Challenge accepted brethren
[QUOTE=Jdb1911;3549697]Don't waste your time. Sa is not a site for the chase. As these chicks want an allowance per meet. She prob has an end game. Meaning she will eventually fuck you after you give her X amount. I don't care how beautiful she is just walk away.
I made that mistake with this one pretty Latina. I found myself liking her and no sex or even more than tit sucking. It was like 8th grade all over again. I finally brought it up to her because we discussed sex and she said she was down but she kept stringing me along.
I finally just walked away cut my losses and I couldn't be happier.[/QUOTE]Thinking was, at least a m&g then put it out there with a wording that does not make her feel like she's 'stooping' to the level of a 'pro'. Just for fun's sake, to see if my game was capable. What you experienced would frustrate me I am sure and no I don't find any interest in going that route. If things go as I hope, after things are on the table, I will be expecting them to actually pursue and make things happen, but in a natural kind of way. The idea of drinks and a meal, some walking around and having some fun while interacting will be part of a whole that includes the FC as well. Their pursuit of the FC, when the moment is well enough, without me having to ask will be required for me to participate fully as well. That goes for this particular girl or any others. Chemistry has to be there. - Also, I have a history of employment in the adult entertainment industry, so I see game well enough, no chance I'm letting her string me along. She's not a 8, 9 or 10 in looks alone. Very close to an 8. But she's my type. From her profile I can tell she comes from a background with means and she is going to end up okay in life as she ages.
[QUOTE=JohnnyTheWad;3549791]Datsa fack Jack. When I read no sex I just hit NEXT.[/QUOTE]Maybe I can provide some redirection. That in itself is fun to me. What woman abstains from sex? None, they want it and like it as much or more than us. I think she may just want to be approached with some tact is all. Further down she did criticize other guys's approach and agreed there must be a mutual attraction for it to work. I think it's on the table, just not stated so directly. Everything is negotiable until it is not and right now it's still open.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3549414]Well I think unless you post a link to a profile there's not much there to go on. A link posted and someone could have told you if she was a waste of time (sticking to her guns) or was actually obtainable. She pretty much told you she wasn't interested in anything sexual and I didn't read anything there where she seemed to waiver. If you haven't heard anything from her in 4 days then your probably not going to. Most keep in touch if they find something that is interesting to them. As far as thinking she is new who actually know because no profile link. There was some intelligent conversation back and forth or by the voices in your head. You might actually do a m / g and walk away with an arrangement, or a friend, stranger things have happened but the odds are against you.[/QUOTE]Not posting a link on this one. Not you specifically, but who knows where that could end up? - Trust me she's new. Here's where, like you, I did not see her 'waiver' so to say, but she did see and agree to a response that included something to the effect of, 'no snapping fingers to get FC, no snapping of fingers to get $ on a platter either'. She mentioned it as if the guys she has been speaking to thus far were just proposing it in a not so tactical way. It seems to me they had been proposing her attention as if she were a pro. I'm going a different approach. First I put her on the defensive, sounding affected by her presumption that all I wanted was the booty and that I may not even be interested myself. It would require a m&g to even get to that point. She apologized. I told her forget about it, I understand where she's coming from while telling her where I would be coming from as well with that same thing in mind. (This is where I see, not a total and complete waiver, but, there's a little waiver there I think.) She says she believes we are on the same page and she's interested in meeting. She stated an interest in meeting twice following. - The ball has been left in my court to contact her since this time. She's not the type to chase initially. She chased more than she would have liked already I think by mentioning twice wanting to meet up. I think it's worth a m&g if for nothing else than for me to gain some experience and live to tell about it.
Initially and still partly so I am in agreement with all of you. Maybe I am reading too much into it, maybe it's voices inside my head or maybe this is a lady that just wants her sb cherry popped by the right guy. Who am I not to give her what she wants? LOL We'll see. I had decided yesterday I would not even reply to her any more, but for the sake of this discussion I will give it a go and follow up. I may have waited too long to reply again, but it has been a very busy week for me as I told her it would be. If it's not going to click, thankfully there is a list of a dozen I've been texting with which to see about.
One in the hand is better than.
Two in the bushes. I've ended up with two in the hand and keeping the abstainer in the bushes for the time being. We've texted briefly a bit and she's interested in a m&g, but it's slow going.
Met with and closed the deal with one 20 yr old and one 21 yr old. Costs will be < $ per visit. They're happy about it. I'm happy about it.
Used much information within this thread to make it happen.
Many thanks folks.
Alternative ways to find SBs
I am not a SA member right now and don't really plan to go back on, so am trying some other ways to find them. Searching on CL for girls selling their panties, I have been contacting them and saying I was interested, but also that they ought to consider the sugar bowl. I don't waste time on a girl who is only interested in mailing them to you. Anyone else have experience with this, or pointers? I do have some replies so far, but haven't gotten any to agree to meet. I have a couple of fish on the line I am trying to reel in who posted looking for modeling gigs, or just posted for a job, w / a hot photo. That is in the resumes section of CL.
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