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I can't remember if I posted this. Creepy but very informative if you are a baller / high roller.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6336352][URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/[/URL]
I can't remember if I posted this. Creepy but very informative if you are a baller / high roller.[/QUOTE]Mr. Hollywood, I recently went through the seeking chat of a former SB of mine (with her permission of course), whom I am still very good friends with. My mind was blown! Not only were men offering her significant amounts of money, but lots of them even paid heavily for the first platonic dates. My 300 ppm made me feel seriously cheap. And this SB was at best a 6 / 10, albeit with a sweet, caring, and submissive personality.
The chief reason seeking girls are quoting large sums is because there are men in LA who have more money than God and the rest of us are getting outbidded. Even the fat and ugly girls on seeking are quoting 500 and above and the extremely gorgeous ones are starting at a 1000. I do have the money, but I have never in my life gotten a satisfying experience whenever I paid more than 400. In fact, they tend to be my worst ones.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6336222]Talking to a 20 yo who says she has a boyfriend, but it's an open relationship and he's cool with it.
Anyone have an experience like this? Is this a bad idea?[/QUOTE]Make sure he is in a band and deals k. This way you know that when she is late for the fuk cha. Ber she was fucking her loser boyfriend and all your money for a non pro is going onto his deejay business.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6336222]Talking to a 20 yo who says she has a boyfriend, but it's an open relationship and he's cool with it.
Anyone have an experience like this? Is this a bad idea?[/QUOTE]Check out my post #7330 from 11 days ago.
[QUOTE=Uncountable;6336532]Mr. Hollywood, I recently went through the seeking chat of a former SB of mine (with her permission of course), whom I am still very good friends with. My mind was blown! Not only were men offering her significant amounts of money, but lots of them even paid heavily for the first platonic dates. My 300 ppm made me feel seriously cheap. And this SB was at best a 6 / 10, albeit with a sweet, caring, and submissive personality.
The chief reason seeking girls are quoting large sums is because there are men in LA who have more money than God and the rest of us are getting outbidded. Even the fat and ugly girls on seeking are quoting 500 and above and the extremely gorgeous ones are starting at a 1000. I do have the money, but I have never in my life gotten a satisfying experience whenever I paid more than 400. In fact, they tend to be my worst ones.[/QUOTE]There will always be girls that will hookup with you for way less for a variety of reasons while they simultaneously rake some other guys over the coals. As a guy that married very young and stayed in long term basically monogamous relationships until I was in my early fifties my dating skills were almost non existent. And dating young girls was something I had not done since I was young.
As an early SD I was spending stupid money because I had it and didn't have to rely on my personality in any way to get the hottest girls (some of whom were great in bed & some not). But once I hit the skids I had to use all my extra time to hard core studying the dynamics of this arena just like it was a full time job in a new industry. I literally dedicated years to dissecting and analyzing every encounter I had and my way of approaching each girl. I had spreadsheets breaking it all down. And tons of notes. I spent hours reflecting on every conversation and sexual encounter.
Most of my life I had a fair amount of pussy but not always from the girls I really wanted it from. And if I had more money I would definitely up the physical quality of the girls I see today. But in no way would I sacrifice the personality type I need to be happy. What I have been spending lately is a pittance. I am not getting the quantity I want but I have few complaints with their overall looks or skills.
When I started this thread I was averaging about 25-40 dates a month for years. Eventually lowering myself to a $ or so per date it still came to 30 k or so a year. But a far cry from my heydey (more like 100 k a year). But over time I could see that the overall quality of the dates was improving even as the amount per date was decreasing.
Today I sacrifice very little in the quality of the sex at all. If it isn't covering all the bases so to speak, I am long gone after the first date. I can say that I have no trouble at all getting the personality types I am looking for which is always a two way street. I am most always the FWB, generic BF or real BF or just the calm in the middle of their stormy lives. So yeah they cut me some serious slack.
It's like most things. If you can get whatever you want by papering it over, it may look good from afar, but be far from good when you get closeup. When you have to work for it, the successes will be sweeter and more rewarding. So guys if you are determined to get the best pussy possible from girls that actually like you and vice versa. Put in the effort and you will be amazed at the results. Sorry for droning on but I guess you triggered me with that post.
So someone want to go through how to use WYP successfully? Even just a little?
I wouldn't pay for it but seeking just gave 50 credits free to port my profile over and I'm not paying for seeking again for a while so why not?
