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So it's been awhile since I spent time at the Providence Clubs. Going back to Mario's maybe 8-10 years, there was a great late 30's MILF at the time W / F with blonde / brown hair who never danced public at Mario's sat in the left room against the wall and would only entertain in VIP. Mario's closed and she went to CL. Again never / very seldom danced on stage only VIP. Beautiful friendly woman. Anyone remember a name and where she went? Probably out of the business.
So it's been awhile since I spent time at the Providence Clubs. Going back to Mario's maybe 8-10 years, there was a great late 30's MILF at the time W / F with blonde / brown hair who never danced public at Mario's sat in the left room against the wall and would only entertain in VIP. Mario's closed and she went to CL. Again never / very seldom danced on stage only VIP. Beautiful friendly woman. Anyone remember a name and where she went? Probably out of the business.
[QUOTE=RickWashashore;6603134]So it's been awhile since I spent time at the Providence Clubs. Going back to Mario's maybe 8-10 years, there was a great late 30's MILF at the time W / F with blonde / brown hair who never danced public at Mario's sat in the left room against the wall and would only entertain in VIP. Mario's closed and she went to CL. Again never / very seldom danced on stage only VIP. Beautiful friendly woman. Anyone remember a name and where she went? Probably out of the business.[/QUOTE]Before my time. A question, I also reminisce about ladies from the past, but do these nostalgia posts really add value to the forum? There are plenty of ladies working right now that are a super fun time. Not trying to be argumentative, personally just want recent intel.
Hi everyone, I've been a member of this forum for quite a while (20 + years) and haven't posted in quite a while. Anyway I was thinking of maybe trying out the strip clubs, I've been with SW's and escorts but when it comes to strip clubs I'm a newbie.
I'm 62 years old and far from physically fit, my question is am I too old, too fat to go to strip clubs?, I know there's a poster or two that refer to themselves as an "old fart" , but they don't state their age.
I wouldn't necessarily be looking to get with hottest girls in the club, in fact I would prefer an average looking girl who has a good attitude and provides a "good time " than some hottie with a poor attitude / scammer / poor service, and I certainly wouldn't have a problem getting with the older ones.
I'm not so much worried about price as I am about quality of service, but I'm not about to play the fool either.
I'm thinking about either CF or CD, don't really know what else is around, also do these places have a dress code, I would be going during the daytime, any help / advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you very much.
[QUOTE=ReconBob;6604006]Hi everyone, I've been a member of this forum for quite a while (20 + years) and haven't posted in quite a while. Anyway I was thinking of maybe trying out the strip clubs, I've been with SW's and escorts but when it comes to strip clubs I'm a newbie.
I'm 62 years old and far from physically fit, my question is am I too old, too fat to go to strip clubs?, I know there's a poster or two that refer to themselves as an "old fart" , but they don't state their age.[/QUOTE]You'll be fine, your age doesn't matter. Here's what I recommend:
Have great hygiene.
Be respectful and polite.
Bring money.
Know some strip club strategies.
Regarding strategies, CD is more of a reg type place and cost more money. It might take repeated visits to get some of the more popular dancers. CF seems less so, but I'll let the more seasoned CF guys chime in.
Money talks, if you see a dancer you like I suggest tipping during her stage set and asking if she wants to join you for a drink. You can even say you want to do a room but that is more forward, and if you don't know if a dancer will deliver or she's out of your price range, the drink option is better. She may not come to you, several CD dancers have scheduled appts and communicate with these guys through text. But eventually you'll succeed in this approach. Chat her up and see where it goes. There are a few approaches here. Some guys want to know exactly what they will get and for how much. That's not my style and if they don't know you (like 1st time there) they might think you're a cop.
For me, I assume (correctly) that almost every CD desire will do extras, so it's not a gamble and I let my game and humor do the lifting. The more she likes you, the better the odds and the lower the price.
Also research before, if you several reports here or elsewhere of a scam avoid her like the plague.
Regarding my comment in a previous post. I'm on the younger side for a SC attendee but I also have different and more ambitious goals that go beyond just hooking up in the club. Of course money trumps all. Go to CD or CF on an day shift and you will see many guys your age with some hotties.
