Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Muskey;4751992]Hey everyone,

I've been on SA for a short period and I'm finding what seems to be a lot of fake or scammer profiles.

Are there many on the site? What would the ratio be versus legit profiles?

Still working my way though the virtual / online offerings requesting Cash App right out of the gate.

It makes sense a lot of them want to go online nowadays, but it makes me wonder how many are legit, and how many are exploiting the pandemic for easier pickings.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Say about every 10 people that reply to you, 6 are fake / scammers or are looking to sell you pics and vids. 3 or 2 will probably make a date for after corona, 1 might meet you now (not safest thing to do now but depends on how risky you are).

So this is a funny story that happened with a 19 year old SB about 5-6 years ago.

We had been talking for a little while, she finally agreed to meet, she had fun and liked me.

We just hung out, walked around the city for around 3 hours of what was to be quick meet up.

Had some food, good laughs and good chemistry.

She decided that she liked me and wanted to hangout again, so we discussed things on moving forward.

She wanted to go out and do things which I had not problem with, she was up for bcd also.

She told me she wanted to take that a little slower since she had not done much but told me she was down for whatever once more comfortable.

After we talked about things asked her if she had an idea on what she wanted for a gift when meeting. She told me 200 and I agreed adding that I would pay for whatever we did, etc.

So we start meeting up 2-3 times a month, go out do things, great sex, she is getting more comfortable and is pretty much ready to do whatever as she has lots of things she wants to explore.

We usually spend the whole day together doing things, having fun, then go play for a few hours together. After a while she wants to stay over and starts doing that.

All the time I would always slip in some extra money or gift cards for her, even buy some presents of things she talked about wanting.

Things are good, we text a bunch, talk some, etc. About 8 months into this she tells me her friend decided to try being a SB and the guy she has as a SD.

She tells me how much he gives her to meet, 800, and they don't even have sex every time they meet.

Then says to me, "why are you so cheap?" Tells me she would like the same as her friend and is now not happy with our arrangement.

Long story short, we stop seeing each other as I am not paying that and she is not happy with less than her friend.

I wish her the best. 6 months go by and guess who texts me? She misses me and wants to meet and catch up.

So we go grab lunch, she looks great as always. Tells me she did meet a SD who gives her much more money than I did and lots of gifts but is boring. They do not go out and do fun things like we did, the sex is not that good. Says she wants to start seeing me again and does not care about if I give her anything as she is keeping the rich, boring guy but wants fun and good times with me. LOL.

Guess it is always about the money just not always your money LOL.

We saw each other another two years, she graduated, moved away, we kept in touch and saw each other every so often. Then she got a legit bf.

Figured I would share this with not much going on show that things are not always as they seem.

You never know what will happen and not to burn bridges.

Hey guys,

I've been chatting with this POT during the lockdown and I've started to notice the wording and other things are different that from our initial texts. And now it varies. One day it will be one way, a week later it will be different.

My question is do some of these girls use answering services for texting conversations?

Appreciated!

[QUOTE=JohnTies;4752722]That is very true! The young ones either have no idea about what a sugar arrangement is or think a man will give them money just for talking or hanging out with them.

Have talked with some 18-19 in the past and when I told them what a real sugar arrangement is they were mostly shocked and did not think sex would be part of it[/QUOTE]These issues aside, the access to fresh young pussy is my main reason for using SA. That's the demographic it has that other avenues don't. MPs have the asian connection. There's great all latina strip clubs on Connecticut. But I haven't found a better source for 18 year olds than SA. Call me a creep but that's what I use it for haha.

[QUOTE=Muskey;4756378]Hey guys,

I've been chatting with this POT during the lockdown and I've started to notice the wording and other things are different that from our initial texts. And now it varies. One day it will be one way, a week later it will be different.

My question is do some of these girls use answering services for texting conversations?

Appreciated![/QUOTE]Probably Pimp or Boyfriend.

[QUOTE=TheBoobHound;4757042]These issues aside, the access to fresh young pussy is my main reason for using SA. That's the demographic it has that other avenues don't. MPs have the asian connection. There's great all latina strip clubs on Connecticut. But I haven't found a better source for 18 year olds than SA. Call me a creep but that's what I use it for haha.[/QUOTE]Just curious, have you had success? I see a lot of these broads & wonder if they're actually willing to put out?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/08a69761-7487-449e-9538-00f605591a40[/URL]

Wants 1000 for first meet (sex) and 500 for subsequent dates.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c6a525d7-3d3a-42f4-bf7d-6dfaee27db45[/URL]

Agreed to ppm at first but ghosted me after I suggested $300, so I'm guessing her price is higher.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0b14c9d0-ffac-44dd-94a4-631d45eadec6[/URL]

Ghosted me after I suggested 300, then countered with 2500. I said no thanks.

