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Worked fine a few hours ago.
[QUOTE=RanManCan;6255007]Anyone else having issues loading search on SA?
Interests and Messages work fine, but search says "Sorry, we experienced an issue loading this content".
Worked fine a few hours ago.[/QUOTE]Nevermind, it was the VPN I was using, couldn't access some content.
[QUOTE=TheHobbyLobby;6254522]Hey Far, good story thanks for sharing. Honestly don't over think it. I would not let her know that you know all of these things about her. It will spook her. Besides if she is successful she could have looked you up as well. Just enjoy, keep making a connection and let her reveal more at her own pace. Sounds like you have a good thing going and just enjoy.[/QUOTE]Hope so. We're scheduled for FC tomorrow morning. Her attitude is good.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40807320-f513-43a0-958b-778f272e61da[/URL]
This goo bucket wants 300 for "1 nut" if you ask her what she would like for 2 her response is "I would ask 800 for 2 nuts."
[QUOTE=ChefSolo;6258090][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40807320-f513-43a0-958b-778f272e61da[/URL]
This goo bucket wants 300 for "1 nut" if you ask her what she would like for 2 her response is "I would ask 800 for 2 nuts."[/QUOTE]Some guys take forever to come a second time. And some will just be trying to stick a semi into her for an hour. I don't blame her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4036bafc-4643-4643-acc3-8b03863a33f3[/URL]
Very funny profile.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6260482][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4036bafc-4643-4643-acc3-8b03863a33f3[/URL]
Very funny profile.[/QUOTE]Ah, yes, IK her. I was in contact several months ago, couldn't get her to even message off the site. I am not sure if she is in LA or OC. More recently I did get her to text me, I'm sure I spoke w / her, she' admitted she has had a few dates, but I haven't gotten her to M&G yet. I think she is smart.
[QUOTE=Sipping;6258382]Some guys take forever to come a second time. And some will just be trying to stick a semi into her for an hour. I don't blame her.[/QUOTE]She's not digging ditches or managing a tight deadline on a project. This cum dumpster can do the bare minimum or get her sloppy ass off the site.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6261472]Ah, yes, IK her. I was in contact several months ago, couldn't get her to even message off the site. I am not sure if she is in LA or OC. More recently I did get her to text me, I'm sure I spoke w / her, she' admitted she has had a few dates, but I haven't gotten her to M&G yet. I think she is smart.[/QUOTE]Maybe when I come back to L. A. I would pursue but probably out of my price range. But when they are this off balance? You never know. I did have a nice 2 month stay at the beach in malibu but that ended last month. Try getting sugar in malibu. Not so easy unless you like a lot of driving. Managed to see my regulars but just enough to keep my sanity. Barely.
[QUOTE=Sipping;6258382]Some guys take forever to come a second time. And some will just be trying to stick a semi into her for an hour. I don't blame her.[/QUOTE]I take forever to cum the first time. Pissed off a lot of pros with that one. I make them seriously work for it. For some its either no problem or they are happily surprised. For others its like daddy please. I won't bore you with world record times. Lets just say I get my monies worth.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7854cf3f-dd28-4cd2-acba-a3ed0a1b4718[/URL]
Asking for 1 k per meet. Prefers afternoons?
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6263171][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7854cf3f-dd28-4cd2-acba-a3ed0a1b4718[/URL]
Asking for 1 k per meet. Prefers afternoons?[/QUOTE]I hate these girls with these things on their cheek that look like piercings, I guess they could just be studs, but surely they are just glued on jewels. Makes them look tartish.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6263186]I hate these girls with these things on their cheek that look like piercings, I guess they could just be studs, but surely they are just glued on jewels. Makes them look tartish.[/QUOTE]These are the skeezy girls that will fuck a crust punk who hands them half a warm beer at a party. They've just figured out they can monetize their promiscuity.
