General Reports

[QUOTE=Mister Pickles; 1250233]I have a question to piggyback off of FTguy68's question. Is there a general consensus on which verification site is better? I'm an SW enthusiast turned escort enthusiast due to Uncle LEO pretty much cleaning up all the SW action in my area (Tallahassee) but a lot of the more established and well reviewed ladies require either references or verification through one of these sites. Date check and P411 seem like the two best sites but I don't see the value of joining both so which, in you guys' (and gals') opinion, is the better of the two?

I'm leaning toward date check because (1) they don't ask so many damn questions provided you have a lady to vouch for you, (2) I have the option to make a one-time lifetime payment versus endless annual payments and (3) it seems like the more prominent of the two, sort of like master card whereas P411 is visa.

I posted here because the Talla-hayseed boards are a bit dead and I occasionally make my way through the Gainseville-Ocala-Orlando-Tampa areas a few times a year and this board seems to be the most active of the cities I frequent so I figured I'd get the best answer here. Throw me a frickin' bone here.

Thanks,

Mr P.[/QUOTE]Date Check all the way baby. Then of course a referral from one of the fine providers on this forum.

Without that I know myself, I will not see you.

[QUOTE=Ricky James1; 1250821]My rule is that if a girl wants to verify you then go find another girl. I've never seen a girl that checked references or asked for personal info like your work phone number, drivers license, etc. There's no need to ever, ever, ever, ever show any of that stuff to an

Escort. Plenty of top quality girls out there who all you have to do to see is just pick up the phone and make a date.[/QUOTE]"No Jersey Girl for you."

Jersey,

All your adds say verification required. For some of us that don't know, can you give us a feel for what that means in the hobby, and you specifically?

[QUOTE=Michael Caffey; 1250533]What gives with the increasingly negative tone of our forum community; and I am not referring to the occasional personality conflicts amongst members.

The ladies read these forums, even if they don't post / participate. Especially the ladies who tour, or are considering touring.

I know for a fact some very prime and desireable women have opted [b][u]not[/u][/b] To come to Orlando because of the attitudes they have read on here.

[b]Your audience is not simply fellow mongers. [/b]

I am not suggesting anyone not participate, or make excuses for bad service providers, etc. It wouldn't hurt, however, to speak a lot less in unprovable generalities that broad brush all providers in a bad light. The misogynistic rants that are sandwiched in between self-backpatting posts about how well the mongers of Orlando treat our lady friends also aren't working in our favor. It makes our little community look like a joke and turns providers off to the prospects of coming here. [b]Like anyone with a job, providers want to be appreciated for the work and effort they put in to this game just as much as they want the money[/b]; at least that is true of independents.

Constantly whining about donations isn't helping either. If you have your price point, so be it. Stick with what you feel you can afford and are willing to pay, but stop trying to nickle and dime the ladies that choose to have higher rates. You are ruining it for the rest of us who find they are worth every penny.

Be honest, be fair, but for Christ sake, be smart about what you are posting too. I am not unrealistic, as I realize that some negative posts are bound to happen; and some, quite frankly, should. This rant is meant to address the fact that in the last several months (going on a year) things on here have taken a significant turn for the worst and the negative is winning out over the positive. That is [b][u]not[/u][/b] In the best interests of our community and I hope others of you will recognize what I am saying and try to be part of the solution as well.[/QUOTE]I think part of the problem is that mongers use this board as a means of venting their frustrations about life's other problems. Used to be, bad day at work, go home and kick the dog. PETA won't allow that shit, so now, it's get online and kick a few of your fellow mongers.

I know I was being a dick about a year ago. I had some issues that were really stressing me out. I found myself cruising the posts on here just looking to trash someone. Sadly, I found a few and made a fool out of myself. At least I had the common sense to apologize to a few of the mongers I wrongfully bashed.

Some mongers on here actually have different handles they use. They do this when they're feeling mean and want to bash somebody without ruining their "good" handle.

We all need to remember that each and every handle on her belongs to a real, live human being. We should all try to treat each other with the same respect you show co-workers, customers, and friends.

This is my first post in a while but in reading other posts I feel an urgent need to notify everyone here of one fact.

All Checking sites if it date or fuck or any kind of sms verify, whatever they call themselves now is a RIP OFF or vice do not fall for this.

[QUOTE=Ricky James1;1250821]My rule is that if a girl wants to verify you then go find another girl. I've never seen a girl that checked references or asked for personal info like your work phone number, drivers license, etc. There's no need to ever, ever, ever, ever show any of that stuff to an escort. Plenty of top quality girls out there who all you have to do to see is just pick up the phone and make a date.[/QUOTE]I have no issues with showing my DL's to a provider when I arrive as long as she shows me heir's at the same time! If the provider won't show her drivers license as well if she's feels the need to verify me then the deals off the table and I'm out the door! Unless she's a high level well known porn star there's no real need for me to ever give out really personal info to verify myself to her in detail! There is far to much talent in Orlando to waste time with the whole verification process the hand full of providers out there may try to put a monger through. Like RJ1 said just go find another gal! I will say this, if you hold any real status out there in the real world you better be damn careful what info you're passing out to any escort provider out there! May as well tattoo STUPID on your forehead if you end up giving out to much info to the wrong provider and it comes back to bite you in the ass.

