Sugarbabies?

[QUOTE=ToddCincy;6270684]As for simps: There have always been guys willing to pay exorbitant rates. But they are limited in number.

Our problem right now is not one of demand, but of supply.

When I started on Seeking in 2011, I was meeting recent UC grads who were working hourly jobs at Starbucks and Panera to make ends meet. Unsurprisingly, I was getting some very high-quality women at reasonable prices.

I was typically offering college girls $300 ppm and doing very well. I was sometimes able to go as low as $200.

Needless to say, some rejected those offers, but I was always able to go on to the next one. I *never* had to go much above $350.

This is a different environment. We now face a situation not where college grads are working at Starbucks, but where corporate employers are foregoing college degree requirements to get workers. One of my friend's daughters is a recent UC grad hauling down $90 K at P&G. She's not an idiot, but she's no valedictorian, either. About average. We aren't likely to see her on Seeking.

IMHO, the girl market is going to suck until the job market dips, or at least normalizesaside from the old women, the druggies, and the skanks.

I've hobbied off and on since the 1990's, and I've observed a clear trend: the hobby gets better in inverse proportion to the job market.

When unemployment is very low, the selection, quality, and pricing of girls in the hobby is worse. When the job market weakens, more women are willing to consider opportunities in male entertainment: not only as SBs, but also as escorts. In 2011, there were lots of good escorts, too.

The escort market is often a good indicator of how Seeking is going to go. Right now, most of the escorts available to us are pre-pandemic women, most of whom are older, and some of whom have been around since the early 2010's. There is no new crop of 21-32 year old escorts. As a result, the few girls who are young and conventionally attractive (refer to recent discussions about Tia Taylor and Tiffany Teigan) can practically double their rates.

Similarly, I've also noticed that the younger generation of college students and recent college grads is largely "missing" from Seeking. (You may have noticed that a disproportionate number of the women on Seeking nowadays are older.) The economic reality is that relatively few 23-year-olds are going to want to hook up with guys their dads' age for cash, when they can make $90 K at P&G. And if they *are* on Seeking, their expectations are *very* high.

I'm not saying you should stop looking. Just don't *expect much* when the unemployment rate is 3. 7%, as is currently the case. In 2011, a great year on Seeking and in the escort market, the unemployment rate was 8. 5%. Therein lies the difference.

I'm not interested in older women or skanks, and I don't want to pay $500 just to get a mid-level SB or escort. Nor do I want to spend 30 hours per week on Seeking, sorting through fake profiles. This is why I'm biding my time for now.[/QUOTE]

While I agree with you, I don't think unemployment is the only issue as to why it's getting harder to find women (and it's not just here, it's everywhere in the US). I think there are other levels added to it by different things dealing with the results of covid. The negative stigma growing with anything dealing with pay for sex (Seeking as an example). Even Rho vs Wade is going to make some people think harder about being more promiscuous. It's such a weird time and hard to figure out. I guess we have a looming recession to look forward to.

One thing that is sad is the amount of over weight, unattractive and old women on the site. It was never ever close to the level it is now.

She's into FinDom not really traditional SBing. Been reported on in past under different names.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/817d8699-00bc-4d31-b07d-09c4f03029bb[/URL]

[QUOTE=Decatur21;6274816]

One thing that is sad is the amount of over weight, unattractive and old women on the site. It was never ever close to the level it is now.[/QUOTE]Yeah, it's a fucking disgrace. My fingers are cramp up from blocking so many of them.

[QUOTE=Decatur21;6274816]I got mine. 10+ years ago and it was the best decision I ever made. Watching some of these crazy narcissistic SB's (who fuck amazingly well, but are terrible people) and their wheels spin to try to figure out how to salvage something when I'm clearly out the door is def the chef's kiss of being a SD.[/QUOTE]

This hits close to home for me. I had a brief arrangement with a bartender girl who fucked like a porn star, but was also clearly off and used the p-word too freely for my tastes. I wish nice girls fucked like that!!!

