I think I can get it to be honest.
If nothing else, this may be worthy of a bit of discussion and critique. My skin is thick, let's learn.
Discussion w POT.
Me - 6 days ago.
You definitely stand out in a place like this. Your values seems to be on the other end of the spectrum of what I have discovered in the week that I have been a member here.
Her - 4 days ago.
Thank you, my name is xxxxxxx by the way. You seem very interesting and I would love to get to know you better.
Me - 4 days ago.
Nice to meet you xxxxxxx. My name is xxxx. Like you, I'm interested in getting to know one person, having some sort of emotional, physical and mental connection. With all things present for both parties, there would hopefully be a better quality of life for everyone involved. If you'd like, send me a text and we can chat some more at a more convenient time for both of us. Xxxxxxxxx.
Her - 4 days ago.
Sure, may I ask if you are open to an arrangement that does not have a sexual component?
Me - 4 days ago.
I'm always looking to make new friends xxxxxxx. There has to be a natural attraction that goes both ways for sex to become a factor in any relationship.
Her - 4 days ago.
I agree, I know that for some people that changes things so I wanted to go ahead and let you know that it's not what I am looking for personally.
Me - 4 days ago.
Looking for. Like, what does that mean? Haha. Is it lost or something? Do you abstain? Maybe I am not being fair and I should think you're intent is to save me some sort of dissapointment before we have even met. Who's to say I would be interested? Kind of presumptuous don't you think?
Her - 4 days ago.
I understand and hope I didn't offend you. Most guys I have met on here assume that sex is on the table and available at their command. I am just trying to not waste your time.
Me - 4 days ago.
Hurt my feeling just a hair to be honest. I considered you probably get a lot of that after I sent that message, so I understand your having asked I suppose. I guess it's tough to not be assumptive when you see a clear pattern otherwise. The principle of being able to just do a little snap of the fingers and sex appears like breakfast during room service is pretty ridiculous. I wouldn't expect a platter full of money to appear like that either though. - Like I said, your profile made it seem as if there was something a little different versus what I have seen here and certainly what has been proposed to me in the short week I have been a paid member here. I'm not interested in that either. We'd just have to meet and see how we felt is all I can think to do from here.
Her - 4 days ago.
Well I am awfully sorry for hurting your feelings, it's good to be on the same page though! I would love to meet up sometime this week and get to know each other better.
Me - 4 days ago.
My feelings will be okay I think. You're better than alright xxxxxxx. It's a crazy week for me with work. I am sure this weekend though if you can manage that. Again, if you want, send me a text so it's easier to communicate. Otherwise I will look for you here. It was truly a treat chatting with you tonight. Night.
Her - 4 days ago.
Goodnight! I enjoyed chatting with you as well, I would love to plan something for the weekend soon.
END.
I haven't replied back yet. Weekend is almost here. She'll agree to meet I am 95% sure. She's my type. I don't think it's so much GPS, but more just being new and, needing an adjustment period I guess.
Whatcha think?