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Sweetie, this time last year, unemployment was 6% or so. Now its 10% or so. Dudes are hurtin out here. Haven't seen any providers lower rates. Well specials now and again, but base rates are same.

Its tough here for everyone, and unless the rates drop, the volume will stay low.

[QUOTE=Juicy Katie]Have there been some drastic changes to the hobby here?

I am usually flooded with responses beyond what I could hope to accomodate but it's been VERY quiet since I arrived this time.

Am I missing something?

Where's the love Memphis?

HELP![/QUOTE]

Just wondering, has anyone ever asked a provider if they are tested? It seems like a fair thing to ask, but not sure how it would be responded to. Any insight would be nice, thank all.

She can take that little body and flat put a f--- on you. She said business had been slow. Hell everytime I go down the street there is a car out front. Been awhile since I seen her. Been busy in other areas. Trying to spread it around. Enjoyed it.
BC

[QUOTE=Bluffcity Guy]I wish I could help you out, you've been on my radar since your first visit here. Unfortunately, I'm in dire financial straits though; haven't seen anyone for months.

Hope things improve!

Cheers,

BCG[/QUOTE]Dear BCG,

Thanks sweetie! I hope your financial situation improves. I would love to meet you in the future.

Xo

[QUOTE=Feash]Sweetie, this time last year, unemployment was 6% or so. Now its 10% or so. Dudes are hurtin out here. Haven't seen any providers lower rates. Well specials now and again, but base rates are same.

Its tough here for everyone, and unless the rates drop, the volume will stay low.[/QUOTE]Hi Feash:

Thanks for your input.

I respect the economic issues that plague so many right now, however, I do not believe that base rates staying the same is a problem. The gentlemen who find my website and pay the base rate are not the ones that aren't booking. Why would a guy care what my base rate is if it doesn't apply to him? It's the sites and cities where I offer significant specials that seem to be slower.

I just wondered what the situation was because the calls have been slower and I was told by one gentlemen that many in the hobby are shifting towards the extremely risky streetwalker mongering.

I am VERY lucky because I am single with no kids or habits so seeing 2 gentlemen a day fully satisfies me. I adore Memphis and will keep it on my schedule as long as I'm in the hobby.

Thanks again, I appreciate your response.

xo

[QUOTE=Rob Jacobs]Just wondering, has anyone ever asked a provider if they are tested? It seems like a fair thing to ask, but not sure how it would be responded to. Any insight would be nice, thank all.[/QUOTE]It is a fair thing to ask anyone you are intimate with. I have been asked and don't mind sharing that I am tested 3-4 times a year.

I don't know about other areas, but where I live there is a place called Planned Parenthood that accepts donations based on income. I think the Health Department is always free or low cost.

Although I know I'm healthy, I stick with the rule that you never know about someone else so always protect yourself and that alleviates some worry for me.

Good luck!

[QUOTE=Rob Jacobs]Just wondering, has anyone ever asked a provider if they are tested? It seems like a fair thing to ask, but not sure how it would be responded to. Any insight would be nice, thank all.[/QUOTE]I don't think anyone would be offended by being asked if they are tested. You might not like the answer, but I can't see any harm in asking. I know of SEVERAL providers, including myself, who are tested on a VERY regular basis. There are several organizations in Memphis who do STD screening for free or at the least a discounted rate. Condoms don't always protect you, so don't believe that just because you covered it up that you are immune. Everyone play safe!

Kisses,

Melissa

[QUOTE=Juicy Katie]Have there been some drastic changes to the hobby here?

I am usually flooded with responses beyond what I could hope to accomodate but it's been VERY quiet since I arrived this time.

Am I missing something?

Where's the love Memphis?

HELP![/QUOTE]I appreciate all of the responses, both public and private. I started this morning really frustrated because confirming the e-mails & calls, I met with a return friend who informed me a certain local is back-channeling false and hateful rumors.

Guys, if you have a question or concern about a provider you should address that individual directly. A dirty, damanged, deceptive photo-using, ugly, jealous, judgemental, bitter, hateful, aging horribly, white trash ***** will go to great lengths in her attempts to destroy other girls reputations.

Keep in mind when an "escort" is using this hobby as a dating service, she is more likely to develop dangerous obsessions with you and want to try to keep you from visiting other ladies. It's like really having a girlfriend except you have to pay. Her fragile ego is easily bruised by what she considers the rejection of you choosing another date. Be careful!

Don't believe everything you are told. Do your research. If someone is constantly having a problem with different providers and hobbyists, look at the COMMON DENOMINATOR, the one ALWAYS caught up with issues or drama. It's likely she is the problem.

Anyone who has met me or talked to me on the phone will tell you I am normally a sweet girl but this isn't her first attempt to discredit me and I'm sick of it so here is my response. My many reviews from this and other regions speak for themselves. I do only see 2 guys a day, there are several guys who can vouch that I have turned them down for that reason. My photos are accurate, ask anyone who has seen me. I'm as real as they come.

Life is too short to stay mad so now I'm letting this go.

Happy holidays!