Good luck and let us know how it goes. Wish you the best brotha.
[QUOTE=ReconBob;6604006]Hi everyone, I've been a member of this forum for quite a while (20 + years) and haven't posted in quite a while. Anyway I was thinking of maybe trying out the strip clubs, I've been with SW's and escorts but when it comes to strip clubs I'm a newbie.
I'm 62 years old and far from physically fit, my question is am I too old, too fat to go to strip clubs?, I know there's a poster or two that refer to themselves as an "old fart" , but they don't state their age.
I wouldn't necessarily be looking to get with hottest girls in the club, in fact I would prefer an average looking girl who has a good attitude and provides a "good time " than some hottie with a poor attitude / scammer / poor service, and I certainly wouldn't have a problem getting with the older ones.
I'm not so much worried about price as I am about quality of service, but I'm not about to play the fool either.
I'm thinking about either CF or CD, don't really know what else is around, also do these places have a dress code, I would be going during the daytime, any help / advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you very much.[/QUOTE]HA. Age doesn't matter. Money matters.
Unless you're a good looking guy who the girls would go out with in real life, all they care about is your money, whether you are clean, and whether you are overly disrespectful. You can say dirty stuff, but they don't want you to grope them or treat them like scumbags.
In most of these clubs, you will see guys much older than you, and some hot girls who are all over them for their money.
No real dress code as long as you don't wear a baseball hat after 9 pm, and don't wear sweatpants. You can wear shorts sometimes, and any kind of normal pants and a normal shirt are fine.
Be polite, clean, and generous, and you'll be treated as well as any ugly 30 year old would be.
There may be the occasional college aged beauty that would prefer Moses Brown as their customer, but I've never been unable to be well entertained by attractive women in any strip club at 64 years old.
Reconbob,
You'll be fine. No need to wear a tuxedo, and don't worry about your age, appearance. Theirs a ass for every seat as the saying goes.
Dress pants and a button down with polished shoes will get you more mileage than dirty sneakers and sweat pants but you will be welcomed if your $$$ is green.
Ok. Went at what I thought was night shift. At like 7. But apparently night shift here is like 9 or 930.
So the field was ok. The I saw a super cute latina. White boots with a perfect ass. Name unknown but amazing face and ass. She did a private then went upstairs and she must have left. I was pissed. But then an amazing white chick. Blonde.
Tight body came out of the champagne room. My perfect type but she then left as well. And I couldn't wairf or night shift and I left. I will be back earlier next Friday.
[QUOTE=ReconBob;6604006]Hi everyone, I've been a member of this forum for quite a while (20 + years) and haven't posted in quite a while. Anyway I was thinking of maybe trying out the strip clubs, I've been with SW's and escorts but when it comes to strip clubs I'm a newbie.
I'm 62 years old and far from physically fit, my question is am I too old, too fat to go to strip clubs?, I know there's a poster or two that refer to themselves as an "old fart" , but they don't state their age.
I wouldn't necessarily be looking to get with hottest girls in the club, in fact I would prefer an average looking girl who has a good attitude and provides a "good time " than some hottie with a poor attitude / scammer / poor service, and I certainly wouldn't have a problem getting with the older ones.
I'm not so much worried about price as I am about quality of service, but I'm not about to play the fool either.
I'm thinking about either CF or CD, don't really know what else is around, also do these places have a dress code, I would be going during the daytime, any help / advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you very much.[/QUOTE]I may be one of the "old farts" you are referring to! I have a couple years on you and you may be surprised at the number of older gentlemen frequent the clubs during the day. Desire is full of them and Fantasies has quite a few as well! I am by no means fat or overweight but the girls for the most part just want to make some money and be treated kindly and in a non aggressive manner which is why they really do appreciate most of us "old farts. " There is no dress code but being well presented probably goes a long way!
[QUOTE=ReconBob;6604006] I know there's a poster or two that refer to themselves as an "old fart" , but they don't state their age.
