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[QUOTE=Moogiebar;5109730]Hey fellas, I am really new to the SDSB scene. Any help is appreciated.
I am communicating with 3 young and 2 older:
Young ones are:
H_Hazal.
Marybear979.
Yourfavoritefriend.
Mature ones are:
Afriendforgrace.
Jojosex89.
Thank you in advance.[/QUOTE]H_Hazal was flaked with me, three times tried to make meet work, 3 times she flaked.
Yourfavoritefriend is gtg.
[QUOTE=Whaler;5110927]Thanks for the info. Been talking to her a lot but have not seen her right now because of covid. She did tell me she got some new tits so they might be good to see.[/QUOTE]I have been talking to her as well. She texted me out of the blue and sent a picture. She calls herself Bianca. She said she has a new set of boobs and do I want to come and play with them. She says she is still on pain meds and is not acting completely sane. Then this morning I get a text to come right on over and f. Her. So it looks like she is ready for some action.
[QUOTE=Henry777;5110604]Just wondering if anybody has ever done a monthly allowance. I am trying to figure out the gotchas.
Having done it around the holidays, it seems there are some pitfalls. I would love to share stories and suggestions and tips.[/QUOTE]Tried twice. Both times I got fucked over. Never again.
[QUOTE=BigBlank69;5113253]Tried twice. Both times I got fucked over. Never again.[/QUOTE]I agree with you 100%. I would not pay a penny ahead of time. It's gone for good, no matter how nice they are. That's how money works unfortunately, nothing to do with loyalty or honesty. Never ever front the money.
[QUOTE=Henry777;5110604]Just wondering if anybody has ever done a monthly allowance. I am trying to figure out the gotchas.
Having done it around the holidays, it seems there are some pitfalls. I would love to share stories and suggestions and tips.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BigBlank69;5113253]Tried twice. Both times I got fucked over. Never again.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Sababaes;5114366]I agree with you 100%. I would not pay a penny ahead of time. It's gone for good, no matter how nice they are. That's how money works unfortunately, nothing to do with loyalty or honesty. Never ever front the money.[/QUOTE]These "monthly allowance" providers are similar to a fucking Time Share.
They just keep selling and selling.
No telling how many johns dolling out $$ to them.
Never available when you want to "use" them.
Always wanting additional fees for this or that.
Much better off to rent pussy by the hour.
As I've said numerous times, "Never give them a fucking cent until your dick is crammed up their pussy, or rammed down their throat".
My tried and true method has never failed.
Be safe and keep hunting,.
JamesJ.
I'd been talking on and off with her for several months. First she gave me her kik which she rarely looked at, then snap.
We had a meet set up for this afternoon. She doesn't have a car, so it had to be in a park near her house. She tells me shortly before that she doesn't expect anything to happen today.
Not wanting to waste any more time, I bring up the allowance. She'd like $1,000 per month meeting 2-3 times.
Long story short, she wouldn't agree to a ppm less than $500. I offered 350 for 3 times a month to get to the $1000 she's wanting. Then I think she blocked me on snap.
It's a shame. With a little common sense she could have what she wants. It's also too difficult getting something set up to warrant any more time. Maybe someone else has had better luck.
[QUOTE=Henry777;5110604]Just wondering if anybody has ever done a monthly allowance. I am trying to figure out the gotchas.
Having done it around the holidays, it seems there are some pitfalls. I would love to share stories and suggestions and tips.[/QUOTE]It worked a couple different times for me for a few months. Both times they started wanting more and more, and not just money. Don't do it.
Some / most of you guys are married. And need discretion. So you may prefer KIK and Snap and other apps. I will not waste my time with them. I ask them to download a free texting app. I will not waste time with them if they will not give out a number to text. 99% percent of the time if they will only Kik, Snap or no real number to text and exchange pic's it ends up being a dead end and waste of time for me. This month (joined 11/30) has been amazing!
[QUOTE=Banker89;5114483]I'd been talking on and off with her for several months. First she gave me her kik which she rarely looked at, then snap.
We had a meet set up for this afternoon. She doesn't have a car, so it had to be in a park near her house. She tells me shortly before that she doesn't expect anything to happen today.
Not wanting to waste any more time, I bring up the allowance. She'd like $1,000 per month meeting 2-3 times.
Long story short, she wouldn't agree to a ppm less than $500. I offered 350 for 3 times a month to get to the $1000 she's wanting. Then I think she blocked me on snap.
