[QUOTE=Jjny25;5361462]Texted 3rd today, the said they are closed for a while. Also got a message about Julie from 3rd that I think sounded vindictive and BS. Can discuss over PM.[/QUOTE]Keep this stupid shit off the review threads.
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[QUOTE=Jjny25;5361462]Texted 3rd today, the said they are closed for a while. Also got a message about Julie from 3rd that I think sounded vindictive and BS. Can discuss over PM.[/QUOTE]Keep this stupid shit off the review threads.
[QUOTE=JayCramer80;5362693]I drove a girl to work at LJ's. She texted me the next day to come get her out of there because the boss raped her.[/QUOTE]Ok, simple question. Why isn't this guy in prison?. She was raped, why is this guy not in prison?.
[QUOTE=MeatMan;5366645]Ok, simple question. Why isn't this guy in prison?. She was raped, why is this guy not in prison?.[/QUOTE]The girls can't report stuff. Some of them have expired Visa's or don't have a real massage license.
This guy is abusive to them.
[QUOTE=Jjny25;5361462]Texted 3rd today, the said they are closed for a while. Also got a message about Julie from 3rd that I think sounded vindictive and BS. Can discuss over PM.[/QUOTE]Sent you a PM.
Surprisingly I have not seen any dramatic change in AMP enforcement since they made major changes to the law last year. I'm delighted that they have not increased the rate they bust these joints, even though I rarely use them anymore. And speaking of "joints" recreational marijuana will be legal in VA. The law says we can grow 4 plants but I also read that buying seeds from out of state is illegal. So how does one go about getting seeds? I'm sure someone here knows a local and affordable source (PM me if you do). Does anyone know if the apothecary on the southside will be able to sell to any VA resident over 21 years of age or will you still need a medical marijuana permit.
Enquiring minds want to learn.
Jack.
[QUOTE=BareBackJack;5386080]Surprisingly I have not seen any dramatic change in AMP enforcement since they made major changes to the law last year. I'm delighted that they have not increased the rate they bust these joints, even though I rarely use them anymore. And speaking of "joints" recreational marijuana will be legal in VA. The law says we can grow 4 plants but I also read that buying seeds from out of state is illegal. So how does one go about getting seeds? I'm sure someone here knows a local and affordable source (PM me if you do). Does anyone know if the apothecary on the southside will be able to sell to any VA resident over 21 years of age or will you still need a medical marijuana permit.
Enquiring minds want to learn.
Jack.[/QUOTE]Whoever you get your bud from can probably get you a baby plant. Planning on picking some up from my dude just as a hobby, if you do a good job you can get up to a pound of flower from each plant.
It's going to be legal to have but there's no system to sell it set up yet and probably won't be until 2024 at least. I'm guessing it will end up like DC, where there you go into a head shop and buy some socks for $42.00 and they give you a free gift of weed. Or maybe it will be like Maine where you could call a psychic to come visit your house and find your lost weed. I doubt the medical dispensaries will sell at first just because they're under a microscope.
[QUOTE=BareBackJack;5386080]Surprisingly I have not seen any dramatic change in AMP enforcement since they made major changes to the law last year. I'm delighted that they have not increased the rate they bust these joints, even though I rarely use them anymore. And speaking of "joints" recreational marijuana will be legal in VA. The law says we can grow 4 plants but I also read that buying seeds from out of state is illegal. So how does one go about getting seeds? I'm sure someone here knows a local and affordable source (PM me if you do). Does anyone know if the apothecary on the southside will be able to sell to any VA resident over 21 years of age or will you still need a medical marijuana permit.
Enquiring minds want to learn.