I need a how-to on how to send an Uber for a SB without risking my real identity. This baby lives at home and her parents monitor her credit card usage, so she doesn't want to use her own Uber account to go from home to meet me. She wanted me to send an Uber for her. I have a personal Uber account, but under my real identity.
I want to know how to send her a ride without risking any anonymity, as I have a SO. Evidently there are pre-paid Uber cards, these may be available online, but if I would have to use my own personal credit card to buy one, that wouldn't help. I'll check out the kiosk at my local stores for Uber prepaid cards; does anyone know of these?
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6263758]I need a how-to on how to send an Uber for a SB without risking my real identity. This baby lives at home and her parents monitor her credit card usage, so she doesn't want to use her own Uber account to go from home to meet me. She wanted me to send an Uber for her. I have a personal Uber account, but under my real identity.
I want to know how to send her a ride without risking any anonymity, as I have a SO. Evidently there are pre-paid Uber cards, these may be available online, but if I would have to use my own personal credit card to buy one, that wouldn't help. I'll check out the kiosk at my local stores for Uber prepaid cards; does anyone know of these?[/QUOTE]Not my problem. But if it was, why not just have a bank account online (paperless statements sent to a spam account) that always has just a few dollars in it?
7-11 has uber cards you can purchase and they can only be bought with cash. I would open a new account with whatever name you want and use these to load the app.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6263758]I need a how-to on how to send an Uber for a SB without risking my real identity. This baby lives at home and her parents monitor her credit card usage, so she doesn't want to use her own Uber account to go from home to meet me. She wanted me to send an Uber for her. I have a personal Uber account, but under my real identity.
I want to know how to send her a ride without risking any anonymity, as I have a SO. Evidently there are pre-paid Uber cards, these may be available online, but if I would have to use my own personal credit card to buy one, that wouldn't help. I'll check out the kiosk at my local stores for Uber prepaid cards; does anyone know of these?[/QUOTE]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/621d0cb0-edf6-4d70-8c09-b47a6788baeb[/URL]
She would like to have a complete setup. She is undoubtedly smoking hot, I've seen the private photos and messaged w / her extensively. She wanted to negotiate allowance by text, I wouldn't, that was the end.
[QUOTE=Drooo;6264848]7-11 has uber cards you can purchase and they can only be bought with cash. I would open a new account with whatever name you want and use these to load the app.[/QUOTE]You can do that for sure. If your goal is to eliminate a paper trail to hide your actions from a spouse, a reloadable prepaid Visa is a great option, as is an online bank account. But if you're concerned about the girl you're getting the Uber for being able to trace you, just buy your Uber card online, then send her the number. There's no way to trace a gift card number back to the buyers credit card number without law enforcement involvement and a subpoena.
This was so far out of the norm I just had to post it. I met a girl a few months ago on seeking from Yucaipa, nice profile, alluded to some mysterious interests. We then had both deactivated our profiles, but were still in each other's text contacts. She is 21, seemed skittish, related that she had had a bad experience in a M&G w / a guy, that was why she got off the site, but had a favorable impression of me, so she kept my number. We finally met on Monday, she is a little thick but very very pretty, beautiful eyes, and I got excited about her based on our interactions. She complained most people on seeking are too transaction-oriented, stated that she required some sort of connection to have an arrangement, and that the $ wasn't the main benefit she was after – that what she learned from someone she was spending time with was more important. Sounds perfect for me, who has a limited budget based on what I can hide from the SO.
My time didn't permit full negotiations at the M&G, so I got her to meet me again yesterday. I have a pretty set patter I use during private conversations (sitting in my car) aiming to get to an agreement, including saying I would not shock her with my interests, but she could not shock me w / hers, because I've had my adventures. When I asked her how she liked to interact with a man, she comes out with "As a dominatrix. I grind my shoe into a guy's face. That's how I interacted w / my SD in my last arrangement. Do you know what financial domination is? I do that. And especially, I really like to draw blood. I have a thing I do with my teeth I really like that gets blood out of a guy. Most people really wouldn't be into drinking blood, but I enjoy it."
