[QUOTE=Longjblues;6159040]She hasn't responded to my texts over the last week or so. Not sure what's up.[/QUOTE]Same. All good until trying to schedule then nothing.
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[QUOTE=Longjblues;6159040]She hasn't responded to my texts over the last week or so. Not sure what's up.[/QUOTE]Same. All good until trying to schedule then nothing.
I have been talking to a lady or man from Worcester county. We exchanged explicit messages and agreed to meet. However, some of the messages made me uncomfortable because there was reference to another man joining us. When I said, I don't play like that, she mentioned that we are both fucking her. Google shows that the number (413* 0252) belongs to a 56 year old man. Does any of communicate with this person?
[QUOTE=Syedna;6155426]I've seen her before.
She came to my house for 250. GFK, BBBJ, BBFS.
Pics are her.
Worth a visit.[/QUOTE]Sorry I meant GFE not GFK.
[QUOTE=HounDog3;6160064]Same. All good until trying to schedule then nothing.[/QUOTE]It was probably three months ago that I saw her so, I have no idea what's up with her these days.
[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6149248]I like doing public meets as part of the date night. For example, if public meet was at the casino, first place I'm going to is the bar where they can meet up. They can decide right then or there. After that could be dinner, or the bed room. But, I don't want to waste the time meeting publicly if nothing is planned immediately after.[/QUOTE]Makes sense to plan like that, but unless you have some idea about the odds, how do you make it financially worth it? If you need to be able to head up to the room from the bar, you ought to have booked a room already. So if the girl is a no go, you forfeit the room charges. On the other hand, if you get a room only after you determine that you are going to need it, then you pay the higher instant booking rate, ain't it? Unless, of course, if you are already staying in the casino, then I stand corrected.
[QUOTE=EmsKula;6160605]I have been talking to a lady or man from Worcester county. We exchanged explicit messages and agreed to meet. However, some of the messages made me uncomfortable because there was reference to another man joining us. When I said, I don't play like that, she mentioned that we are both fucking her. Google shows that the number (413* 0252) belongs to a 56 year old man. Does any of communicate with this person?[/QUOTE]I don't always trust what Google says when I Google a number. There is a 96 year old man that comes up when I search my number and I'm only about a third of that age. I would trust my gut on this one though, if they are that insistent on a man joining and that's not your thing then I wouldn't bother. One test you could try is to call from a different number or texting app, and see who answers or what the voicemail says.
Does anyone have a new number for bookbabe out in haverhill or a snapchat. I can't get a text back lately and she sits on sugardaddymeet all day. Anyone can PM me.
[QUOTE=Mendez4;6161239]Makes sense to plan like that, but unless you have some idea about the odds, how do you make it financially worth it? If you need to be able to head up to the room from the bar, you ought to have booked a room already. So if the girl is a no go, you forfeit the room charges. On the other hand, if you get a room only after you determine that you are going to need it, then you pay the higher instant booking rate, ain't it? Unless, of course, if you are already staying in the casino, then I stand corrected.[/QUOTE]I typically have already had the sex discussion before actually meeting anyone. We are kidding ourselves if anyone thinks SA is a dating site however some girls will attempt to pretend that sex isn't what you are here for. You can save yourself some time by casually or directly bring it into the conversation. Being direct may not work as well because most of the girls are still trying to act like they are not sex workers. It's a mutually beneficial arrangement.
Meet for coffee first and don't expect sex on the first "date" so you won't be disappointed. If it leads to a hotel immediately than I would recommend coughing up the extra few bucks because you missed the pre booking rate. SA is not the low budget plan for getting laid. You need to invest time and more money than you were expecting. Usually the reward is a non pro experience with a hot typically younger college age girl. At least that is my preference. As many "pros" have discovered SA you may find some girls ready and willing to hook up but you can usually identify these ladies quickly and decide if they are for you.
Don’t waste your money getting a room until you have met the girl unless she agrees to meet at the hotel. Then wait until she shows up before checking in if you are not sure. Nothing is guaranteed but a quick meet and greet will save a lot of frustration.