But I dunno that I want to just go around offering girls M / G $, or offering a bunch then trying to whip it around via text to mean not for the date but just to show up at my place.
Share anyone?
Again, just doing it cause it's free and maybe a cheaper alternative at times to seeking.
[QUOTE=Boobman76;6336658]Check out my post #7330 from 11 days ago.[/QUOTE]Just checked that out. Ok so she made you use condoms. I can live with that. I do anyways. I'm more concerned if people say that you should be concerned some jealous dude is going to follow you home or show up banging on your hotel door while you're naked or something.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6336352][URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/[/URL]
I can't remember if I posted this. Creepy but very informative if you are a baller / high roller.[/QUOTE]Just spent some time here.
It's actually kind of amazing how some dudes carry themselves. Maybe I'm just not jaded because I'm married and I feel like it's a privilege to have this kind of covert fun and I'm not jaded by doing it all the time. But man. The guys who end conversations with "fine you were fat anyway" or "if you don't like it there are plenty of other sluts to talk to" is astounding. Like why would you put that kind of energy into the universe? It makes no sense to me. It's so easy to be classy and just say "we clearly aren't a match, best of luck to you" and end things cordially. And bonus if the girl is a *****. Trust that ending with class will only make her feel stupid after she realizes she did not, in fact, get the last laugh. She just ended by proving how much less class she has. There really is no downside to being polite through and through.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6337129]Just spent some time here.
It's actually kind of amazing how some dudes carry themselves. Maybe I'm just not jaded because I'm married and I feel like it's a privilege to have this kind of covert fun and I'm not jaded by doing it all the time. But man. The guys who end conversations with "fine you were fat anyway" or "if you don't like it there are plenty of other sluts to talk to" is astounding. Like why would you put that kind of energy into the universe? It makes no sense to me. It's so easy to be classy and just say "we clearly aren't a match, best of luck to you" and end things cordially. And bonus if the girl is a *****. Trust that ending with class will only make her feel stupid after she realizes she did not, in fact, get the last laugh. She just ended by proving how much less class she has. There really is no downside to being polite through and through.[/QUOTE]I almost always give the girl the last word. There are about 100 of them for every one of us. So who cares? Sometimes I may end with "Not a match but good luck in your search". At that point they start lowering the price or just disappear. Ether way I am gone as I do not negotiate.
Or sometimes I just say "I will keep that in mind and thanks for the quick reply". Or "you are out of my league". Don't wanna get banned because some Karen had a bad hair day.
So I don't mind tattoos on a girl and I love me a petite young Asian. But when I saw this I just couldn't stop thinking about what it would be like to fuck her. I mean, must be totally crazy, right:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/820074bd-2f4b-47d7-bc73-2b4cf3c6c63d[/URL]
Nice girl, good fuck. She's easygoing and knows how to suck cock. No BBFS, but she's athletic and enthusiastic. Not as weird as I though it was going to be.
Pretty expensive at 6. 5, probably won't repeat. But there's a lot of potential there.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6337946]I always give the girl the last word. There are about 100 of them for every one of us. So who cares? Sometimes I may end with "Not a match but good luck in your search". At that point they start lowering the price or just disappear. Ether way I am gone as I do not negotiate.
Or sometimes I just say "I will keep that in mind and thanks for the quick reply".[/QUOTE]See but those are polite ways to close down the interaction. I've got no problem with how you do that.
But I'm seeing lots of situations where the guy wants to end by dunking on the girl. To let her know that he resents and has animus towards her. But why? I can't imagine who these guys are in real life. That kind of stuff isn't contained to texts with sugar girls. That kind of anger is part of a person's fabric of being.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6337979]See but those are polite ways to close down the interaction. I've got no problem with how you do that.
But I'm seeing lots of situations where the guy wants to end by dunking on the girl. To let her know that he resents and has animus towards her. But why? I can't imagine who these guys are in real life. That kind of stuff isn't contained to texts with sugar girls. That kind of anger is part of a person's fabric of being.[/QUOTE]Having been in a few open SB relationships I get a lot of feedback from the girls about what goes on out there. It's definitely not all good.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6337946]Or sometimes I just say "I will keep that in mind and thanks for the quick reply". Or "you are out of my league". Don't wanna get banned because some Karen had a bad hair day.[/QUOTE]I completely agree w / HG. I have definitely used that "you are out of my league" before, there are many ways that could be interpreted, one or two might get the girl to come back w / a more reasonable number.