Jack.[/QUOTE]For seeds you can order them online it is perfectly legal. You won't get in trouble for buying them. I recommend to most people try autoflowers first they will produce in 3 months (let cure in mason jars (burp your jars!) for 30 days minimum after harvest / initial drying). Regular plants are not super simple like autoflowers and while yes they can produce a lot depending on strain and size of plant they require a lot of work (unique light cycle to trigger flowering and at least 8 months of time) and our weather will actually turn a female plant to male because of heat. Indoor grow is highly recommended to avoid the humid hot climate. Also keep in mind it is 2 mature plants and 2 immature plants (just stagger your grow). 2024 is the estimated retail date, they plan to have an infrastructure in place by them to have brick and mortar stores open and they "promised" opportunities for smaller dispensaries to become a thing not just big corporation dispensaries.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5446213]Julia Roberts[/QUOTE]Could you imagine different individuals having varying interests and tastes. I just want to bang these women. If you want to pay a prostitute for romance, go for it.
[QUOTE=Grafenberg;5446763]Could you imagine different individuals having varying interests and tastes. I just want to bang these women. If you want to pay a prostitute for romance, go for it.[/QUOTE]I don't think some of them can. Because these are "special" prostitutes. They get to pretend they are just doing it for mentorship, some help with college and they really, [I]really[/I], like you. If you stop paying them, they'll still want to hang out and remind you of what love was like before you married the chick that turned into the hausfrau.
IMO, in many cases, you see this because the guy didn't have a lot of success with women before finding some that would bang for money while still saying they aren't a hooker. After that, the delusions start.
[QUOTE=Grafenberg;5446763]Could you imagine different individuals having varying interests and tastes. I just want to bang these women. If you want to pay a prostitute for romance, go for it.[/QUOTE]IDK where you got that quote, it wasn't something I posted. Anyway, look, SA is really the best / only place I can hook up w / the type of person I am looking for. You have all sorts of outlets, like Humaniplex, etc. The more Johns come to SA to find escorts, the more it is at risk to FASTA law that befell Backpage, Craigslist, etc. YK that SA is different now than before FASTA, there are many new rules and policies to discourage escorts from using the site. Stick with that so you don't screw things up for guys like me. That stuff risks you getting banned as well, and losing your membership $.
[QUOTE=RogerOver;5447380]I don't think some of them can. Because these are "special" prostitutes. They get to pretend they are just doing it for mentorship, some help with college and they really, [I]really[/I], like you. If you stop paying them, they'll still want to hang out and remind you of what love was like before you married the chick that turned into the hausfrau.
IMO, in many cases, you see this because the guy didn't have a lot of success with women before finding some that would bang for money while still saying they aren't a hooker. After that, the delusions start.[/QUOTE]Yep! Simping is alive and well.
For these guys they are never the prize, pedestalling women at every turn.
[QUOTE=Grafenberg;5446763]Could you imagine different individuals having varying interests and tastes. I just want to bang these women. If you want to pay a prostitute for romance, go for it.[/QUOTE]You should answer the question. Have a SO? Ever had a SO? Are an incel? Hate women? Not to get too Freudian, but love / hate fucking them?
[QUOTE=EvilTmp;5447496]Yep! Simping is alive and well.
For these guys they are never the prize, pedestalling women at every turn.[/QUOTE]Because banging girls without negotiating a price first and going in bare without asking permission are totally simp moves.
[QUOTE=Grafenberg;5446763]Could you imagine different individuals having varying interests and tastes. I just want to bang these women. If you want to pay a prostitute for romance, go for it.[/QUOTE]Ahh, here we are at the SA girls and prostitutes question again.
The definition of engaging in prostitution is the trade of sex or sexual favors for money or other benefits. Given that, it seems perfectly clear that SA girls are prostitutes. But like most other things in the world, there is a spectrum.
A college student who has a sexual relationship with one guy old enough to be her father in exchange for money and Louboutin shoes is a totally different animal than a streetwalker or STG girl who is fucking anyone and everyone in order to to buy drugs and feed her habit. Still, both are prostitutes.
And while some people will argue this point, IT DOESN'T MATTER. What does matter is that you need to engage with each kind of girl differently, not because of a difference in whether the SA girls is a prostitute or not (she is), but because of how SHE sees HERSELF. If you want to fuck the pretty, bright-eyed, clear-skinned, fit co-ed, the smart monger realizes that our part of HER game is to help her rationalize what she's doing in her head.