[QUOTE=Mendez4;6161239]Makes sense to plan like that, but unless you have some idea about the odds, how do you make it financially worth it? If you need to be able to head up to the room from the bar, you ought to have booked a room already. So if the girl is a no go, you forfeit the room charges. On the other hand, if you get a room only after you determine that you are going to need it, then you pay the higher instant booking rate, ain't it? Unless, of course, if you are already staying in the casino, then I stand corrected.[/QUOTE]The way I make it financially worth is detailed planning. First, I have enough points that I get free rooms. So, either way, I've already planned to go there. All I do in the meantime, is try & set something up w / these women. At the end of the day, as of now, I only have my travel costs. Whereas, other people may travel through multiple states. I don't do that. (I may in the future). But right now, I simply use Uber everywhere, or commuter rail to get where I need to go. I usually get there really early. To the casinos, like between 5 and 7 am.
So, in the end, YES, some may be a no show. That's fine, room is already paid for. I'm already at a place to have fun anyway. Then I either got STG as a quick fall back if necessary.
But I haven't paid for a room yet. Especially, now, Oct. & Nov. , Encore is hard to book. Right now, every week is available at the Wood.
Anyone seen this girl before?
Profile: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a0de7b43-a753-48c1-a682-8570472a38ad[/URL].
Profile Name: Salemthe09.
So, this one is a trip. I should have known better overall, (you'll learn why). So, the conversation on Seeking started about 12 days ago. She wrote back, and seemed interested.
My "partial" red flag was the limited & short answers to questions or statements. I tend to write a lot. However, from them, I often get 1 & 2-word replies or very short sentences.
I say it's a partial red flag because they aren't putting in the effort.
Then asked for my cell number. Typically, I'd prefer to get the number from them and have me a text first. Even if I have a burner number. So, then we started texting on the burner. However, she decides to give me her personal iPhone number. This was 'partial' red flag #2. The reason is that if imessage is turned on, you know when a person has actually read the message & if they are currently typing a message. I had added a "special note" under her name that I should've headed warnings too. I wrote, "has an app number, bit suspicious, talks a lot, willing to do facetime. Her current size maybe bigger than pics" LOL. So, yes, she went from one & to 2-word sentences to long-winded sentences while texting. I was okay with that. And she was willing to come up on camera & do a video chat. I was very surprised, which wiped away my "partial" red flags.
Then, someone, we started talking about scammers, and I was telling stories w / the goal of setting up a date. That's when it starts. Got to watch the lines you write to them cause they'll try & finagle their way in.
Here's how it went.
1. requested to exchange some additional recent pictures -- my goal was to see if the images matched her original. She sent videos & pictures. However, the videos didn't show her face.
2. Then I ask where she is located. The goal here is to find out how far she is from where I need her to go -- I haven't done the go to their host & have them host yet. I'm still learning about that.
3. From here, she tells me her location but then proceeds to tell me how she needs help and is stranded.
4. From there, the conversation was about her father having a brain aneurysm in the hospital. She needed money to rent a hotel near the hospital cause she didn't want to sleep in the car.
5. I said, you just met me, why are you asking me for funds like this. Why not contact your friends & family members? Basically, she says her friends are broke, & her brother is overseas in the military. All she wanted (this first time) was around $50. She then proceeded to tell me she'd be up for anything. I told her, I do not send funds before meeting people in real life.
6. I attempted to do more research. Everything started to seem legit though. I was able to find her facebook, other social media accounts through image search. Her emails, I was able to look them up & find them as well.
7. She actually showed pictures of her car, her gas tank, where she was in front of work for the job she was doing.
8. So our conversations kept going. But every day, seemed to be she was in some type of trouble. Her dad getting worse in the hospital and she ahs no guess money. Door dash was simply not paying the bills.
9. So, I went ahead & sent $50 to her. And then the asks kept coming. It was foolish & stupid I know. But I guess, we'll call it research.
10. Then after that, almost every other day, the Asks kept coming. For me, that was it. I listened, I changed the subject. Yesterday, I blatantly told her, a.) we haven't even met up, b.) this is supposed to be No Strings Attached, c.), I don't want to be apart of depressing issues & negativity. I'm here to go out & have fun.
11. Then she went crazy about she's not a business transaction, and, that "I" should care about her father of who I don't even know. Then she tries to make fun of my job, upon which she has even know idea of what I actually do, then calls me cheap. LOL, I was like yep, I'm cheap. I'm a business man. Any business man who doesn't look for the deals, the low cost avenues, will probably not be in business for long. LOL I'm not here to provide $100 just to "communicate" and text message with someone. That shit is crazy.
