Sugar Daddy Sites

[QUOTE=JollyJohnRoger;6343359]PSA:

Buyer Beware.

I met this hot little number 6 months ago on SA.

The girl herself is amazing, but the drama with her booker / pimp / BF.

If you're texting 626-557-3x xx, you're talking to.

Her pimp / boyfriend / booker Randy, who lurks in the.

Background and uses recordings and texts for extortion / blackmail.

Purposes.

Protect yourself from being fucked over in a bad way. It's the.

Arrangement from hell, something you can't and won't forget![/QUOTE]Thanks!! I was about to see her this week but I just made an excuse. I saw her 4 x before and had no clue. We would hang from 8-2 am each time. Great bareback fucking though I feel bad for her.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6341634]In 16 years of sugaring I have fallen in love 3 times. The first one was a true psycho. But she could only keep up her "normal girl" game for about 6 months. I had the LAPD remove her from my home 3 times after we broke up. She was exclusive to me for about a year and then non-exclusive for another year. Long story.

The second girl we were never a good match in the FC, so it was difficult but necessary to break up (although we are still together in an open relationship 10 years later). And we will always be a out of sync in the FC but I am grateful for what I do get and we do rely on each other emotionally quite a bit (facetime multiple times a day, everyday).

With the third one we had come to a crossroads between me and another guy and another girl she both almost married. She got engaged to the other two but eventually she chose the other guy, then came back to me two years later, but it just wasn't the same. She found her own path as people often do. I am actually still in love with her but my new GF is working very hard to make me forget her. As a single guy I will let myself go because I do not care about the inevitable pain that will pop up at some time in the future. It's just a part of life (mine anyways).

I did have at least 3 other girls that wanted to marry me but I was strictly in the booty call mindset with them. So no issues there. I know that at least two of them did marry right after leaving me, so that was their goal in life. I have never been super lucky in love and have never met my so called soul-mate. Although my second wife and the afore mentioned girls 2 & 3 I had high hopes for. Especially girl three. And my new GF is going all out but she has a couple of flaws I am going to have to accept to stay in the game.

Being a perfectionist in almost everything I do is a battle I have waged my entire life. And makes it especially difficult in relationships. Which is the main reason I have had multiple serious overlapping relationships over the years to try and fill in the gaps.

But to get to your point. These are not the type of relationships you would expect to have with a pro SB or whatever term you wish to use. I have a pro SB girl here in vegas. I tried to up the relationship but she basically laughed it off (more than once). I actually had to stop seeing her a while back as I just could not keep it professional. But we still chat and she is down for a $ anytime I want to see her.[/QUOTE]Damn 16 years of fucking hotties. Good shit. My 19-yr old Latina asked if she could have my baby LOL. I am tempted. That would be years of free sex but some of that money would be going to junior LOL.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6338247]Last weeks overnite guests.

Girl 1 - 5.5 - 115

Girl 3 - 5.2 - 100[/QUOTE]Is their allowance 550 or 115?

Avoid this one:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b52d2e61-c5fb-4aa0-8e62-1681c9e80cbb[/URL]

Pretty Temptress.

Says she's in Hwood, 914 area code. Asks for $100 cash app before meeting.

[QUOTE=NitroHX;6387650]Is their allowance 550 or 115?[/QUOTE]Thats thier height and weight.

[QUOTE=NitroHX;6387635]Damn 16 years of fucking hotties. Good shit. My 19-yr old Latina asked if she could have my baby LOL. I am tempted. That would be years of free sex but some of that money would be going to junior LOL.[/QUOTE]In the beginning its tempting to just fuck as many girls as possible. Since its basically unlimited. Over time and with less funds I have become much more reserved.

Also bored of most one nighters and only want the truly good fits in my demographic which is limited to a degree

FFA, I appreciate your many valuable contributions to the overall USASG forum. I came across your contributions to the PimEyes / facial recognition discussion on the Richmond board I believe. As this is a potential game changer for many of us, is there a way to create a higher-level discussion thread accessible to all such that this info isn't just restricted to those who frequent a board you (and some others) participate in? I'm not sure how to make it happen.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6386169]A comment made in another sugar thread concerned me so I personally investigated. If you have a SO, you really really need to be careful about this.

