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Do any of you guys even upload this? This seems like to much energy and ID rather be as anonymous as possible.
To avoid getting too personally connected. I'm new to the SD scene but, I'm factoring.
Whether this avenue is worth it.
It just seems like dating which, I'm actually very good at hooking up for free. I prefer.
To pay to avoid the girl feeling bad since I typically want only sex.
[QUOTE=SeanTime53;6352082]Experienced the same problem with multiple prepaid failed attempts. Would love to hear what the new anonymous payment methods are.[/QUOTE]Here's 33% off code for you guys VWO33 RBELT1.
I'm having a hard time finding the OneVanilla cards. Still hunting for one. Been looking at CVS / Riteaid and they only have Vanilla in stock (they don't work).
While I've tried sugaring and hooking up in all kinds of platforms, I would have to say that the biggest wastes of time are mainstream dating platforms.
Plenty of fish's search engine forces 50-60 year old divorced and knocked up goblins upon you, even when you refine the search for fresh 18-25 year old. When I emailed their help center regarding this, they said that they only allow people to date within their age group. GTFOH with that woke garbage.
There's moments where life just gifts you one. Currently met with ab Asian woman from Canada, ppm is minimal for someone as attractive as she is and you just got to assume there's something. Met a few times as she's only been here for a week but man she's got a vacuum for a mouth and a great bubble butt. SA can genuinely be giving I'd you're persistent, I've had my fair pf really good situations with little to no financial benefit.
Curious what that runs you ppm and how often?
[QUOTE=Dsteezy;6355916]There's moments where life just gifts you one. Currently met with ab Asian woman from Canada, ppm is minimal for someone as attractive as she is and you just got to assume there's something. Met a few times as she's only been here for a week but man she's got a vacuum for a mouth and a great bubble butt. SA can genuinely be giving I'd you're persistent, I've had my fair pf really good situations with little to no financial benefit.[/QUOTE].
[QUOTE=Citrus1999;6354164]Here's 33% off code for you guys VWO33 RBELT1.
I'm having a hard time finding the OneVanilla cards. Still hunting for one. Been looking at CVS / Riteaid and they only have Vanilla in stock (they don't work).[/QUOTE]I've been using the Serve cards and they work fine. The last Vanilla card I used last year was shit. I called and they told me it's because they don't process "escort sites".
[QUOTE=FirstClass1;6354527]While I've tried sugaring and hooking up in all kinds of platforms, I would have to say that the biggest wastes of time are mainstream dating platforms.
Plenty of fish's search engine forces 50-60 year old divorced and knocked up goblins upon you, even when you refine the search for fresh 18-25 year old. When I emailed their help center regarding this, they said that they only allow people to date within their age group. GTFOH with that woke garbage.[/QUOTE]The only way (not that's its worth your time) to meet 18-25 is to use a much lower fake age and then tell the girl your real age once messaging. They can tell from your pic you are not 27. Met a few girls on there but they were all pretty ratchet.
[QUOTE=SugaFoot;6356012]I've been using the Serve cards and they work fine. The last Vanilla card I used last year was shit. I called and they told me it's because they don't process "escort sites".[/QUOTE]That's surprising. Aren't Serve cards Amex? I was under the impression seeking didn't take Amex. Or rather that Amex won't process charges to seeking.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6356298]That's surprising. Aren't Serve cards Amex? I was under the impression seeking didn't take Amex. Or rather that Amex won't process charges to seeking.[/QUOTE]SA takes AX just fine. I have no problem with it.
[QUOTE=AGuyInSocal;6355978]Curious what that runs you ppm and how often?
.[/QUOTE]Honestly it's always depending. When I first started I went through phases where I shelled out a ton and I've had dates / experiences where there was no exchange. Have had some relationships where there wasn't any monetary exchange.
Currently it really just depends on the persons situation and my relationship with them but usually after drinks / dinner and some time alone I just provide them with 2-3. Only once did they make a big deal about it as we never discussed it before our date. While there have been times were there's no communication after I'd say 50-60% of the time I would see them for a few more months.