Oh, by the way, the pictures for her profile, seemed to not be her when she came up on cam. I will be honest, I'm not fully 100% sure, however, on cam, she was a bit disheveled, had sweatpants & shirt on & overall looked a bit thicker. The videos & pics she sent, did not show the face.
So, basically it came down to this, and this is the question I pose to everyone.
She writes to me " . You should want to "help out" if you care about me and just because you meet someone doesn't make a difference if you know them or not. No one knows anyone on the first date or even the second or third".
When I read this line, I started picking up this concept of the word / phrase: "Help Out". Can you help me out? I'm in the need of some help. I'm having a horrible day, can you help. Feeling lost, can ya help.
As of now, I think there's a category of women, who are either really down & out or may not have any income coming in or are truly dead broke or just have some major financial issues.
With that said, my belief right now is that, the site (seeking) is a Dating Site, and not a "Help Out" site. And under no circumstances should we be shelling out any cash "prior" to actually meeting.
So the question to you all is: Should We Be "Helpers" in any circumstance before meeting, during the acquaintanceship, or even after that first date?
I've been on Seeking for a few years now and it's always been difficult weeding through the fakes and everything else however, it seems worse than ever to me now. Is there anybody else seeing that or is it just me?
[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6164974]Profile: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a0de7b43-a753-48c1-a682-8570472a38ad[/URL].
Profile Name: Salemthe09.
So the question to you all is: Should We Be "Helpers" in any circumstance before meeting, during the acquaintanceship, or even after that first date?[/QUOTE]No. No we shouldn't, unless someone is trying to be a Helper for some odd reason. As soon as that #3 happened, I would have said "let's meet in person / at a hotel" to get you the money for your dad. Or I would have stopped talking. I'm not on the site to date or send money virtually. I'm there to preferably set up a PPM where I'm leaving satisfied. I'm not sending money virtually to someone I haven't met before. Even if they have credible social media and if they turn out to actually be the true person in the pics. Everyday people can be scammers too.
[QUOTE=Kenankel;6165403]No. No we shouldn't, unless someone is trying to be a Helper for some odd reason. As soon as that #3 happened, I would have said "let's meet in person / at a hotel" to get you the money for your dad. Or I would have stopped talking. I'm not on the site to date or send money virtually. I'm there to preferably set up a PPM where I'm leaving satisfied. I'm not sending money virtually to someone I haven't met before. Even if they have credible social media and if they turn out to actually be the true person in the pics. Everyday people can be scammers too.[/QUOTE]Thanks bro. Yea, I know I messed up. But I do know that others have even being sucked in too. Another woman below, she just did a video vibe for all to see. "Someone" had bought her a GIFT using the Gifts feature on seeking. Here's the problem, from what I understand, the receiver of the Gift did not even know who it came from! In her vibe, she's like, "I thank for the gift of this "Brand name" Purse - (I didn't get the exact name of it, maybe Chanel), then she says, "whoever sent it to me, thank you I love you" . She didn't even know who it came from. That's horrible.
No upfronts. No Gifts. No help. No virtual online fun.
Staying away from people who have on-going problems & headaches. No Strings means, no strings.
If they show pictures & videos willingly. Fine.
If they want to meetup in person w / no transactions. Fine.
Profile link: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1e0b84a9-7ad3-4c00-a51a-cdced01c84f3[/URL].
Profile name: Vieeviee.
[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6164974]Profile: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a0de7b43-a753-48c1-a682-8570472a38ad[/URL].
Profile Name: Salemthe09.
So, this one is a trip. I should have known better overall, (you'll learn why). So, the conversation on Seeking started about 12 days ago. She wrote back, and seemed interested.
[/QUOTE]I am 99% sure I talked to the same person. This time her dog had just died and she was far from home, depressed, crying and exhausted. She needed to book a hotel for the night and wanted $50. Ready to video chat and send any verification pic I required. For 100 milliseconds I believed her LOL.
Finally I proposed that I book the hotel for her and prepay. She pushed back saying that if she pays for it she'll get enough points for another free night. Yeah right!
TL; DR Under no circumstances send money! Doing that will just encourage them to keep looking!
[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6164974]Profile: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a0de7b43-a753-48c1-a682-8570472a38ad[/URL].
As of now, I think there's a category of women, who are either really down & out or may not have any income coming in or are truly dead broke or just have some major financial issues.
With that said, my belief right now is that, the site (seeking) is a Dating Site, and not a "Help Out" site. And under no circumstances should we be shelling out any cash "prior" to actually meeting.
