Unlikely but not impossible
[QUOTE=Nitescape;5831793]Curious if anyone has any experience or feedback with some of the at-home massage services. I would think that girls are eager to make money, especially during these times, and with these services safety and comfort should be less of an issue. I'm thinking of exploring, and at the very least I'll get a decent / good massage for a fair price. Of course, I wouldn't make any aggressive moves in any way, but just feeling the vibe and seeing if a girl is on the same page. Call me crazy but for the girl, why not make WAY more money if you're already there? I'm only looking for nuru or HE.[/QUOTE]The "girls" are CMTs. They go to massage school to learn how to give legit therapeutic massage. Legit massage places hire therapists solely based on their massage skills, not their looks or HJ skills. I hire very good therapists, but I don't have a single one that you'd want to see naked or get a HJ from. A couple of mine worked for Soothe and Zeal, and I've interviewed many others from there. What I hear repeatedly is they don't stay for long because they very quickly get tired of men looking for more, and they're in the guys house where they don't have the protections of being in a spa. Safety and comfort are HUGE issues for the in-home places. I've heard anecdotal stories of occasional HJs happening with these places, but don't count on it. Especially don't count on nuru or full nude or anything like that. They have their professional credentials at stake. If they get caught they literally destroy their career that they spent a lot of time and money to go to school for. These places quite often have secret shopper type programs in place for quality control and adherence to policy (I do the same). In other words they plant customers who, unknown to the providers, are actually informants reporting back to management. The number of actual secret shoppers is very small, but they're put in place as a deterrent to prevent any funny business. The thought is always in the back of their head that if they break the rules, management will find out, even if the person appears to be just any normal customer. If I found out one of my providers gave even one HJ she would be fired on the spot and likely reported to the state certification board, which would make it almost impossible to get another massage therapist job. The in-home places are no different. Few of the girls would put the opportunity to earn a bigger tip above the potential consequences.
Bottom line is sure, it could happen, but I certainly wouldn't be trying it in hopes of getting more. Get a legit massage from one and if more happens, good for you. Rest assured though if you cross a line you will get black listed and wont be able to book through that company again.
Good and bad AMPs of the week
Bad AMPs.
Stay away from 440 fair. In cm. Lots of LE last few days.
I saw them haul away 2 girls from Rose spa.
Oasis spa in sa. Went back to see if the new talent was in and no there wasn't any.
Tlc in cm. Lame he. No boob grabbing or ass grabbing. Just shoved you out.
Tida Thai in cm. Rush job and jack hammer and fugly women.
Cloud 9 is a cloud joke.
Good AMPs.
Panda. In Tustin. BJ and cim.
Jx in Tustin. Mamasan nice tits and he.
Elegant body massage in cm Ask for Lulu. Hot hot hot.
Try any foot massage in their title LOL
[QUOTE=Shender79;5830763]Seen a few mentions of "DIY" on here, but looking for the best OC spots that will tease the absolute hell out of me but make me do the work. It's my itch. So not legit but not HE. Any spots or MT recs?[/QUOTE]Plenty of foot massage.
What world am I living in?
[QUOTE=Nitescape;5834105]LMAO. Are you trolling me? Secret shoppers?
Bruh, Zeel and Soothe are filled with negative reviews because they can't get enough "therapists" and have to constantly cancel appointments made by customers. The therapists are complaining because they can't get responses from management. I highly doubt that a company who can't keep up communications with their own employees has the resources to hire undercover brother to make sure that somewhere, two consenting adults engage in a handjob at the end of a massage. There also isn't some published "blacklist" for a therapist who may have given a handjob to someone. What world are you living in? I get it, cancel culture and society has created an upside-down world, but this is a bit much.
I do agree tho that with a service like Zeel or Soothe, it's less likely; However I don't think it's such a big deal for consenting adults to make mutually beneficial arrangements. We have many home delivery people that service my condo building. The delivery people usually work for Instacart or something like that (which is pretty much the same exact thing as Zeel, just for groceries instead of massage). The delivery people often make special arrangements with us, which benefits everyone. They'll stop for cigarettes or liquor or other items, in addition to the groceries. It's common sense.
I think society today has way too many people uptight and fucked-up. Anyways, if I explore this route I will share my experience either positive or negative. And I know that I can easily go to the places that specifically cater to HE / nuru service but to have an incall setup would be much nicer. I had a setup like this with a Yoga instructor in the past. I met her taking her class at a yoga studio, and then hired her for private training, and then we moved things to her training me at my place instead of the studio, and finally things went from regular therapy to extra. She never felt "unsafe" because she wasn't a little girl. She was an adult, we got to know each other, she learned I was a person of substance and success, and walah.[/QUOTE]I'm living in the world of an owner of a legit massage busines who knows what in the hell he's talking about. I know the industry extremely well. If you don't want to believe it, that's on you. Don't think there's an industry blacklist? Sorry, but you're sorely mistaken. I won't elaborate any further here. People in this thread don't like to hear about this stuff, so feel free to post in the Rants & Stupid Shit thread and I'll banter about it there.
There's a huge difference between a massage therapist and an instacart driver making an extra stop at 7-11 on the way to delivering your groceries. Massage is a licensed profession. They have to go to school and maintain a license in order to practice their trade. If they screw up and get their license suspended then they have to find a new way to make a living. Instacart drivers aren't going to get fired for making an extra stop for something other than groceries, and they aren't even employees. If something happens to them they just find another delivery service to work for.