Michelle. Has anyone partaken? Feel free to pm if you prefer. Thanks.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2d9f3956-468c-4dd9-af40-ac0e568d52a1[/URL]

[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;6275043]She's into FinDom not really traditional SBing. Been reported on in past under different names.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/817d8699-00bc-4d31-b07d-09c4f03029bb[/URL][/QUOTE]She is/was also on WYP as Elizabeth in Dayton versus Fairfield for SA. Has a sister on the site also as Carmen San Diego was AbbyHawaii. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d38d865d-a1bf-438d-80c2-e095cc658964[/URL].

Mila also has a few reports of her being "a tad psycho." Asking $500. I think her sister is the same but I have not met or chatted with either of them.

BAM.

I am a former member of SA and have seen quite a few SBs over the years. I can't access any profiles on SA now but if anyone ever includes a picture, I can respond with info if I have it.

[QUOTE=BamBam;6275683]She is/was also on WYP as Elizabeth in Dayton versus Fairfield for SA. Has a sister on the site also as Carmen San Diego was AbbyHawaii. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d38d865d-a1bf-438d-80c2-e095cc658964[/URL].

Mila also has a few reports of her being "a tad psycho." Asking $500. I think her sister is the same but I have not met or chatted with either of them.

BAM.[/QUOTE]WTF happened to her face? Filters or surgery?

[QUOTE=CooperTown;6275916]I am a former member of SA and have seen quite a few SBs over the years. I can't access any profiles on SA now but if anyone ever includes a picture, I can respond with info if I have it.[/QUOTE]You can just create an unpaid burner account using a different email address. Then you can view profiles.

[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;6275043]She's into FinDom not really traditional SBing. Been reported on in past under different names.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/817d8699-00bc-4d31-b07d-09c4f03029bb[/URL][/QUOTE]Seriously, what grown man would let a 20 something year old control their bank accounts and finances? That's something that could ruin your life. If you want that, just get married!

First of all thanks to Bedtime Story for referencing this thread (I assumed it was just another link to a site like the one at the top of the Cincinnati Forum). So. With that out of the way. I have a little to add, but not much. My experience on SB has so far been lack luster. I've found my experience on Ashley Madison (since around 2005) has prepared me well for the barrage of fake messages urging me to use up my credits to read them. Like everything else, there's definitely a learning curve! So. I thought I'd share my lone experience on SB.

Reached out to Sexykay1993. She responded back and we agreed to chat via text (Google voice in my case). This was the only one to respond out of 5 or 6 messages I sent. She said she only needed extra cash for Christmas and we agreed to meet the next day. Then. She went complete ghost on me. She never asked for cash upfront or anything like that, so I can only assume another monger beat me to it. Anyway, that's my only experience so far. I know it isn't much. Here's some pics in case anyone would like to add more. I've typed in the name here and used reverse image prior to using my credits, but came up empty.

[QUOTE=BlindSquirrel;6276394]First of all thanks to Bedtime Story for referencing this thread (I assumed it was just another link to a site like the one at the top of the Cincinnati Forum). So. With that out of the way. I have a little to add, but not much. My experience on SB has so far been lack luster. I've found my experience on Ashley Madison (since around 2005) has prepared me well for the barrage of fake messages urging me to use up my credits to read them. Like everything else, there's definitely a learning curve! So. I thought I'd share my lone experience on SB.

Reached out to Sexykay1993. She responded back and we agreed to chat via text (Google voice in my case). This was the only one to respond out of 5 or 6 messages I sent. She said she only needed extra cash for Christmas and we agreed to meet the next day. Then. She went complete ghost on me. She never asked for cash upfront or anything like that, so I can only assume another monger beat me to it. Anyway, that's my only experience so far. I know it isn't much. Here's some pics in case anyone would like to add more. I've typed in the name here and used reverse image prior to using my credits, but came up empty.[/QUOTE][URL]Seeking.com[/URL] is a lot better than SB.