[/QUOTE]I’m in my 70’s. I was already just about your age when Cheaters folded, now a decade ago, and by then, I'd already bareback-fucked 51 in there. I'm not fat, and not ugly (I don't think?! ). But I never considered myself more than average looking. Nor am I wealthy, and even back in those days, I was surely not young! I wore shoes, long pants, and a shirt, the same thing I wore to work, and everywhere else. And I was freshly bathed and did not smell. NO need to dress to impress in a strip club!
I have only ONE piece of advice if you are a newby to strip clubs, which I'm quite sure applies as much now, as it did then: MAKE THEM COMMIT TO THE EXACT SERVICES AND PRICE BEFORE GOING IN THE BOOTH! If you want a BBBJ, DO NOT just say "blow job"! Be specific! If you want to fuck without a rubber, TELL THEM that's what you expect. If they will not commit, then they are full of shit!
Now, getting them to agree to everything beforehand is not fool-proof, you can still get scammed! If possible learn something about the hoe before you go--that's what intel is for! But pre-negotiation will SURELY help in avoiding disappointment!
[QUOTE=Joey1994;6604263]Reconbob,
You'll be fine. No need to wear a tuxedo, and don't worry about your age, appearance. Theirs a ass for every seat as the saying goes.
Dress pants and a button down with polished shoes will get you more mileage than dirty sneakers and sweat pants but you will be welcomed if your $$$ is green.[/QUOTE]Happy Monday. I would add, getting to know the bartenders has always been a plus for me. Once they get to trust you they will give you some good advise about the girls. Cheers.
Swung in before dinner with a friend who is a look but don't touch on Saturday. Chatted with Kendall while she was on stage. Curvy, brunette some tats. Thigh high white boots. Had a drink with her while she was grabbing some food outside. Then had to bounce. Anyone have some intel on her?
[QUOTE=Joey1994;6604753]Swung in before dinner with a friend who is a look but don't touch on Saturday. Chatted with Kendall while she was on stage. Curvy, brunette some tats. Thigh high white boots. Had a drink with her while she was grabbing some food outside. Then had to bounce. Anyone have some intel on her?[/QUOTE]Or she was. Word is she'll do a lot, but have not experienced her myself.
Are we allowed to post instagram and OF links to identify dancers? Would make it easier for us to figure out who is who. Note that many dancers have fake names on their social media. Was wondering about the rules on that for the forum. Thanks.
[QUOTE=MosesBlack;6605245]Are we allowed to post instagram and OF links to identify dancers? Would make it easier for us to figure out who is who. Note that many dancers have fake names on their social media. Was wondering about the rules on that for the forum. Thanks.[/QUOTE]I think we should refrain from using those links, and restrict that to private messages, unless the dancer doesn't show her face and uses her dancer name. For instance, Nicolette at Desires uses the Instagram account.
[URL]https://www.instagram.com/nicolette_desires/[/URL]
Which doesn't show her face, does use her stripper name and her club (but doesn't show her newfound 75 pounds of fat).
The girls who post on the Desires Instagram Stories page think that those stories only last for 24 hours, so they think that the evidence disappears, but guys can bookmark their names.
These girls aren't necessarily that smart, and if they get outed publicly, it can ruin their lives, and I'd hate to have word get around the stripper community to "stop using social media because some stripper got outed and it ruined her boyfriend or family relationship, or cost her day job". You know they aren't going to follow it up with all the technical details.
Some of the other girls use their actual real life names because they just aren't smart enough to know how it works.
* is different, and most times doesn't show faces in the profile picture, so that's probably ok to show here, and the girls don't show their faces and pussies unless someone pays.
That's all just my opinion.
Just a big thank you to those that answered my question and provided some useful advice, I will continue to follow this thread and learn as much as I can before I go to any clubs, thanks again.
[QUOTE=CoolKid96;6605510]I think we should refrain from using those links, and restrict that to private messages, unless the dancer doesn't show her face and uses her dancer name. For instance, Nicolette at Desires uses the Instagram account.
[URL]https://www.instagram.com/nicolette_desires/[/URL]
Which doesn't show her face, does use her stripper name and her club (but doesn't show her newfound 75 pounds of fat).
The girls who post on the Desires Instagram Stories page think that those stories only last for 24 hours, so they think that the evidence disappears, but guys can bookmark their names.