[QUOTE=BootyCall]She can take that little body and flat put a f--- on you. She said business had been slow. Hell everytime I go down the street there is a car out front. Been awhile since I seen her. Been busy in other areas. Trying to spread it around. Enjoyed it.
BC[/QUOTE]

And great GREEK too!

Condoms typically do not protect against STD's and if a woman gives BBBJ, then condoms are useless. STD's will be transmitted thru the mouth. Any one that tells you different is uneducated on the subject.

Some STD's can be transmitted from the male (or female) mouth during oral sex only as well.

WHO and CDC have both determined condoms do not protect against STD's but do from getting pregnant.

[QUOTE=Sweet Melissa]I don't think anyone would be offended by being asked if they are tested. You might not like the answer, but I can't see any harm in asking. I know of SEVERAL providers, including myself, who are tested on a VERY regular basis. There are several organizations in Memphis who do STD screening for free or at the least a discounted rate. Condoms don't always protect you, so don't believe that just because you covered it up that you are immune. Everyone play safe!

Kisses,

Melissa[/QUOTE]

These are the pics from last weekend I said I would post and just forgot.

Also, today Uncle Booty and I went to breakfast and were talking about some things. 1 of them being our little friend Vicky that I spend a lot of time with on weekends. It seems some of you have started looking at her like she's my real "girlfriend". This is NOT the case. Granted, she spends a lot of time with me BUT, I spend a ton of $$$ on her every time I see her. It's great that we get along like we do BUT, it's NOT a REAL relationship. She's a working girl, just like the rest. So, IF you know her and want to nail her, GO AHEAD! I don't own her and I don't want to. She's just a damn good date I have a ton of fun with. Nothing more.

This weekend she asked if she could bring this girlfriend of hers named Cynthia with her for a little extra fun and Cynthia was also needing some cash. The fun went for a very long time and I had a blast!

I told uncle Booty about her and quickly gave him her number. Hopefully, she recharges her minutes this week so he can take her for a test drive. I also think Uncle be needs to get reaquainted with Vicky.

Now, here are the pics from last weekend. The girls weren't in the mood for camara fun this week.

They call me Problemchild.

And I'm back quiet

Condoms DO protext against STDs. They are ineffective against skin to skin transmission diseases (such as HSV [herpes] or HPV [genital warts]), but if the transmission is via fluids, they are effective. BBBJ are generally considered safer, because of the low viral count in saliva and also because of the IgA antibodies that is present in mucousal secretions (depending on how you got the disease). Anyways, I just wanted you to know that you shouldn't think condoms are ineffective so that you stop using them.

[url]http://www.cdc.gov/condomeffectiveness/latex.htm[/url]

Be safe!

[QUOTE=David469]Condoms typically do not protect against STD's and if a woman gives BBBJ, then condoms are useless. STD's will be transmitted thru the mouth. Any one that tells you different is uneducated on the subject.

Some STD's can be transmitted from the male (or female) mouth during oral sex only as well.

WHO and CDC have both determined condoms do not protect against STD's but do from getting pregnant.[/QUOTE][size=-2][b][u]EDITOR'S SUGGESTION[/u]:[/b] [blue]This is interesting, but you might consider re-posting it under the [u]Safe Sex[/u] topic in the Special Interests section of the Forum where it will benefit the Forum Members who are specifically looking for this type of information. [i]Thanks![/i][/blue][/size]

[QUOTE=Juicy Katie]Have there been some drastic changes to the hobby here?

I am usually flooded with responses beyond what I could hope to accomodate but it's been VERY quiet since I arrived this time.

Am I missing something?

Where's the love Memphis?

HELP![/QUOTE]Its no secret that you are one of my favorite visitors, but I wont be back in town until late Monday afternoon so I probably wont be able to make it, which sucks because you probably wont be down again for a few months!

[QUOTE=David469]Condoms typically do not protect against STD's and if a woman gives BBBJ, then condoms are useless. STD's will be transmitted thru the mouth. Any one that tells you different is uneducated on the subject.

Some STD's can be transmitted from the male (or female) mouth during oral sex only as well.

WHO and CDC have both determined condoms do not protect against STD's but do from getting pregnant.[/QUOTE]Oh jebus, here we go again.

Citations please to WHO and CDC webpages to back up those assertions. What you say is flat out [i]wrong[/i] according to my research. Condoms may not be 100% effective in preventing STDs or pregnancy (nothing is), but they definitely reduce the risk.

The only thing that protects you 100% from the risk of contracting an STD is joining a monastery, and your presence here suggests to me that this isn't a viable option for you.

:)

Cheers,

BCG

[QUOTE=Juicy Katie]I just wondered what the situation was because the calls have been slower and I was told by one gentlemen that many in the hobby are shifting towards the extremely risky streetwalker mongering.[/QUOTE]While I agree that the risks are much more extreme in the SW scene, I think Memphis hobbyist have been able to find "mid-level" alternatives - by that, I mean instead of the extremes (cracked out, thieving SW vs. professional escorts), it is not hard at all in the memphis area to find any number of "non-pro" hookups in the malls, working at sonic, exc.

Times are tough, and even when the answer is no, women do not seem to get offended by the proposition like they used to any more.