At the moment I have a spinner middle eastern / European 5'2 SB now lives with me 3-4 days of the week where we started off traditionally me providing support. She ended up getting a job where she had to split time in Cali and HTX. We got along well enough where she now stays in one of my extra bedrooms and we still fuck every night she's here.
But because of my relationship with her I lost out on another SB who wanted to date more traditionally but her "demands" were that my "friend / old SB who lives with me, had to move out. Tough too because she looked like Charly Jordan and so I had to cut it off and ended up going back on to test my luck.
The Asian girl I'm currently seeing only wanted 150 after we had some drinks and food. Which is surprising considering most Asian woman on the site are the typically some of the most demanding. I'll ride this out for as long as possible because she's easily one of the more attractive women I've met with on the site.
I don't see this any differently than my experiences in Tinder / Bumble / Hinge which I still use. Only difference is even if you're attractive, on those sites you have more competition. SA you're not competing with much.
[QUOTE=Dsteezy;6357858]Honestly it's always depending. When I first started I went through phases where I shelled out a ton and I've had dates / experiences where there was no exchange. Have had some relationships where there wasn't any monetary exchange.
Currently it really just depends on the persons situation and my relationship with them but usually after drinks / dinner and some time alone I just provide them with 2-3. Only once did they make a big deal about it as we never discussed it before our date. While there have been times were there's no communication after I'd say 50-60% of the time I would see them for a few more months.
At the moment I have a spinner middle eastern / European 5'2 SB now lives with me 3-4 days of the week where we started off traditionally me providing support. She ended up getting a job where she had to split time in Cali and HTX. We got along well enough where she now stays in one of my extra bedrooms and we still fuck every night she's here.
But because of my relationship with her I lost out on another SB who wanted to date more traditionally but her "demands" were that my "friend / old SB who lives with me, had to move out. Tough too because she looked like Charly Jordan and so I had to cut it off and ended up going back on to test my luck.
The Asian girl I'm currently seeing only wanted 150 after we had some drinks and food. Which is surprising considering most Asian woman on the site are the typically some of the most demanding. I'll ride this out for as long as possible because she's easily one of the more attractive women I've met with on the site.
I don't see this any differently than my experiences in Tinder / Bumble / Hinge which I still use. Only difference is even if you're attractive, on those sites you have more competition. SA you're not competing with much.[/QUOTE]I definitely agree to this. I am fairly good looking and 80% of the girls who I meet on date make out with me and say. No discussion on money. Just food and I go give them gas money if they come from far, out of my will completely. When I started I shelled out money everytime. Now I have couple of girls regular, means meeting almost everyday, more like a friend, no money discussed. Actually, I am at point, that it's enough for me. Very interesting.
All I can say invest time in yourself and approach girls confidently, it's a game changer. Also, treat them respectfully, I mean not all girls you can have invest some time and learn how to catch that kind of fish.
2 wks into work in London and I've got 2 SB's that are smoking hot. Best I've had compared to what I've had in LA. Pricey, as they're 500 compared to the $ so kinda killer on that, but smoking hot New Zealander and Swedish British girl. Quality here is insane.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6356298]That's surprising. Aren't Serve cards Amex? I was under the impression seeking didn't take Amex. Or rather that Amex won't process charges to seeking.[/QUOTE]Serve has both, I've used Visa and AM just fine. The current sub is under an AX card.
[QUOTE=Dsteezy;6357858]Honestly it's always depending. When I first started I went through phases where I shelled out a ton and I've had dates / experiences where there was no exchange. Have had some relationships where there wasn't any monetary exchange.
Currently it really just depends on the persons situation and my relationship with them but usually after drinks / dinner and some time alone I just provide them with 2-3. Only once did they make a big deal about it as we never discussed it before our date. While there have been times were there's no communication after I'd say 50-60% of the time I would see them for a few more months.
At the moment I have a spinner middle eastern / European 5'2 SB now lives with me 3-4 days of the week where we started off traditionally me providing support. She ended up getting a job where she had to split time in Cali and HTX. We got along well enough where she now stays in one of my extra bedrooms and we still fuck every night she's here.