So the question to you all is: Should We Be "Helpers" in any circumstance before meeting, during the acquaintanceship, or even after that first date?[/QUOTE]The women agree to not be asking for money before meeting when they sign up for an account. It's a site policy and they will get banned if you report them for doing this with evidence. I also have mentioned to several that it is a felony to request money by lying or presenting false information. At least that's my understanding of "wire fraud". Shrug?
That being said I did give a couple girls presents before meeting in the past. One turned into a pretty good relationship. Nursing student 19 yr old who let me do unspeakable things to her in bed. The other was a 20 yr old Indian music student from downtown. Scammy but real. Asked for some Venmo for money for her dog. Sent me some nude videos and pics that I uh commissioned. Swore we would meet. I verified everything and she was real she was just never going to meet and f* So it's always a risk.
Like others have mentioned I try to always meet first before any goods are exchanged! Scammers got to scam I guess.
Sorry about your experience!
NEVER give them anything prior to meeting. I'll rephrase that, never give anything until after you got what you want out of the arrangement. Whatever that may be. For me, its intimacy. So I never pay until after the deed is done.
I'm generally speaking, but I feel most of the women on SA (not all) are flat out liars. I don't believe anything they ever say and frankly, don't care what they say. I'm trying to make a deal or "arrangement" with them. Their sob story or bullshit, isn't my concern. I tend to back off from women with too much of a sob story. Just seems like a red flag for potential problems.
[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6164974]Profile: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a0de7b43-a753-48c1-a682-8570472a38ad[/URL].
Profile Name: Salemthe09.
So, this one is a trip. I should have known better overall, (you'll learn why). So, the conversation on Seeking started about 12 days ago. She wrote back, and seemed interested.
My "partial" red flag was the limited & short answers to questions or statements. I tend to write a lot. However, from them, I often get 1 & 2-word replies or very short sentences.
I say it's a partial red flag because they aren't putting in the effort.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Joe1223;6162349]I typically have already had the sex discussion before actually meeting anyone. We are kidding ourselves if anyone thinks SA is a dating site however some girls will attempt to pretend that sex isn't what you are here for. You can save yourself some time by casually or directly bring it into the conversation. Being direct may not work as well because most of the girls are still trying to act like they are not sex workers. It's a mutually beneficial arrangement.
Meet for coffee first and don't expect sex on the first "date" so you won't be disappointed. If it leads to a hotel immediately than I would recommend coughing up the extra few bucks because you missed the pre booking rate. SA is not the low budget plan for getting laid. You need to invest time and more money than you were expecting. Usually the reward is a non pro experience with a hot typically younger college age girl. At least that is my preference. As many "pros" have discovered SA you may find some girls ready and willing to hook up but you can usually identify these ladies quickly and decide if they are for you. Dont waste your money getting a room until you have met the girl unless she agrees to meet at the hotel. Then wait until she shows up before checking in if you are not sure. Nothing is guaranteed but a quick meet and greet will save a lot of frustration.[/QUOTE]Whenever I am meeting someone new I never book a room first. I will happily pay the extra cash to book when she gets there. I even do that for some girls that are just shady anyways even if I HAVE seen them before. I'll just pick a hotel with a decent lobby bar or a big enough lobby to blend in while I wait and if she shows up (without a dude behind her😂 it's game on. I'll have her sit down away from the check in so she doesn't get my real info and I'll go do my thing and get our room going.
I had one girl I did this with and she was absolutely smoking hot but I didn't trust her and I even lied to her after checking in about what our room / floor number was. I really just wanted to buy some time so she couldn't text anyone the number and try to pull something shady.
Also, slightly unrelated, if I'm picking them up somewhere (which I always try to avoid), I'll lie and tell them I'm going to be there 30-40 minutes after I actually show up. I'll park down the street and just watch. It can be a time suck but one time in Worcester I think this saved me from being blocked in and robbed on a one way street.
[QUOTE=Guandex;6163377]Anyone seen this girl before?[/QUOTE]New Bedford area?
[QUOTE=IOnDaStreet;6168536]New Bedford area?[/QUOTE]Yes, pm me if easier.
[QUOTE=Guandex;6163377]Anyone seen this girl before?[/QUOTE]Not sure why but posts like this from a brand new / 1st time poster account always make me feel like it's a boyfriend / relative / friend fact checking LOL.
