have made the investment to commit to a time, commit to the money, commit to the act, and make some effort.
It has nothing to do with modesty and everything to do with discretion. You want to see them naked? Put some skin in the game.
Have doubts? Move on. If you still want to see her, TOFTT.
But no one is entitled to nude pics just because you asked, and as much as this is a monger centric forum, most here know that the ladies have boundaries.
[QUOTE=DNut;3049547]Sending nude pics just because you asked and having an intimate encounter has absolutely nothing yo do with the other. Anyone can make a nude pic request with nothing vested other that a few key strokes and 1 kb of internet bandwidth. What does that get the girl? Most likely nothing other than compromising pbotos being in the hands of someone she has never met. Meeting and having sex is her job, and for that she gets paid, and her bills paid, and food, and housing, and car payments. To be in that room with her means you have made the investment to commit to a time, commit to the money, commit to the act, and make some effort.
It has nothing to do with modesty and everything to do with discretion. You want to see them naked? Put some skin in the game.
Have doubts? Move on. If you still want to see her, TOFTT.
But no one is entitled to nude pics just because you asked, and as much as this is a monger centric forum, most here know that the ladies have boundaries.[/QUOTE]I see your points and I don't disagree. I do appreciate the advice regarding request for what to ask for in a pic for verification rather than simply a nude pic. I am constantly learning on here and appreciate your feedback. Hope this also helps any others that may have had the same game plan or mind set I had.
HELP Adventurous Asian This evening Can be in an AMP My gift to mo LOL Can't disappoint myself sigh.
THANKS.
Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing when it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.
[QUOTE=Wielic;3050097]Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing when it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.[/QUOTE]You stop when the ROI is no longer worth it to you. What you put in and what you get out is entirely on you and no one can tell you when it's time to hang up your monger spurs.
[QUOTE=Wielic;3050097]Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing when it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.[/QUOTE]Another said it. Anymore it feels as if you are just masterbating in a vagina. Just need to find the vagina that fills both mental and physical need. This is the reason for keep spreading your seed.
[QUOTE=TapThat;3050186]Another said it. Anymore it feels as if you are just masterbating in a vagina. Just need to find the vagina that fills both mental and physical need. This is the reason for keep spreading your seed.[/QUOTE]I'm sure amon777 has that same sentiment. Hahaha!
[QUOTE=WorksAlot;3050188]I'm sure amon777 has that same sentiment. Hahaha![/QUOTE]There are exceptions, and he his one. He loves to spread his seed, blood and all. Forgot about him for a second.
[QUOTE=Wielic;3050097]Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing when it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.[/QUOTE]I'm getting close to hanging it up. You look at the cash outlay, $100 to $160 a week typically, and ask yourself if it is really worth it. I'm not sure that it is. I have been cutting back lately. The feelings tend to ebb and flow, though, so like an addiction it is tough to quit cold turkey. Who knows. That might be the best way to do it, quit cold turkey. The interesting thing is that when I go on vacation and am away for a couple of weeks I find I really haven't missed the hobby. So the question is, why continue with something that is expensive when you really don't miss it. The $10,000 question.
[QUOTE=Wielic;3050097]Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing n it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.[/QUOTE]I am glad you brought this up. I have the same feelings. For me, I just turned 60 yrs old. While I am in good physical shape, I still want to prove to myself that I can still get the JOB done, that I still have it. After I get the JOB done, I don't feel any better. Actually more like I just wasted $$ and I feel bad that I did. I am not married and I work a lot. I wonder if I am just really looking for company, or companionship more than trying to fulfill an urge. When the hour is up, its time to go back home, feeling empty. I think I am on top of hump, I just don't want to go over. Afraid of getting old. There I said it.
[QUOTE=Wielic;3050097]Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing when it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.[/QUOTE]What we all seem to miss is some kinf of emotional connection. Lately I've gone the actual sugar daddy route and am really enjoying it. Real discussions of real life events, sometimes over great lunches, fine wine or a great dinner. It's made the hobby a lot more enjoyable again and without the fear of LEO involvement. Of course, its more expensive to do it right, but I am finding it worthwhile.
This hobby is too expensive to lose the fun.
[QUOTE=Wielic;3050097]Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing when it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.[/QUOTE]Sounds like you know the answer so why even ask it. Your the only one who knows whether its worth it for you or not.