While she is a prostitute, she doesn't want to have to THINK she's a prostitute. If she can get over this hump in her head, she'll be easier to get on her back. Almost universally the SA girl is a more attractive option for us over the STG addict, so it behooves us to play her game.
On STG, it's expected that the transaction is a blatant exchange of sex for money. The girls there are generally dealing with a drug habit, and they just want you to hand them a wad of cash and fuck as quickly as possible so they can go meet their dealer.
The SA girl wants money too, but also can't bear to think of herself as a prostitute. What would her friends think? What would her family think? By college age, pretty girls are used to using their sexuality to their advantage and getting money directly for sex is certainly the easiest way to leverage her assets. However, the college girl's reputation is her prime concern, so she needs plausible deniability in case someone finds out about one of her johns. To that end, and so she doesn't have to feel bad about herself, she insists on making her johns engage in a way that feels more like a date. If she thinks she'll feel shame (internally or externally) after hooking up with one of us, she'll disengage and wait for a guy who doesn't bring her that problem. And because the pretty college girl lives in a world of abundance, she knows she won't have to wait long.
So, the question isn't "is she a prostitute? It's "what game do I have to play to make this work?" In prostitution, as in all relations with the female gender it's on the male to set the stage for a successful engagement.
[QUOTE=Kwagmire;5452056]Ahh, here we are at the SA girls and prostitutes question again.
The definition of engaging in prostitution is the trade of sex or sexual favors for money or other benefits. Given that, it seems perfectly clear that SA girls are prostitutes. But like most other things in the world, there is a spectrum.
A college student who has a sexual relationship with one guy old enough to be her father in exchange for money and Louboutin shoes is a totally different animal than a streetwalker or STG girl who is fucking anyone and everyone in order to to buy drugs and feed her habit. Still, both are prostitutes.
And while some people will argue this point, IT DOESN'T MATTER. What does matter is that you need to engage with each kind of girl differently, not because of a difference in whether the SA girls is a prostitute or not (she is), but because of how SHE sees HERSELF. If you want to fuck the pretty, bright-eyed, clear-skinned, fit co-ed, the smart monger realizes that our part of HER game is to help her rationalize what she's doing in her head.
While she is a prostitute, she doesn't want to have to THINK she's a prostitute. If she can get over this hump in her head, she'll be easier to get on her back. Almost universally the SA girl is a more attractive option for us over the STG addict, so it behooves us to play her game.
On STG, it's expected that the transaction is a blatant exchange of sex for money. The girls there are generally dealing with a drug habit, and they just want you to hand them a wad of cash and fuck as quickly as possible so they can go meet their dealer.
The SA girl wants money too, but also can't bear to think of herself as a prostitute. What would her friends think? What would her family think? By college age, pretty girls are used to using their sexuality to their advantage and getting money directly for sex is certainly the easiest way to leverage her assets. However, the college girl's reputation is her prime concern, so she needs plausible deniability in case someone finds out about one of her johns. To that end, and so she doesn't have to feel bad about herself, she insists on making her johns engage in a way that feels more like a date. If she thinks she'll feel shame (internally or externally) after hooking up with one of us, she'll disengage and wait for a guy who doesn't bring her that problem. And because the pretty college girl lives in a world of abundance, she knows she won't have to wait long.
So, the question isn't "is she a prostitute? It's "what game do I have to play to make this work?" In prostitution, as in all relations with the female gender it's on the male to set the stage for a successful engagement.[/QUOTE]You'll never find a quote from me that says to treat them like a streetwalker. You have to let them have the delusion, but it's not that different from any other delusion you have to let a woman maintain, especially when dealing with young ones.
Here's the rub: Some guys buy into the same delusion. While I couldn't give two shits if a guy lies to an SB, it's essential, in my opinion, to be honest with yourself and not lose sight of reality. Plenty of examples of that lack of self-honesty around the SB threads.