The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[QUOTE=Maxamillion8;5491653]Left a message to a SB for quite sometime. Just got below response. Not disclosing the name just yet. Will keep you guys posted and post her name if I pass. But I need fellow experienced expert opinion.

Hi there!! I get a lot of messages on here so I'm going to be upfront with what I'm looking for (: I'm married and my husband loves watching me with other men, it's our thing and I'm not willing to meet up without him around. Also, I would love to meet someone who is open to filming content for my * page! If you're still interested hit me up & we can meet up for dinner or something to see if we click (: if you're not interested please don't write back & waste each others time. I hope it's something you're interested in & I would love to get to know you better!!

Thought?[/QUOTE]Marriedmom4 dom?

I'm with Deeds. Coming back after an 18 month relationship ran out of gas. I'm having absolutely no issues meeting young ladies. I'm a long term searcher, never fuck on the first date, so a different mode than a lot of guys, but I'm stacking up the second dates at this point and not sure how I can manage them all. After 3 weeks back I have at least a dozen opportunities on the hook. Hell, the second date planned for tomorrow night made sure we were going to fuck and doesn't want an allowance because she doesn't want to commit. Fine with me!

TD.

[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;5473698]Fair enough, you don't care for SA. But where else do you go to find a consistent flow of sugar babies? SA is duly subject to some criticism but they are a game changer in the sugar baby, sugar daddy world. Yeah, you have to diligently work the website without the fakes and reel in the real sugar babies but if you work it consistently you can find no less than 5 to 10 real sugar babies a week that are willing to meet with you.

There has never been any other venue that gets that type of action. It does require patience and dedication though.

If you have a better source, trust me I'm all ears. LOL.[/QUOTE]

Can ask are you paying and how much for that first date you don't have sex with them sir?

[QUOTE=TheDistance;5492710]I'm with Deeds. Coming back after an 18 month relationship ran out of gas. I'm having absolutely no issues meeting young ladies. I'm a long term searcher, never fuck on the first date, so a different mode than a lot of guys, but I'm stacking up the second dates at this point and not sure how I can manage them all. After 3 weeks back I have at least a dozen opportunities on the hook. Hell, the second date planned for tomorrow night made sure we were going to fuck and doesn't want an allowance because she doesn't want to commit. Fine with me!

TD.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Banger12;5492510]Marriedmom4 dom?[/QUOTE]Nope, FunBunny1.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8f122b5b-af17-4354-94c9-3c2270d42608[/URL]

Seems the scammer has been copy pasting everyone. I replied her about meeting in public. But seems she has not checked the message yet.

[QUOTE=Bachelor1234;5493148]Nope, FunBunny1.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8f122b5b-af17-4354-94c9-3c2270d42608[/URL][/QUOTE]

Met this one. Would not repeat. PM if you want more information. Happy hunting.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bc76032b-d185-460c-a6de-bb3938302b1a[/URL]

[QUOTE=ChrisHansen92;5492883]Can ask are you paying and how much for that first date you don't have sex with them sir?[/QUOTE]I let them pick where we have lunch or dinner. I don't pay someone to have a meal with me, except for the meal itself. Sometimes that's a nice place, and sometimes it's not. I usually suggest an upgrade if it's not.

If it goes well, I'll venmo a little something afterwards, but that's a complete surprise to them and is usually met with a "You don't need to do that!" type response.

Interestingly, I've had no requests for gas money up front, first date payment, sitter money or car repair funds this time around. Hell, one of the girls offered to cover the tip!

[QUOTE=TheDistance;5496235]I let them pick where we have lunch or dinner. I don't pay someone to have a meal with me, except for the meal itself. Sometimes that's a nice place, and sometimes it's not. I usually suggest an upgrade if it's not.

If it goes well, I'll venmo a little something afterwards, but that's a complete surprise to them and is usually met with a "You don't need to do that!" type response.

Interestingly, I've had no requests for gas money up front, first date payment, sitter money or car repair funds this time around. Hell, one of the girls offered to cover the tip![/QUOTE]Did Julia Roberts ever respond to you on there? While everyone else either gets scammed or just the usual waste of text with these frauds and time wasters it is you that's taking all the good ones away from us.

[QUOTE=TheDistance;5496235]I let them pick where we have lunch or dinner. I don't pay someone to have a meal with me, except for the meal itself. Sometimes that's a nice place, and sometimes it's not. I usually suggest an upgrade if it's not.

If it goes well, I'll venmo a little something afterwards, but that's a complete surprise to them and is usually met with a "You don't need to do that!" type response.