Living in a town with 30,000 sex workers and the hobby being legal I got to say that a couple times a year I just get tired of pussy. I'm also getting older and while I like sex it's not the drive it once was. You said something in your post that would be worth contemplating. "I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there" when I go see one of my regulars there is a feeling of friendship, some of them are really nice chicks, but the feeling I'm mostly chasing is a superior blowjob. I know what you're talking about because I've been there in the past. I went through a difficult time years ago and I was fucking 3-4 chicks a day, it wasn't about sex, it was about something that was missing from my life and I was using sex to fill a different need. Addiction is never about the what, it's always about the why. If you're chasing something more than casual, available, sex then brother your idea about taking a pause and assessing is not the worst idea you have ever had.
I miss the intimacy of more traditional relationships at times but the truth is 3-6 months into every relationship I ever had the only thing I wanted was out so for me, until I find a woman that's looking for the same liberty in a committed relationship that I am overall I'm better (happier) doing what I'm doing. Nobody else can answer this for you, this is a road you need to walk alone and find out what's on it for you.
A2.
[QUOTE=Admin2;3050727]If you're chasing something more than casual, available, sex then brother your idea about taking a pause and assessing is not the worst idea you have ever had.
A2.[/QUOTE]That hits it on the head. Anytime there is confusion in this regard, sober up quickly. Men want sex, (these) women want money. Since sex, for most of us, is associated with passion, emotions, caring, etc. confusion can arise, for some. The impulse is to feel a connection with someone who has ABSOLUTELY no desire to reciprocate except to extract more money. Never forget this. Never be confused over this. NEVER.
[QUOTE=Wielic;3050097]Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing when it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.[/QUOTE]I have been in the hobby over 20 years now even when I was married and got caught by my wife at the time. I agreed to go to therapy for my "sex addiction" to save my marriage. I always had great sex with my wife but after 15 years of marriage I guess I was getting bored and wanted something different. I was making a lot of money at the time and could afford to see escorts without hurting my family financially. I became what they call "master of the universe" where I thought I could do anything I wanted without regard to my wife or family. I quit the hobby during this time realizing how much I hurt my wife. We stayed married a few more years but it was never the same and we ended up getting divorced after the kids went to college. After a year I started dating and was in a serious relationship with a good woman who loved sex but she wanted to get married and I just wanted a female companion at my advanced age after going through two divorces in my life. I eventually returned to the hobby and I too have ask my self if it was worth it after seeing a so so provider where there wasn't chemistry but I have also been with fantastic providers who treat me like a boyfriend and I feel great after seeing them. The sex drive isn't as strong now but I still love pussy which is a natural normal feeling. It also is very healthy and theraputic for all human beings to enjoy sex. I love to feel all those chemicals going off in my head after a big O. This hobby isn't for everyone but for single men like me it provides me with female companionship once or twice a month with no strings attached which is what I want at this time in my life. I get my needs taken care of and the SP makes some money. Everybody wins!!
[QUOTE=3-MinutePassion;3050745]That hits it on the head. Anytime there is confusion in this regard, sober up quickly. Men want sex, (these) women want money. Since sex, for most of us, is associated with passion, emotions, caring, etc. confusion can arise, for some. The impulse is to feel a connection with someone who has ABSOLUTELY no desire to reciprocate except to extract more money. Never forget this. Never be confused over this. NEVER.[/QUOTE]From the perspective of a relative newbie to this, I have already been burned thinking that friendship is part of the deal. The best advice I have received so far from this board came from TapItnRun. His motto has served me well.
[QUOTE=3-MinutePassion;3050745]That hits it on the head. Anytime there is confusion in this regard, sober up quickly. Men want sex, (these) women want money. Since sex, for most of us, is associated with passion, emotions, caring, etc. confusion can arise, for some. The impulse is to feel a connection with someone who has ABSOLUTELY no desire to reciprocate except to extract more money. Never forget this. Never be confused over this. NEVER.[/QUOTE]This is all true, but I've noticed that often, unless a provider is a really good actress, I can't suspend my disbelief in the role she's playing, and that prevents me from enjoying my time with her. When I begin to think about how she's only doing it for money, doesn't like me, isn't turned on by me, etc. , it keeps me from getting turned on by her, too. A2's advice about taking a break has been useful to me in the past because, if nothing else, when I go without long enough, I'll wind up being too horny for my mind to wander off and start thing about all of that when I go and see a provider. At least an appointment or two will go OK before I'm back to being dissatisfied again.