Well OK. I just didn't have a lot of places to go with this, thankfully I had told her I had to leave at a set time and we were there, so I just excused myself. If I see anything in a profile concerning looking for a submissive, a pay pig, etc. , I just block it and move on. If she had been straight about this as her interests from the beginning, I wouldn't have given her the time of day.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6266053]This was so far out of the norm I just had to post it. I met a girl a few months ago on seeking from Yucaipa, nice profile, alluded to some mysterious interests. We then had both deactivated our profiles, but were still in each other's text contacts. She is 21, seemed skittish, related that she had had a bad experience in a M&G w / a guy, that was why she got off the site, but had a favorable impression of me, so she kept my number. We finally met on Monday, she is a little thick but very very pretty, beautiful eyes, and I got excited about her based on our interactions. She complained most people on seeking are too transaction-oriented, stated that she required some sort of connection to have an arrangement, and that the $ wasn't the main benefit she was after that what she learned from someone she was spending time with was more important. Sounds perfect for me, who has a limited budget based on what I can hide from the SO.
My time didn't permit full negotiations at the M&G, so I got her to meet me again yesterday. I have a pretty set patter I use during private conversations (sitting in my car) aiming to get to an agreement, including saying I would not shock her with my interests, but she could not shock me w / hers, because I've had my adventures. When I asked her how she liked to interact with a man, she comes out with "As a dominatrix. I grind my shoe into a guy's face. That's how I interacted w / my SD in my last arrangement. Do you know what financial domination is? I do that. And especially, I really like to draw blood. I have a thing I do with my teeth I really like that gets blood out of a guy. Most people really wouldn't be into drinking blood, but I enjoy it."
Well OK. I just didn't have a lot of places to go with this, thankfully I had told her I had to leave at a set time and we were there, so I just excused myself. If I see anything in a profile concerning looking for a submissive, a pay pig, etc. , I just block it and move on. If she had been straight about this as her interests from the beginning, I wouldn't have given her the time of day.[/QUOTE]That's some soulless shit. There's no limit to what some girls will do. Telling a girl you can't be shocked is probably not the best conversation piece these days.
[QUOTE=FirstClass1;6266159]That's some soulless shit. There's no limit to what some girls will do. Telling a girl you can't be shocked is probably not the best conversation piece these days.[/QUOTE]Well, the reason that is in my patter is that there are a lot of really submissive girls on SA, and I want to be sure I let them know that I'd be up for doing whatever they are into in that regard. If it comes up in messaging, I say I won't disrespect anyone or cause them pain. So that leaves out calling them a *who* or punching them (I had a civie I had a FWB relationships with decades ago, and she wanted that. I couldn't do it). I'll tie them up, pull their hair, choke them, face-fuck them, though.
This POT, she really betrayed nothing before yesterday that she was like this. Almost false advertising.
Say more about this online bank account. It's possible to open a bank account anonymously?
[QUOTE=ColoHobbyist;6265872]You can do that for sure. If your goal is to eliminate a paper trail to hide your actions from a spouse, a reloadable prepaid Visa is a great option, as is an online bank account. But if you're concerned about the girl you're getting the Uber for being able to trace you, just buy your Uber card online, then send her the number. There's no way to trace a gift card number back to the buyers credit card number without law enforcement involvement and a subpoena.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Murrican;6266624]Say more about this online bank account. It's possible to open a bank account anonymously?[/QUOTE]I don't think so. You always have to give a real name and SSN to get a financial account.
I have a PayPal I have had for a long time under my sugar identity. It is unclear to me that I could get this starting from scratch. I have used it a few times to send a few bucks (literally) to a POT I was dealing with, to buy her gas to come to a M&G, or whatever.
