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[QUOTE=AsenseOfWonder;6214278]Went for a splurge with the 5 bills. She drove herself. Young and pretty cute, with lots of piercings (nose, lower lip, gauged earlobes). 5'7 with modest rack but a great ass. Said she's 22. Asked for money upfront. Pretty responsive at daty but couldn't give head very long because of her braces? Open to multiple positions and had a decent session. Rushed in / out, got dressed immediately and bolted out. Might be open to Greek for more. Overall decent time but probably won't repeat due to price.[/QUOTE]Wow. There are so many red flags on this girl. She looks like someone with serious mental issues. This is someone I'd be afraid would do something crazy, like ruin your life crazy. Glad you made it out ok.

Here is one whose IQ is definitely below her bra size.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f6dc9aed-ac09-4afe-a846-bdf10e01f497[/URL]

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6219952]Here is one whose IQ is definitely below her bra size.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f6dc9aed-ac09-4afe-a846-bdf10e01f497[/URL][/QUOTE]This is shockingly stupid.

I don't care how hot she is (and she's not; she's 100 pct fake) - I could not spend a dinner in this persons presence.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6219952]Here is one whose IQ is definitely below her bra size.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f6dc9aed-ac09-4afe-a846-bdf10e01f497[/URL][/QUOTE]These have to be fakes, don't they? I mean she doesn't look remotely human.

Wants 1 k.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ae73d8b8-155e-496d-bd77-2aeb6b7af9b1

I have an unusual situation I would like input on. I have seen a seeking profile for several years, 42 YO single mom, at one point I got to see the private pics, and did not pursue – because one was at my fancy, $200/ mo gym. My wife and I were both members, and I realized how risky it could be – the POT could recognize me, connect me to her, it could get really ugly. Fast forward, SO isn't at the gym anymore and I see the profile again. I message, we hit it off, and a couple of weeks ago, we M&G. She is different than in text and by phone, much warmer. Also, obviously very competent businesswoman, though reserved about details. We adjourn to her car, a Tesla, for a deeper chat, and she is responsive to my touching her leg. We discuss details, and set FC for a week ahead. I spend a morning w / her at a hotel she books and I pay for. She is into the ritual, a nice lingerie set, etc. Really, some of the nicest natural big, firm tits I've ever seen. It leads to great great pretty straight-ahead sex. Not submissive, not pushy. And she loves to get hit from behind. Our personal interactions during the 2 hours + together are also great, she's really impressive, so I get curious. I use one of the paid information services to reverse phone search her number. It isn't a burner or a GV number, it is one of her old businesses. I then have her name and find her new businesses. She is the founder of a significant professional business in her field, and has received all kinds of accolades. She is all over the internet, on social media, etc. I am excited, I really like this sort of woman. If I were single I would want to date her. She was nominated for a special businesswoman of the year award by the LA Times. And in the Sunday paper yesterday, there was a large section on women-owned businesses, and I flipped through – there she was.

So, how do I handle this situation? I know a great deal about her, but don't want to screw up the good thing I have going w / her, and I also require my own anonymity. I would like to eventually get the lady to open up to me. So far, the obvious thing is to keep mum. Yet I need to open up my strategy to new thinking.

Nice enough in messaging, hot hot photos, once I got her onto text, she just sent me her address.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/08417815-5ff6-4144-8ab5-cfe9ba6588ee[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6b3a32e4-9aa2-4531-9def-079d0fe4d1f1[/URL]

In response to my saying I didn't think it was a good idea to discuss allowance on the site, she came back with:

I've been kicked off a dozen times, frankly I'm not one to concern myself over the rules, I like to determine viability because I'm not for everyone. I'm accustomed to a monthly allowance between 10-20 k.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6224971]I have an unusual situation I would like input on. I have seen a seeking profile for several years, 42 YO single mom, at one point I got to see the private pics, and did not pursue because one was at my fancy, $200/ mo gym. My wife and I were both members, and I realized how risky it could be the POT could recognize me, connect me to her, it could get really ugly. Fast forward, SO isn't at the gym anymore and I see the profile again. I message, we hit it off, and a couple of weeks ago, we M&G. She is different than in text and by phone, much warmer. Also, obviously very competent businesswoman, though reserved about details. We adjourn to her car, a Tesla, for a deeper chat, and she is responsive to my touching her leg. We discuss details, and set FC for a week ahead. I spend a morning w / her at a hotel she books and I pay for. She is into the ritual, a nice lingerie set, etc. Really, some of the nicest natural big, firm tits I've ever seen. It leads to great great pretty straight-ahead sex. Not submissive, not pushy. And she loves to get hit from behind. Our personal interactions during the 2 hours + together are also great, she's really impressive, so I get curious. I use one of the paid information services to reverse phone search her number. It isn't a burner or a GV number, it is one of her old businesses. I then have her name and find her new businesses. She is the founder of a significant professional business in her field, and has received all kinds of accolades. She is all over the internet, on social media, etc. I am excited, I really like this sort of woman. If I were single I would want to date her. She was nominated for a special businesswoman of the year award by the LA Times. And in the Sunday paper yesterday, there was a large section on women-owned businesses, and I flipped through there she was.