Good Evening Are there ant adventurous AMP's in NkY still open. ?
Or Anywhere close Thanks Anyone have any information on GG /.
The Gianna posts started in the Bakpage Reviews section of the forum. Since this isn't a review, I moved it here. I attended the Exxotica Expo at the Columbus Convention Center Saturday night. I too contacted Gianna's "assistant" via email. After the first return email confirming pricing, I replied I couldn't make it to Columbus. Her response was that Gianna was staying in Dayton. Uh, yeah. After the Ron Jeremy seminar about some of his experiences in the business, I started to mingle with the stars at the show. It was like any other trade show, only better. Way better. I had my picture taken with Gianna and mentioned that I saw her ad. She told me that I was the sixth person to tell her that. Guess what? She doesn't offer that kind of service. It really was a scam. The show was great with a whole slew of adult film performers. Chaturbate and My Free Cams were doing live web cams, you could buy every kind of sex toy imaginable and they even had a bar in the VIP area. Woke up Sunday wanting a massage. Contacted Britt for a Nuru. Review is in the Columbus forum. I'll be going next year.
SP.
[QUOTE=Admin2;3050727]Living in a town with 30,000 sex workers and the hobby being legal I got to say that a couple times a year I just get tired of pussy. I'm also getting older and while I like sex it's not the drive it once was. You said something in your post that would be worth contemplating. "I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there" when I go see one of my regulars there is a feeling of friendship, some of them are really nice chicks, but the feeling I'm mostly chasing is a superior blowjob. I know what you're talking about because I've been there in the past. I went through a difficult time years ago and I was fucking 3-4 chicks a day, it wasn't about sex, it was about something that was missing from my life and I was using sex to fill a different need. Addiction is never about the what, it's always about the why. If you're chasing something more than casual, available, sex then brother your idea about taking a pause and assessing is not the worst idea you have ever had.
I miss the intimacy of more traditional relationships at times but the truth is 3-6 months into every relationship I ever had the only thing I wanted was out so for me, until I find a woman that's looking for the same liberty in a committed relationship that I am overall I'm better (happier) doing what I'm doing. Nobody else can answer this for you, this is a road you need to walk alone and find out what's on it for you.
A2.[/QUOTE]I want to publicly and humbly thank the seniors who PM'd and those of you who shared your perspectives and helpful input. I am at least taking a break, and walking away if I can. I don't know if I should be here reading or just stay away, but I will probably pop off from time to time despite my best intentions, but for now pay for play is out. Thanks to A2 and everyone who have been doing this and know better than me. In my 4th decade, I would at least like to say that I have learned to recognize good advice, and heed it. Thank you all again.
[QUOTE=Simonpieman;3052325] After the Ron Jeremy seminar about some of his experiences in the business, I started to mingle with the stars at the show.
SP.[/QUOTE]Sorry to say this but Ron Jeremy looks old & past his prime. Do you think he has an illness?
[QUOTE=CravenMorehead;3052585]Sorry to say this but Ron Jeremy looks old & past his prime. Do you think he has an illness?[/QUOTE]He almost died from heart problems three years ago.
Happy Birthday Babe. I hope your day went well. Sorry about the cake, maybe next year. LOL.
[QUOTE=Wielic;3052327]I want to publicly and humbly thank the seniors who PM'd and those of you who shared your perspectives and helpful input. I am at least taking a break, and walking away if I can. I don't know if I should be here reading or just stay away, but I will probably pop off from time to time despite my best intentions, but for now pay for play is out. Thanks to A2 and everyone who have been doing this and know better than me. In my 4th decade, I would at least like to say that I have learned to recognize good advice, and heed it. Thank you all again.[/QUOTE]Whatever your decision, it's the right one.
Happy Birthday baby! See you soon!!
"Living in a town with 30,000 sex workers and the hobby being legal "- This is what Admin quoted. Is this Thailand or some other place?
It's known fact about A2 . This should be a qualifier question in the rules of the forum. I've had the pleasure of staying at Porto madero and visit a lot of these houses that has the best selection at very affordable prices. I was there for a month and felt physically weak on my flight back home. I don't know how A2 lives there. LOL.