But because of my relationship with her I lost out on another SB who wanted to date more traditionally but her "demands" were that my "friend / old SB who lives with me, had to move out. Tough too because she looked like Charly Jordan and so I had to cut it off and ended up going back on to test my luck.
The Asian girl I'm currently seeing only wanted 150 after we had some drinks and food. Which is surprising considering most Asian woman on the site are the typically some of the most demanding. I'll ride this out for as long as possible because she's easily one of the more attractive women I've met with on the site.
I don't see this any differently than my experiences in Tinder / Bumble / Hinge which I still use. Only difference is even if you're attractive, on those sites you have more competition. SA you're not competing with much.[/QUOTE]I don't shell out a lot, but when you are close to 70 and only date 18-22 you will be expected to spend some money. I have a civi GF rn that is 22 and I probably spend the same on her as a SB. Met her on tiktok. Which btw has a shit ton of SB's (and escorts, street hoes, and every other type of pay to play girl) or just girls looking for older guys that they know will spend more than a 25 y.o.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6359668]I don't shell out a lot, but when you are close to 70 and only date 18-22 you will be expected to spend some money. I have a civi GF rn that is 22 and I probably spend the same on her as a SB. Met her on tiktok. Which btw has a shit ton of SB's (and escorts, street hoes, and every other type of pay to play girl) or just girls looking for older guys that they know will spend more than a 25 y.o.[/QUOTE]Been hearing a lot about tik tok girls. Is there a certain term to search or approach to this?
I've tried looking for SBs on TikTok and haven't been able to locate any.
[QUOTE=ChefSolo;6359894]Been hearing a lot about tik tok girls. Is there a certain term to search or approach to this?
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[QUOTE=Drooo;6360119]I've tried looking for SBs on TikTok and haven't been able to locate any.[/QUOTE]Make a profile that has a leading user name. Like LosAngelesDaddy or not. Then just start scrolling the videos that hit your FYP. Once you see a girl that is your type, follow her and like maybe 3 of her videos. Leave a brief comment like you look amazing or love your outfit. Try to leave your comments on posts that have as few comments as possible so it gets noticed.
Only follow girls that are right in your demographic. Do this until you are following at least 100 girls. BTW you do not need to leave any content of your own. At the bottom of most of the videos you will see a hashtag # that will say something like #asiangirls or #yogagirls or #prettyblackgirls. Search that and find some more girls in your demographic.
At this point tiktok will recognize your preferences and start delivering more similar content to your FYP. If you get sidetracked and start watching a lot of videos about politics or food you will also start seeing more of those videos. Have a real pic or at least one that shows you are older.
Girls will start to follow you back. You can only DM girls that follow you back. Never ask a girl to follow you, this is considered lame. You can add some text to your profile that may give a hint of your intentions. Just add a little. Sometimes random people will leave a comment on your comment. Never reply to those. In fact I don't even read mine (unless it is the creator). But if it is a hot girl I will start to like a few more of her videos. But never like more than 3 at a time. Doing that is like love bombing and also considered simping. Which may or may not work for you. I advise against it.
If a girl really wants to talk to you she will follow you and then DM you. Or you can DM her once she starts following. Also you will get a ton of bots and scammers following you even if you have no content posted. Remove all the followers that do not meet your demographic. Mostly the DM's will start out very brief like hi or how are you or where are you located. Then just go from there.
The girl I am seeing now and who is officially my GF lives in another state. I flew her in for a 3 day weekend after about 2 months of txting and some facetime. It just happened to go really well. But she is in my demographic and we are a personality match on a deep level. I will be seeing her again later this month. This particular girl is not an SB (although she told me she has only dated older guys since she was 17). She has a good job and is still in school. She even offered to pay for her next ticket (which I declined). Aside from the ticket, some meals and a sexy outfit I got in advance on shein to fuck her in, no other money was spent.