[QUOTE=BlindSquirrel;6276394]First of all thanks to Bedtime Story for referencing this thread (I assumed it was just another link to a site like the one at the top of the Cincinnati Forum). So. With that out of the way. I have a little to add, but not much. My experience on SB has so far been lack luster. I've found my experience on Ashley Madison (since around 2005) has prepared me well for the barrage of fake messages urging me to use up my credits to read them. Like everything else, there's definitely a learning curve! So. I thought I'd share my lone experience on SB.

Reached out to Sexykay1993. She responded back and we agreed to chat via text (Google voice in my case). This was the only one to respond out of 5 or 6 messages I sent. She said she only needed extra cash for Christmas and we agreed to meet the next day. Then. She went complete ghost on me. She never asked for cash upfront or anything like that, so I can only assume another monger beat me to it. Anyway, that's my only experience so far. I know it isn't much. Here's some pics in case anyone would like to add more. I've typed in the name here and used reverse image prior to using my credits, but came up empty.[/QUOTE]I've had similar experiences where a profile responds to a message with one or two messages and then goes ghost. This is especially true when you ask to meet or video chat. I have just assumed the site has some low cost "helpers" who get paid a few dollars an hour to fake responses. Or, the "helpers" could be on commission getting a percent of the money they generate by getting people to spend credits.

I have actually met a few women off the site but never closed the deal with them. I do a little better on WYP but the quality of profiles on WYP has taken a nosedive in the last year or so. I have a much higher success rate on Seeking. By success rate I mean finding women I like and getting them to the FC. That is supposed to be what this is all about.

BAM

Whomever wrote this profile should have used ChatGPT or Grammarly.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e4f4dc1b-35db-4a5f-8d38-1222db1feb9d[/URL]

She messaged. Didn't reply. Wonder if she is one of the several asians in town known for dine, cash dash n block u?

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/faea2cf882706178[/URL]

Not as many recent profiles that are obvious but there are still plenty of scammers!

Charming_girl: Unsure about this one. Really poor English. Asking good questions but. Wants to use Telegram. "In Cincinnati, Ohio right now. " Ukrainian

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b3ee6707-949a-44eb-91c0-955d16e9f3e4[/URL]


EmpressBeauty: Using a stolen pic, Taking me straight to text.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/250fbd57-8a37-450b-a2c3-3e4bc1943b1d[/URL]


HotMiss: Scammer. Cannot speak English to save 'her' life. Blocked me when I asked to video-chat.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40b9b5d9-1a4b-4ea3-a8f4-8cd6420c61a8[/URL]


Lily, Classic crypto-scammer,

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bfd45c53-3efd-4955-b21a-1279d92f8b3d[/URL]


ThePerfectStorm: Likely catfish. Trying to raise money quickly. Sent me a link to the following: [URL]https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/8QhTLFyPpD[/URL].

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/74bf96ea-3a33-442a-b6d9-a3b339ad66d4[/URL]


Eleanor: high probability to be a crypto-scammer!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/07b29838-e0c3-4d06-b52f-55bb42ff5f5a[/URL]


BAM.

They must have overspent on Christmas gifts. The hoes come out:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40f85ba3-236a-4b1e-ab8f-9b8930a25721[/URL]

Pinged me first, "Hey daddy".

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49a1895b-6327-494c-ad67-33dde1beaade[/URL]

Pinged me first, "Hey! Want to meet?" Her About Me says, "Hey handsome! I am an escort so time is money!

She at least requested to see my photos. I wouldn't even do a MnG with one that didn't request to see my photos.

[QUOTE=Ginzo666;6283200]They must have overspent on Christmas gifts. The hoes come out:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40f85ba3-236a-4b1e-ab8f-9b8930a25721[/URL]

Pinged me first, "Hey daddy".

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49a1895b-6327-494c-ad67-33dde1beaade[/URL]

Pinged me first, "Hey! Want to meet?" Her About Me says, "Hey handsome! I am an escort so time is money!

She at least requested to see my photos. I wouldn't even do a MnG with one that didn't request to see my photos.[/QUOTE]Must be true. She's on STG [URL]https://skipthegames.com/posts/cincinnati/female-escorts/other/gorgeous-real-lady--cash-only-/206617399026[/URL].