The website that you need to worry about is [URL]pimeyes.com[/URL]. It is a free facial recognition site. I have been very circumspect about putting my real photos on the seeking site, the only ones I provide are actually of someone not me (but similar to me) and have half the face cut off. However, in private texting, after I have spoken w / someone and am pretty sure I want to meet them, I saw no recourse but to provide a real pic. This is one that has all metadata stripped and has never appeared anywhere on the internet, on social media or anywhere else.

I just ran pimeyes on my one real photo I use for sugari. I have a relatively prominent internet presence because of my profession. That website found 7 instances of my real photos online. One of the finds was of someone else. However, if a girl wanted to search my one provided pic, she would get my *real* name and lots more information about me. This would make me extremely vulnerable to extortion, as I clearly mark on my seeking profile that I am married.

The only mitigating feature of pimeyes is that we can use it against girls.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Murrican;6383753]I created an account on Reddit to view the sugar baby forum which you need to be admitted to.

It's pretty annoying. I recommend it for about a day. I've been reading for like 3 weeks and I'm over it.

It's literally an endless litany of girls asking for advice on some guy, and then every girl responding the same things over and over: drop him immediately. Every single one. There is no reason to not "know your worth" and "ghost him now girl. ".

I have been silent on it for obvious reasons but so many times I want to jump in and say actually that's a pretty reasonable request. Actually 500 per meet is not cheap. Actually wanting intimacy on the first date is not a bad idea because that's what this is about. Actually, I think you need to understand how replaceable you are.

My favorites are the girls who actually legit expect that a sugar daddy will give them a lifestyle where they no longer need to work or contribute to society. Like I imagine there probably guys out there who can do that, and will, I've got to imagine they are incredibly rare. You'd be shocked at how many girls are positively shocked that guys on the site are there to sleep with girls for money and are not there to make their lives better. You'd be surprised at how self aware they are that what they bring to the table is between their legs, but how much they talk about how much it's worth despite the constant barrage of evidence to the contrary. Like every guy who offers 300-500 ppm is a cheap broke ass and every twat is a ticket to financial freedom.

Just incredible.[/QUOTE]If anyone wants to know why, by 2030,45% of working age women (millenial and gen Z) will be single and childless. . this post sums it up.

[QUOTE=CuriousVaMan;6387913]FFA, I appreciate your many valuable contributions to the overall USASG forum. I came across your contributions to the PimEyes / facial recognition discussion on the Richmond board I believe. As this is a potential game changer for many of us, is there a way to create a higher-level discussion thread accessible to all such that this info isn't just restricted to those who frequent a board you (and some others) participate in? I'm not sure how to make it happen.[/QUOTE]Thanks. I don't know technically how to do what you describe, and IDK that I personally would be the person to do this. I am on permanent moderation on this site, I think someone who has freedom to post directly would be a better choice to be a moderator of a new thread. I am not much on the time commitment either.

That being said, there are topic threads (such as Viagra) that aren't geographic.

I didn't post first about PimEyes, perhaps that person who did would want to step up.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6386169]A comment made in another sugar thread concerned me so I personally investigated. If you have a SO, you really really need to be careful about this.

The website that you need to worry about is [URL]pimeyes.com[/URL]. It is a free facial recognition site. I have been very circumspect about putting my real photos on the seeking site, the only ones I provide are actually of someone not me (but similar to me) and have half the face cut off. However, in private texting, after I have spoken w / someone and am pretty sure I want to meet them, I saw no recourse but to provide a real pic. This is one that has all metadata stripped and has never appeared anywhere on the internet, on social media or anywhere else.

I just ran pimeyes on my one real photo I use for sugari. I have a relatively prominent internet presence because of my profession. That website found 7 instances of my real photos online. One of the finds was of someone else. However, if a girl wanted to search my one provided pic, she would get my *real* name and lots more information about me. This would make me extremely vulnerable to extortion, as I clearly mark on my seeking profile that I am married.

The only mitigating feature of pimeyes is that we can use it against girls.[/QUOTE]Wow thanks for the heads up. I searched my private pic on SA and sure enough lots of positive hits came up. What a scumbag of a website, they have a $80 option where you can pay to have your picture taken down. Needless to say I've deleted my pictures. Again thanks for the warning, never knew this existed. I did search for some of my SB's and found out most of them have done porn and / or * LOL.