One of the downsides is that many times they will not be in your area. But right now I am messaging with a girl in vegas. The investment in time is a lot. So if that's not on your agenda this will never work for you. Admittedly I got lucky, but i put in the work. I was not on there looking to meet girls but as I gained experience I could see the potential. Girls in the 18-28 range meet most of their dates on social media these days. So for them it is pretty natural. And I have turned down more than a few pro SB's as well. Mostly because they were not in my area.
[QUOTE=SugaFoot;6359412]Serve has both, I've used Visa and AM just fine. The current sub is under an AX card.[/QUOTE]To register a serve AmEx card is it necessary to provide a SS#, real name, etc. So one can use it at SA? If that was the case at least for me it wouldn't work since my SO is pretty nosy LOL and tech savvy. Hence why I always stuck with prepaid vanilla cards. But as we all know they don't work any more on SA.
I've been researching for the last couple weeks another alternative cards to use but not much info available unfortunately and I still have a one vanilla card that I purchased 6 months ago so upgrade my SA, so I don't want to purchase more if they aren't working on SA.
On a side note for whoever might be considering the route I wanted to take, which was using the android SA app and pay through google play. I think it's possible but don't do what I did, which was purchasing a good play card from target store and trying to put money on my google account just to find out that this A**holes won't load the card money into my google play account and they requested more info about my card and place of purchase, etc. Digging into the matter if appears like I've been scammed by google with their BS google card and nothing I can do about it. They said it would take months for their investigation blah blah blah.
So if anyone decides to use google play to pay SA membership Don't buy their cards its all a scam.
You sure about this?
There is a difference between Vanilla Visa and OneVanilla Visa. They both exist. I used One Vanilla for SA about 3 weeks ago for my current sun and it worked fine.
[QUOTE=Gto007;6360695]To register a serve AmEx card is it necessary to provide a SS#, real name, etc. So one can use it at SA? If that was the case at least for me it wouldn't work since my SO is pretty nosy LOL and tech savvy. Hence why I always stuck with prepaid vanilla cards. But as we all know they don't work any more on SA.
I've been researching for the last couple weeks another alternative cards to use but not much info available unfortunately and I still have a one vanilla card that I purchased 6 months ago so upgrade my SA, so I don't want to purchase more if they aren't working on SA.
On a side note for whoever might be considering the route I wanted to take, which was using the android SA app and pay through google play. I think it's possible but don't do what I did, which was purchasing a good play card from target store and trying to put money on my google account just to find out that this A**holes won't load the card money into my google play account and they requested more info about my card and place of purchase, etc. Digging into the matter if appears like I've been scammed by google with their BS google card and nothing I can do about it. They said it would take months for their investigation blah blah blah.
So if anyone decides to use google play to pay SA membership Don't buy their cards its all a scam.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Gto007;6360695]To register a serve AmEx card is it necessary to provide a SS#, real name, etc. So one can use it at SA? If that was the case at least for me it wouldn't work since my SO is pretty nosy LOL and tech savvy. Hence why I always stuck with prepaid vanilla cards. But as we all know they don't work any more on SA.
I've been researching for the last couple weeks another alternative cards to use but not much info available unfortunately and I still have a one vanilla card that I purchased 6 months ago so upgrade my SA, so I don't want to purchase more if they aren't working on SA.
On a side note for whoever might be considering the route I wanted to take, which was using the android SA app and pay through google play. I think it's possible but don't do what I did, which was purchasing a good play card from target store and trying to put money on my google account just to find out that this A**holes won't load the card money into my google play account and they requested more info about my card and place of purchase, etc. Digging into the matter if appears like I've been scammed by google with their BS google card and nothing I can do about it. They said it would take months for their investigation blah blah blah.
So if anyone decides to use google play to pay SA membership Don't buy their cards its all a scam.[/QUOTE]You don't have to register it. The only reason to do that is to reload which I never do. The website explains the benefits of reloading but it also says the card is ready to use soon as it's activated at purchase.
Have to ask a question and I can't believe I'm going to ask it.
Working on a cute 18 in LA. Girl says she's gotten burned before by showing up to a date and a guy not paying. So to make sure there's at least some money changing hands, she insists on sending cash via Cash app in exchange for photos and then wiling to meet.
