Philly Sugar

[QUOTE=WaltoDerri267;6897244]I've run into this problem when someone claims to have gotten my number from seeking only for me to look up their profile and find zero message history. This means its the same person or a group with access to multiple profiles that probably just mixed up your number from another account. There are unfortunately tons of scammers like this operating on seeking and the admins doing nothing about it. While it could also be her and having 2 accounts I would tread carefully especially if they ask for money before meeting or try to sell nudes. Fuck that.[/QUOTE]

This is a good point. Lots of scammers on SA these days, so dudes are wise to screen carefully and not jump on anything that they see or that comes along. Pretty much follow "the rules" laid out for escorts to be safe. Don't be afraid to block profiles and move on. DO NOT report profiles as that only brings attention to you and can backfire (get banned). Just block and next. Don't waste your time trying to "get even" with a scammer.

Also I limit all of my searches to a reasonable distance from me. Are you really going to be able to drive an hour each week one way, to go see some floozie? I think the software eventually learns and doesn't show me to those from Nigeria or Asia. Also put in the profile that if one is greater than X distance away, they'll get no reply. You can also hide your profile such that no one can see you and they only reveal your profile when you contact the girl. This also cuts down on spam from scammers.

So a few additional tips to help with the sorting, filtering and weeding that is needed with SA these days.

[QUOTE=Sammy25;6899679]Anyone have any experience with Angela Cute from twitter. She says she lives in Fishtown. I saw her profile on twitter and we were texting for a bit. I wanted a meet and greet opportunity. However, she wanted me do buy some content first. I am not sure if it is a scam or not. But she has a great butt.

[URL]https://twitter.com/AngelaCute9156[/URL][/QUOTE]DUDE! Anyone who wants you to buy content is a content seller. They are not a real SB and likely not going to meet. They will keep stringing you along to buy more content.

Real SBs don't operate this way. Escorts and content sellers do. So yes, this is a scam.

First sign of "buy my pics" and you shown "next".

Here's a new business model. Her response to my message:

I would honestly love to get to know you but I've had my time wasted on here to many times so I have a "serious inquiry fee" of $100 and then I give you my number and you get a pic and video of me (x-rated) or we can FaceTime and take it from there and see just how serious you are so it doesn't waste either of our time. You let me know if that's something you want to do if not I'm sorry sweetie but bye.

Next.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c41838ab-3218-4a93-9575-2168ef50489b[/URL]

Hi I just registered on there. I see an option to upgrade. Is it worth it? Which tier? If I upgrade will I be able to read and send unlimited messages?

Thank you.

[QUOTE=HenryT458;6901104]Here's a new business model. Her response to my message:

I would honestly love to get to know you but I've had my time wasted on here to many times so I have a "serious inquiry fee" of $100 and then I give you my number and you get a pic and video of me (x-rated) or we can FaceTime and take it from there and see just how serious you are so it doesn't waste either of our time. You let me know if that's something you want to do if not I'm sorry sweetie but bye.

Next.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c41838ab-3218-4a93-9575-2168ef50489b[/URL][/QUOTE]According to what I got when I clicked on her profile, its states that she has been a member since May 13,2024. I wonder how much time she has "wasted" in the past 4 days. Seems more like a scam to me.

LD.

Of course she's too beautiful to be real. But, I took a shot anyway. Yep, it's a scammer profile. Wants dudes to send money before meeting. Next.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6516eaf5-1d02-4183-9016-bb225dcc97d1[/URL]

Here's something different. I'm under the impression she's looking for dudes to hookup with when she's in philly for work. I can't meet most evenings so she won't fit my schedule. A shame. I'm looking for a local lady.

Here's her response:

First of all I need to tell you that I don't live in the same city as you, I just come here often on business. If you don't think it's right for you, you can leave to find the right one for you, and if you think it's okay, we can get to know each other a bit.

And I'm not short of money.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/89189697-28a3-40c7-a0f2-843b565f5c7d[/URL]

[QUOTE=HenryT458;6902221]Here's something different. I'm under the impression she's looking for dudes to hookup with when she's in philly for work. I can't meet most evenings so she won't fit my schedule. A shame. I'm looking for a local lady.

Here's her response:

First of all I need to tell you that I don't live in the same city as you, I just come here often on business. If you don't think it's right for you, you can leave to find the right one for you, and if you think it's okay, we can get to know each other a bit.

And I'm not short of money.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/89189697-28a3-40c7-a0f2-843b565f5c7d[/URL][/QUOTE]This gives me bad vibes. Not short on money. Just looking for hookups when in town. Why not just go to the airport bar? She would have 100% success. Why go on SA?

Proceed with caution.

[QUOTE=FunSaMale;6902093]Hi I just registered on there. I see an option to upgrade. Is it worth it? Which tier? If I upgrade will I be able to read and send unlimited messages?

Thank you.[/QUOTE]I've never upgraded beyond the regular premium. I can't see how the high level upgrade would be worth it.

For upgrading it, yes you will be able to read and send unlimited messages.