Thanks for the heads up on the Pimeye site. Tried a few of my pics and they got no hits, BUT I did get a few good look-a-like pictures that are now in my pocket.

[QUOTE=Citrus1999;6388798]Wow thanks for the heads up. I searched my private pic on SA and sure enough lots of positive hits came up. What a scumbag of a website, they have a $80 option where you can pay to have your picture taken down. Needless to say I've deleted my pictures. Again thanks for the warning, never knew this existed. I did search for some of my SB's and found out most of them have done porn and / or * LOL.[/QUOTE]When I run a search, it says that I see the actual destination of the found photos, you have to pay a monthly fee.

Are you guys doing that? Or is there another way to see where these photos exist.

[QUOTE=NitroHX;6387635]Damn 16 years of fucking hotties. Good shit. My 19-yr old Latina asked if she could have my baby LOL. I am tempted. That would be years of free sex but some of that money would be going to junior LOL.[/QUOTE]You're not asking for my advice, but you're going to get it. You need it.

Are you out of your f ing mind?! The minute a girl says she wants to have your baby is the minute you walk out and never return. That's a life sentence. Kids are awesome but not with your pay to play girl. That will be the most expensive Poon you've ever had in your life. You'll pay for it for 18 years and more. Long after the girl is hot and accommodating and pleasant to be around.

It's not even enough to bring your own condoms. If a girl wants a baby and you have money, you're on notice.

Months ago I was with a girl in Tijuana who started pulling me toward her for bareback. I got a sense that maybe she wanted an accident to happen. I never saw her again. Because I practice what I preach. You should practice what I'm preaching here too.

[QUOTE=Murrican;6389479]When I run a search, it says that I see the actual destination of the found photos, you have to pay a monthly fee.

Are you guys doing that? Or is there another way to see where these photos exist.[/QUOTE]At the bottom of the photos of me it found is a partial URL. If the URL is short enough, though, if you start typing it into your browser, the autocomplete function will very likely fill in a proper address. Then she is on the site that has your pics. It might be easy, it might be hard, for her to go from there to actually you, but just that info (particular organizations) could be highly compromising. I am abandoning sending out the real pix I have been using, will try to generate some new ones and test them out on PimEyes before sending them to a POT.

Most of the places that have my photos do not surprise me, and I am not in a position to ask them to take them down. As I mentioned earlier it is part of my profession. It is essential that I prevent something I provide a girl doesn't lead to those sites.

And I agree w / the other poster, it is a great way to get photos of other people who look enough like you that you could use those to send to a girl without getting into a hassle.

[QUOTE=Murrican;6389489]You're not asking for my advice, but you're going to get it. You need it.

Are you out of your f ing mind?! The minute a girl says she wants to have your baby is the minute you walk out and never return. That's a life sentence. Kids are awesome but not with your pay to play girl. That will be the most expensive Poon you've ever had in your life. You'll pay for it for 18 years and more. Long after the girl is hot and accommodating and pleasant to be around.

It's not even enough to bring your own condoms. If a girl wants a baby and you have money, you're on notice.

Months ago I was with a girl in Tijuana who started pulling me toward her for bareback. I got a sense that maybe she wanted an accident to happen. I never saw her again. Because I practice what I preach. You should practice what I'm preaching here too.[/QUOTE]I got snipped one year after the start of my sugar career. What I lost in my "load" was more than compensated by piece of mind.

Thanks to those of you who raised pimeyes.

I've since changed my photos to ones I verified can't be picked up by the site. What worked was lower res photos.