This is obviously against my better judgment. I know the obvious answer is to not send anything before meeting. But it's only 50 bucks. My bigger concern is whether this is a front for some sort of insidious scam. Like this is the first part of a catphishing or something. I can lose the 50 bucks. But I don't want to end up on a newspaper.
Anyone know?
[QUOTE=Murrican;6364180]Have to ask a question and I can't believe I'm going to ask it.
Working on a cute 18 in LA. Girl says she's gotten burned before by showing up to a date and a guy not paying. So to make sure there's at least some money changing hands, she insists on sending cash via Cash app in exchange for photos and then wiling to meet.
This is obviously against my better judgment. I know the obvious answer is to not send anything before meeting. But it's only 50 bucks. My bigger concern is whether this is a front for some sort of insidious scam. Like this is the first part of a catphishing or something. I can lose the 50 bucks. But I don't want to end up on a newspaper.
Anyone know?[/QUOTE]If you have to ask, then it's a scam.
You will send her 'just' $50. No harm no foul if you lose that insignificant amount. And then she will move on to the next sappy guy, with the same sappy story. And before you know it, the simp army will have paid his / her rent for the month.
Please don't fall for this. Please!
[QUOTE=Murrican;6364180]Have to ask a question and I can't believe I'm going to ask it.
Working on a cute 18 in LA. Girl says she's gotten burned before by showing up to a date and a guy not paying. So to make sure there's at least some money changing hands, she insists on sending cash via Cash app in exchange for photos and then wiling to meet.
This is obviously against my better judgment. I know the obvious answer is to not send anything before meeting. But it's only 50 bucks. My bigger concern is whether this is a front for some sort of insidious scam. Like this is the first part of a catphishing or something. I can lose the 50 bucks. But I don't want to end up on a newspaper.
Anyone know?[/QUOTE]Jerk off then think about it again. Never send any money. It is a scam. Requires only messaging back and forth on their end to get money. I like to fuck with them and ask a bunch of questions to drag them along and promise to send money and then keep dragging it on. If they are ripping people off, the least you can do is waste their time.
Thank you for knocking some sense into me. Point taken. I just hit the abort button on that.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6364180]Have to ask a question and I can't believe I'm going to ask it.
Working on a cute 18 in LA. Girl says she's gotten burned before by showing up to a date and a guy not paying. So to make sure there's at least some money changing hands, she insists on sending cash via Cash app in exchange for photos and then wiling to meet.
This is obviously against my better judgment. I know the obvious answer is to not send anything before meeting. But it's only 50 bucks. My bigger concern is whether this is a front for some sort of insidious scam. Like this is the first part of a catphishing or something. I can lose the 50 bucks. But I don't want to end up on a newspaper.
Anyone know?[/QUOTE]Once every year or two I send some girl 50 just to re-remind myself that it's always a scam, and it always is.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6364576]Once every year or two I send some girl 50 just to re-remind myself that it's always a scam, and it always is.[/QUOTE]Yeah. That sounds right. This just can't be real. Thanks.
[QUOTE=KathmanDouche;6364379]....I like to fuck with them and ask a bunch of questions to drag them along and promise to send money and then keep dragging it on. If they are ripping people off, the least you can do is waste their time.[/QUOTE]I do the same thing and try to have fun with it. I'll tell them I sent it, and they get so excited. They'll text back maybe 10 minutes later asking if I sent it, and I'll pretend like I forgot, but 'promise' to send it right now, or fake like I did send it but sent it to the wrong person, oh no! I never send anything of course. I just stall, drag it out, delay, and lie to them when it comes to sending money.
I also block their profile before leading them on so that they don't report my profile out of revenge.
[QUOTE=Boobman76;6365557]I do the same thing and try to have fun with it. I'll tell them I sent it, and they get so excited. They'll text back maybe 10 minutes later asking if I sent it, and I'll pretend like I forgot, but 'promise' to send it right now, or fake like I did send it but sent it to the wrong person, oh no! I never send anything of course. I just stall, drag it out, delay, and lie to them when it comes to sending money.