[QUOTE=LuckyLuke;3054144]"Living in a town with 30,000 sex workers and the hobby being legal "- This is what Admin quoted. Is this Thailand or some other place?[/QUOTE]
"I wonder if I am just really looking for company, or companionship more than trying to fulfill an urge. When the hour is up, its time to go back home, feeling empty. ".
About trying to find emotional connection from a provider. A good SP will be seeking a connection with you too, otherwise escorting will just be a miserable job. She will feel empty and it's ust a day to day means to an end. Besides being a good lover, a major component is compassion, empathy, kindness and love (not romantic love, but a love for other human beings). Some of the guys are only looking for a physical release, or don't feel comfortable letting their guards down.
My favorite part of providing is connecting with the guys I meet. That's what makes me happy, being kind, compassionate and empathetic. There's a real joy for me in serving people. I like it better than my job as a social worker, because I feel like I'm making more of a difference with escorting. The money is great! I'm doing well and I'm good at saving for retirement, but if I was self centered and selfish I'd dread escorting. Actually I was in Plymouth Mass heading to the Plymouth Plantation and I really hate doing this sort of stuff alone, so I called a few of my regulars to join me or to be my dinner companion. I wasn't looking for money, I was planning on paying for my own meal. Unfortunately the guy who wanted to go with me wasn't available for a few hours so I went alone. I am hanging out at the beach with Friday with a client of mine. I'm really looking forward to it! It's an escorting / vacation trip to the Cape.
Money isn't everything and it doesn't buy happiness. Either does consumerism.
Xoxo Debbie.
I'm new to USA but been around about a year. I've only seen a couple posts on me. I'm going threw a rough time and really need to get out there. First off if you have seen me please write a review if you haven't please consider it me and my family could use extra help and the way I see it little to no reviews is way better than bad ones so at least in a year I have 0 bad reviews lmao please guys write a few!
I want to thank everyone for their birthday wishes! Also the gifts I received thank you everyone so very much.
All most 2 weeks ago I lost about 85 percent of my clothing in a small fire at my house. I want to thank everyone for their caring, understanding, and kindness at that time. Thank you so much it reminds me why I really do enjoy what I do.
Hope to see you soon and PLEASE stay safe.
VR.
[QUOTE=Deb4512;3056947]"I wonder if I am just really looking for company, or companionship more than trying to fulfill an urge. When the hour is up, its time to go back home, feeling empty. ".
About trying to find emotional connection from a provider. A good SP will be seeking a connection with you too, otherwise escorting will just be a miserable job. She will feel empty and it's ust a day to day means to an end. Besides being a good lover, a major component is compassion, empathy, kindness and love (not romantic love, but a love for other human beings). Some of the guys are only looking for a physical release, or don't feel comfortable letting their guards down.
My favorite part of providing is connecting with the guys I meet. That's what makes me happy, being kind, compassionate and empathetic. There's a real joy for me in serving people. I like it better than my job as a social worker, because I feel like I'm making more of a difference with escorting. The money is great! I'm doing well and I'm good at saving for retirement, but if I was self centered and selfish I'd dread escorting. Actually I was in Plymouth Mass heading to the Plymouth Plantation and I really hate doing this sort of stuff alone, so I called a few of my regulars to join me or to be my dinner companion. I wasn't looking for money, I was planning on paying for my own meal. Unfortunately the guy who wanted to go with me wasn't available for a few hours so I went alone. I am hanging out at the beach with Friday with a client of mine. I'm really looking forward to it! It's an escorting / vacation trip to the Cape.
Money isn't everything and it doesn't buy happiness. Either does consumerism.
Xoxo Debbie.[/QUOTE]I appreciated your perspective as well as what others have shared on this topic. I have found myself asking the same questions and what started out as a quest to fulfill a lifetime of desired experiences it turns out that I have done all that I set out to do yet I keep looking for something more. It turns out just sharing of myself, being kind, compassionate and empathetic and getting to know others that are of the same emotional maturity level can be as rewarding and fulfilling as the other aspects. For me, I need more than a 'session'. I need to share myself in many ways and I enjoy when a SP does the same. Thanks to you and to all who chimed in on the matter.