Ozy. Thank you for the great answer
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O.[/QUOTE]Ozy. That is great feedback. Appreciate you taking the time to provide the details.
I always thought that was a mythical outcome (unicorn) - being able to take a stripper home!
Your approach of setting up a convenient time to get together makes a lot more sense than try to do something after the shift ends.
Waitresses, shot girls, and bar tender chicks are also available
[QUOTE=Joesouncool;3324578]Ok, so let's be clear, there are multiple ways to get takeout. Here is no one right way. There are multiple ways to get it. There are multiple amounts from zero to several hundred $s. It just depends on the girl and you.
My Schlick is to just be my normal self. I'm treat the chicks like normal people. Understand that most chicks aren't looking for sex, so don't keep after them if they don't appear to be interested. It will frustrate you and her.
Finally, I am a bit forceful. White girls love to have their hair tugged on. They are putty in your hands when you do that.
For me, the girls let me know if they are available. I've had a bunch that were freebies, only one wanted money and I was well into when this happened. Stupid on me, but oh well.
Don't limit yourself to just strippers. Waitresses, shot girls, and bar tender chicks are also available.
This has worked in the 6 cities that I've spent long times at in my life and has worked over the last 30 years.
Good luck! Stay Safe.[/QUOTE]You make a good point about staff other than strippers being available. Many a times I find the bar tenders more hot. I must give it a shot next time!
That sounds like Club Nikki, LOL!
They did amateur boxing matches and strip contests all the time.
Nikki's was my go-to spot for VIP action, and I've lost count how many time a stripper and I would leave the club, "play", and I'd drop her off at the club, or at her home. Fun times.
[QUOTE=Ozymandias;3325817]Once or twice I was at the club with a group, and someone would do something stupid (like pick a fight) and we'd all get thrown out; of course, that can happen in any "group out clubbing" scenario.
One time was just a mystery: there was this half-Vietnamese and half-black chick who danced at Pink Pony I had a fuck buddy thing with, and I kind of lost touch with her for a few months; one day I decided to pop by Strokers and there she was. She was very solicitous, asked me to get a table and she'd join me in a few, and next thing a couple of heavies were politely-but-firmly asking me to leave the club. A year later I ran into her at a Buckhead night club (before those were all swept away) and she was very skinny and strung-out looking, and gave me some kind of explanation I couldn't understand (because I'm not a junkie, I guess). Still a mystery which bugs me from time to time, I admit!
The final time was kind of funny. Back in the day, there used to be amateur strip contests at most of the clubs, usually a slow night, and almost never actual amateurs. I took a girl to one at some club on Stewart Avenue (sorry, ahem, Metropolitan) and they wound up throwing me out because they thought I was trying to "fix" the contest (which was true, actually). The clubs always fixed them so I was going to beat them at your own game; it didn't work!
Life of adventure, what can I say?
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And then there are those of us
[QUOTE=Ozymandias;3333813]Some men feel guilt when they hobby, and some men feel emasculated; in both cases, they try to manage the guilt or stress by self-claiming that hobbying is somehow competitive or adversarial: "I don't do this because I need or want it, I do this as my manly duty to keep uppity bitches in their place. ".
The low EQ position, to borrow from modern psychologyear old.[/QUOTE]That feel excitment about the hunt and part of that hunt is negotiating to a fair (by his standards not hers) donation for the product and service they are getting. It's kind of like a yard sale or flee market, nothing is set in stone and everything is negotiable.