I hadn't heard "I will keep that in mind" before HG put it here. I think the next time I saw it, a POT was using it on me. So, I at least understood what she meant.
I reported some time back about a 40's MILF, a total knockout, who was trying to have me get a room at a coastal resort for the weekend. I never bit, I don't really have the freedom to do that w / my SO and all. I wrote her off at least a year ago. However, I have seen her profile active on the site recently. Still, as much as I wanted to bang her, I didn't see the point in contacting her. Perhaps she saw my profile on one of the few times I was active on the site (I keep it deactivated when I am not paid up), anyways, I just got a text from her. Hmm, perhaps she has decided to become more reasonable. I would not exclude the possibility. Or perhaps she learned that I was one of the more sane guys on the site, and lots of the other dudes who have been hitting her up weren't.
Last weeks overnite guests.
Girl 1 - 5.5 - 115
Girl 3 - 5.2 - 100
[QUOTE=Sipping;6337973]So I don't mind tattoos on a girl and I love me a petite young Asian. But when I saw this I just couldn't stop thinking about what it would be like to fuck her. I mean, must be totally crazy, right:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/820074bd-2f4b-47d7-bc73-2b4cf3c6c63d[/URL]
Nice girl, good fuck. She's easygoing and knows how to suck cock. No BBFS, but she's athletic and enthusiastic. Not as weird as I though it was going to be.
Pretty expensive at 6. 5, probably won't repeat. But there's a lot of potential there.[/QUOTE]I mean this very nicely and politely. I've always wondered who picks girls like that. To each his own and no judgment. But I'd personally just be alone with my hand than spend 5 minutes in the presence of a girl like that. She scares me. She looks like someone who would do something crazy and you'd look back and say "well obviously. ".
[QUOTE=Murrican;6338440]I mean this very nicely and politely. I've always wondered who picks girls like that. To each his own and no judgment. But I'd personally just be alone with my hand than spend 5 minutes in the presence of a girl like that. She scares me. She looks like someone who would do something crazy and you'd look back and say "well obviously. ".[/QUOTE]Could not agree more. I draw the line at face tattoos, excessive piercings, etc. It is sometimes interesting to fantasize about someone far away from us socially / demographically, and I entertain picking up girls in Starbucks like that, but this is way out there.
FarFarAway, you've had a gift sitting in your inbox for a week now.
You owe me a beer.
Have any of you CA guys gone to London and found success out there? Sorry, I get it, this is a SoCal board, but I'm going out there for work and will be there for several months. It seems everyone out there has "Passport ready" in their profile and probably messaged at least 100+ girls out there, and barely a nibble from anyone.
Any pointers for across to see potential?
[QUOTE=ShowMeHow23;6338760]Have any of you CA guys gone to London and found success out there? Sorry, I get it, this is a SoCal board, but I'm going out there for work and will be there for several months. It seems everyone out there has "Passport ready" in their profile and probably messaged at least 100+ girls out there, and barely a nibble from anyone.
Any pointers for across to see potential?[/QUOTE]There is an international board. Forgot where the link is. Maybe someone can help out?
[QUOTE=Murrican;6338440]I mean this very nicely and politely. I've always wondered who picks girls like that. To each his own and no judgment. But I'd personally just be alone with my hand than spend 5 minutes in the presence of a girl like that. She scares me. She looks like someone who would do something crazy and you'd look back and say "well obviously. ".[/QUOTE]This girl reminds me of the girls that used to go to the fetish parties I used to attend in L. A. Honestly a girl is a girl is a girl. Sometimes the plain jane-iest ones are the freakiest and the freaky looking ones are just posuers trying to look trendy. No comment on this one though as I do not know her.
[QUOTE=ShowMeHow23;6338760]Have any of you CA guys gone to London and found success out there? Sorry, I get it, this is a SoCal board, but I'm going out there for work and will be there for several months. It seems everyone out there has "Passport ready" in their profile and probably messaged at least 100+ girls out there, and barely a nibble from anyone.
Any pointers for across to see potential?[/QUOTE]I would think you should both change your location to London and use a VPN that will cause your "Recent Location" to be reported as UK.
Otherwise, they likely don't even read your message as you're not local.
[QUOTE=RanManCan;6338728]FarFarAway, you've had a gift sitting in your inbox for a week now.
You owe me a beer.[/QUOTE]Mea culpa, man. The shit hit the fan at my house, I haven't had any freedom whatsoever to hit that referral you gave me.