So, how do I handle this situation? I know a great deal about her, but don't want to screw up the good thing I have going w / her, and I also require my own anonymity. I would like to eventually get the lady to open up to me. So far, the obvious thing is to keep mum. Yet I need to open up my strategy to new thinking.[/QUOTE]I think along with this hobby, SA should be just as discreet. It seems like if anyone were to find out about why she sugars, it would burst in her face especially in the world of business she is in. I think if she really does like you and develops into a real relationship. Then let it happen naturally. I'd keep mum til it develops that way.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6224971]I have an unusual situation I would like input on. I have seen a seeking profile for several years, 42 YO single mom, at one point I got to see the private pics, and did not pursue because one was at my fancy, $200/ mo gym. My wife and I were both members, and I realized how risky it could be the POT could recognize me, connect me to her, it could get really ugly. Fast forward, SO isn't at the gym anymore and I see the profile again. I message, we hit it off, and a couple of weeks ago, we M&G. She is different than in text and by phone, much warmer. Also, obviously very competent businesswoman, though reserved about details. We adjourn to her car, a Tesla, for a deeper chat, and she is responsive to my touching her leg. We discuss details, and set FC for a week ahead. I spend a morning w / her at a hotel she books and I pay for. She is into the ritual, a nice lingerie set, etc. Really, some of the nicest natural big, firm tits I've ever seen. It leads to great great pretty straight-ahead sex. Not submissive, not pushy. And she loves to get hit from behind. Our personal interactions during the 2 hours + together are also great, she's really impressive, so I get curious. I use one of the paid information services to reverse phone search her number. It isn't a burner or a GV number, it is one of her old businesses. I then have her name and find her new businesses. She is the founder of a significant professional business in her field, and has received all kinds of accolades. She is all over the internet, on social media, etc. I am excited, I really like this sort of woman. If I were single I would want to date her. She was nominated for a special businesswoman of the year award by the LA Times. And in the Sunday paper yesterday, there was a large section on women-owned businesses, and I flipped through there she was.

So, how do I handle this situation? I know a great deal about her, but don't want to screw up the good thing I have going w / her, and I also require my own anonymity. I would like to eventually get the lady to open up to me. So far, the obvious thing is to keep mum. Yet I need to open up my strategy to new thinking.[/QUOTE]Sounds like you found a potential winner. That's nice to find someone who is accomplished, etc. On the site. If it were me, I'd play it cool, just like you are and let the relationship develop. If she feels comfortable, she will discuss some of, or a lot of, the stuff you already know. Then, that opens things up between you two in terms of progressing the relationship. I think if she were to find out that you already know a lot about her, she'd freak out since I'm sure discretion is important to her as well.

They are running a special now, 33% off.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/billing/memberships?promo=BFCM2022V33[/URL]

Thanks for the post about the discount, I waded back in yesterday and already have some reports of BS for everyone!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/abe42dad-94fc-4746-af67-9c161c80b387[/URL]

WittyBabe. Cashapp pic seller / scammer though lies at first about it, pretends to be about the right thing.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/022f745f-ed32-498a-9d60-bb6012cb093f[/URL]

Basically said I was too poor to even talk to even at 500 LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9e27fbac-ae68-46fb-9d43-4123007f09f3[/URL]

Says she's in LA but her location seems to change. Reasonable PPM amount but wants a fee first so next'd.

Couple more in the works, let you know what I find. I fucked up and didn't take the chance on an awesome one last night and looks like she's ghosting today.

[QUOTE=RanManCan;6207101]I know some of you gents use a profile with no pics.

I'd love to hear your suggestions. Last time I uploaded a pic, I got booted instantly. I think they have facial recognition now.[/QUOTE]I use an extreme closeup photo of my cheek / beard / side of nose for my profile photo, then have a few real, face blurred, full and half body shots in my private photos.