I always have my SB get us a room for FC, this can be a problem when the girl is so financially strapped, she doesn't have a credit card. I need to give them $ in advance and they put it into their bank account that has a debit card. (obviously, this is someone I have seen multiple times and trust w / this). Checking in to a hotel w / a debit card, they have to have the full cost of the room, and then a ridiculous deposit, sometimes up to as much as $250, in the account. After the baby checks out, they will refund the deposit, but that takes a few days of course.
I was in this situation w / a long ago SB, I needed to get her like $170. I got a prepaid card and entered it in to my sugar PayPal. I couldn't get PayPal to transfer the funds. I tried several prepaid debit cards before I found one that worked.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6263171][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7854cf3f-dd28-4cd2-acba-a3ed0a1b4718[/URL]
Asking for 1 k per meet. Prefers afternoons?[/QUOTE]It looks like a dude anyway, unless he / she or it has a manly face. Look closely again. Not worth more than 4-500 in my book, LOL.
[QUOTE=StudBucket;6267614]It looks like a dude anyway, unless he / she or it has a manly face. Look closely again. Not worth more than 4-500 in my book, LOL.[/QUOTE]If you know me, you would know I wouldn't be interested for any reason. As a 5"11' white/blond amazon would be the opposite of my version of a 10. And she may be a he. And many of those are equally as expensive and sometimes more. But I think its the fingernails that really give it away.
Welcome to all the new SD's and thanks to everyone that posts on this thread.
Seems like what I thought. Honestly I'd be ok sending girls money via cash app or PayPal except it leaves a trail and I'm not down with that.
One time I had to flake on a girl. She showed up but I had a business meeting run long and I couldn't even step out to tell her. Just flaked. I messaged her and told her I was so sorry that if she came back I'd give her half the agreed amount just to make it right. No date, just the money. She told me to send it via cash app. I told her I can't do that and she accused me of being a liar. But it was so true. I literally had more to lose having a record of the transaction. She told me to F off and die.
Wish there were a way to do these transactions on the sly.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6266844]I don't think so. You always have to give a real name and SSN to get a financial account.
I have a PayPal I have had for a long time under my sugar identity. It is unclear to me that I could get this starting from scratch. I have used it a few times to send a few bucks (literally) to a POT I was dealing with, to buy her gas to come to a M&G, or whatever.
I always have my SB get us a room for FC, this can be a problem when the girl is so financially strapped, she doesn't have a credit card. I need to give them $ in advance and they put it into their bank account that has a debit card. (obviously, this is someone I have seen multiple times and trust w / this). Checking in to a hotel w / a debit card, they have to have the full cost of the room, and then a ridiculous deposit, sometimes up to as much as $250, in the account. After the baby checks out, they will refund the deposit, but that takes a few days of course.
I was in this situation w / a long ago SB, I needed to get her like $170. I got a prepaid card and entered it in to my sugar PayPal. I couldn't get PayPal to transfer the funds. I tried several prepaid debit cards before I found one that worked.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Murrican;6270619]Seems like what I thought. Honestly I'd be ok sending girls money via cash app or PayPal except it leaves a trail and I'm not down with that.
One time I had to flake on a girl. She showed up but I had a business meeting run long and I couldn't even step out to tell her. Just flaked. I messaged her and told her I was so sorry that if she came back I'd give her half the agreed amount just to make it right. No date, just the money. She told me to send it via cash app. I told her I can't do that and she accused me of being a liar. But it was so true. I literally had more to lose having a record of the transaction. She told me to F off and die.
Wish there were a way to do these transactions on the sly.[/QUOTE]One thing I have done, but not w / just a prepaid debit card, is to get gift cards (Starbucks, Victoria) and take a photo on my burner and send it to the girl. If the card has a PIN, I also scratch off the protective cover from that. With the info on the card, she can use it to get whatever. Often the card has a bar code on it, in favorable cases, they may even be able to get the bar code to scan at the register of a retail location.
You hear of people getting scammed and being told to buy prepaid cards to send the info on them to the scammers (to pay a bill from the IRS for example). It seems like this might work. It is just that most SBs don't quite have the smarts to use them.