Regarding whether its worth it, know that probably about 90% of the people you see on there will not be worth it. Either they'll be looking for the wrong thing such as selling pics or platonic, they'll have GPS and want 1000 ppm, they'll be a catfish, or something else.

So I'd say its only worth getting premium if you see so many potential recently active accounts you're interested in, based on their pics and profiles showing they're looking for what you're looking for, where you can afford to throw 90% of those profiles away, and you still have a healthy number of potential candidates. There are better times of the year / month for it, when there are more active users on the site than others. For example when rent is due, or the beginning of school years when there's an influx of people looking for spending money, travelling into the region.

Also note that it is a LOT more work than just normal hobbying. Like I said the vast majority of these women will be a waste of time. You have to weed thru them all and filter thru candidates a lot. Also a lot of these women are civvies, so even though it is essentially a subcategory of sexwork, you will have to treat them more like a relationship vs. Just a random escort. You may have to text them more, treat them nicely and form a stronger connection with them, etc.

However, in exchange, you can get a much more regular thing going, that per hour will probably cost way less than an escort. Since they're oftentimes civvies, they're not some run down high volume provider nursing a drug addiction. It can be more fun and safe, and you can form a decent long term connection with a person. I'd say be careful not to mistake it for an actual relationship. You are paying for it at the end of the day.

Do NOT discuss anything explicit on the site. They will ban you immediately. In fact the best thing to do is to try to immediately move conversation to your burner phone number, where you can talk more freely.

[QUOTE=PhoenixHose;6902360]This gives me bad vibes. Not short on money. Just looking for hookups when in town. Why not just go to the airport bar? She would have 100% success. Why go on SA?

Proceed with caution.[/QUOTE]I have seen this kind of post before. I usually means she has high standards and is looking for someone that fits a criteria.

Think it all the way through to the logical conclusion. Why doesn't she just go to an airport bar? She doesn't want to waste hours sitting at a bar when the particular type of guy she wants isn't even there. She could have close to 100% with a bunch of guys that she's not interested in but that doesn't make much sense. Most average looking guys could have nearly 100% success if they'd take just anyone but would you spend hours in a bar to pick up some low hanging fruit?

It could be real add but beware if she doesn't want money, she wants something.

Looking some info about this girl.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e99e0127-dfbc-4492-b59b-3acef58f7c75[/URL]

Anyone see before?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d2bebd1f-b436-4366-b589-e7c6811c6d6b[/URL]

Back in the game. This one has that offbeat look I can enjoy but wants like 8 x $- 1 k. Pretty much just laughed at her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7d9bf835-647a-46c1-81ca-41eba133cf46[/URL]

Hot af, not a surprise that she's expensive We chatted a month ago. Very chill. 6 x $ to blow you. 1 k to fuq raw and cum in her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2cde37a2-85da-4227-8df0-4f6977d0662d[/URL]

Anyone nail her? She looks like a pleaser.

Rosemary 25 PHL.

This one wants $300 just for the honor of being in her presence! Do any of you guys ever actually meet and greet I never would. In addition, I always find it fascinating when you look at a girls wishlist and find a purse or two for $2,599 or more. Keep dreaming Felicia LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/960362c5-b080-4c85-9bfe-168659305bfb[/URL]#.

[QUOTE=Runner8;6909712]Rosemary 25 PHL.

This one wants $300 just for the honor of being in her presence! Do any of you guys ever actually meet and greet I never would. In addition, I always find it fascinating when you look at a girls wishlist and find a purse or two for $2,599 or more. Keep dreaming Felicia LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/960362c5-b080-4c85-9bfe-168659305bfb[/URL]#.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the warning! As to Paid M&G goes:

No, don't pay, or agree to pay for a M&G. Even the relatively pro SB threads have a general consensus that the M&G should be a non-compensated platonic date. I mean if you hit it off and want to start right away, that's one thing. Or if you want to impress her, as you think she's going to be a SB after the M&G a gift is approriate at the end. But the M&G should be a "getting to know you", measure the attraction / chemistry and is agreed upfront, not paid.

This girl is either risnser who got confused between WYP and SA or she's an idiot that saw some SM posts on how guys will fork over $$$ for platonic dates, no intimacy required.

I suggest that once one gets off of SA into direct communication, that one discusses what is their version of a "sugar relationship. " Along with that get some idea of her desire for PPM or Allowance. Video calls help weed out scammers and time wasters. THEN the M&G should be a quick coffee or drinks date to see if there is chemistry or attraction to go forward. Don't agree to an expensive meal or something that take a long time. Nothing worse that having to sit through a couple of hours dinner with a girl that s uncouth, inappropriately dressed or an irritating bubblehead or bore.

Just some things I try to employ to avoid wasting time. Sifting, sorting and screening has become much more time consuming these days! Sigh.

I have no idea what the deal is with this lady or even if she's real. We agreed on a meet and greet. She said she was driving to the restaurant. Should only take 20 minutes from her professed location. ONE HOUR LATER. Still not there. I bounced. Likely a double booked fake. Waste of time gents. At least for me it was.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/563dca1f-7954-4b7f-84e9-6907aea31ddc[/URL]