A little more sharing has always benefitted me
I know the incident you speak of and I remember the BSW that stabbed her PIMP to death, wasn't that about 5-7 years ago?
Generally these girls don't play with me. I look like an ex-con and I'm streetwise.
If my spicey senses tingle I'll share something like "I'm not a mark and if your intention is to Rob, you can have a partial donation. I have babies to go home too and it ain't worth it. " Something along those lines. I realize that could be confrontational and if they were truly psycho, or a Rob it could be on at that moment. I also share that there is a. 38 caliber handgun within my reach.
Usually the babies and the image keeps them in line.
I know for a fact a lot of these girls are carrying something. I've seen and had multiple conversations about weapons and safety through the years.
I mostly car date so I cannot comment on bringing SWs to my home. I do as a rule, whenever I go to their room do a safety check. I ain't about to have Tyrone waiting for me in the shower. I'll even tell them as I'm doing it " hey I've been burned before, mind if I look about the room before we start?
Funny story about a month ago one late night I swung around hard in what I thought was a SW. It was obviously a Civie, because when I pulled around the last time the girl pulled out a taser and she activated it towards me like fucking leave me alone or I'll shock the shit out of you.