This gold digger below wants 1 k per meet. Hot, but delusional price.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/98be4c45-64ca-4e59-91dd-c9eb16e0c485[/URL]
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6269218]Welcome to all the new SD's and thanks to everyone that posts on this thread.[/QUOTE]Why thank you Hollywood, on behalf of myself and other members, Happy New Year to come and thanks for your contributions and mentorship.
[QUOTE=StudBucket;6274909]This gold digger below wants 1 k per meet. Hot, but delusional price.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/98be4c45-64ca-4e59-91dd-c9eb16e0c485[/URL][/QUOTE]You pulled the link from your messages not her profile.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6263171][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7854cf3f-dd28-4cd2-acba-a3ed0a1b4718[/URL]
Asking for 1 k per meet. Prefers afternoons?[/QUOTE]She needs to keep up her photoshop subscription. LOL. Talk about dysmorphia.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6274931]You pulled the link from your messages not her profile.[/QUOTE]Here she is, gold digger, GPS. She wouldn't even negotiate, stating 1 k her was minimum.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/30d7bae3-eefe-4ab0-8978-d3df7ac17395[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ae86deb-2300-4985-8362-821f5f9bbe18[/URL]
Be careful with this one. After discussing and talking at a public location and then deciding to go through the arrangement, she'll try to extort and blackmail you for xxxx money once you get to your room. She seemed normal and nice when talking in person but does a 180 degree turn later.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ae86deb-2300-4985-8362-821f5f9bbe18[/URL]
Be careful with this woman. Appears nice and accommodating while talking to her at a public location. We seemed to get along well and decided to go through with the arrangement. Once we got to the room she went complete 180 degree personality. She tried to extort and blackmail.
[QUOTE=Spector888;6277558][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ae86deb-2300-4985-8362-821f5f9bbe18[/URL]
Be careful with this woman. Appears nice and accommodating while talking to her at a public location. We seemed to get along well and decided to go through with the arrangement. Once we got to the room she went complete 180 degree personality. She tried to extort and blackmail.[/QUOTE]What's her username? The link isn't working for me, says profile no longer available. Thanks.
[QUOTE=Spector888;6277558][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ae86deb-2300-4985-8362-821f5f9bbe18[/URL]
Be careful with this woman. Appears nice and accommodating while talking to her at a public location. We seemed to get along well and decided to go through with the arrangement. Once we got to the room she went complete 180 degree personality. She tried to extort and blackmail.[/QUOTE]Profile gone.
[QUOTE=Spector888;6277556][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ae86deb-2300-4985-8362-821f5f9bbe18[/URL]
Be careful with this one. After discussing and talking at a public location and then deciding to go through the arrangement, she'll try to extort and blackmail you for xxxx money once you get to your room. She seemed normal and nice when talking in person but does a 180 degree turn later.[/QUOTE]What's her handle name?
[QUOTE=StudBucket;6276259]Here she is, gold digger, GPS. She wouldn't even negotiate, stating 1 k her was minimum.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/30d7bae3-eefe-4ab0-8978-d3df7ac17395[/URL][/QUOTE]For some reason there's been a lot of this lately. Women thinking that 1 k - 1. 5 k is normal. Its not. I have a feeling a lot of them are visiting / are / SugarBABYonlyforum / and thinking these escort rates are the same thing. Most of the women that post here are former escorts.
[QUOTE=Hanbrolo;6280151]For some reason there's been a lot of this lately. Women thinking that 1 k - 1. 5 k is normal. Its not. I have a feeling a lot of them are visiting / are / SugarBABYonlyforum / and thinking these escort rates are the same thing. Most of the women that post here are former escorts.[/QUOTE]Never heard of that. But I never go on reddit. Took a look. Total joke. I feel sorry for these girls in a way. But there are a group of guys routinely paying 1 k per date. I read enough to know its not really that informative unless you want a tutorial on GPS.