The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;5473698]Fair enough, you don't care for SA. But where else do you go to find a consistent flow of sugar babies? SA is duly subject to some criticism but they are a game changer in the sugar baby, sugar daddy world. Yeah, you have to diligently work the website without the fakes and reel in the real sugar babies but if you work it consistently you can find no less than 5 to 10 real sugar babies a week that are willing to meet with you.

There has never been any other venue that gets that type of action. It does require patience and dedication though.

If you have a better source, trust me I'm all ears. LOL.[/QUOTE]I cannot give you a good answer to that but if you are finding 5 to 10 legitimate ones to meet than you are doing better than anyone I ever knew. Maybe you can share them on here as every post I read refers to GPS or a scammer and usually both. Three years ago was the last time I could even justify using that site.

[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;5473698]Fair enough, you don't care for SA. But where else do you go to find a consistent flow of sugar babies? SA is duly subject to some criticism but they are a game changer in the sugar baby, sugar daddy world. Yeah, you have to diligently work the website without the fakes and reel in the real sugar babies but if you work it consistently you can find no less than 5 to 10 real sugar babies a week that are willing to meet with you.

There has never been any other venue that gets that type of action. It does require patience and dedication though.

If you have a better source, trust me I'm all ears. LOL.[/QUOTE]I agree with DirtyDeeds. I am currently talking to 3 who want to meet in the coming week. But I know I can't because of work. One though, I must confess, said she had been escorting for a while.

[QUOTE=Pubb69;5474754]I cannot give you a good answer to that but if you are finding 5 to 10 legitimate ones to meet than you are doing better than anyone I ever knew. Maybe you can share them on here as every post I read refers to GPS or a scammer and usually both. Three years ago was the last time I could even justify using that site.[/QUOTE]I agree with you it has changed. There are more fake profiles, more scams but there's also more women on there in general. I don't have some specific formula but generally I just have a nose for like the overglamorized, profiles. The ridiculously hot chicks with perfect pictures. Usually are scammers. I go for ordinary, girl next-door, even some of the older gals can be great. Don't go for the supermodel ridiculously hot looking chicks that have been on there. Every once in a while some of them might be real but not many. Or even if they're real, they have ridiculous standards.

I feel like for the point of sugar dating it's kind of to revisit your youth. Revisit your college years when there was action everywhere or maybe there was action everywhere but you didn't partake in it. Or maybe you got married young and didn't get to chase all the women. LOL it's a last chance to stop to have fun. So for me, I go for the women that are obtainable. Top preference for me or the younger women who actually enjoy the company of an older guy. And they are out there. A lot of them. The perfect scenario is a girl isn't just doing it for the money. She actually enjoys hanging out with you. When you achieve that status you're going to have a great time. If she seems highly "transactional" to me, I move along.

At the end of the day, for me and my approach having worked the site off and on for six years, you're going to have some bad experiences you're going to have some experiences where you spend a lot of time talking to somebody and then they flake out or they ask for money for gas or something at the last second and you have to drop them. But if you continue to communicate and do a good job of it I'm telling you after a month you'll have had some pretty darn good experiences off of there. And at the end of the day that's what we're all looking for.

[QUOTE=Hiamey;5475594]I agree with DirtyDeeds. I am currently talking to 3 who want to meet in the coming week. But I know I can't because of work. One though, I must confess, said she had been escorting for a while.[/QUOTE]Very nice. The one that's admitted to scoring. Would she be willing to share with senior members? Been debating on trying SA again but do not have the time for games currently.

Sent an intro message to this girl. Got a reply saying I should come stop by and see her at Capital Cabaret. Cute girl but not sure if she's genuinely into sugar dating or just using site to bring in customers. Anyone have any experience with her? Don't really feel like dropping cash on dances to find out.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/85875e31-c296-48c0-ace0-3dda2de409b8[/URL]

[QUOTE=Badger7;5481821]Sent an intro message to this girl. Got a reply saying I should come stop by and see her at Capital Cabaret. Cute girl but not sure if she's genuinely into sugar dating or just using site to bring in customers. Anyone have any experience with her? Don't really feel like dropping cash on dances to find out.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/85875e31-c296-48c0-ace0-3dda2de409b8[/URL][/QUOTE]I like strippers in the strip club, but not for sugar dating. Just like a former pro, they just have a certain attitude that is very "Wham! Bam thank you ma'am". Rush, in and out, and not capable of providing a true SB experience. Nothing wrong with a stripper, if that's your thing, but you're highly unlikely to get a true GFE.