Just ended a 4 day stacation with my new NP that I met online. No cash deposits but it still cost about 7 bills for everything (airfare, nails, hair, outfits, meals) . Anyone who says they don't pay for pussy is either under 25, an alcoholic or a rock star. Managed to hit it 7 times for about an hour each time. Well worth it. 5'2" - 110 lbs

I just paused my seeking account for 3 months. I am only able to keep up with my 3 current regulars so no real need to be on there for now.

los angeles baby - 10 years and going strong - x dancer and currently a pro dom & professional model... but still needs her Daddy - only pay for her trips to vegas and that usually only runs about $$ or $$$ per trip to cover the travel and meals.

las vegas baby - 3 years in - dancer/escort - $ per date and she keeps it professional - but a sweet nice girl that subs for her Daddy

dallas baby - 4 months in - NP - only paying for regular dating expenses - but she has offered to chip in - I may take her up on that - total sub - sucks on demand, anytime anywhere. Says "Yes Daddy" to any request. A real stress reliever.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6393004]Just ended a 4 day stacation with my new NP that I met online. No cash deposits but it still cost about 7 bills for everything (airfare, nails, hair, outfits, meals) . Anyone who says they don't pay for pussy is either under 25, an alcoholic or a rock star. Managed to hit it 7 times for about an hour each time. Well worth it. 5'2" - 110 lbs[/QUOTE]Nice Hollywood, yes we all pay it for it one way or another as they say, just that some girls will push for clothes, help for something, concerts, vacations, nails, etc. Instead of just asking for money outright like others.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6393907]I just paused my seeking account for 3 months. I am only able to keep up with my 3 current regulars so no real need to be on there for now.

los angeles baby - 10 years and going strong - x dancer and currently a pro dom & professional model... but still needs her Daddy - only pay for her trips to vegas and that usually only runs about $$ or $$$ per trip to cover the travel and meals.

las vegas baby - 3 years in - dancer/escort - $ per date and she keeps it professional - but a sweet nice girl that subs for her Daddy

dallas baby - 4 months in - NP - only paying for regular dating expenses - but she has offered to chip in - I may take her up on that - total sub - sucks on demand, anytime anywhere. Says "Yes Daddy" to any request. A real stress reliever.[/QUOTE]Hats off to you! I wish I had even one of these fine baby girls at my disposal.

I only browse here because I don't have the patience or skill to score a sugar baby, but I always enjoy your posts. This time, I felt compelled to add my comment.

Salud!

[QUOTE=NObserver;6396050]Hats off to you! I wish I had even one of these fine baby girls at my disposal.

I only browse here because I don't have the patience or skill to score a sugar baby, but I always enjoy your posts. This time, I felt compelled to add my comment.

Salud![/QUOTE]Here is a recent pic of my L. A. Baby. Trying to get her to visit me this weekend as I have the entire weekend free. But no luck so far.

I've posted before about the high-powered business woman I met off SA. I am still in touch w / her, but circumstances (health and otherwise) have kept me from seeing her lately. However, she still regards me as her man-toy, and when she returns from travel at the end of the month, we're booked for a FC. She really does schedule even bangin' that far ahead.

I M&G a girl this morning, she's 23. Pretty, perhaps a little pudgy, in a non-coastal county. After the meet-up, I realize I met her long ago, before the pandemic. She accidentally dropped her real name, it is not her profile name. This could be ideal, she is gender fluid, has experience w / much older guys, and it is a kink for her. I asked what sort of gift she was hoping for, she says 'whatever you want'. OK, I can do that. She has an apartment near where we met, that is a possibility for the future, for the first meet, I asked her to get us a room and let me reimburse her, she was totally OK w / that. I will book FC for next week.

I realize this isn't strictly a sugar question, but a few of us here are definitely older, I hope I might tap into elder knowledge. I am looking for a discreet way to get generic sildenafil. I have a SO, so there can't be any record at all of this. No mail order, no nothing. I had a very accommodating urologist who was selling bottles of it right out of his office, not via a scrip. However, he joined a large bureaucratic hospital, so that gravy train is gone. IK there are veterinary uses for sildenafil, I wondered if this provides a means to get some of it without a conventional prescription. Or if someone has a friendly neighborhood herbalist I could go to. Strictly cash on the barrelhead, no names, and no questions asked.

I do have a guy in OC I have been getting such stuff from in the past, however, he gets it from India, and my sense it that it is less reliable than the real 'good' stuff that you can get from a proper medical professional. You really want to be able to rely on your pills in the sugar game.