[QUOTE=SwimSays;6169583]Not sure why but posts like this from a brand new / 1st time poster account always make me feel like it's a boyfriend / relative / friend fact checking LOL.[/QUOTE]LOL no no been on here awhile took a break, lost my account PW had to start a new account.
Anyone have any info on Jane-Grace on Seeking? 32 yr old, 5'5, athletic brunette actually on North Shore. Here are link, pic, and info for your reference. She quoted 300 and is able to host. Curious to know more.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e9f622da-cc22-4043-9e4d-e6bbd64313f3[/URL]
"I'm an outgoing, fun, loving lady looking for a good time and a mutually beneficial relationship. I enjoy a variety of excursions in my free time from outdoor adventures to fine dinning and a show and most of all dancing!... I am also a tantalizing amateur masseuse. ... I aim to please so let me know what you want to do and where you want to go, I'm excited to see what's next and try new things. Let's get to know each other! ".
Credibility is always suspect for poster with only one subject. I assume the post is to draw attention to the lady for promotional purposes. What was your former moniker?
[QUOTE=Guandex;6169625]LOL no no been on here awhile took a break, lost my account PW had to start a new account.[/QUOTE]
I picked this girl up to go for a ride a few years ago.
She's weird, offered to just drive around talk to get a vibe on her.
Lot of super sketchy stuff, has a bf she lives with but they aren't really together and he let's her do what she wants, some girl called her to hangout was crying saying baby I need you on the phone.
Nice ass tho so I was trying to seev where the night could go.
Stopped at 711 for something. Drove past my place to see if she wanted to go. She got all awkward, wasn't forcing it so left. Went to drop her off, we made out for awhile but she didn't want to do anything else and literally wouldn't get out of my car. I forget if she was asking for money or not but I just remember her not wanting it to go further and not getting out of my car cause she didn't want to see her BF. Total headcase.
[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6110286]This one is too far for me and she doesn't drive so I figured I'd share (got her permission too) [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9dc8019f-2aa5-48c1-8465-aad552037636[/URL].
She says she's in an "open relationship", is 3 months pregnant, but can host, and agreed to 200 (she doesn't like the term PPM, so make sure you call it an allowance). I'm too lazy rn to upload but she looks pretty good in her private pics. If she tickles your fancy she's all yours, fellas.[/QUOTE]
My interpretation is she wants a platonic sugar daddy who would let her hang out at his house whenever she needs to as a kind of a shelter.
[QUOTE=AcconRed;6169981]I picked this girl up to go for a ride a few years ago.
She's weird, offered to just drive around talk to get a vibe on her.
Lot of super sketchy stuff, has a bf she lives with but they aren't really together and he let's her do what she wants, some girl called her to hangout was crying saying baby I need you on the phone.
Nice ass tho so I was trying to seev where the night could go.
Stopped at 711 for something. Drove past my place to see if she wanted to go. She got all awkward, wasn't forcing it so left. Went to drop her off, we made out for awhile but she didn't want to do anything else and literally wouldn't get out of my car. I forget if she was asking for money or not but I just remember her not wanting it to go further and not getting out of my car cause she didn't want to see her BF. Total headcase.[/QUOTE]
Absolutely bonkers.
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6170030]My interpretation is she wants a platonic sugar daddy who would let her hang out at his house whenever she needs to as a kind of a shelter.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=WilliAint;6167627]Whenever I am meeting someone new I never book a room first. I will happily pay the extra cash to book when she gets there. I even do that for some girls that are just shady anyways even if I HAVE seen them before. I'll just pick a hotel with a decent lobby bar or a big enough lobby to blend in while I wait and if she shows up (without a dude behind her😂 it's game on. I'll have her sit down away from the check in so she doesn't get my real info and I'll go do my thing and get our room going.
I had one girl I did this with and she was absolutely smoking hot but I didn't trust her and I even lied to her after checking in about what our room / floor number was. I really just wanted to buy some time so she couldn't text anyone the number and try to pull something shady.
Also, slightly unrelated, if I'm picking them up somewhere (which I always try to avoid), I'll lie and tell them I'm going to be there 30-40 minutes after I actually show up. I'll park down the street and just watch. It can be a time suck but one time in Worcester I think this saved me from being blocked in and robbed on a one way street.[/QUOTE]Smart dude.