OP

[QUOTE=Carlosa; 1251030]This is my first post in a while but in reading other posts I feel an urgent need to notify everyone here of one fact.

All Checking sites if it date or fuck or any kind of sms verify, whatever they call themselves now is a RIP OFF or vice do not fall for this.[/QUOTE]Specifically, which sites are you referring to?

[QUOTE=Vino 7373;1250994]Some mongers on here actually have different handles they use. They do this when they're feeling mean and want to bash somebody without ruining their "good" handle.[/QUOTE]I'd be interested to know how you arrived at this conclusion. VS has accused me of having multiple identities on this board but is unable to provide any proof, just paranoid ramblings. People tend to present a lot of BS on this board as though it were fact. I'd prefer we all stick to statements that can be verified.

Yours,

Monky Boy. No wait, I mean The Antagonist. Or is that Barnaby Jon? Ah hell VS, who am I again?

Lydia.

The 2nd. Roommate now wants into the mix.

27, 5' x 120, long brown hair.

No anal.

No black men preferred,

Kissing ok, BBBJ,

Open on time and pops,

Making you happy is her goal.

I'm meeting her for lunch and will know more soon.

Pics soon.

West side. 50 and Hiwassee area

[QUOTE=Ftguy68;1249263]Does anyone here us P411? Just wondering because they ask a lot of questions. But it seems like an easy way to prove you are what you say you are, provider or hobbyist.[/QUOTE]I was referred by a provider for a 90 day test drive. I was asked NO questions. Other than the log in name, PW, and an them (I think?). As I was pre-verified.

And that was that.

It works.

You are a saint.

[QUOTE=Jethrow1; 1251175]Lydia.

The 2nd. Roommate now wants into the mix.

27, 5' x 120, long brown hair.

No anal.

No black men preferred,

Kissing ok, BBBJ,

Open on time and pops,

Making you happy is her goal.

I'm meeting her for lunch and will know more soon.

Pics soon.

West side. 50 and Hiwassee area[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Carlosa; 1251030]This is my first post in a while but in reading other posts I feel an urgent need to notify everyone here of one fact.

All Checking sites if it date or fuck or any kind of sms verify, whatever they call themselves now is a RIP OFF or vice do not fall for this.[/QUOTE]In Pittsburgh I belong to Indys. Com and have over 50 vouches in the last year. Before my recent trip to Orlando, I did my research and found that Indys, while it does exist in Orlando is virtually a ghost town. I knew that I was going to be hobbying and so checked out the verification sites before I made the trip. I joined date-check free (had met with some of the providers and they verified me) with very minimum info given up. Thank the Lord that I did because all 6 ladies that I met in Orlando and Tampa used the site to verify me painlessly, including and most notably Jerseygirl, the gold standard of providers in your town and anywhere on God's green earth IMHO.

[QUOTE=Jethrow1; 1251175]Lydia.

The 2nd. Roommate now wants into the mix 27, 5' x 120, long brown hair.

No anal.

No black men preferred,

Kissing ok, BBBJ,

Open on time and pops,

Making you happy is her goal.

I'm meeting her for lunch and will know more soon.

Pics soon.

West side. 50 and Hiwassee area[/QUOTE]Because Jet, you got mucho macho mojo for sure.

Hot damn what a lunch I just had, sweet little 5 foot tall 120 lb. Package with 36 D tits.
She is only here till Wednesday morning, and is moving to Arizona.

Hurry, I'm hit and miss on USA on the weekend, Sr. Members or trusted only

[QUOTE=OldPumper; 1251054]I have no issues with showing my DL's to a provider when I arrive as long as she shows me heir's at the same time! If the provider won't show her drivers license as well if she's feels the need to verify me then the deals off the table and I'm out the door! Unless she's a high level well known porn star there's no real need for me to ever give out really personal info to verify myself to her in detail! There is far to much talent in Orlando to waste time with the whole verification process the hand full of providers out there may try to put a monger through. Like RJ1 said just go find another gal! I will say this, if you hold any real status out there in the real world you better be damn careful what info you're passing out to any escort provider out there! May as well tattoo STUPID on your forehead if you end up giving out to much info to the wrong provider and it comes back to bite you in the ass.

OP[/QUOTE]Both of you have hit the nail on the head. References, P411, DateCheck, none one of these offer any kind of protection to any provider. It's a false sense of security. I won't even show my DL. I've had it instilled in my head over the many years of working for a government agency to not give out any unnecessary information. I'll tell them my first name, and that's all that they need to know. If that's not good enough, then like OP, the deal is off the table and I walk away. I value my life and my personal information, and that's the way it will always be.