It's a shame. With a little common sense she could have what she wants. It's also too difficult getting something set up to warrant any more time. Maybe someone else has had better luck.[/QUOTE]
I don't know about anyone else, but I would not recommend babyyykaykayy. Trust me, you don't want to draw her problem to YOUR problem.
[QUOTE=ChrisHansen92;5114652]Some / most of you guys are married. And need discretion. So you may prefer KIK and Snap and other apps. I will not waste my time with them. I ask them to download a free texting app. I will not waste time with them if they will not give out a number to text. 99% percent of the time if they will only Kik, Snap or no real number to text and exchange pic's it ends up being a dead end and waste of time for me. This month (joined 11/30) has been amazing![/QUOTE]I agree Chris. Looking back. I cannot remember an SA date every working out on Snap or Kik. When you get their number direct or intermediary texting app. That is your best chance of success!!
Would love to hear about some of your recent successes. Now the hunting is good because the girls want spending money for the holiday snd tuition bills are showing up for next semester!
Thank you for the feedback. The good news is that supposedly you can see the girl whenever you want to. The bad is that if for whatever reason, you miss a week or a visit (say you kind of had an approximate number per month), once that is missed pretty soon the next month comes up and they are real clear they want the money on the first of the month. So then you never get caught up. Maybe you do get caught up if you take a trip with them somewhere.
It seems unbelievable, we have some of the most experienced SA SD here on the site and NOBODY it seems has done a lasting monthly allowance? Yet that is all the SA site seems to talk about. They highly discourage you talking ppm to the girls or them talking ppm to you.
DO you guys negotiate or talk about what happens if there are visits that are missed? How are these made up? And what happens is you say have 3 meetings set up for the month and get into some disagreement after the first meeting. Do you guys negotiate that they owe you the remainder?
There has to be somebody doing a monthly and has worked it out?
[QUOTE=Henry777;5116534]Thank you for the feedback. The good news is that supposedly you can see the girl whenever you want to. The bad is that if for whatever reason, you miss a week or a visit (say you kind of had an approximate number per month), once that is missed pretty soon the next month comes up and they are real clear they want the money on the first of the month. So then you never get caught up. Maybe you do get caught up if you take a trip with them somewhere.
It seems unbelievable, we have some of the most experienced SA SD here on the site and NOBODY it seems has done a lasting monthly allowance? Yet that is all the SA site seems to talk about. They highly discourage you talking ppm to the girls or them talking ppm to you.
DO you guys negotiate or talk about what happens if there are visits that are missed? How are these made up? And what happens is you say have 3 meetings set up for the month and get into some disagreement after the first meeting. Do you guys negotiate that they owe you the remainder?
There has to be somebody doing a monthly and has worked it out?[/QUOTE]I have successfully done monthly allowance in a relationship where we really connect with each other. When I feel she is eager to be with me and perhaps make up any lost days. Or has no problem when we have extra days. An allowance provides security in the form of predictably. She can budget for it and so can I. I prefer this as it effectively takes money out of the equation as something on our minds when we are together. The difficulty is often related to the unexpected. If you are strapped for the cash an allowance may not be for you. If it is a small thing for the ledger to be out of balance. And she is worth it. An allowance can elevate a relationship.
You listed several reasons without your post for why it's not a good idea, and those are likely the reasons many folks have not or will not do the monthly allowance. You've described several situations where the person giving the allowance is likely to take a loss, and most types of remediation or recourse available aren't wise. Ten people could get on here and tell me ten different experiences with monthly allowances that worked out great, but I still wouldn't be interested. I know there are rare circumstances where some men make some deposits to see some women, but generally it's accepted that this is a scam or bad idea. A monthly allowance is a deposit, and likewise probably a bad idea.
[QUOTE=Henry777;5116534]Thank you for the feedback. The good news is that supposedly you can see the girl whenever you want to. The bad is that if for whatever reason, you miss a week or a visit (say you kind of had an approximate number per month), once that is missed pretty soon the next month comes up and they are real clear they want the money on the first of the month. So then you never get caught up. Maybe you do get caught up if you take a trip with them somewhere.
It seems unbelievable, we have some of the most experienced SA SD here on the site and NOBODY it seems has done a lasting monthly allowance? Yet that is all the SA site seems to talk about. They highly discourage you talking ppm to the girls or them talking ppm to you.
DO you guys negotiate or talk about what happens if there are visits that are missed? How are these made up? And what happens is you say have 3 meetings set up for the month and get into some disagreement after the first meeting. Do you guys negotiate that they owe you the remainder?
