[QUOTE=MKinsella08;6003131]I just wanted to post this on the site, as kind of a rebuttal to the negative reports. This not white knighting as some people say, since I still had some cons on my "date" with her too, but there is something to look forward to for next time.
So, it started with the initial messaging back and forth. I said I don't mind meeting up for drinks and then going back to her place for "fun time" after. After some back and forth texts on that, which included us exchanging face pics, we agreed on me bringing some champagne to her place and I brought her some lunch too, which she was going to eat after our "fun time". I think she wants the pic, to kind of initially break the ice and to see if she is any way attracted to you.[/QUOTE]So, one thing I will not argue about is how a man or woman spend his or her money; especially since it's not my money. Based on the level or type of services she provided or some may dub as a lack thereof, personally, $300 plus dollars would be too much for me. I mean, to not get a longer BJ and / or BBJ--absolutely not! But I digress!
Now, the issue I have with this drunk is that when she asked me for a pic and I decline, citing anti-anonymity and discretion concerns, she went off and got very nasty and unprofessional about it! This is where my issue lies. I have seen where these girls take guys pics, after they get angry with them or have some kind of falling out or even misunderstanding, and they post their pics on these adult entertainment sites saying that they like shemales or some other foolishness. Now, please don't say, "oh no, not April, she is as sweet as pie!" Yes, April! And any other provider who is hooking.
For some of us, providing a pic is a big no no. Especially if you have a significant other or a great job. If this does not apply to you, then send as many pics till your heart's content. As for me, personally, and I am sure I speak for many others on here, sending pics and LinkedIn profiles and any other information that crosses over into my personal life is a big no go! Again, I digress! That is certainly any man's prerogative, however.
At any rate, I am not trying to throw shade or anything like that, but a rebuttal to your rebuttal was requisite, because in the world of hooking, it is just not prudent to ever share a personal pic with a girl, unless you are willing to accept the consequences of this decision down the road. And you never know! A very famous person paid a woman $130 k to keep her mouth closed about a sexual encounter and guess what, it got out anyway. You may not be famous and that's not really the point; however, the point is, we (clients) do not owe these people pics because we are not the ones who are making the big bucks! If she is concerned about attraction, well, go on a dating site--there, I can see sending pics, but a site where hooking is involved, not me! And April, shy! Naw, doubt that! She has been hooking too long for that biz. And by the way, I have seen her a couple times in the distant past and quite frankly, her puss was nothing to write home about. Although she was a nice looking MILF; I mean, back then, think gymnastics type of body. I don't know what she looks like now, but, again, the puss was pretty average.
