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[QUOTE=ScottSean624;7170922][URL]https://skipthegames.com/posts/raleigh/female-escorts/caucasian_w/blow-n-go-car-play-i-can-only-/608868535306[/URL]
Can't find anything on this phone number. No name, no other listings. Anyone have any intel?[/QUOTE]It was a very suspicious ad. I say was because it has been taken down. Makes it even more suspicious.
[QUOTE=DramUSA;7171780]So I'm a little slow and apologize for not being able to follow this banter correctly, but what exactly is she / her / they: straight-up female or post-op (or pre-op) tranny?[/QUOTE]Reign? The girl I see. She is trans yes but unlike the girls posted here there are no demons or problems. I bang, I leave and I'm satisfied. She is most definitely pre but if you want greek this is some of the best I've ever had.
Bonnie got arrested again on possession charges and now possession of a stolen vehicle. 1/21, with friend and maybe bf / handler.
[QUOTE=VaryDer07;7168969]Damn looks like Bonnie, Reno and the other got picked up in Morrisville on 1/18.
Bonnie for trafficking of Cocaine.
Reno for possession.
And other for resisting.
So yall might want to avoid them for a while.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=NightTraveler;7172279]Bonnie got arrested again on possession charges and now possession of a stolen vehicle. 1/21, with friend and maybe bf / handler.[/QUOTE]And third time today for possess methamphetamine LOL.
[QUOTE=Aamogdem;7172458]And third time today for possess methamphetamine LOL.[/QUOTE]Damn, I was going to ask if maybe 1/18 and 1/21 pics were just duplicate because it looked like it was same pic but nah this is a new charge today.
[QUOTE=Dcms18;7172470]Damn, I was going to ask if maybe 1/18 and 1/21 pics were just duplicate because it looked like it was same pic but nah this is a new charge today.[/QUOTE]Damn she stays in trouble. This time in Raleigh. With possession of Meth.
[QUOTE=VaryDer07;7172517]Damn she stays in trouble. This time in Raleigh. With possession of Meth.[/QUOTE]Also who keeps bailing her ass LOL like at some point you got to say okay ima let you sit there for a while.
TheMundane,
She has been posting for years. She is using the same pictures that she always has. She has always claimed to be a bartender in downtown Raleigh. Back in the day, she would post multiple times back to back and some would say TS and others female. She even would post as being a twin. Now there is another black provider posting with the same name. There is nothing about this one that is real. If she is real and that's your thing, I'm happy for you. I just don't buy it.
1. Providers that do not show their face.
- usually unattractive.
- they do this for a reason and it's not safety.
- most scammers don't show their face to avoid being recognized.
2. Three pic chicks.
- shows little effort and usually translate into a poor performance.
3. No nudes.
- cops don't post nudes. I'm not sure about AI pics.
- not proud of or trying to hide their body.
4. No menu listed.
- risky because you either have to ask too many questions or wait until you get there which probably won't go your way.
5. Location is too general.
- I don't want to give scammers too much info. We know what language we use to let people know what location we are at. Providers do too. They can tell you where they are without the exact location or a general term.
6. No AA.
- Usually a scam or a GPS provider. Very few providers don't see AA's regardless of what they tell you.
- Just like the porn industry once was, they feel it adds value to them.
- I at one time only would see the no AA providers and can only remember being turned away once.
- Many actually have AA boyfriends that are looking to make a quick buck.
7. Negotiations.
- Most people will not preform to their best ability if their price is negotiated.