I'll take answers here or via PM.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6403301]I realize this isn't strictly a sugar question, but a few of us here are definitely older, I hope I might tap into elder knowledge. I am looking for a discreet way to get generic sildenafil. I have a SO, so there can't be any record at all of this. No mail order, no nothing. I had a very accommodating urologist who was selling bottles of it right out of his office, not via a scrip. However, he joined a large bureaucratic hospital, so that gravy train is gone. IK there are veterinary uses for sildenafil, I wondered if this provides a means to get some of it without a conventional prescription. Or if someone has a friendly neighborhood herbalist I could go to. Strictly cash on the barrelhead, no names, and no questions asked.

I do have a guy in OC I have been getting such stuff from in the past, however, he gets it from India, and my sense it that it is less reliable than the real 'good' stuff that you can get from a proper medical professional. You really want to be able to rely on your pills in the sugar game.

I'll take answers here or via PM.[/QUOTE]Never buy anything but USA made. Try any small ethnic (or not) owned little pharmacy. Like a small neighborhood place. A while back (long while) pharmacies were getting free samples of name brand cialis. I bought like a couple hundred pills for cash from one at that time. And have also had other such transactions at these types of places. Best if the pharmacist is like 60 or older. The least expensive online store for american made I have found is ziphealth.co. super cheap like ninety 5mg pills for $.24

Also you can pay any Dr in cash for the prescription and then just go pay cash at the pharmacy

Yesterday this girl I've been seeing asked for us to hang out. We have had really good chemistry and I know she's developing feelings for me just by the way her affection towards me has shifted. Prior to yesterday things have been strictly sexual, with me initiating all the meet ups. I've kept it that way to establish the boundaries between us and to not blur our lines and keep her expectations in check. I had a ton of free time though and so I took her out for drinks. After a few she really opened up about her feelings about me and how into me she was. I'm not the type to need or want the fluff for my ego but I could sense the genuineness in what she was saying. Her body language and everything was more in line with a gf rather than a sb. I intended to drop her off but she insisted I come back to her place. So I went and we went to town. She even asked me to sleep over and said "I don't want this to sound weird but I want you to make love to me this time. " My emotions were kind of all over the place because I didn't know where in her mind this was crossing into. After a few hours I had to call it a night. As I'm leaving she goes "oh uhh, do you have the you know?" I was taken back a bit. I didn't have a lot of cash on me so I just hooked her up with what I had and left. It sort of left me puzzled because nothing about the night felt like this was some sb / sd situation. I was mostly giving into her feelings and made the night about her. That's never been the case before. Question is, am I right to feel like maybe payment should not have come up last night? She's acting and saying things in line with a gf but I don't give my gf a lump sum of cash each time I see her. It's a confusing spot for me. Any help or insight in how to handle this would be appreciated. For clarity, I think this girl is awesome. We have great chemistry and I don't mind a fwb situation with her. She has a super high sex drive but I also can't keep up with paying each time just to meet her sexual demands. LOL I almost feel like she should be paying me with the way she's getting handled each time we meet.

[QUOTE=ChefSolo;6404271]Yesterday this girl I've been seeing asked for us to hang out. We have had really good chemistry and I know she's developing feelings for me just by the way her affection towards me has shifted. Prior to yesterday things have been strictly sexual, with me initiating all the meet ups. I've kept it that way to establish the boundaries between us and to not blur our lines and keep her expectations in check. I had a ton of free time though and so I took her out for drinks. After a few she really opened up about her feelings about me and how into me she was. I'm not the type to need or want the fluff for my ego but I could sense the genuineness in what she was saying. Her body language and everything was more in line with a gf rather than a sb. I intended to drop her off but she insisted I come back to her place. So I went and we went to town. She even asked me to sleep over and said "I don't want this to sound weird but I want you to make love to me this time. " My emotions were kind of all over the place because I didn't know where in her mind this was crossing into. After a few hours I had to call it a night. As I'm leaving she goes "oh uhh, do you have the you know?" I was taken back a bit. I didn't have a lot of cash on me so I just hooked her up with what I had and left. It sort of left me puzzled because nothing about the night felt like this was some sb / sd situation. I was mostly giving into her feelings and made the night about her. That's never been the case before. Question is, am I right to feel like maybe payment should not have come up last night? She's acting and saying things in line with a gf but I don't give my gf a lump sum of cash each time I see her. It's a confusing spot for me. Any help or insight in how to handle this would be appreciated. For clarity, I think this girl is awesome. We have great chemistry and I don't mind a fwb situation with her. She has a super high sex drive but I also can't keep up with paying each time just to meet her sexual demands. LOL I almost feel like she should be paying me with the way she's getting handled each time we meet.[/QUOTE]First, send me the link to her profile.