These girls aren't necessarily that smart, and if they get outed publicly, it can ruin their lives, and I'd hate to have word get around the stripper community to "stop using social media because some stripper got outed and it ruined her boyfriend or family relationship, or cost her day job". You know they aren't going to follow it up with all the technical details.
Some of the other girls use their actual real life names because they just aren't smart enough to know how it works.
* is different, and most times doesn't show faces in the profile picture, so that's probably ok to show here, and the girls don't show their faces and pussies unless someone pays.
That's all just my opinion.[/QUOTE]I agree here will refrain. Don't want to bring heat on anyone was just thinking best way to identify dancers that is better than a description. Some guys are bad with names.
[QUOTE=StrippySweats;6604293]Ok. Went at what I thought was night shift. At like 7. But apparently night shift here is like 9 or 930.
So the field was ok. The I saw a super cute latina. White boots with a perfect ass. Name unknown but amazing face and ass. She did a private then went upstairs and she must have left. I was pissed. But then an amazing white chick. Blonde.
Tight body came out of the champagne room. My perfect type but she then left as well. And I couldn't wairf or night shift and I left. I will be back earlier next Friday.[/QUOTE]I was there and was in the champagne room with said hot blonde. She is a great time. I caught her and guilted her into a VIP before she left. Place empties out after 7, but picks up later. I rarely stay later though.
LOL I don't even know why my friends and I bother with this place. Got talking with Macy, supposedly a 30 year old blonde who looks 40.400 for a BJ LOL. So we now have over the hill single moms asking for ridiculous amounts. Please don't give these types any money.
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[QUOTE=Jeishein14;6609018]LOL. I do what I like with my money, thank you very much.
If you can't afford it, stay home.[/QUOTE]If that was the going rate I think pretty much everyone would be staying home.
Went to fantasies today to look for the hot young blonde from last Friday. Unfortunately she wasnt there. But I saw the other hottie that was there last week. Great ass, really hot. Hunted her down. Talked to her and then she said her name was rain. And the negative reports on here came to mind. It's too bad cause I love her look. But saved me some time and disappointment. On a side note. The Friday crop of girls was rather thin and kinda disappointing.
[QUOTE=StrippySweats;6610841]Went to fantasies today to look for the hot young blonde from last Friday. Unfortunately she wasnt there. But I saw the other hottie that was there last week. Great ass, really hot. Hunted her down. Talked to her and then she said her name was rain. And the negative reports on here came to mind. It's too bad cause I love her look. But saved me some time and disappointment. On a side note. The Friday crop of girls was rather thin and kinda disappointing.[/QUOTE]Lineup today wasn't as good as other days:
Kira.
Marley.
Ashley.
Meadow.
Dayana.
Allison.
Sophia.
Valentina.
Of those, Kira, Meadow and Sophia are ok. I took the day off because I had a bit to much fun last night and Jr needed a break.
😂.
Was hoping to see Gigi again and continue my quest with her. No luck though.
[QUOTE=LongHauler;6609559]If that was the going rate I think pretty much everyone would be staying home.[/QUOTE]Exactly. Spending that much isn't great even if you have the cash. I have plenty of disposable income and I laugh at girls who try to go that high. Not that they don't deserve it, (some do, other no way) but it is more about driving up the prices. If they suddenly are getting 300-400 per session, they come to expect it. The smart one play the long game and lock you down as a regular. I have a few that consider me a regular. Lately, it has been more about picking one for the day and not pissing off the rest (but that's my issue😂.
Anyone have experience with CF on Saturdays during the afternoon? Worth a look?
[QUOTE=StrippySweats;6610841]Went to fantasies today to look for the hot young blonde from last Friday. Unfortunately she wasnt there. But I saw the other hottie that was there last week. Great ass, really hot. Hunted her down. Talked to her and then she said her name was rain. And the negative reports on here came to mind. It's too bad cause I love her look. But saved me some time and disappointment. On a side note. The Friday crop of girls was rather thin and kinda disappointing.[/QUOTE]You would have left poorer with a gigantic case of blue balls if you went with Reign LOL.