[QUOTE=TickleJay;6283510]Must be true. She's on STG [URL]https://skipthegames.com/posts/cincinnati/female-escorts/other/gorgeous-real-lady--cash-only-/206617399026[/URL].[/QUOTE]She advertises under a lot of names. Search pure beauty in escort thread.

Hopped on seeking yesterday, usually don't like to use this site because its over priced and it's normally filled with a lot of scammers, but every once and a while you will come across and absolutely gem. And I can honestly say that about this women here, I met a girl name Casey, she's light skin in her early 20's 24 I think to be exact with amazing body, she didn't have any face pics on the site but had 2 kinky pics. So you can get a idea of how she looks, then I messaged her and she gave me her number and we swapped pics, she was very nice and respectful unlike anyone. I have met on this site her approach was fine it didn't seem like a scam. So I went against my rules and decided to take a leap a faith with her when we discussed arrangements and a meeting she asked for 400 $ for 2 hours of her time, with half up front and usually that's a big no me. But giving that we were a hour or 2 a way and she said she needed gas, I figured why not god a bring it back if I'm scammed, LOL. I sent her 200 and my address, she sent me a couple really kinky videos and pics as a thank you and then texted me 10 minutes after saying she was on her way, by now I thought it was scam and I was kinda feeling dumb until I got a knock on my door from this beautiful young lady. Exactly like her pictures very small but curvy, she caught me off guard her first thing she said was "what you didn't think I'd really come" and I honestly didn't, but I'm glad she did cause after had a 420 session and a couple drinks to get to know each other. She was ready she initiated sex first and kept rubbing on my dick asking what I'm into what type of things. I like and before I knew it she just started giving me an excellent BBBJ, I finished kinda fast due to her skill but she didn't let me rest, she kept going and swallowed every dropped. Then 5 minutes later jumped and started riding me that ass bouncing in my face was such a sight and it was even better once. She started squirting we went on for about 2 more rounds until I couldn't take anymore. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/profile/baddiewitnodaddie[/URL].

Any feedback? Been talking to her and she is down for a meet. Asked for $$ but I countered.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a21cf788ff0517e8[/URL]

Please delete post 7420. Someone has hacked my private photos and included it with this post!

[QUOTE=Goo3215;6284422]Please delete post 7420. Someone has hacked my private photos and included it with this post![/QUOTE]I clicked on the link. It posted my profile as well.

Most likely, your the only one seeing the pictures of your profile.

[QUOTE=TapThat;6284584]I clicked on the link. It posted my profile as well.

Most likely, your the only one seeing the pictures of your profile.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the feedback.

[QUOTE=Goo3215;6284392]Any feedback? Been talking to her and she is down for a meet. Asked for $$ but I countered.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a21cf788ff0517e8[/URL][/QUOTE]Correction: She asked for $$.

Unable to log on to Seeking today, getting a message that says "Sorry, we experienced an issue loading this content. Click here to retry. " Anyone else experiencing the same issue?

[QUOTE=DaddyBear1;6283812]Hopped on seeking yesterday, usually don't like to use this site because its over priced and it's normally filled with a lot of scammers, but every once and a while you will come across and absolutely gem. And I can honestly say that about this women here, I met a girl name Casey, she's light skin in her early 20's 24 I think to be exact with amazing body, she didn't have any face pics on the site but had 2 kinky pics. So you can get a idea of how she looks, then I messaged her and she gave me her number and we swapped pics, she was very nice and respectful unlike anyone. I have met on this site her approach was fine it didn't seem like a scam. So I went against my rules and decided to take a leap a faith with her when we discussed arrangements and a meeting she asked for 400 $ for 2 hours of her time, with half up front and usually that's a big no me. But giving that we were a hour or 2 a way and she said she needed gas, I figured why not god a bring it back if I'm scammed, LOL. I sent her 200 and my address, she sent me a couple really kinky videos and pics as a thank you and then texted me 10 minutes after saying she was on her way, by now I thought it was scam and I was kinda feeling dumb until I got a knock on my door from this beautiful young lady. Exactly like her pictures very small but curvy, she caught me off guard her first thing she said was "what you didn't think I'd really come" and I honestly didn't, but I'm glad she did cause after had a 420 session and a couple drinks to get to know each other. She was ready she initiated sex first and kept rubbing on my dick asking what I'm into what type of things. I like and before I knew it she just started giving me an excellent BBBJ, I finished kinda fast due to her skill but she didn't let me rest, she kept going and swallowed every dropped. Then 5 minutes later jumped and started riding me that ass bouncing in my face was such a sight and it was even better once. She started squirting we went on for about 2 more rounds until I couldn't take anymore. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/profile/baddiewitnodaddie[/URL].[/QUOTE]I lost her link sorry guys I posted wrong one.