Here's the thing, there are many guys that have been doing this for a very long time and they can absolutely tell you the rules of the game to help you be safe and not get robbed. A lot of these guys have gotten to know providers and have had conversations with them and have learned much. However, the game is much deeper than that. When you grow up in the "hood" you learn the game from a different aspect. You've gone to school with them, you play cards with them, you work with them, you may have supplied them and you see the game on a daily basis. Regardless of how well you have gotten to know a provider, understand that she is always playing the game. Every conversation is an attempt to draw you in closer. Every second is looking for the next opportunity to make a come up. There are diamonds out there, that's just not the norm. That's why it's not wise to text providers multiple times trying to get to know them, because they are getting information. This also let's them know that you are most likely married or have a married situation. This makes you a "mark". It will only be a matter of time. Understand this. We have what they need. MONEY. We are the asset. I treat every provider that I see well. I respect them and I pay their price. I also expect them to preform.
I hope this helps someone.
Stay Safe.
BLK.
[QUOTE=BlkScorpio1;7172706]
Every second is looking for the next opportunity to make a come up. There are diamonds out there, that's just not the norm. That's why it's not wise to text providers multiple times trying to get to know them, because they are getting information. This also let's them know that you are most likely married or have a married situation. This makes you a "mark". It will only be a matter of time. Understand this. We have what they need. MONEY. We are the asset. I treat every provider that I see well. I respect them and I pay their price. I also expect them to preform.
I hope this helps someone.
Stay Safe.
BLK.[/QUOTE]Well said. I can admit that I struggled with some of this when I first got in the game. I would like to add that there is always an element where they may get a sense of emotion and start to kind of like you. Some people in regular life struggle with compartmentalizing sex from emotion. And it goes both ways too. They giving you pleasure and it's easy for you to get caught up having some level of feeling is you don't check yourself. And sometimes emotions can lead to unnecessary loyalty on various levels. Interpret that how you may. Boundaries are important and knowing what the goal is is important too. Not saying be an asshole as I would never subscribe to that but I learned that it's good to have awareness of all things when you're in the hobby. Have communicated with providers more than regular, at times yes, but I learned from previous situations how to talk and what to say to some degree. I won't go into too much detail about certain things (always down to DM), but I can definitely say this some sound advice BLK. And it's something I need to hear from time to time. You spoke a mouthful.
[QUOTE=ForTheDub;7172777]Well said. I can admit that I struggled with some of this when I first got in the game. I would like to add that there is always an element where they may get a sense of emotion and start to kind of like you. Some people in regular life struggle with compartmentalizing sex from emotion. And it goes both ways too. They giving you pleasure and it's easy for you to get caught up having some level of feeling is you don't check yourself. And sometimes emotions can lead to unnecessary loyalty on various levels. Interpret that how you may. Boundaries are important and knowing what the goal is is important too. Not saying be an asshole as I would never subscribe to that but I learned that it's good to have awareness of all things when you're in the hobby. Have communicated with providers more than regular, at times yes, but I learned from previous situations how to talk and what to say to some degree. I won't go into too much detail about certain things (always down to DM), but I can definitely say this some sound advice BLK. And it's something I need to hear from time to time. You spoke a mouthful.[/QUOTE]Don't trust ads with blurred faces? Really? That's probably 60-70% of them. I'm sure there are exceptions, right? I can think of another reason for this you didn't list: the provider is real but doesn't look (enough) like the pictures, so they blur the face and figure you won't know the difference.
[QUOTE=SimonJonesUK;7172806]Don't trust ads with blurred faces? Really? That's probably 60-70% of them. I'm sure there are exceptions, right? I can think of another reason for this you didn't list: the provider is real but doesn't look (enough) like the pictures, so they blur the face and figure you won't know the difference.[/QUOTE]I didn't list anything. Everything was said by BLK Scorpio. Go to his report and I think you'll read what he said. I was just agreeing with the latter half of his report. I'm aware that most of them don't use their real face / or blur images. I was only speaking about that then line between understanding the dynamic between client and provider vs a client turning the relationship more personal / emotional. Most of the time that a no-go and I struggled with that in the beginning of me doing the hobby. I don't really do the escort side. I have but not too much anymore. Sometimes you have to know where you stand and what you can and can not handle. So with saying that, I lean more towards the body rub side. Same things apply but there is levels to this. I stick to my comfortability.