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6170030]My interpretation is she wants a platonic sugar daddy who would let her hang out at his house whenever she needs to as a kind of a shelter.[/QUOTE]LOL women are out there minds, Platonic sugar daddy, women do alot more for alot less.
Yet want dudes who have something going on to be platonic.
Has anyone here actually ever met Grace? [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5664ffc8-a1bf-4676-b20d-d6f68bd0e0fe[/URL].
If you've also chatted with her, but it never went anywhere, let us know.
[QUOTE=Syedna;6165130]I've been on Seeking for a few years now and it's always been difficult weeding through the fakes and everything else however, it seems worse than ever to me now. Is there anybody else seeing that or is it just me?[/QUOTE]No, its way worse. It's gotten to a point where I can recognize SEVERAL scammers' profiles in terms of consistencies in how they write and location. For example, there's this one person, who I've interacted with on several SB sites via different profiles (age, pic, etc), who claims to be "from Australia" but "lives in MA" now that tries to eventually get you to send you cashapp / venmo. This is the type of pretend scammer than was on the site way before COVID, and SA has really done next to nothing to keep these types of folks off the site.
The lazy pretend ones usually use exact photos from instagram/onlyfans/porn twitter, etc... but the smart ones slightly edit them because if you do that, it's can't be easily reverse google image searched.
There's also the "real" scammer; the girl is real, they'll try to get you on the phone / text quickly, then give you some sob story about their rent / car / dog / whatever the fuck it is to get you to curb to heel and send them cashapp. It's like a job for them because all they need to do is hit less than 5% of suckers to send them money. Think about it: if you ask 50 dudes for cashapp at $50 per request, all you need is 2 guys to snag $100 a week.
There was this one girl, who after I messaged her, immediately within 5 min texted me photos of her car's tire being blown out and her waiting on AAA, and saying she needed $100 to get home than night. Even called me while outside with the car door beeping. A+ for effort, I guess (I hung up and blocked her ass after I said "I don't send money virtually" and she said, "but it's me! Lady, I just met you 5 min ago LOL).
We should turn the tables on them and start asking them for money! Like the Tinder Swindler! If you haven't seen that documentary, you should! I'm following one of the swindled ladies from Scandinavia on Instagram LOL.
[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;6171378]No, its way worse. It's gotten to a point where I can recognize SEVERAL scammers' profiles in terms of consistencies in how they write and location. For example, there's this one person, who I've interacted with on several SB sites via different profiles (age, pic, etc), who claims to be "from Australia" but "lives in MA" now that tries to eventually get you to send you cashapp / venmo. This is the type of pretend scammer than was on the site way before COVID, and SA has really done next to nothing to keep these types of folks off the site.
The lazy pretend ones usually use exact photos from instagram/onlyfans/porn twitter, etc... but the smart ones slightly edit them because if you do that, it's can't be easily reverse google image searched.
There's also the "real" scammer; the girl is real, they'll try to get you on the phone / text quickly, then give you some sob story about their rent / car / dog / whatever the fuck it is to get you to curb to heel and send them cashapp. It's like a job for them because all they need to do is hit less than 5% of suckers to send them money. Think about it: if you ask 50 dudes for cashapp at $50 per request, all you need is 2 guys to snag $100 a week. .[/QUOTE]
They're everywhere these days. I have crazy broads (or maybe they're dudes who put a hot girls picture up) hitting me up for cashapp and gift cards on the Chess app. It's insane. I tell them steal some hot chicks pictures and run their scam on Tinder or SA like the rest of them, let me play chess in peace.
[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;6171378]No, its way worse. It's gotten to a point where I can recognize SEVERAL scammers' profiles in terms of consistencies in how they write and location. For example, there's this one person, who I've interacted with on several SB sites via different profiles (age, pic, etc), who claims to be "from Australia" but "lives in MA" now that tries to eventually get you to send you cashapp / venmo. This is the type of pretend scammer than was on the site way before COVID, and SA has really done next to nothing to keep these types of folks off the site.
The lazy pretend ones usually use exact photos from instagram/onlyfans/porn twitter, etc... but the smart ones slightly edit them because if you do that, it's can't be easily reverse google image searched.
There's also the "real" scammer; the girl is real, they'll try to get you on the phone / text quickly, then give you some sob story about their rent / car / dog / whatever the fuck it is to get you to curb to heel and send them cashapp. It's like a job for them because all they need to do is hit less than 5% of suckers to send them money. Think about it: if you ask 50 dudes for cashapp at $50 per request, all you need is 2 guys to snag $100 a week.