[QUOTE=Cincyfunguy;6284740]Unable to log on to Seeking today, getting a message that says "Sorry, we experienced an issue loading this content. Click here to retry. " Anyone else experiencing the same issue?[/QUOTE]I didn't have any issues with the site yesterday, but I have on occasion had issues logging in that were specific to one browser. Clearing the browser cache fixed the issue for me. Alternatively, there could have been a problem with the specific server you used yesterday.

[QUOTE=DaddyBear1;6284838]I lost her link sorry guys I posted wrong one.[/QUOTE]Is this her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/daedb023-d69e-4d4b-89a7-556273438eb2[/URL]

Some profiles make me want to have a drink.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/00fd0945-3260-41be-a687-4954afd10e07[/URL]

"I have a PhD. Odds are I'm smarter than you".

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a336794d-d65d-444f-9f15-dce75f7f9bbf[/URL]

"Also, flowers or a small nice gesture on our first date shouldn't even have to be mentioned, but apparently some of you don't know how to court a woman (take notes). ".

Vomit!

[QUOTE=Ginzo666;6286720]Some profiles make me want to have a drink.


[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a336794d-d65d-444f-9f15-dce75f7f9bbf[/URL]

"Also, flowers or a small nice gesture on our first date shouldn't even have to be mentioned, but apparently some of you don't know how to court a woman (take notes). ".

Vomit![/QUOTE]I've seen her private pics. She's a butterface and not worth my effort. YMMV! BTW, the beach pic is stolen.

BAM.

[QUOTE=DaddyBear1;6284838]I lost her link sorry guys I posted wrong one.[/QUOTE]As soon as I saw the link I knew it was bad. Seeking links never have a name in them. Also, searching the name turned up nothing for me. The last strike is where you claim you prepaid $200 and she turned up anyway. That's odd behavior on both sides. You have the same or similar posts posts in multiple cities. That marks you as some kind of scammer and no one should play along with you.

BAM.

[QUOTE=BamBam;6286879]I've seen her private pics. She's a butterface and not worth my effort. YMMV! BTW, the beach pic is stolen.

BAM.[/QUOTE]I didn't even get that far. Her profile reads like a very high maintenance rinser. I messaged her briefly to give her shit about expecting gifts on the first date.

Lately, a lot of there profiles never get to the asking stage before they disappear.


DesirableActress: Classic crypto-scammer. Using stolen pics of Italian DJ:
[URL]https://twitter.com/AnfisaLetyago/status/1585592446116823041[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f5f21fca-630c-43c7-b7cb-d69bcee69df4[/URL]


MiaMagine: Likely just trolling for her OF account. Also on Reddit if you want some teaser samples.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bcac1ced-e7f7-4678-a4a7-0da59d1eeaff[/URL]


SeductiveActress: Classic crypto-scammer.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/630f5cf9-aad9-483e-a515-62f6e50e8bd2[/URL]


CuteIngnue: Classic crypto-scammer!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/defa1dc4-bfbe-4546-9b86-f2ed28940d0a[/URL]


CuteGirl: Classic crypto-scammer.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b41801e9-df0b-4970-bb56-a9bd03ee64ee[/URL]


BAM.