I also block their profile before leading them on so that they don't report my profile out of revenge.[/QUOTE]I appreciate the feedback. But let me address your approach.
I don't think it's a good idea. Not for moral reasons, but purely strategic and logistical ones. Seeking is kind of the only game in town. There are other sites, but they are the poor man's version. Everything I have read about the site suggests that they play the roles of Judge, jury, and executioner clumsily and hastily. They cancel quickly, with limited info, and it's up to you to appeal. I've seen a response to an appeal letter posted by some guy, I think here, that says our decision is final, and we will not respond to any more emails. Done.
It's really in your best interest to part ways cordially when things don't work. You don't know these girls. You don't know that they're not going to email seeking some complaint. Because they are wired wrong and are vengeful people. It's just not worth it.
I did text that 18 year old by the way. I very nicely explained that I'm sure she's a wonderful person and I appreciate the discussion so far, but I'm just not comfortable sending cash to somebody I have not met, and I wish her all the best luck. I stand behind this approach.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6365715]I appreciate the feedback. But let me address your approach.
I don't think it's a good idea. Not for moral reasons, but purely strategic and logistical ones. Seeking is kind of the only game in town. There are other sites, but they are the poor man's version. Everything I have read about the site suggests that they play the roles of Judge, jury, and executioner clumsily and hastily. They cancel quickly, with limited info, and it's up to you to appeal. I've seen a response to an appeal letter posted by some guy, I think here, that says our decision is final, and we will not respond to any more emails. Done.
It's really in your best interest to part ways cordially when things don't work. You don't know these girls. You don't know that they're not going to email seeking some complaint. Because they are wired wrong and are vengeful people. It's just not worth it.
I did text that 18 year old by the way. I very nicely explained that I'm sure she's a wonderful person and I appreciate the discussion so far, but I'm just not comfortable sending cash to somebody I have not met, and I wish her all the best luck. I stand behind this approach.[/QUOTE]If you want to entice a girl, here is a way to do it with less risk of $ and zero risk of exposure, such as via CashApp. Just get a gift card of some sort and take a photo of it w / your burner phone. A $20 Starbucks card 'proves' you are real as much as $50. If this isn't something she will agree to, it shows she is a scammer not a serious SB.
[QUOTE=Boobman76;6365557]I do the same thing and try to have fun with it. I'll tell them I sent it, and they get so excited. They'll text back maybe 10 minutes later asking if I sent it, and I'll pretend like I forgot, but 'promise' to send it right now, or fake like I did send it but sent it to the wrong person, oh no! I never send anything of course. I just stall, drag it out, delay, and lie to them when it comes to sending money.
I also block their profile before leading them on so that they don't report my profile out of revenge.[/QUOTE]Wouldn't your time be better spent looking for some good pussy? Never let any girl press your buttons. For me anything that isn't getting me closer to cash, pussy, a great meal or enriching my mind just isn't worth my time.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6366079]Wouldn't your time be better spent looking for some good pussy? Never let any girl press your buttons. For me anything that isn't getting me closer to cash, pussy, a great meal or enriching my mind just isn't worth my time.[/QUOTE]They aren't pressing my buttons. I'm just having some fun with the scammers is all. A few texts during my work day is all the time it takes.
[QUOTE=Boobman76;6366793]They aren't pressing my buttons. I'm just having some fun with the scammers is all. A few texts during my work day is all the time it takes.[/QUOTE]I had a scammer today. Just blocked her as soon as I realized she was FOS.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6366799]I had a scammer today. Just blocked her as soon as I realized she was FOS.[/QUOTE]I like how you handled that. It seems we both do what works best for ourselves.
Don't you just love the ones that view you, favorite you and message you?
[QUOTE=SugaFoot;6359412]Serve has both, I've used Visa and AM just fine. The current sub is under an AX card.[/QUOTE]So what cards work for SA? Vanilla was not working for me in November.