[QUOTE=RobertABouy;6610925]Exactly. Spending that much isn't great even if you have the cash. I have plenty of disposable income and I laugh at girls who try to go that high. Not that they don't deserve it, (some do, other no way) but it is more about driving up the prices. If they suddenly are getting 300-400 per session, they come to expect it. The smart one play the long game and lock you down as a regular. I have a few that consider me a regular. Lately, it has been more about picking one for the day and not pissing off the rest (but that's my issue😂.[/QUOTE]It's always amusing when guys on limited budgets come on here and implore everyone to refuse to pay higher prices. There are plenty of guys who make a ton of money who don't mind compensating the ladies. Again, if you can't afford it, perhaps a new hobby? I understand stamp collecting is relatively inexpensive to get into.
[QUOTE=Stunned;6611057]Anyone have experience with CF on Saturdays during the afternoon? Worth a look?[/QUOTE]I went on a Sunday afternoon and it was better than I thought, so Saturday might be ok. That's one issue with CF is that the lineups can be hit or miss with no rhyme or reason. One Monday afternoon will be hopping and the next totally dead. If other guys have a better understanding of what's going on would like to hear it.
[QUOTE=Jeishein14;6611317]It's always amusing when guys on limited budgets come on here and implore everyone to refuse to pay higher prices. There are plenty of guys who make a ton of money who don't mind compensating the ladies. Again, if you can't afford it, perhaps a new hobby? I understand stamp collecting is relatively inexpensive to get into.[/QUOTE]I'd bet $500 that this "dude" is one of the dancers that over charges in the clubs.
Ever wonder how many of us might be in the club at the same time and don't know it. Cheers.
[QUOTE=Scorpio1981;6611538]I'd bet $500 that this "dude" is one of the dancers that over charges in the clubs.[/QUOTE]100 percent.
[QUOTE=Scorpio1981;6611538]I'd bet $500 that this "dude" is one of the dancers that over charges in the clubs.[/QUOTE]If you can't afford what the strippers are charging, how in the world are you going to pay me my $500? LOL.
[QUOTE=Scorpio1981;6611538]I'd bet $500 that this "dude" is one of the dancers that over charges in the clubs.[/QUOTE][BLUE]
Dont you see where it says douchebag under his name? Why are you even responding? If you guys would ignore these trolls there would be half as many of them.
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Dont you see where it says douchebag under his name? Why are you even responding? If you guys would ignore these trolls there would be half as many of them.
A2[/BLUE][/QUOTE]Well said. At least he / she / it is self aware. LOL.
Wish there was an ignore button.
[QUOTE=MosesBlack;6611491]I went on a Sunday afternoon and it was better than I thought, so Saturday might be ok. That's one issue with CF is that the lineups can be hit or miss with no rhyme or reason. One Monday afternoon will be hopping and the next totally dead. If other guys have a better understanding of what's going on would like to hear it.[/QUOTE]Same. I have had good luck mid-afternoon on weekend. Seems decent. Only one I was surprised they were closed. Mothers day. I was kinda surprised.
[QUOTE=RobertABouy;6612054]Well said. At least he / she / it is self aware. LOL.
Wish there was an ignore button.[/QUOTE]There is! Click on the person's name and you'll get to their profile, click on "Add to Ignore List".
[QUOTE=SoapDish;6611825]Ever wonder how many of us might be in the club at the same time and don't know it. Cheers.[/QUOTE]It would be pretty easy to spot. Just look for the half dozen guys nursing a beer for 2 hours who can't afford a lap dance. LOL.
[QUOTE=KatSuno1492;6612657]There is! Click on the person's name and you'll get to their profile, click on "Add to Ignore List".[/QUOTE]Thanks. Added to my ignore list. Guy brings nothing to the conversation. Always talks about all his money and how cheap the rest of us are. Rent must be cheap in him mommy's basement. 😂.
[QUOTE=Jeishein14;6612747]It would be pretty easy to spot. Just look for the half dozen guys nursing a beer for 2 hours who can't afford a lap dance. LOL.[/QUOTE]So you have seen me then. Thanks for playing along.