[QUOTE=ForTheDub;7173436]I didn't list anything. Everything was said by BLK Scorpio. Go to his report and I think you'll read what he said. I was just agreeing with the latter half of his report. I'm aware that most of them don't use their real face / or blur images. I was only speaking about that then line between understanding the dynamic between client and provider vs a client turning the relationship more personal / emotional. Most of the time that a no-go and I struggled with that in the beginning of me doing the hobby. I don't really do the escort side. I have but not too much anymore. Sometimes you have to know where you stand and what you can and can not handle. So with saying that, I lean more towards the body rub side. Same things apply but there is levels to this. I stick to my comfortability.[/QUOTE]Sorry, I meant to respond to the post by BLK Scorpio.
[QUOTE=BlkScorpio1;7172706]Here's the thing, there are many guys that have been doing this for a very long time and they can absolutely tell you the rules of the game to help you be safe and not get robbed. A lot of these guys have gotten to know providers and have had conversations with them and have learned much. However, the game is much deeper than that. When you grow up in the "hood" you learn the game from a different aspect. You've gone to school with them, you play cards with them, you work with them, you may have supplied them and you see the game on a daily basis. Regardless of how well you have gotten to know a provider, understand that she is always playing the game. Every conversation is an attempt to draw you in closer. Every second is looking for the next opportunity to make a come up. There are diamonds out there, that's just not the norm. That's why it's not wise to text providers multiple times trying to get to know them, because they are getting information. This also let's them know that you are most likely married or have a married situation. This makes you a "mark". It will only be a matter of time. Understand this. We have what they need. MONEY. We are the asset. I treat every provider that I see well. I respect them and I pay their price. I also expect them to preform.
[/QUOTE]Right here. These girls know how to make you 'think' they like you more than every other tom dick and harry. They'll say anything to blow up your ego. You have the best dick, nobody fucks me like you blah blah. Be nice be friendly and take the ego boost but when they want to start playing on that to get 'favors' let the inner asshole in you come out to play. No. The end. Your relationship is a transactional one. And they get nothing without giving something, not promises to give something because the something doesn't exist even it did exist previously. Very easy for new mongers to get caught up in that. Some guys have never had this kind of attention from very attractive women and they use that to play you. Like Scorpio said they want your money, nothing more. And we're willing to give it for service not promises.
Other point number 8:
I HIGHLY discourage deposits. Some legit providers use them but personally I'd need the stamp of approval from some OG's like myself and lots of positive reviews and even then I'd be skeptical. Once they got your money its gone and they don't have to come through. 3 or 4 easy 20's from fools and their room is paid for the day with enough leftover for a dime. You're no longer needed. Seems dumb to us because a lot of us have long term goals, we work, we know we'd go broke on some of these girls if they weren't scammers etc. A lot of these girls, not all, live in the here and now and that's how they operate. That several hundred they could make off you and others over some months seems far off from the $20 Rigth now and no work is involved. Anyways enough of my soapbox. Stay safe gents!
[QUOTE=SimonJonesUK;7172806]Don't trust ads with blurred faces? Really? That's probably 60-70% of them. I'm sure there are exceptions, right? I can think of another reason for this you didn't list: the provider is real but doesn't look (enough) like the pictures, so they blur the face and figure you won't know the difference.[/QUOTE]As with everything, there are always exceptions. I just choose not to take the chance anymore. When I first started years ago, I would contact the ones who didn't show their face and had killer bodies and I was always disappointed once there. The body never looked like it did in the picture and their face was always less desirable. Your response tracks with my point doesn't it. If she is blurring her face because she doesn't look close enough to her pictures, isn't that a scam or at the very least being dishonest? Like my post says, they do this for a reason and it's not safety. Also the only way for a provider to not look enough like their pics is because they use filters, which again is being dishonest. My point stands.
Stay safe.
BLK.