[QUOTE=RanManCan;6338856]I would think you should both change your location to London and use a VPN that will cause your "Recent Location" to be reported as UK.
Otherwise, they likely don't even read your message as you're not local.[/QUOTE]The pursuit of 'road sugar' has a long history. I have done it successfully in several cases. In Chicago and San Fran, for instance. You can find advice about how to go about it posted in sugar threads. I have never done any international, but one my bowl buddies, Murrican, says that is his major playground.
I'm was out in Germany recently-Like RanMan said, just change your Location. I've been out there before and its 50 times better than being back in Central California!! Once they know you're American its like shooting fish in a barrel. They will even travel to you on a train for hours just to meet up. None of that cash app ppm shit. The going rate has been 200-300 euro. Most will take what you give them as long as you treat them nice. I keep the age range between 19-23. I don't do chicks with kids or over 25. Skies the limit. Same rules apply, no pay before play etc etc. London has so many hot young chicks its almost hard to believe.
Don't be too honest in your bio-just say new the area (don't say how long you're going to be there) and looking to chat and possibly connect over drinks. Then just go from. When it's time to leave don't say shit!! They need to believe you live there now and well hell you kinda do.
[QUOTE=RanManCan;6338856]I would think you should both change your location to London and use a VPN that will cause your "Recent Location" to be reported as UK.
Otherwise, they likely don't even read your message as you're not local.[/QUOTE]
Does anyone know if a Visa prepaid card will work for payment on seeking? It seems my account got suspended even though I never had an account. I am forced now to create a secret account.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6338943]The pursuit of 'road sugar' has a long history. I have done it successfully in several cases. In Chicago and San Fran, for instance. You can find advice about how to go about it posted in sugar threads. I have never done any international, but one my bowl buddies, Murrican, says that is his major playground.[/QUOTE]Your bowl buddy concurs.
Actually the origin of my screen name here is just that. I'm the American (murrican) when I travel seek. In Latin American countries it's pretty amazing how far 500 dollars will go. Yesterday I was planning a trip w a 19 year old. Offered the equivalent of 550 dollars which is quite high for where I'm going. And I know it. But I want service. She accepts and later says that normally she's used to 3-5 hour dates but I want basically a 24 hour stint. I very politely replied that I thought my gift was generous but I totally understand if it's not her thing and I'll take that as a hint to move on. I can't tell you how fast she replied. "No it's ok. I'm happy with it. Of course I can". 3 texts in rapid succession. This is, incidentally, why I pay US prices in non-US markets. I want what I want and I don't want to be made to feel like I'm getting a favor.
[QUOTE=ShowMeHow23;6338760]Have any of you CA guys gone to London and found success out there? Sorry, I get it, this is a SoCal board, but I'm going out there for work and will be there for several months. It seems everyone out there has "Passport ready" in their profile and probably messaged at least 100+ girls out there, and barely a nibble from anyone.
Any pointers for across to see potential?[/QUOTE]I've had many great experiences with gorgeous girls in UK, France, Germany, Scandinavia, Prague, and Budapest. I like to line up several girls before traveling through, letting POTs know that I'll be in the area at a certain date. Being an American makes you exotic and interesting to these dimes.
You can also set your location to a European city, and enjoy. There's a dedicated international board with forums specific to each country, though with varying levels of activity.
What does changing your location to the local location do for you? Isn't it just obvious you are not from there when you show up with a different accent and a hotel room?
[QUOTE=FirstClass1;6339212]I've had many great experiences with gorgeous girls in UK, France, Germany, Scandinavia, Prague, and Budapest. I like to line up several girls before traveling through, letting POTs know that I'll be in the area at a certain date. Being an American makes you exotic and interesting to these dimes.
You can also set your location to a European city, and enjoy. There's a dedicated international board with forums specific to each country, though with varying levels of activity.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Murrican;6339274]What does changing your location to the local location do for you? Isn't it just obvious you are not from there when you show up with a different accent and a hotel room?[/QUOTE]The girls do it all the time.
Just a random poll. Only click on the image you are most interested in. This will count the preferences, and the number of clicks will be displayed when you hover over the image.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6339290]The girls do it all the time.[/QUOTE]Right-o. But what does it do? What's the benefit of doing it? Like you show up in searches more or something?