There was this one girl, who after I messaged her, immediately within 5 min texted me photos of her car's tire being blown out and her waiting on AAA, and saying she needed $100 to get home than night. Even called me while outside with the car door beeping. A+ for effort, I guess (I hung up and blocked her ass after I said "I don't send money virtually" and she said, "but it's me! Lady, I just met you 5 min ago LOL).[/QUOTE]
The scammers and fakes on SA are everywhere. Most of the women that favorite me or look at my profile are either from Venezuela or Columbia. Fucking joke.
Also, I love the profiles that are seeking a mentor or say "I'm new to this, teach me. " Teach you what, how to fuck for money? LOL.
Idiots.
This woman [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e336b334-8c9c-4f14-9271-333ceff800b1[/URL] is using a fake profile. She's from Hartford, but claims to be from downtown and everywhere in MA. She offered to drive to me for the right price, but when we got on kik to discuss, her profile photo there was different. I asked her for verification and the picture she sent was clearly not the one in the seeking profile. She was probably late 20's to 30's, is clearly on drugs and probably willing to do a lot, but not what I'm looking for. She claimed she was "borrowing the remaining subscription of her good friend "Kim".
I do want to thank everyone here for their willingness to publish the problem babies and scams out there. I'm new to seeking but studied these forums before uploading my profile. Your efforts and diligence have saved me time and likely some money. Thanks.
This woman, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a994a91f-a4c9-48ef-b1c0-683c73f6ad96[/URL] has decent pics. She charges $400 but requires a $100 deposit. When I said I won't pay upfront, she lowered it to $50 claiming that was the lowest she could go and that she had been burned before which was why she tried it. She offered to verify but I remained firm, she didn't come back.
This other woman, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/0bc5f9e2-ec69-4575-911c-32ba7af5b48e[/URL] wanted to move to text right away and demanded $500 through Venmo upfront and then she would drive right over. When I told her I wouldn't pay upfront she started swearing at me. Simply blocked her, though her private pictures were real hot. I attached them below.
This woman [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/85c00266-2aac-4cbd-98fb-7d280bd1f474[/URL] demands you buy her a dress and pay for her nails before she will agree to go to dinner with you. Her profile was out of Boston when I first messaged her but switched to Cincinnati when she replied. She claimed she went to Cincinnati for a bachelorette party. Her Snapchat name is Hannah. She wants a weekly allowance on top of what you bought her to get her to agree to see you. I'm not against a weekly allowance, but told her I needed to meet with her first. She started arguing with me that all her daddies buy her stuff before she even agrees to see them. I held firm and then she just started insulting me.
I don't know if she blocked me or was already banned, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dcff1313-43da-469f-a0c1-161347e0d8c1[/URL] was a smoking hot babe who quickly wanted to go onto Snapchat and verify her identity. She claims she was new to seeking and wanted to try this sugar dating thing out because she really needs $500 for rent. When we get on Snapchat she video calls me, but it loops kind of like a snap. So I ask her to video through the seeking app, she refuses. She finally videos me again through snap, and shows a selfie in front of a mirror. She's at least a 9 if not a 10. Then she asks if I can pay $500 right now. That's high but she is smoking so I would be open. She asks how I can prove I'm legit （she was hoping I would cash app her). I instead took a snap of $500. She gave me a sob story of how she needs $500 now or she will be homeless and she promises she will meet me next week if I give her $500 now. She would meet me now but she is on her period. I tell her I don't pay before I meet. She tells me she promises me she is real and will meet me, and that it is her sugar daddy's job to pay her bills. I told her I would meet now or tomorrow even with her on her period as long as she has a clean panel. She gets upset and offers to send me nude photos and a video as soon as the money hits her account. I tell her I don't want videos of someone I have never met, they would only be of interest after I met. After several more pleadings and me holding firm she tells me she will pass. I offer her the opportunity to connect next week after her period is over but she says she will pass.
I've chatted with her a few times and she's always responsive. But she will never agree on a date to meet or cancels once plans are made. After several months and attempts to get together I gave up.
[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6171293]Has anyone here actually ever met Grace? [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5664ffc8-a1bf-4676-b20d-d6f68bd0e0fe[/URL].
If you've also chatted with her, but it never went anywhere, let us know.[/QUOTE].