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When a person is sober for awhile, coming out to the same world is a recipe for an OD in your apartment for tolerance is nowhere near where it was when she went in (for alcohol or drugs).
Lost a good provider 18 months ago 18 hours of less after she got out of jail. First time trying again after 90 days was the last time.
[QUOTE=MoDog;6144105]She will be clean for however long she was away and I'm sure she put on good weight. It would be a good score for someone who can house her. I can't.[/QUOTE]Indeed.
She did say she gained all the weight back.
[QUOTE=SplashGordon;6142844]Hey Brotherhood of Mongers. Our beloved Nicole has been locked up for 4 months now. She needs an address in order to be released.
I can't have her come here because I'm a legal gun owner and can't surrender my weapons.
If anyone is willing to have her stay with them, please DM me. Just imagine the benefits guys😉.[/QUOTE]If anyone does this they need their head checked!
[QUOTE=FunSaMale;6145453]If anyone does this they need their head checked![/QUOTE]Better off just investing in going to some foreign country and getting yourself a wife who would be down to do anything in order to come to the US for a better life. Might have to deal with divorce later on but at least its not as bad as dealing with neighbors thinking you are a bad person for having a street girl at your place or having to deal with the cops. Or better yet maybe dealing with dangerous people. Been thinking about just getting me a foreign wife for a few years now.
[QUOTE=YoungPapi;6145539]Better off just investing in going to some foreign country and getting yourself a wife who would be down to do anything in order to come to the US for a better life. Might have to deal with divorce later on but at least its not as bad as dealing with neighbors thinking you are a bad person for having a street girl at your place or having to deal with the cops. Or better yet maybe dealing with dangerous people. Been thinking about just getting me a foreign wife for a few years now.[/QUOTE]Agreed. Theres plenty of women out there who would marry you for citizenship alone and a chance of a better live. They will make much better wives than most american women as well.
[QUOTE=MoDog;6146157]Agreed. Theres plenty of women out there who would marry you for citizenship alone and a chance of a better live. They will make much better wives than most american women as well.[/QUOTE]Yep pretty much as long as you choose right youll be good.
[QUOTE=MoDog;6146157]Agreed. Theres plenty of women out there who would marry you for citizenship alone and a chance of a better live. They will make much better wives than most american women as well.[/QUOTE]Be careful with marrying for citizenship. I have seen a girl pay $2000 to a guy, plus all the pussy he wants, to get citizenship. Later on he had to pay her more to agree to an uncontested divorce.
[QUOTE=BadRonnie;6148571]Be careful with marrying for citizenship. I have seen a girl pay $2000 to a guy, plus all the pussy he wants, to get citizenship. Later on he had to pay her more to agree to an uncontested divorce.[/QUOTE]If anyone was to go that route obviously a legal agreement / prenuptial would be necessary.
[QUOTE=YoungPapi;6145539]Better off just investing in going to some foreign country and getting yourself a wife who would be down to do anything in order to come to the US for a better life. Might have to deal with divorce later on but at least its not as bad as dealing with neighbors thinking you are a bad person for having a street girl at your place or having to deal with the cops. Or better yet maybe dealing with dangerous people. Been thinking about just getting me a foreign wife for a few years now.[/QUOTE]Actually a lot of people (American women) think any man who dates a woman outside his own country is suspect especially if its an interracial marriage. When I say suspect I mean people think you're taking advantage somehow and they question why a man has to go around the world to find a woman.
For example, if you're a white male and bring over a young Filipina bride to the United States automatically you're the bad guy and taking advantage of her.
I find the whole situation just angering really. American women treat men poorly and are very difficult, and most now are overweight so if you look for better quality elsewhere those same American women will shame you for not choosing them.
Personally I wouldn't bother bringing a foreign woman to the United States unless maybe if she was Mexican and I lived in California because at least she could still travel back home easy to visit family. I actually have experience with Mexicans and the men say in Mexico the women are great especially the ones from the countryside but as soon as they get here to the United States overtime they get ruined due to the junk food, drinking and the gang / city life here.