Hey all, I've been out of circu for a while but am wanting to get back in the game. I was previously banned a couple years ago but was always able to figure out a work around using a gift card. Recently I've tried 3 times to activate 3 different accounts, once with a bank debit card, then a vanilla gift card, and back to the bank card. All 3 attempts resulted in immediate suspension due to "suspicious" activity? Seeking support folks told me to wait 24 hours and try again but still no joy, support eventually ignored my pleas for help. If anyone has mastered this issue please share!

[QUOTE=TheWolverineJP;6287489]Hey all, I've been out of circu for a while but am wanting to get back in the game. I was previously banned a couple years ago but was always able to figure out a work around using a gift card. Recently I've tried 3 times to activate 3 different accounts, once with a bank debit card, then a vanilla gift card, and back to the bank card. All 3 attempts resulted in immediate suspension due to "suspicious" activity? Seeking support folks told me to wait 24 hours and try again but still no joy, support eventually ignored my pleas for help. If anyone has mastered this issue please share![/QUOTE]I'm in the same boat, would love help here.

[QUOTE=CooperTown;6287867]I'm in the same boat, would love help here.[/QUOTE]Probably have to clear your cache on your phone, etc. , use a different IP address, like go to McDonald's or something and sign up on their wifi.

As far as payment, U can always use the seeking app in the google play store if you have an android, and buy google play point cards and load them on your account.

No idea if any of that fixes your problem, but I hope it helps.

[QUOTE=Ginzo666;6286720]Some profiles make me want to have a drink.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/00fd0945-3260-41be-a687-4954afd10e07[/URL]

"I have a PhD. Odds are I'm smarter than you".

[/QUOTE]"Currently, I'm looking for a gentleman to spend some time with (initially platonic) as I figure out life. So what I really want is to get to know you!

Yes, I'm married; and yes, he knows. He also has a profile on here. ".

Are. You. Kidding. Me.

Platonic? What, is this eHarmony? I swear, I've seen a number of profiles on Seeking and SB that are online only or strictly platonic. Are there any guys on Seeking who are strictly looking for a date?

Several are asking how to pay for dating services.

I am asking for Secret Benefits.

On Seeking I purchased at CVS a vanilla one time charge unable to load more money onto the card Visa card. That has worked in the past for Seeking. But not for Secret Benefits. I think SB is registered overseas so the vanilla or any card I have tried does not work for charge (overseas charge)?I refuse to get a Visa card that requires me to show actual ID.

I tried preloaded AE but SB says not accept AE.

Any suggestions?

[QUOTE=InDelaware;6288743]"Currently, I'm looking for a gentleman to spend some time with (initially platonic) as I figure out life. So what I really want is to get to know you!

Yes, I'm married; and yes, he knows. He also has a profile on here. ".

Are. You. Kidding. Me.

Platonic? What, is this eHarmony? I swear, I've seen a number of profiles on Seeking and SB that are online only or strictly platonic. Are there any guys on Seeking who are strictly looking for a date?[/QUOTE]I translate "initially platonic" as her being a rinser. The sex never comes. I think the younger girls can be forgiven for being delusional about being paid for online-only platonic, but this girl is wayyy too old for that. Speaking of her age, I wonder if her pictures are a few years out-of-date.

[QUOTE=Ginzo666;6289092]I translate "initially platonic" as her being a rinser. The sex never comes. I think the younger girls can be forgiven for being delusional about being paid for online-only platonic, but this girl is wayyy too old for that. Speaking of her age, I wonder if her pictures are a few years out-of-date.[/QUOTE]My guess is there's a lot of women trying to get a sucker to pay for the privilege of paying for lunch / dinner, rent, and for the honor of letting them chat with them. I just don't get it! Are guys actually doing this? Or is it possibly LEO trying to see if the guy will press for more? Either way, I'm out. On SB I've had one of the three that actually responded try this. See attached pic (I was able to use an editing tool to place the conversation on a screenshot of her SB profile).

I am chatting with one on there that I've met before (from Ashley Madison a couple of years ago) I plan on meeting with her again. I'll try to get some reconnaissance on how it looks on their end. I know a few have already reported, but I'd like to hear what guys are willing to do on her end. After texting her in the site, one thing's certain, she's still willing to meet in person. So my guess is the response isn't overwhelming.