It is all about perspective.
When a provider treats you like she is doing you a favor by letting you pay for her time she has lost perspective about the provider / client relationship. As soon as I get a sense that a provider is taking my business for granted I give them a break for a while to see if they are able to reset. If not there are many potential replacements standing in line.
[QUOTE=NorthWestWind;4734850]Fuck, the whole reason I pay is to not have the drama.
Why having a dick got to make life so hard?[/QUOTE]
Enjoyable long term arrangements
[QUOTE=Mikaeles;4734810]I had one try that to me I did the whole I'm broke thing and she kept talking to me asked if I could take her to diner I said ya some place reasonable we decided on Outback total was 50 dollars I think for both of us. After diner we went back to her place where we got drunk and passed out I woke up in the morning to her sucking my dick I blew a huge load in her mouth. We became friends after that and she probably ended up getting more money out of me in the long run than she would've with dinners and just going to the beach a few times. She is no longer in the business moved out of state and I'm still friends with her on Facebook. It's funny how sometimes that works out. She was Helen lived out near Christmas if anyone remembers her. I even became friends with her boyfriend and had drinks with both of them. He hated leaving the house so I took her out to places and fucked her when I brought her home. Was a fun arrangement![/QUOTE]Yes, creating a trusting, long term arrangement will get more benefits for both in the long run IMO. My last UTR, back where I used to live, would always go the extra mile in downing time with me. She often came to my place and started there for hours just talking. She never wanted to go anywhere public, but she's meet me any time and anywhere that I needed relief. And the best part was building enough trust that BB was always a go.
In another arrangement I had, she was so about going public places and having play time. Music festivals, dinning, beer fest, clubs, and more. This gave her an opportunity to her out and enjoy things that she normally couldn't afford. Plus it was great company.
In both cases, I often have extra money when they were going through tough times, often never even meeting. That was worth it though. Al the trust, personal time and $$$ made for solid long term arrangements.
Don't believe what they say believe what they do
Gentleman I'm only going to say this once, every provider. And this is a hard pill to swallow. Does not have your best interest at heart. They are out here to make a living, its a simple business transaction. Don't get hooked, don't get attached. Your heart will be broken. I've been lied to by pretty much all the best providers in Orlando and I mean the best. Providers will ghost you when you have everything scheduled but then you see a review from someone that met up with her the next day around the same time, and they hit you back with the "sorry I lost service, or "sorry I fell asleep" etc crappy excuse. (even tho they were busy seeing other clients). Providers have even told me in the past that they'll even skip an appt with a regular because they want to try someone new. They will double book sometimes triple book and choose the best option. Providers will clock watch even the best or try to rush you.
They will advertise certain pictures at certain angles and mention certain things but its the complete opposite when you meet them. They are natural born car salesman and you have no chance at winning this game because it is not a game that can be made public, and because they do this everyday, whether or not you want to believe it, they think your their bi&%h on their time. Granted some providers are super friendly and nice but the overall consensus is there. If a provider had to pick between sleeping outside in the dirt or screwing you over that decision has already been made. Don't get attached to the pussy theirs about 100 other guys swinging from that tree eating the same fruit and you aint special.
I'm not trying to defragment anyones reality on getting anymore providers. It is a good business to have and has kept society prospering from the get go. But business is business. Don't get that twisted. Make sure you always look for red flags make sure your always safe and just be cognizant that a provider no matter how much you think you know them will succumb to these actions either with you or someone else one way or another.
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Cassie the Sexy Lioness (Cat Scratch Fever)
Cassie the Sexy Lioness (Cat Scratch Fever)
Had an amazeballs time with Cassie today! I'll post some new pics of her below. Call me a perv but for some reason I get really turned on by hot chicks pushing grocery carts, LMAO!
Cassie introduced me to her twin kittens today that are just the cutest little things (see pic below) you could ever imagine! As I was holding these two little fur balls I was reminded of the song "Cat Scratch Fever", LOL
Link to "Cat Scratch Fever" by Ted Nugent:
[URL]https://youtu.be/q_i1YSa9xww[/URL]
The dream started with some beer and TV on the couch. At Cassie's request we watched a bunch of Hardee's and Carl's Jr commercials - seriously! Cassie said she wanted to show me the one with Nina Agdal (see link below), who according to Cassie is Leonardo DiCaprio's ex girlfriend. Cassie admitted to being turned on by this chick (as am I!) which didn't surprise me because I remember when I took Cassie to a strip club last year she seemed to be really turned on by the female dancer who gave us a double lap dance together. So I think Cassie has a bit of a thing for girls too which is fucking awesome! I'll also post a link to my 2nd favorite commercial we saw below, which I think is just a parody and not real, but still awesome!
Hardee's commercial with Nina Agdal:
[URL]https://youtu.be/2rHXyfcXbG8[/URL]
Banned Carl's Jr Superbowl Commercial:
[URL]https://youtu.be/FZIxcKPcsA8[/URL]
Needless to say I was ready to rock 'n roll after watching the Hardee's porn with Cassie, LOL, so off to the bedroom we went for a BBBJ and Mish where my sausage lasted less than 10 min in Cassie's oven before it burst.
Unfortunately, Cassie said that for the time being she only wants to entertain current and former clients that she remembers, sorry noobs!
Will repeat!
SYM
Edit: Good news! Michele1L and I have worked things out already and we have a session scheduled for the very near future - I couldn't be happier! Also, thanks to everyone who took the time to either PM me or post their advice below - it is much appreciated!