[QUOTE=OppLife28;6369298]So what cards work for SA? Vanilla was not working for me in November.[/QUOTE]I read that Serve Amex does but I have not tried it myself.
I need brainstorms about discrete ways to get my phone back. I was in Vegas and had a date w / a girl. I found after that I didn't have my burner phone. Initially she said she looked for it in her car without success, after I get back to OC, she texts me that she cleaned out her car and found it. She offered to mail it to me, I said that wasn't really going to work, as my SO would wonder about this thing appearing in our mail. I would like brilliant ideas for how I could get it sent to me without giving up my real name / address to her. I used to have mailbox rentals, I guess those still exist, but I haven't had one in a long time, and there is cost to that, as well as risk of discovery. The fact that I had a mail drop would be *hugely* suspicious to the SO.
I could replace the phone, but it would be better to have the SIM card out of the old one, I use TracFone, I love the service, it is ideal for my use.
Hey, HG, perhaps you could be my courier? You go from Vegas to LA, right? LOL.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6371637]I need brainstorms about discrete ways to get my phone back. I was in Vegas and had a date w / a girl. I found after that I didn't have my burner phone. Initially she said she looked for it in her car without success, after I get back to OC, she texts me that she cleaned out her car and found it. She offered to mail it to me, I said that wasn't really going to work, as my SO would wonder about this thing appearing in our mail. I would like brilliant ideas for how I could get it sent to me without giving up my real name / address to her. I used to have mailbox rentals, I guess those still exist, but I haven't had one in a long time, and there is cost to that, as well as risk of discovery. The fact that I had a mail drop would be *hugely* suspicious to the SO.
I could replace the phone, but it would be better to have the SIM card out of the old one, I use TracFone, I love the service, it is ideal for my use.
Hey, HG, perhaps you could be my courier? You go from Vegas to LA, right? LOL.[/QUOTE]I'm coming back from vegas April 1st. Zelle your friend some money and ill go on a date with her for a night and ill bring back your phone =).
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6371637]I need brainstorms about discrete ways to get my phone back. I was in Vegas and had a date w / a girl. I found after that I didn't have my burner phone. Initially she said she looked for it in her car without success, after I get back to OC, she texts me that she cleaned out her car and found it. She offered to mail it to me, I said that wasn't really going to work, as my SO would wonder about this thing appearing in our mail. I would like brilliant ideas for how I could get it sent to me without giving up my real name / address to her. I used to have mailbox rentals, I guess those still exist, but I haven't had one in a long time, and there is cost to that, as well as risk of discovery. The fact that I had a mail drop would be *hugely* suspicious to the SO.
I could replace the phone, but it would be better to have the SIM card out of the old one, I use TracFone, I love the service, it is ideal for my use.
Hey, HG, perhaps you could be my courier? You go from Vegas to LA, right? LOL.[/QUOTE]Just have her send it to friend of yours. Like anybody? And I was going to L.A. quite a bit. But lost my last apartment and can not afford to pay rent in both places anymore (short of a miracle). Or she could mail it to me and then me to you. ? or just get it from her in vegas.. not a big deal if she is willing to meet? vegas is a smallish place to drive around
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6371637]I need brainstorms about discrete ways to get my phone back. I was in Vegas and had a date w / a girl. I found after that I didn't have my burner phone. Initially she said she looked for it in her car without success, after I get back to OC, she texts me that she cleaned out her car and found it. She offered to mail it to me, I said that wasn't really going to work, as my SO would wonder about this thing appearing in our mail. I would like brilliant ideas for how I could get it sent to me without giving up my real name / address to her. I used to have mailbox rentals, I guess those still exist, but I haven't had one in a long time, and there is cost to that, as well as risk of discovery. The fact that I had a mail drop would be *hugely* suspicious to the SO.
I could replace the phone, but it would be better to have the SIM card out of the old one, I use TracFone, I love the service, it is ideal for my use.
Hey, HG, perhaps you could be my courier? You go from Vegas to LA, right? LOL.[/QUOTE]Try the FEDEx pickup option. Have her send it to a location near you and you simply pick it up from them. They will hold it for I think seven days.