Not exactly "no face", but nothing that's identifiable by an AI, or even a human that doesn't already know me well. Plus they're all photos that have never been posted elsewhere.

The first one tried to pull that pic selling crap with me also-been in the game waaaayyy to long to fall for it. Anytime they want to move to text in the first or second message its tommy on the other end. I played along and sent her the phone number of another scammer--then blocked her.

[QUOTE=Ajfff;6228245]Thanks for the post about the discount, I waded back in yesterday and already have some reports of BS for everyone!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/abe42dad-94fc-4746-af67-9c161c80b387[/URL]

WittyBabe. Cashapp pic seller / scammer though lies at first about it, pretends to be about the right thing.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/022f745f-ed32-498a-9d60-bb6012cb093f[/URL]

Basically said I was too poor to even talk to even at 500 LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9e27fbac-ae68-46fb-9d43-4123007f09f3[/URL]

Says she's in LA but her location seems to change. Reasonable PPM amount but wants a fee first so next'd.

Couple more in the works, let you know what I find. I fucked up and didn't take the chance on an awesome one last night and looks like she's ghosting today.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AsenseOfWonder;6214278]Went for a splurge with the 5 bills. She drove herself. Young and pretty cute, with lots of piercings (nose, lower lip, gauged earlobes). 5'7 with modest rack but a great ass. Said she's 22. Asked for money upfront. Pretty responsive at daty but couldn't give head very long because of her braces? Open to multiple positions and had a decent session. Rushed in / out, got dressed immediately and bolted out. Might be open to Greek for more. Overall decent time but probably won't repeat due to price.[/QUOTE]Got to ask more, I just spoke to her, she was pushy on it all, asked the same amount, but I said I was looking for a few hours together (just to see) she said "LOL no, just make you cum and leave".

I hate that kinda girl and glad I asked. Warning to all.

Also, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4a7cbed5-8d49-412c-8d0e-e7ab6f4e9ad3[/URL] Is another version of the pic seller / scammer on my last post. Tried to get me again today on a diff account. Like WTF LOL.

[QUOTE=Ajfff;6229962]Got to ask more, I just spoke to her, she was pushy on it all, asked the same amount, but I said I was looking for a few hours together (just to see) she said "LOL no, just make you cum and leave".

I hate that kinda girl and glad I asked. Warning to all.

Also, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4a7cbed5-8d49-412c-8d0e-e7ab6f4e9ad3[/URL] Is another version of the pic seller / scammer on my last post. Tried to get me again today on a diff account. Like WTF LOL.[/QUOTE]Overall I can say the number of girls has picked up a bit lately. Must need Christmas money. So don't be in a rush to overspend.

[QUOTE=ColoHobbyist;6228784]I use an extreme closeup photo of my cheek / beard / side of nose for my profile photo, then have a few real, face blurred, full and half body shots in my private photos.

Not exactly "no face", but nothing that's identifiable by an AI, or even a human that doesn't already know me well. Plus they're all photos that have never been posted elsewhere.[/QUOTE]Thanks for that. Good idea. Already uploaded.

NEXT QUESTION: What does everyone think about uploading a photo showing another (non-identifiable) girl kissing you?

I know this is a no-go on normal dating sites, and I assume so here. But these girls are way more open, so I'd like to hear your thoughts.

Hi guys, I was banned over a month and tried making a new account using ghostery and vpn. Successfully created my account and added new pic and have been engaging in likes for a week. When I subscribed with vanilla gift card, I automatically got suspended. Tried making a new account with no pic which works but when I use the vanilla gift card again to subscribe I get suspended automatically. I am using all new info for name and billing each time and turned off vpn public Wi-Fi when paying. Am I missing something? What am I doing wrong. Is the card number now flagged? What are the proper steps that I'm missing.

[QUOTE=ReboundJohn;6232132]Hi guys, I was banned over a month and tried making a new account using ghostery and vpn. Successfully created my account and added new pic and have been engaging in likes for a week. When I subscribed with vanilla gift card, I automatically got suspended. Tried making a new account with no pic which works but when I use the vanilla gift card again to subscribe I get suspended automatically. I am using all new info for name and billing each time and turned off vpn public Wi-Fi when paying. Am I missing something? What am I doing wrong. Is the card number now flagged? What are the proper steps that I'm missing.[/QUOTE]I think that using anything from past profiles that got banned puts you at risk. Are you changing the MAC address on your device?