Second, if you are interested in not paying, then bring it up and have that discussion; tell her that her words and actions suggest that this is going in a more emotional direction and go from there. IMO the payment maintains the line between SB and GF or FWB. So she is likely in the right in this situation.

[QUOTE=ChefSolo;6404271]Yesterday this girl I've been seeing asked for us to hang out. We have had really good chemistry and I know she's developing feelings for me just by the way her affection towards me has shifted. Prior to yesterday things have been strictly sexual, with me initiating all the meet ups. I've kept it that way to establish the boundaries between us and to not blur our lines and keep her expectations in check. I had a ton of free time though and so I took her out for drinks. After a few she really opened up about her feelings about me and how into me she was. I'm not the type to need or want the fluff for my ego but I could sense the genuineness in what she was saying. Her body language and everything was more in line with a gf rather than a sb. I intended to drop her off but she insisted I come back to her place. So I went and we went to town. She even asked me to sleep over and said "I don't want this to sound weird but I want you to make love to me this time. " My emotions were kind of all over the place because I didn't know where in her mind this was crossing into. After a few hours I had to call it a night. As I'm leaving she goes "oh uhh, do you have the you know?" I was taken back a bit. I didn't have a lot of cash on me so I just hooked her up with what I had and left. It sort of left me puzzled because nothing about the night felt like this was some sb / sd situation. I was mostly giving into her feelings and made the night about her. That's never been the case before. Question is, am I right to feel like maybe payment should not have come up last night? She's acting and saying things in line with a gf but I don't give my gf a lump sum of cash each time I see her. It's a confusing spot for me. Any help or insight in how to handle this would be appreciated. For clarity, I think this girl is awesome. We have great chemistry and I don't mind a fwb situation with her. She has a super high sex drive but I also can't keep up with paying each time just to meet her sexual demands. LOL I almost feel like she should be paying me with the way she's getting handled each time we meet.[/QUOTE]Sounds like she was digging in her hooks not switching to a gf. If she's a great as you say, keep it to SB and see her when the budget allows.

[QUOTE=ChefSolo;6404271]Yesterday this girl I've been seeing asked for us to hang out. We have had really good chemistry and I know she's developing feelings for me just by the way her affection towards me has shifted. Prior to yesterday things have been strictly sexual, with me initiating all the meet ups. I've kept it that way to establish the boundaries between us and to not blur our lines and keep her expectations in check. I had a ton of free time though and so I took her out for drinks. After a few she really opened up about her feelings about me and how into me she was. I'm not the type to need or want the fluff for my ego but I could sense the genuineness in what she was saying. Her body language and everything was more in line with a gf rather than a sb. I intended to drop her off but she insisted I come back to her place. So I went and we went to town. She even asked me to sleep over and said "I don't want this to sound weird but I want you to make love to me this time. " My emotions were kind of all over the place because I didn't know where in her mind this was crossing into. After a few hours I had to call it a night. As I'm leaving she goes "oh uhh, do you have the you know?" I was taken back a bit. I didn't have a lot of cash on me so I just hooked her up with what I had and left. It sort of left me puzzled because nothing about the night felt like this was some sb / sd situation. I was mostly giving into her feelings and made the night about her. That's never been the case before. Question is, am I right to feel like maybe payment should not have come up last night? She's acting and saying things in line with a gf but I don't give my gf a lump sum of cash each time I see her. It's a confusing spot for me. Any help or insight in how to handle this would be appreciated. For clarity, I think this girl is awesome. We have great chemistry and I don't mind a fwb situation with her. She has a super high sex drive but I also can't keep up with paying each time just to meet her sexual demands. LOL I almost feel like she should be paying me with the way she's getting handled each time we meet.[/QUOTE]Do you have a link to her profile or send it to me through DM?