[QUOTE=Murrican;6339436]Right-o. But what does it do? What's the benefit of doing it? Like you show up in searches more or something?[/QUOTE]I know nothing about international. But domestically? Sometimes they travel, or go to school in one city but live in another. I believe the scammers change their address for obvious reasons or sometimes they just get bored or hope you will fly them in if you like them once you find out they live elsewhere. I have had that happen to me a few times, but I never fly girls in.
I only broke that rule recently because I met a girl on tiktok, so not a SB. No payments.
I had a 3 yr SB, starting when she was 20.
At first, she was just one more in my little black book.
Over time, I basically fell for her to the point I would happily inject her with little RanMan's given the opportunity.
She says I'm the 3rd guy she's been with. . . I know I'm probably naive, but I actually believe her.
Over the last few months she started flaking, leaving early, showing up unshaved, and just generally not attentive.
I made clear that I felt it was on the wane and than I had other things that were working out better.
She did put in more effort, but I knew it was just to keep the arrangement going, so I let her go.
I was just too into her, and it wasn't reciprocated, and I just couldn't deal with that anymore.
She never once logged in during our entire time, now she's back with the same old profile (not too smart I think).
Seeing her back on the site a few days later kinda killing me.
Maybe she meets one of you wonderful gents, but I also know that site can be a bit rough on the ladies.
Not-so-secretly hoping she realizes it's fucked up out there and comes begging back . . . I know I'm kidding myself.
Anyone else been here?
[QUOTE=RanManCan;6340780]I had a 3 yr SB, starting when she was 20.
At first, she was just one more in my little black book.
Over time, I basically fell for her to the point I would happily inject her with little RanMan's given the opportunity.
She says I'm the 3rd guy she's been with. . . I know I'm probably nave, but I actually believe her.
Over the last few months she started flaking, leaving early, showing up unshaved, and just generally not attentive.
I made clear that I felt it was on the wane and than I had other things that were working out better.
She did put in more effort, but I knew it was just to keep the arrangement going, so I let her go.
I was just too into her, and it wasn't reciprocated, and I just couldn't deal with that anymore.
She never once logged in during our entire time, now she's back with the same old profile (not too smart I think).
Seeing her back on the site a few days later kinda killing me.
Maybe she meets one of you wonderful gents, but I also know that site can be a bit rough on the ladies.
Not-so-secretly hoping she realizes it's fucked up out there and comes begging back . . . I know I'm kidding myself.
Anyone else been here?[/QUOTE]Yeah I've been there, but I learned to accept the cold hard facts. Sugar babies are just hookers by another name. Sure, maybe they are a bit more picky about their johns and they stick around longer, but let's not kid ourselves, they're hookers and you can't turn a ho into a housewife. If you want Mama or Mrs. RanMan you meet her in church or at the park or something, not on SA bro. Move on as soon as possible, otherwise you're just wasting your time and energy.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f9f6f90d-1583-47dc-9132-137a259c34b3[/URL]
HG, you have said every guy wants a GF who loves to fuck, until he actually gets a GF who loves to fuck.
I appreciate your sharing that. It's a dimension of this game that goes undiscussed.
There's a saying that you should never love things because they can't love you back. The same can be said about people. Don't love people who can't or won't love you back. It's easier said than done of course. But you know it's true. If she is back on the site after a few days you are not having the same experience in the relationships as she is.
[QUOTE=RanManCan;6340780]I had a 3 yr SB, starting when she was 20.
At first, she was just one more in my little black book.
Over time, I basically fell for her to the point I would happily inject her with little RanMan's given the opportunity.
She says I'm the 3rd guy she's been with. . . I know I'm probably naive, but I actually believe her.
Over the last few months she started flaking, leaving early, showing up unshaved, and just generally not attentive.
I made clear that I felt it was on the wane and than I had other things that were working out better.
She did put in more effort, but I knew it was just to keep the arrangement going, so I let her go.
I was just too into her, and it wasn't reciprocated, and I just couldn't deal with that anymore.
She never once logged in during our entire time, now she's back with the same old profile (not too smart I think).
Seeing her back on the site a few days later kinda killing me.
Maybe she meets one of you wonderful gents, but I also know that site can be a bit rough on the ladies.
Not-so-secretly hoping she realizes it's fucked up out there and comes begging back . . . I know I'm kidding myself.
Anyone else been here?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Murrican;6341424]I appreciate your sharing that. It's a dimension of this game that goes undiscussed.