I would also suggest contacting customer service if you can and pleading with them.

On the other hand, why did you get banned? Were you using un-approved acronyms? If you really did violate their TOS (which you should re-read), perhaps because you were just mongering, maybe they don't really want you on there, and you shouldn't be there.

I have had a profile since 2016. I hide that info. I figure I am pretty much immune to getting banned at this stage. I am even in their users focus group. I would never do anything to jeopardize my status there. I do have a new unpaid profile I can use to peek at someone I've blocked on my main profile, or vice versa.

I've never tried to convert that to a paid membership to contact girls. It is interesting, sometimes I see someone on the unpaid profile I don't see on my old one. Don't know why that is. I'd like to hear from anyone with experience.

[QUOTE=ReboundJohn;6232132]Hi guys, I was banned over a month and tried making a new account using ghostery and vpn. Successfully created my account and added new pic and have been engaging in likes for a week. When I subscribed with vanilla gift card, I automatically got suspended. Tried making a new account with no pic which works but when I use the vanilla gift card again to subscribe I get suspended automatically. I am using all new info for name and billing each time and turned off vpn public Wi-Fi when paying. Am I missing something? What am I doing wrong. Is the card number now flagged? What are the proper steps that I'm missing.[/QUOTE]They use Canvas fingerprinting.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6224971]I have an unusual situation I would like input on. I have seen a seeking profile for several years, 42 YO single mom, at one point I got to see the private pics, and did not pursue because one was at my fancy, $200/ mo gym. My wife and I were both members, and I realized how risky it could be the POT could recognize me, connect me to her, it could get really ugly. Fast forward, SO isn't at the gym anymore and I see the profile again. I message, we hit it off, and a couple of weeks ago, we M&G. She is different than in text and by phone, much warmer. Also, obviously very competent businesswoman, though reserved about details. We adjourn to her car, a Tesla, for a deeper chat, and she is responsive to my touching her leg. We discuss details, and set FC for a week ahead. I spend a morning w / her at a hotel she books and I pay for. She is into the ritual, a nice lingerie set, etc. Really, some of the nicest natural big, firm tits I've ever seen. It leads to great great pretty straight-ahead sex. Not submissive, not pushy. And she loves to get hit from behind. Our personal interactions during the 2 hours + together are also great, she's really impressive, so I get curious. I use one of the paid information services to reverse phone search her number. It isn't a burner or a GV number, it is one of her old businesses. I then have her name and find her new businesses. She is the founder of a significant professional business in her field, and has received all kinds of accolades. She is all over the internet, on social media, etc. I am excited, I really like this sort of woman. If I were single I would want to date her. She was nominated for a special businesswoman of the year award by the LA Times. And in the Sunday paper yesterday, there was a large section on women-owned businesses, and I flipped through there she was.

So, how do I handle this situation? I know a great deal about her, but don't want to screw up the good thing I have going w / her, and I also require my own anonymity. I would like to eventually get the lady to open up to me. So far, the obvious thing is to keep mum. Yet I need to open up my strategy to new thinking.[/QUOTE]Convince her to get off the site and keep her to yourself!!

[QUOTE=LimpAndSmall;6233556]They use Canvas fingerprinting.[/QUOTE]And what the heck is that? And what does that mean for his situation?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6234533]And what the heck is that? And what does that mean for his situation?[/QUOTE][URL]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Canvas_fingerprinting[/URL]

[QUOTE=LimpAndSmall;6235489][URL]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Canvas_fingerprinting[/URL][/QUOTE]There is a specific thread here for people who like to be uncooperative.

So, I did read the wiki page, and I still don't know much more. I am not a techie. If you know so much, you'd do people here a favor in answering my question. What does this mean to the OP?

That wiki page mentions different browsers, I used to use Tor to access seeking, but I don't think that works at this time. Which browsers work on the site changes over time.

I just found it possible to log in using Epic, which has its own VPN.

I also got Tor to work, but it is slow. No surprise. I also had to do a verification that it was me, by getting a code sent to my email, because I had signed in from 'a new device'.

So, if the OP used one of these browsers instead of what he used before, would that fix the problem of him getting banned?

[QUOTE=LimpAndSmall;6233556]They use Canvas fingerprinting.[/QUOTE]So if you start a new account with a different computer and only use that computer to login. That would protect you?

Also trying to change my location. For the life of me I can not find a way to do this even though I did it a couple months ago. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6236991]Also trying to change my location. For the life of me I can not find a way to do this even though I did it a couple months ago. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Click your profile name in top-right, the click the white "Edit Profile" button.