There has to be somebody doing a monthly and has worked it out?[/QUOTE]
The SA site has useless information and blogs. It is simply used to tempt / encourage women to join. It fills their heads that it's going to be a Pretty Woman type fantasy relationship and they are not really prostitutes. It tells to fill out their Gift Wishlist's. Most of us are not real Sugar Daddy's (myself included), we chose a different venue to find women that want to make money and provide sex to earn it. I know the difference between young college sorority girl doing this for the first time vs a beat up junkie with a pimp staying in a filthy notel and you are the 8th customer that day. That's why we pay to be on the site. I do not prepay at a fine restaurant nor do I on Seeking. There is no financial incentive to do this. You have lost any leverage and control of the arrangement if you do this. Would they see you a full month providing you pleasure waiting to be paid at the end of the month? Nope. Any girls that start with a weekly / monthly number I break it down into meetings / dates / sex. I simply tell them I agree to that allowance but would like to pay them each get together at first until trust is established. To date that absolute "trust" has never been established for me.
You asked about sharing some recent success. Most I keep to myself for obvious reasons like many others on here do. If you read my previous posts I have shared a few good leads. If you have good solid information and details to exchange you can always DM me.
[QUOTE=Henry777;5116534]Thank you for the feedback. The good news is that supposedly you can see the girl whenever you want to. The bad is that if for whatever reason, you miss a week or a visit (say you kind of had an approximate number per month), once that is missed pretty soon the next month comes up and they are real clear they want the money on the first of the month. So then you never get caught up. Maybe you do get caught up if you take a trip with them somewhere.
It seems unbelievable, we have some of the most experienced SA SD here on the site and NOBODY it seems has done a lasting monthly allowance? Yet that is all the SA site seems to talk about. They highly discourage you talking ppm to the girls or them talking ppm to you.
DO you guys negotiate or talk about what happens if there are visits that are missed? How are these made up? And what happens is you say have 3 meetings set up for the month and get into some disagreement after the first meeting. Do you guys negotiate that they owe you the remainder?
There has to be somebody doing a monthly and has worked it out?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Henry777;5116534]Thank you for the feedback. The good news is that supposedly you can see the girl whenever you want to. The bad is that if for whatever reason, you miss a week or a visit (say you kind of had an approximate number per month), once that is missed pretty soon the next month comes up and they are real clear they want the money on the first of the month. So then you never get caught up. Maybe you do get caught up if you take a trip with them somewhere.
It seems unbelievable, we have some of the most experienced SA SD here on the site and NOBODY it seems has done a lasting monthly allowance? Yet that is all the SA site seems to talk about. They highly discourage you talking ppm to the girls or them talking ppm to you.
DO you guys negotiate or talk about what happens if there are visits that are missed? How are these made up? And what happens is you say have 3 meetings set up for the month and get into some disagreement after the first meeting. Do you guys negotiate that they owe you the remainder?
There has to be somebody doing a monthly and has worked it out?[/QUOTE]Here's my experience:
It doesn't generally work when you start out monthly instead of PPM. You need to know how you're going to get along, the idea is it's going to last for some time, certainly more than a month. How many times have you been with someone, and by the fourth meeting you're regretting it or want to move on? Like anything, once they have the money up front the enthusiasm on their part tends to decline, that's reflected in the girl proactively trying to schedule a meeting, or scheduling in general. Also, it's reflected in the enthusiasm when you're together. If you're doing a monthly from the beginning, my suggestion is plan on 2 meets a month for a $ that you feel is very reasonable. You can always increase the monthly if you're happy, it's really hard to decrease the monthly. It's like a retainer for consulting work. You provide a client a reduced hourly rate for a guarantee of a set monthly amount. If you charge $200 an hour, you charge $150 an hour for a guarantee of 30 hours a month for example. If you agree on $300 a meet, it should be something like $1,000 a month for 4 times a month.
It works when you've test driven the car before you buy it. I always say I'm open to monthly, but start with PPM. I've had one monthly that lasted two years, and we eventually became "vanilla" meaning we met without any compensation, and still meet several years later, because we are into each other. We don't meet as often, but we're true FWB. The problem with monthly is there are delusional women who believe "someone will take care of me" meaning they'll get thousands a month and not have to work. This is all supply and demand. There are hundreds of women who want monthly amounts that are far above what the market will bear, there are very few men who find them attractive or special enough, and they have enough money that they can send them thousands a month. The younger they are, the more they're completely disconnected from reality. I have a saying, every year there's a new crop of 21 year olds. Nothing special about your pussy, there's millions more just like it.