Interestingly, I've had no requests for gas money up front, first date payment, sitter money or car repair funds this time around. Hell, one of the girls offered to cover the tip![/QUOTE]Does one use a fake / anonymous name with Venmo.

[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;5497380]Does one use a fake / anonymous name with Venmo.[/QUOTE]I've been able to set up my Venmo in a manner that whenever I send a payment to someone, it gives a false name that I've entered. However, because it's linked directly to you and your bank / card accounts, in the event of a litigious event, it would be absolutely a breeze to find out who you are. For that reason, I don't use Venmo and other digital payment platforms for the hobby. And I would advise others against it as well, UNLESS, the payment was sent for something not 'play' related and you can prove it or you've established a long term relationship with the person and you trust them.

Be safe out there.

Anyone have suggestions on how to purchase a SA membership without using a real credit card? In the past they accepted Vanilla prepaid cards, but I just tried to use a vanilla card and as I entered the card number a message popped up - "we do not accept most pre paid cards. Consider using a major credit card. " I would appreciate any suggestions on options for membership without a direct link to my real card info.

[QUOTE=Wheaton278;5498368]Anyone have suggestions on how to purchase a SA membership without using a real credit card? In the past they accepted Vanilla prepaid cards, but I just tried to use a vanilla card and as I entered the card number a message popped up - "we do not accept most pre paid cards. Consider using a major credit card. " I would appreciate any suggestions on options for membership without a direct link to my real card info.[/QUOTE]Vanilla Cards have always worked for me. I've even renewed a couple of times even though it gave me that warning message. They want your money.

LOL! I don't think I aim as high as some guys do here, and there are a lot of cute students (or milfs, my last sb was 47 when we met, but was a fitness professional and easily could have passed for ten years younger, and she may be on track to get me back) who are looking for stability and consistency.

I'm not a high roller, but I'm genuine and a gentleman. You can follow my history on this site over a lot of years. I don't waste a lot of time with someone that there isn't some pretty good open communication from the start. I don't negotiate, so I don't waste a lot of time with someone who isn't in alignment.

I'm single and that might also make a difference.

Lunch dates Tuesday and Wednesday will wrap up my month. I canceled a dinner date tonight because there just wasn't any traction.

[QUOTE=Pubb69;5497321]Did Julia Roberts ever respond to you on there? While everyone else either gets scammed or just the usual waste of text with these frauds and time wasters it is you that's taking all the good ones away from us.[/QUOTE]

My thoughts exactly. Both in sugar dating and vanilla dating, people sour themselves to the game by chasing things that clearly aren't working. People actively curate their hobbies, careers, and social circles, why not apply it to dating as well?

You're just bound to have a much better time by linking up with likeminded people who you don't have to struggle with them to align with you.

If I get ghosted once, that's it, I'm done. If it takes her 2 days to respond to a simple text, I'm done before it even started. Just like you said, you don't need to be a high roller, being genuine and consistent is more than enough, AND APPRECIATED GREATLY, for the right people.

I don't understand people chasing women who have ridiculous expectations for dates and fighting for her attention the entire date, hoping to get her to take her eyes off her Snapchat account for more than 5 minutes. How is that fun for anyone?

You're worth it, guys. You're worth being treated with appreciation.

[QUOTE=TheDistance;5498704]LOL! I don't think I aim as high as some guys do here, and there are a lot of cute students (or milfs, my last sb was 47 when we met, but was a fitness professional and easily could have passed for ten years younger, and she may be on track to get me back) who are looking for stability and consistency.

I'm not a high roller, but I'm genuine and a gentleman. You can follow my history on this site over a lot of years. I don't waste a lot of time with someone that there isn't some pretty good open communication from the start. I don't negotiate, so I don't waste a lot of time with someone who isn't in alignment.

I'm single and that might also make a difference.

Lunch dates Tuesday and Wednesday will wrap up my month. I canceled a dinner date tonight because there just wasn't any traction.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/affbfbaa-67d5-4cf3-8952-36e36c80b67f[/URL]

Been talking with this one on and off for a few days now via a popular social media platform, so I know that she is real. That's where the positives end sadly.

Impossible to set anything up with. Completely avoids the conversation of meeting up for anything. Even just a meet and greet for coffee. She won't even talk about the arrangement itself. Yet, she is more than happy to send dozens of videos and pictures of her naked each day. Note that I haven't sent her a dime yet; but I sure have offered to!

Anyone tried her yet? Not sure what the deal is.