You should now see 4 red "Edit" buttons along the right, one button in each of the four sections.

Click the red "Edit" button in the top section.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6236988]So if you start a new account with a different computer and only use that computer to login. That would protect you?[/QUOTE]Yes, using a new computer will protect you, also use a VPN to mask your home IP address.

You can also use a Virtual Machine (PC within a PC), but that's fairly advanced. If so inclined, try Parallels Desktop or VMWare Fusion.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6236988]So if you start a new account with a different computer and only use that computer to login. That would protect you?[/QUOTE]Remember, though, that SA are using several different techniques to identify you. All simultaneously. So if you are banned, you have to evade / avoid all their tracking techniques simultaneously also.

That means.

- Not using same the IP address. Use VPN or TOR.

- Not using same credit card or home address.

- Not reusing photos.

- Avoiding the Canvas fingerprinting.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6236002]There is a specific thread here for people who like to be uncooperative.

So, I did read the wiki page, and I still don't know much more. I am not a techie. If you know so much, you'd do people here a favor in answering my question. What does this mean to the OP?

That wiki page mentions different browsers, I used to use Tor to access seeking, but I don't think that works at this time. Which browsers work on the site changes over time.

I just found it possible to log in using Epic, which has its own VPN.

I also got Tor to work, but it is slow. No surprise. I also had to do a verification that it was me, by getting a code sent to my email, because I had signed in from 'a new device'.

So, if the OP used one of these browsers instead of what he used before, would that fix the problem of him getting banned?[/QUOTE]The original question was, what were people missing? Why were they still being identified and banned by SA even though they used new photos, changed IP address, etc.

I answered that question. Canvas fingerprinting.

As for your other comments, I don't recall being on your payroll.

[QUOTE=LimpAndSmall;6237604]The original question was, what were people missing? Why were they still being identified and banned by SA even though they used new photos, changed IP address, etc.

I answered that question. Canvas fingerprinting.

As for your other comments, I don't recall being on your payroll.[/QUOTE]LA LA Land Bullshit and Fight club.

Man, I'm in a bit of a predicament. I've been seeing this girl from SA who've I've found myself spending more and more time with. Normally I schedule something with them and be on my way but this one literally is a Charly Jordan look alike. Not sure if any of you know who that is but if you do you can understand my dilema. The issue now is I've had this spinner Italian / Jewish girl who's a fwbs that's been living with me for the past 2 year and she's wanting me to cut her off.

Honestly I had the perfect combination between both and now it seems like it's coming to an end. Only benefit is the live in FWBs was an old SB but it's no longer transactional and she doesn't ask for a dime.

My new girl still asks for things on occasion but it's becoming less and less. The only thing I contributed to apart from dinner dates and paying for that. Was last month I helped buy her a ticket to see family for Thanksgiving, that is literally all.

[QUOTE=Dsteezy;6238347]Man, I'm in a bit of a predicament. I've been seeing this girl from SA who've I've found myself spending more and more time with. Normally I schedule something with them and be on my way but this one literally is a Charly Jordan look alike. Not sure if any of you know who that is but if you do you can understand my dilema. The issue now is I've had this spinner Italian / Jewish girl who's a fwbs that's been living with me for the past 2 year and she's wanting me to cut her off.

Honestly I had the perfect combination between both and now it seems like it's coming to an end. Only benefit is the live in FWBs was an old SB but it's no longer transactional and she doesn't ask for a dime.

My new girl still asks for things on occasion but it's becoming less and less. The only thing I contributed to apart from dinner dates and paying for that. Was last month I helped buy her a ticket to see family for Thanksgiving, that is literally all.[/QUOTE]SB's come and go and the dynamic of the relationships change over time. This is a quality problem. Always be on the look out for the next best girl even when you don't need one to help mitigate the transitions that will inevitably occur over time.

[QUOTE=XJakeRobertsx;6226696]They are running a special now, 33% off.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/billing/memberships?promo=BFCM2022V33[/URL][/QUOTE]This code isn't working anymore. Anyone have a new code?

[QUOTE=RanManCan;6238530]This code isn't working anymore. Anyone have a new code?[/QUOTE]That code was for Black Friday and cyber Monday. Probably the next discount will be for Valentine's Day.

I was booted off SA 6 months ago and hadn't been on since. I learned how to use SecretBenefits pretty well and had a pretty full dance card. No major complaints about SecretBenefits, but the response rate is quite low.