There's a saying that you should never love things because they can't love you back. The same can be said about people. Don't love people who can't or won't love you back. It's easier said than done of course. But you know it's true. If she is back on the site after a few days you are not having the same experience in the relationships as she is.[/QUOTE]For sure, you don't want to fall in love w / a SB. The fact a lot of us have SOs we are committed to, for whatever reason, tends to prevent that. You can use the excuse of catching feelings to ditch a SB also.
I have a theory about those guys who famously assert here that SBs are no different than hookers. It isn't too flattering, I'll just say. I don't fuck escorts, Korean apartment girls, masseuses, streetwalkers, etc. , but some of you see them as all the same. Too bad if so. I'd prefer those w / that attitude stay away from SA, because a John attitude is the largest risk to the continued existence of the site. I can only find what I want (high quality pussy, ongoing, and ideally an exclusive relationship) on SA, so I don't want anyone to mess it up. I want true NPs. Hard to find, great to keep.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6341369][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f9f6f90d-1583-47dc-9132-137a259c34b3[/URL]
HG, you have said every guy wants a GF who loves to fuck, until he actually gets a GF who loves to fuck.[/QUOTE]Well I hope she liked to titty fuck as well. Be a shame to see them go to waste. My new GF (met on tiktok) told me the other day that we needed to limit our fucking to 3 or 4 times a day. LOL.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6341462]For sure, you don't want to fall in love w / a SB. The fact a lot of us have SOs we are committed to, for whatever reason, tends to prevent that. You can use the excuse of catching feelings to ditch a SB also.
I have a theory about those guys who famously assert here that SBs are no different than hookers. It isn't too flattering, I'll just say. I don't fuck escorts, Korean apartment girls, masseuses, streetwalkers, etc. , but some of you see them as all the same. Too bad if so. I'd prefer those w / that attitude stay away from SA, because a John attitude is the largest risk to the continued existence of the site. I can only find what I want (high quality pussy, ongoing, and ideally an exclusive relationship) on SA, so I don't want anyone to mess it up. I want true NPs. Hard to find, great to keep.[/QUOTE]In 16 years of sugaring I have fallen in love 3 times. The first one was a true psycho. But she could only keep up her "normal girl" game for about 6 months. I had the LAPD remove her from my home 3 times after we broke up. She was exclusive to me for about a year and then non-exclusive for another year. Long story.
The second girl we were never a good match in the FC, so it was difficult but necessary to break up (although we are still together in an open relationship 10 years later). And we will always be a out of sync in the FC but I am grateful for what I do get and we do rely on each other emotionally quite a bit (facetime multiple times a day, everyday).
With the third one we had come to a crossroads between me and another guy and another girl she both almost married. She got engaged to the other two but eventually she chose the other guy, then came back to me two years later, but it just wasn't the same. She found her own path as people often do. I am actually still in love with her but my new GF is working very hard to make me forget her. As a single guy I will let myself go because I do not care about the inevitable pain that will pop up at some time in the future. It's just a part of life (mine anyways).
I did have at least 3 other girls that wanted to marry me but I was strictly in the booty call mindset with them. So no issues there. I know that at least two of them did marry right after leaving me, so that was their goal in life. I have never been super lucky in love and have never met my so called soul-mate. Although my second wife and the afore mentioned girls 2 & 3 I had high hopes for. Especially girl three. And my new GF is going all out but she has a couple of flaws I am going to have to accept to stay in the game.
Being a perfectionist in almost everything I do is a battle I have waged my entire life. And makes it especially difficult in relationships. Which is the main reason I have had multiple serious overlapping relationships over the years to try and fill in the gaps.
But to get to your point. These are not the type of relationships you would expect to have with a pro SB or whatever term you wish to use. I have a pro SB girl here in vegas. I tried to up the relationship but she basically laughed it off (more than once). I actually had to stop seeing her a while back as I just could not keep it professional. But we still chat and she is down for a $ anytime I want to see her.
Sidebar... Has anyone purchased Oxytocin online? I got some recently but have not used it yet. I only want to use it with girl 3 (who asked me to buy it) or my new GF when the time is right.
Hoping to draw on the collective wisdom of this board.
Are usually seek internationally. Just lined one up locally that I'm pretty stoked about.
Problem is she can't host and I can't have a local hotel on my credit card because I'm married.
Is there a way to stay at a hotel but not with a credit card? I thought about getting a prepaid card, but I'm pretty sure you can't use those for the incidentals run on your credit card.