Just when I thought I was out. They pull me back in
After a bad stretch over the past month or so, I honestly I thought I was going to lay low for a bit. I let my SA membership expire and I pretty much stopped sending out messages on SD4M except for a few here and there. The Caretaker SB was still in the wind and my Backseat SB rejected my birthcontrol proposal (turns out she was already on the pill, but she still won't let me finish inside.)
Things were looking grim until.
[b]UTR Redhead[/b]
She contacted me and after a few conversations she was very flirty. She definitely liked role-playing the whole "Daddy","Baby" thing. She was 19 and maybe about a 6-ish on looks. 7-ish on face. She wanted a Long-Term arrangement but was eager to meetup quickly. After I met up with her, she had a pretty sad story to tell and it was pretty clear she was a UTR girl basically on the verge going full-pro. She let it slip in conversations that she hooked up with guys before for money. We then had a romp in my car and it was fantastic! Way more passionate and intense than the Backseat SB I had been seeing for months. This girl not only knew what she was doing, but she really got into it. Again, great stuff. Unfortunately, after talking with her further it was clear she was a UTR [i]and[/i] Nando1. Nice girl but still a Nando1. She's not in school, doesn't work, and is a runaway living with her ex-boyfriend's sister. She has a lot of baggage, so even though the sex was fantastic and much needed, the risk of drama was too high and I would never trust her knowing my real name. So I'm pulling back from her and basically going to treat her like an escort. I might call her every new moon if I have an itch that needs scratching, but I'll always be in deep cover, in every sense of the word.
[b]College Athlete SB[/b]
Now this is the girl that pulled me back in. Deep down I think both Hernando and I desire a long-term SB relationship with one girl instead of multi-fucking SBs. However we're constantly conflicted because finding a viable long-term SB is very difficult and requires a certain perseverance and luck, so we keep sea-sawing on what we want. Well after all the recent frustrations, I finally struck gold. I'm hitting it off with a girl who is a certified 9 or 10. I'm calling her Collegiate Athlete SB because well she's an athlete for one of the major sports in her university. I got extremely lucky because I had been writing direct messages to girls on the site, but something about her made me take a softer tone. Apparently just about all the guys contacting her were being very direct and aggressive, so I stood out. Even though her pictures were sexy as hell, she's actually a very serious student and focused, so it probably threw off a lot of guys in their approach.
Anyway, we started texting each other and she basically meets all my checklists. She works, full-time student, she likes txting, and she doesn't live too far away. And with her being a serious athlete, she takes care of her body, eats healthy, and isn't into some of the "substances" that many girls her age are into. And best of all, her allowance is reasonable. It actually hasn't been discussed as an allowance, but simply the expenses she needs to cover. She has no GPS and is simply looking to have her basic expenses covered, so she doesn't have to stress out about just making ends meet and can focus on school and sports.
This girl is basically what I was pushing my ex-ATF to be. But my ex-ATF never managed to enroll in school and eventually went back to being a waitress at a strip club.
With the Collegiate Athlete SB I already bought her a school book she needed to study for a test this week. Even though we haven't gone to the FC or anything yet. But I wanted to plant my flag on her and it seemed to work because she texts me around the clock just talking about random things and all I did was buy her a book.
The one caveat is that we haven't actually met yet. This weekend we'll officially get together. But I'm not too worried. Since I bought her the book, I know all her real info, her school, and etc. Yes on these forums we've spoken about not giving gifts at M&G, and I gave a gift BEFORE the M&G. But I was fine with buying the book even if I never got anything in return, plus by buying the book I found out her real info and gained some trust. I'm willing to roll the dice with this girl and break a few of the rules, if I have a stable hard-working super hot HYCB who has modest needs.
That said, I am putting the cart before the horse on one crucial area. I have no idea of her performance in the FC or how eager she is to go. She gave indications that she definitely understands a mutual beneficial arrangement and it's not just about arm candy and companionship. But we haven't gotten into the dirty details yet about it. She's a true SB, so I want ease into it. If I come on too strong initially I could blow the whole thing up.
So after this weekend, we'll find out if my pre-investments and efforts were worth it or if I jumped the gun. But if it does work with this girl, I'm kicking the Backseat SB to the curb (she was always distant toward me anyway) and just focus on the Collegiate Athlete.
I was on the verge of taking a long sabbatical from the sugar bowl, but I'm a believer again.
Only point fingers to the guilty one
C'mon Hernando don't blame the SB blame the SD who did not think with his real brain.
[QUOTE=Hernando; 1678792]"
SD " A" is single and thinks she is his real life girlfriend and get's suspicious of her movements
He hires a Private Eye
PI follows her and writes a report on each and every SD she saw, including each guy's personal information. Family members, financials, business, etc.
Enraged SD "A" calls wife of each with the news.
Wife goes ape shit.
So your SB who is a carefree multifucker just like us, unbeknownst to her and us, is causing the outing of all parties involved. She doesn't even have to know who you are, the PI will find all of it out.[/QUOTE]Who hired the PI?
Who is the one thinking he is the ONLY prince charming?
Duhhhhh Enraged SD "A".
So lets educate SD "A" to act like a SD and not a love sick high school kid.
Exclusivity from a Garden Tool unlikely
All of my Garden Tools know I'm seeing others and they are too. I asked one to be exclusive and she said no. A interesting reality check for me.
I've have this discussion with all of my regulars. There seems to be a understanding that it is not a naturally exclusive relationship. You can buy pussy. But you can't buy the person. This is because of many factors. The main one is this: We are most likely significantly older than our Garden Tools and probably married. Our Garden Tools often has not given up on that dream for their own lives. They are not going to stop pursuit of that goal just because we are giving them a little cash. Some are honest enough to tell you this straight up. Others will sell you the idea you want.
I know this has been discussed before. But I think the natural structure of the relationship with a Garden Tool does not lend itself to exclusivity. After all if we wanted to be exclusive wouldn't we just keep fucking our wives or SO's? And wouldn't our Garden Tools instead become girlfriends and wives? Can a one sided relationship really work? It has nothing to do with the money. We give them the money in order to get the pussy. After the exchange is complete the reality is that they are free to sell pussy to the next person that comes along.
Unless you are providing for their every need and have them under lock and key, the only time you know your Garden Tool is not fucking someone else is when you have your dick in her. A harsh reality but much more likely to be closer to the truth than thinking she is exclusive to you.
Go balls deep & prosper!
SubCmdr Out