Seems like women from the countryside are best though. In my area back in the 80's /90's I was told men would import women from Italy to marry. They would import women from the Italian countryside and bring them back here to the United States to marry. So it goes to show that even back in the day Americanized women were difficult.
It's a very complicated issue though. Taking a woman from her own country, culture, and family is a big deal. And even if you take a woman out of poverty don't be surprised if you come home early one day and find her in the bed with the landscaper!
[QUOTE=YoungPapi;6145539]Better off just investing in going to some foreign country and getting yourself a wife who would be down to do anything in order to come to the US for a better life. Might have to deal with divorce later on but at least its not as bad as dealing with neighbors thinking you are a bad person for having a street girl at your place or having to deal with the cops. Or better yet maybe dealing with dangerous people. Been thinking about just getting me a foreign wife for a few years now.[/QUOTE]When she realizes that she can have half your shit after divorce, she'll be out. And if you have kids with her there's child support.
Anyone who gets married in this day and age is a fool. Its not worth it for 90% of men.
It makes sense in 2 situations, IMO. You both come from well-to-do families (old money, so to speak) or you're both deeply religious.
If you're just an average middle to upper class guy who doesn't come from generational wealth you are playing with fire.
Let's get back on track.
Who would you say is the top STG from Trenton that posts regularly? We all know the usual suspects.
[QUOTE=FunSaMale;6150437]When she realizes that she can have half your shit after divorce, she'll be out. And if you have kids with her there's child support.[/QUOTE]Well that's why I mentioned divorce. Besides in this hobby you're spending lots of money anyways, either way if you get married to a foreign girl I hope you go in expecting to potentially losing in the end if things turn out sour. Thats why I said I've been thinking about it but haven't done it yet. Honestly I've been planning to go on a trip instead and paying a girl to spend a whole week with me.
[QUOTE=LolBoat;6150466]Anyone who gets married in this day and age is a fool. Its not worth it for 90% of men.
It makes sense in 2 situations, IMO. You both come from well-to-do families (old money, so to speak) or you're both deeply religious.
If you're just an average middle to upper class guy who doesn't come from generational wealth you are playing with fire.[/QUOTE]Quoted for truth. Every weekend I see people getting married and I look at the groom and wonder does he know what he's getting into? And some of these guys are getting married over and over again.
As far as men, marriage only benefits the small group of rich powerful men who have political aspirations or professional athletes who are looking for big endorsements deals because the image of being a squeaky clean family man helps you further your career and its the only way you can even get certain jobs / positions in society.
Anyone remember the SR-71 Blackbird? The all black jet that was used in reconnaissance missions? Well one of the requirements to be a pilot to fly that special jet was you had to be married. Apparently they didn't want young hot shot single pilots flying that jet. They knew a married man wouldn't take crazy risks and would do all he could to make sure he made it home back to his wife, but I digress.
That said, even if you move overseas don't get married and keep your wits about you as you play. Too many situations where a foreigner gets set up by a girl then killed after significant funds are transferred, girls set you up for business scams and clear out your bank account, or the girl you fall for is cheating on you the whole time with a boyfriend who does nothing for her. It's a cold world out here, there is no place or country that is safe.
[QUOTE=LolBoat;6150466]Anyone who gets married in this day and age is a fool. Its not worth it for 90% of men.
It makes sense in 2 situations, IMO. You both come from well-to-do families (old money, so to speak) or you're both deeply religious.
If you're just an average middle to upper class guy who doesn't come from generational wealth you are playing with fire.[/QUOTE]The institution of marriage helps if you desire to have children and raise them to be productive adults. Statistics show that kids raised in a two parent family fare much better than single parent household kids. So I went into it with my eyes wide open. Not to brag but my kids are doing pretty good and I mongered my way thru all stages of my life. Just don't buy into the delusional concept of love and a soul mate. I don't have many good things to say about being married but my kids were better off for it.