I finally got an active SA account again. Holy shit! What a response rate!

I think slogging through SB taught me how to hone my profile, pics, and messaging. Even though I was on SA for some years before that. I'm thinking the ease of SA made me lazy.

I could have easily had 10 dates today. Going to have to pace myself and take the pick of the litter.

Had me a little blonde German delight for an appetizer this evening, looking forward to the main course.

[QUOTE=LimpAndSmall;6237597]Remember, though, that SA are using several different techniques to identify you. All simultaneously. So if you are banned, you have to evade / avoid all their tracking techniques simultaneously also.

That means.

- Not using same the IP address. Use VPN or TOR.

- Not using same credit card or home address.

- Not reusing photos.

- Avoiding the Canvas fingerprinting.[/QUOTE]The Brave browser gives a different fingerprint each time you access a site.

The number 1 thing to use is a visa gift card which allows you to make up the billing address.

Don't use TOR the exit nodes are almost always blacklisted making you appear like a bot / spammer which will get you banned.

VPNs I would just use the same city each time and make sure you are using a United States city.

[QUOTE=RanManCan;6240379]I was booted off SA 6 months ago and hadn't been on since. I learned how to use SecretBenefits pretty well and had a pretty full dance card. No major complaints about SecretBenefits, but the response rate is quite low.

I finally got an active SA account again. Holy shit! What a response rate!

I think slogging through SB taught me how to hone my profile, pics, and messaging. Even though I was on SA for some years before that. I'm thinking the ease of SA made me lazy.

I could have easily had 10 dates today. Going to have to pace myself and take the pick of the litter.

Had me a little blonde German delight for an appetizer this evening, looking forward to the main course.[/QUOTE]December is a great month for sugaring. Every girl needs extra coin for traveling, shopping, or to catch up on bills. I too have had fantastic response rate from dimes in SA and in social media.

I've been running into a problem as I chase down all the POTs from my last stint on seeking. I have had some good experiences w / women around 40. Mostly but not only Milfs. I have several I have been messaging w /, have spoken too, or have even met, and one I took to the FC. However, they've suddenly stopped responding to my texts. No explanation. For one I was early in discussions with, it happened after I texted my pix. Obviously, not a good look. I thought I would let her off the hook from saying that she didn't find me appealing with something to the effect of 'I realize a 60's man isn't going to be a match for every lovely younger woman like you', and that didn't even get a rise out of her. She could just have agreed to my self-deprecating and said sayonara.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6224971]I have an unusual situation I would like input on. I have seen a seeking profile for several years, 42 YO single mom, at one point I got to see the private pics, and did not pursue because one was at my fancy, $200/ mo gym. My wife and I were both members, and I realized how risky it could be the POT could recognize me, connect me to her, it could get really ugly. Fast forward, SO isn't at the gym anymore and I see the profile again. I message, we hit it off, and a couple of weeks ago, we M&G. She is different than in text and by phone, much warmer. Also, obviously very competent businesswoman, though reserved about details. We adjourn to her car, a Tesla, for a deeper chat, and she is responsive to my touching her leg. We discuss details, and set FC for a week ahead. I spend a morning w / her at a hotel she books and I pay for. She is into the ritual, a nice lingerie set, etc. Really, some of the nicest natural big, firm tits I've ever seen. It leads to great great pretty straight-ahead sex. Not submissive, not pushy. And she loves to get hit from behind. Our personal interactions during the 2 hours + together are also great, she's really impressive, so I get curious. I use one of the paid information services to reverse phone search her number. It isn't a burner or a GV number, it is one of her old businesses. I then have her name and find her new businesses. She is the founder of a significant professional business in her field, and has received all kinds of accolades. She is all over the internet, on social media, etc. I am excited, I really like this sort of woman. If I were single I would want to date her. She was nominated for a special businesswoman of the year award by the LA Times. And in the Sunday paper yesterday, there was a large section on women-owned businesses, and I flipped through there she was.

So, how do I handle this situation? I know a great deal about her, but don't want to screw up the good thing I have going w / her, and I also require my own anonymity. I would like to eventually get the lady to open up to me. So far, the obvious thing is to keep mum. Yet I need to open up my strategy to new thinking.[/QUOTE]Hey Far, good story thanks for sharing. Honestly don't over think it. I would not let her know that you know all of these things about her. It will spook her. Besides if she is successful she could have looked you up as well. Just enjoy, keep making a connection and let her reveal more at her own pace. Sounds like you have a good thing going and just enjoy.