[QUOTE=ChefSolo;6404271]Question is, am I right to feel like maybe payment should not have come up last night? She's acting and saying things in line with a gf but I don't give my gf a lump sum of cash each time I see her. It's a confusing spot for me. Any help or insight in how to handle this would be appreciated. For clarity, I think this girl is awesome. We have great chemistry and I don't mind a fwb situation with her. She has a super high sex drive but I also can't keep up with paying each time just to meet her sexual demands. LOL I almost feel like she should be paying me with the way she's getting handled each time we meet.[/QUOTE]For someone like me this is the ideal situation. If she is for real then now is the time to negotiate a lower ppm. You always have to (and actually always want to) pay to play. Unless you are ready to take on the emotional responsibility of a BF.

But I remember when my last big fling got really serious. I told the girl. "Look. This is my monthly budget. If you want to see me twice as much that's fine. But the monthly amount can not go up". If she is really into you, she will cut the ppm in half by seeing you twice as much.

Ok, I have to be in LA for about a week in a month. Never been there before.

I do have a subscription to seeking and secret benefits. I've had some success in my neck of the woods (WV and surrounding areas) over the years.

What I'm looking for is a chick to hang out one evening while I'm in LA, possibly overnight from like 8/9/10 to. Whenever in the morning. I've messaged a few off of seeking in the LA area, and they are all asking like 1 k and up for something like that, and frankly, some of them don't look anywhere close to 1 k hotness. I'm thinking more like 500-700'ish? I know the going rate is probably going to be much higher than I'm used to, just because of location.

I've read the forum, but I don't see much help. Anyone have any profiles from seeking or secret benefits they want to throw my way, I'd appreciate it. Feel free to DM. If you poke around on the Charleston WV / Lexington KY, Cincinnati OH forums, you can see I'm a decent contributor, and of course, if any of you ever end up in my neck of the woods, I can reciprocate.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6404902]For someone like me this is the ideal situation. If she is for real then now is the time to negotiate a lower ppm. You always have to (and actually always want to) pay to play. Unless you are ready to take on the emotional responsibility of a BF.

But I remember when my last big fling got really serious. I told the girl. "Look. This is my monthly budget. If you want to see me twice as much that's fine. But the monthly amount can not go up". If she is really into you, she will cut the ppm in half by seeing you twice as much.[/QUOTE]In my experiences in 2023, SA girls are increasingly good at manipulating you towards their financial goals. Think car sales speech and tactics.

They literally go back and forth between authentic words and then closing on you to transact. Make sure it's a fun game for you.

[QUOTE=SeanTime53;6405198]In my experiences in 2023, SA girls are increasingly good at manipulating you towards their financial goals. Think car sales speech and tactics.

They literally go back and forth between authentic words and then closing on you to transact. Make sure it's a fun game for you.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SteveTandberg;6404569]Sounds like she was digging in her hooks not switching to a gf. If she's a great as you say, keep it to SB and see her when the budget allows.[/QUOTE]In my experiences in 2023, SA girls are increasingly good at manipulating you towards their financial goals. Think car sales speech and tactics.

They literally go back and forth between authentic words and then closing on you to transact. Make sure it's a fun game for you.

[QUOTE=Almighty;6405112]Ok, I have to be in LA for about a week in a month. Never been there before.

I do have a subscription to seeking and secret benefits. I've had some success in my neck of the woods (WV and surrounding areas) over the years.

What I'm looking for is a chick to hang out one evening while I'm in LA, possibly overnight from like 8/9/10 to. Whenever in the morning. I've messaged a few off of seeking in the LA area, and they are all asking like 1 k and up for something like that, and frankly, some of them don't look anywhere close to 1 k hotness. I'm thinking more like 500-700'ish? I know the going rate is probably going to be much higher than I'm used to, just because of location.

I've read the forum, but I don't see much help. Anyone have any profiles from seeking or secret benefits they want to throw my way, I'd appreciate it. Feel free to DM. If you poke around on the Charleston WV / Lexington KY, Cincinnati OH forums, you can see I'm a decent contributor, and of course, if any of you ever end up in my neck of the woods, I can reciprocate.[/QUOTE]$1 k is cheap for LA overnight.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6403301]I realize this isn't strictly a sugar question, but a few of us here are definitely older, I hope I might tap into elder knowledge. I am looking for a discreet way to get generic sildenafil. I have a SO, so there can't be any record at all of this. No mail order, no nothing. I had a very accommodating urologist who was selling bottles of it right out of his office, not via a scrip. However, he joined a large bureaucratic hospital, so that gravy train is gone. IK there are veterinary uses for sildenafil, I wondered if this provides a means to get some of it without a conventional prescription. Or if someone has a friendly neighborhood herbalist I could go to. Strictly cash on the barrelhead, no names, and no questions asked.