I was chatting with a former pro turned SB the other day, She almost had me convinced that we should meet and hang out until she mentioned "hourly". I quit talking to her at that point. If they've been a pro or something similar they just don't understand or are capable of understanding what a real sugar baby is.

[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;5482415]I like strippers in the strip club, but not for sugar dating. Just like a former pro, they just have a certain attitude that is very "Wham! Bam thank you ma'am". Rush, in and out, and not capable of providing a true SB experience. Nothing wrong with a stripper, if that's your thing, but you're highly unlikely to get a true GFE.

I was chatting with a former pro turned SB the other day, She almost had me convinced that we should meet and hang out until she mentioned "hourly". I quit talking to her at that point. If they've been a pro or something similar they just don't understand or are capable of understanding what a real sugar baby is.[/QUOTE]Met one yet that didn't dislike men in general and perhaps rightfully so but as a rule I avoid them.

You are spot on in your assessment.

These two won't "play for less than 2 xxx". Lols. I'm case anyone was curious.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f7e486cd-ad9c-4436-8a21-e571a44f4fdc[/URL]

They are just wired that way. They can't turn it off once they leave the club. Recently had something lined up with one that claimed she left the "pole lyfe" over 10 years ago. Then she started adding upgrades to what we agreed on in advance. If I see a hint of club's or lockers in the background of their pictures I just move on.

Mermaidd78.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/342518e7-3298-4718-a09d-7821bc0a2752[/URL]

Wants 600 ppm.

ChillFairy.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9237be2e-9bfa-4a48-b8de-03f84237d203[/URL]

Wants 500 ppm. Oh BTW no sex.

Adventureseeker.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/96c2fefe-ae81-49f8-9dba-9074033ccbb0[/URL]

Offered 300. She wants more. Dint pursue further.

G.

[QUOTE=Gatttaca;5488757]Mermaidd78.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/342518e7-3298-4718-a09d-7821bc0a2752[/URL]

Wants 600 ppm.

Adventureseeker.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/96c2fefe-ae81-49f8-9dba-9074033ccbb0[/URL]

Offered 300. She wants more. Dint pursue further.

G.[/QUOTE]I offered Mermaidd78 $350 PPM recently and she just replied "Best of luck".

I think AdventureGirl was reviewed here earlier this spring.

The tarot card reader is on S. B. Now. She isn't on stg anymore so maybe more discreet. Probably a 50% chance of her returning your text after you get there but she is still around.

Left a message to a SB for quite sometime. Just got below response. Not disclosing the name just yet. Will keep you guys posted and post her name if I pass. But I need fellow experienced expert opinion.

Hi there!! I get a lot of messages on here so I'm going to be upfront with what I'm looking for (: I'm married and my husband loves watching me with other men, it's our thing and I'm not willing to meet up without him around. Also, I would love to meet someone who is open to filming content for my * page! If you're still interested hit me up & we can meet up for dinner or something to see if we click (: if you're not interested please don't write back & waste each others time. I hope it's something you're interested in & I would love to get to know you better!!

Thought?

[QUOTE=Maxamillion8;5491653]Left a message to a SB for quite sometime. Just got below response. Not disclosing the name just yet. Will keep you guys posted and post her name if I pass. But I need fellow experienced expert opinion.

Hi there!! I get a lot of messages on here so I'm going to be upfront with what I'm looking for (: I'm married and my husband loves watching me with other men, it's our thing and I'm not willing to meet up without him around. Also, I would love to meet someone who is open to filming content for my * page! If you're still interested hit me up & we can meet up for dinner or something to see if we click (: if you're not interested please don't write back & waste each others time. I hope it's something you're interested in & I would love to get to know you better!!

Thought?[/QUOTE]Does the ad have a photo showing a woman sitting down? Only the legs and the chair are shown, the photo was taken facing her. If so, proceed with caution, I was given a response similar to the above, said I was interested, and the reply was that they'd want a $$ deposit before we met. I didn't bother replying to that.

[QUOTE=Gatttaca;5488757]Mermaidd78.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/342518e7-3298-4718-a09d-7821bc0a2752[/URL]

Wants 600 ppm.

ChillFairy.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9237be2e-9bfa-4a48-b8de-03f84237d203[/URL]

Wants 500 ppm. Oh BTW no sex.

Adventureseeker.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/96c2fefe-ae81-49f8-9dba-9074033ccbb0[/URL]

Offered 300. She wants more. Dint pursue further.

G.[/QUOTE]Exchanged texts with adventuregirl. Didn't sound like she wanted anything more than a paid M&G.