I have two more I'm interested in who both will not meet due to Covid. Besides, if they appear to be too expensive I will update this list and foist them onto why'all.

So last night I was browsing the new profiles on SA in my area, and I come across one that's pretty hot. I'm about to message her to get to know her and see if she's down for a PPM type of arrangement, when I realize that her profile pic is worryingly familiar, but I can figure out why because the face is hidden. Then I read the rest of the profile, and the combination of her location, the industry she has on her about me section, and some of the other details made me realize that this is my cousins profile. RIP me, I was essentially just lusting over my cousin.

Obviously I'm not going to share her profile because I don't want her finding out that I'm on the site, or to doxx myself, so sorry guys.

[QUOTE=Syedna;4757283]Just curious, have you had success? I see a lot of these broads & wonder if they're actually willing to put out?[/QUOTE]Many of them absolutely put out. Just not right now with covid. You just need to learn the process, and weed out the gps and fakes. My best strategy is to meet for coffee, with the plan being to go to a hotel after that if both agree, or to do the hotel date as the second date. NO payment for the coffee part of the date; that's a hard and fast rule. Do not pay these girls for coffee dates. Many would rather get $50 for coffee than screw you for $200.

[QUOTE=RedStar819;4757878]So last night I was browsing the new profiles on SA in my area, and I come across one that's pretty hot. I'm about to message her to get to know her and see if she's down for a PPM type of arrangement, when I realize that her profile pic is worryingly familiar, but I can figure out why because the face is hidden. Then I read the rest of the profile, and the combination of her location, the industry she has on her about me section, and some of the other details made me realize that this is my cousins profile. RIP me, I was essentially just lusting over my cousin.

Obviously I'm not going to share her profile because I don't want her finding out that I'm on the site, or to doxx myself, so sorry guys.[/QUOTE]Saved significant embarrassment on both parts!!

[QUOTE=JohnTies;4754062]As far as I know there is not one on there. Have searched, not found one.[/QUOTE]Reddit subreddit: [URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/[/URL].

You could have just shared her profile & asked if anyone had seen her, that way there is not a connection to you, otherwise it's a nice story but remains just that a story for those that may have been interested.

You could always ask the moderator to delete your post so you can share her profile, just a thought.

[QUOTE=RedStar819;4757878]So last night I was browsing the new profiles on SA in my area, and I come across one that's pretty hot. I'm about to message her to get to know her and see if she's down for a PPM type of arrangement, when I realize that her profile pic is worryingly familiar, but I can figure out why because the face is hidden. Then I read the rest of the profile, and the combination of her location, the industry she has on her about me section, and some of the other details made me realize that this is my cousins profile. RIP me, I was essentially just lusting over my cousin.

Obviously I'm not going to share her profile because I don't want her finding out that I'm on the site, or to doxx myself, so sorry guys.[/QUOTE]

Eh, how exactly can we identify you to your cousin? That is a massive leap of BS. Whatever.

Kathy, a masseuse out of Northshore (Stoneham / Peab) 10 years ago, told me a story of her seeing a customer when she worked at the Danish in Kittery, around 2001, after she gave the guy a massage and BJ, afterwards they got to talking, and she realized he was her older distant cousin. It freaked her out a bit, but she didn't stop working at the DHC.

[QUOTE=RedStar819;4757878]So last night I was browsing the new profiles on SA in my area, and I come across one that's pretty hot. I'm about to message her to get to know her and see if she's down for a PPM type of arrangement, when I realize that her profile pic is worryingly familiar, but I can figure out why because the face is hidden. Then I read the rest of the profile, and the combination of her location, the industry she has on her about me section, and some of the other details made me realize that this is my cousins profile. RIP me, I was essentially just lusting over my cousin.

Obviously I'm not going to share her profile because I don't want her finding out that I'm on the site, or to doxx myself, so sorry guys.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Skatar018;4758494]You could have just shared her profile & asked if anyone had seen her, that way there is not a connection to you, otherwise it's a nice story but remains just that a story for those that may have been interested.

You could always ask the moderator to delete your post so you can share her profile, just a thought.[/QUOTE]I'm just going to leave it as an interesting story. Sorry.

[QUOTE=Longjblues;4758541]Eh, how exactly can we identify you to your cousin? That is a massive leap of BS. Whatever.

Kathy, a masseuse out of Northshore (Stoneham / Peab) 10 years ago, told me a story of her seeing a customer when she worked at the Danish in Kittery, around 2001, after she gave the guy a massage and BJ, afterwards they got to talking, and she realized he was her older distant cousin. It freaked her out a bit, but she didn't stop working at the DHC.[/QUOTE]You'd only be able to identify me in the context of me telling you the story, and then still sharing her profile. Had I just shared her profile, none of you would have known she was my cousin.