I do have a guy in OC I have been getting such stuff from in the past, however, he gets it from India, and my sense it that it is less reliable than the real 'good' stuff that you can get from a proper medical professional. You really want to be able to rely on your pills in the sugar game.

I'll take answers here or via PM.[/QUOTE]Open up a mailbox at local UPS / PostAnnex etc, go to ForHims and ship the ED meds of your choice to your mailbox. Done. About the easiest discreet transaction in our hobby.

[QUOTE=Citrus1999;6406902]Open up a mailbox at local UPS / PostAnnex etc, go to ForHims and ship the ED meds of your choice to your mailbox. Done. About the easiest discreet transaction in our hobby.[/QUOTE]Yeh, non-starter. I had a mail drop a long long time ago. They want your real identity and your contact information. And I doubt they accept payment in untraceable cash. What do you think would happen if my SO found out I had a mail drop? What do you think she would think that was about? This is about the same as a burner phone. If the SO ever saw mine, it would be game over. That is why I never never have it at my home.

So this chick says that she's "in the medical field." She'll tell you feel like it's true love, you're perfect, blah blah blah.

She makes it seem exclusive, but buyer beware, you'll get chewed up and spit out after spending several K on gifts.

And a monthly allowance. Seriously pricey.

You might work something out exclusive, but create another SA profile and check her out, fishing for her next (or concurrent).

Sushi.

She's cute, but not worth several K monthly or weekly, and is constantly live on SA.

You've been warned.

FCed w / the girl I mentioned earlier. A key thing I left out. She mentioned at the M&G she is adopted. This is a gold mine, you should really thank your lucky stars if you find this. I am close to many mental health professionals. They tell me they can help / treat people w / all sorts of afflictions, but that one of the most intractable situations is those who have been adopted. Folks have great difficulty getting over that in their lives. And I think this applies particularly to adopted girls on sugar dating sites.

For my SB, I would definitely say that is the case. As I mentioned, she has a kink for the age difference (young / old), and in the FC, she was all about calling me daddy. I got into it w / her, afterward she texts 'thank you daddy'. I can see this dynamic persisting. If I want to continue. Yesterday was a good setup, I was quite a ways from home base, the room was cheap, little risk to me. The girls is a bit pudgy as I mentioned, but that 23 year old skin is special. Pretty face, nice mouth / teeth, loves loves loves to kiss. She did get into it, and get off, though she wasn't that easy. Nothing remarkable sexually, but a solid performance. Probably doesn't meet my 'all about fucking high quality pussy' criteria though. I have to wait another couple of weeks for my businesswoman to return.

You can buy from Canadian pharmacies and have it shipped to your office. My prescriptions are sent to my office in plain packaging. Other than the pharmacy name on the outside, there is no indication as to what medication is inside.

[QUOTE=Citrus1999;6406902]Open up a mailbox at local UPS / PostAnnex etc, go to ForHims and ship the ED meds of your choice to your mailbox. Done. About the easiest discreet transaction in our hobby.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Drooo;6408647]You can buy from Canadian pharmacies and have it shipped to your office. My prescriptions are sent to my office in plain packaging. Other than the pharmacy name on the outside, there is no indication as to what medication is inside.[/QUOTE]Canadian pharmacies accept prepaid debit cards? That is essential for me. Electronic cash. No way I can have any charges from a pharmacy on my credit card. That sort of paper trail is a clear violation of operational security for the hitched.

Still in London for another 2 months, but have to say I've had waaaay better luck out here than I did in LA. Still have a few that I can fall back on when I get back, but the quality of girls has been huge difference. I suppose I'm paying for it, at $5 whereas back in LA I was seeing regulars at $4, but definitely not as GPS as it has been.

Suppose to see this one next week. She had me buy some lingerie for her, but it's mailed to my flat so if she doesn't show up, fuck it, return it anyways. If she ghosts me, at least I have 3 other chicks here, all petite and smoking.