Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=EmsKula;6083629]I recently joined SB and noticed that a girl that I regularly see at the gym is also on SB. She was among the first girls to like my profile. What is the best way to approach her outside SB?[/QUOTE]My first goal is always to get laid. After that decide if you want to continue to repeat with her. If not I wouldn't say anything, if so get comfortable with her and eventually it will come up probably very quickly after the prime objective is done. I wouldn't take a chance of spooking her before making your play. Discretion is usually a big part of this for the boys and the girls.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c211c7ae-110c-4be8-8f8e-ef4e821b7edb[/URL]#.

This one asked for 5. But said her BF has to be there to watch or join in. Figured I'd post since I know some of you guys are into that. I'm contemplating, never done it before, scares me a little bit tbh.

[QUOTE=MinorLeague;6064230]The charge is noticeable on whatever card you use, though technically someone can also see your profile by making a sugar baby account. I've always used a personal (non-family) card since that's easier for me, and I figure risk is somewhat low in terms of that news getting out there. Note SA has a tendency to just keep charging, even if you cancel the recurring, and even if you remove a card (it takes at least two times of removing the card from your account to take effect).

More risky in my opinion than using a personal card is having your photo on your public profile. I used to keep at least one image public, but lately I've taken to making all my pictures private and including in my profile that if a girl is interested, just ask me and I'll share photos. I don't share until I check their photos / they look reasonably real and not someone I know. I started seeing girls from Tinder and Bumble on SA and in general I prioritize discretion more than something like credit card data leaks. YMMV of course.

Edit: I also used to use a fake photo I found online that reasonably looks like me for the one public photo but stopped doing that because some girls really look and they don't like when things feel off. I know some guys who like block out their face with an emoji or a cute dog but I haven't done the former and don't have a dog. PS: I hate it when girls like draw with black marker on their photos to block out some or all of their faces; looks awful.[/QUOTE]I used a photo of my back shoulders with a very slight turn of my head and they accepted it.

Better than no photo at all \.

CM.

[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6087874][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c211c7ae-110c-4be8-8f8e-ef4e821b7edb[/URL]#.

This one asked for 5. But said her BF has to be there to watch or join in. Figured I'd post since I know some of you guys are into that. I'm contemplating, never done it before, scares me a little bit tbh.[/QUOTE]Yea I'm not into a guy watching me / that does nothing for me. In some rare cases the second person will also rob / mug you so something to be aware of / always control the environment. I don't like her face either.

[QUOTE=Mfp79;6070408]This one wants 1 k [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6ca7a73e-4bd7-4676-a6db-b4e64cdb6353[/URL] - haven't met her nor tried to negotiate yet.[/QUOTE]I've been talking with her, she's going to be MIA starting next week because she's getting a boob job. I'd jump in at the $1 K if she were younger and her bottom wasn't as thick.

[QUOTE=Nimbus22;6063578]Is a cc safe for this??[/QUOTE]May issue is a data breech like that other ash mad dating site a while back more than charges appearing. They made up searchable data base to number, name, billing address. It was wild. Imagine putting in your zip code and getting a list of names on sa. Any hidden pic I use comes from a public social media site. Plausible deniability.

[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6087874][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c211c7ae-110c-4be8-8f8e-ef4e821b7edb[/URL]#.

This one asked for 5. But said her BF has to be there to watch or join in. Figured I'd post since I know some of you guys are into that. I'm contemplating, never done it before, scares me a little bit tbh.[/QUOTE]Trust your gut and if it feels off then stay away. Don't put yourself in a position to be ripped off especially for what imo is an average looking SB. Plenty of other choices to pick from and it is back to school season so it should only get better.

[QUOTE=Nimbus22;6063578]Is a cc safe for this??[/QUOTE]Ofc not but just use a CC in your name only and that has good fraud alerts. You can always tell the CC company your card was stolen and they will cancel the transactions. I was hacked the day after I signed up years ago and never renewed my subscription.

[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6087874][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c211c7ae-110c-4be8-8f8e-ef4e821b7edb[/URL]#.

This one asked for 5. But said her BF has to be there to watch or join in. Figured I'd post since I know some of you guys are into that. I'm contemplating, never done it before, scares me a little bit tbh.[/QUOTE]It's always some risk. . . Adding in 2 of them vs. 1 of you. . . You better really have the hots for her. IMHO she's very ordinary looking and I'd pass on that.

If you want to go for it insist on a meetup first at a coffee shop. The worst of the criminals won't agree to that.

[QUOTE=Bran001;6088346]It's always some risk. . . Adding in 2 of them vs. 1 of you. . . You better really have the hots for her. IMHO she's very ordinary looking and I'd pass on that.

If you want to go for it insist on a meetup first at a coffee shop. The worst of the criminals won't agree to that.[/QUOTE]I think she's sexy but yeah, at the very least I would meet them somewhere briefly in public first.

[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6087874][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c211c7ae-110c-4be8-8f8e-ef4e821b7edb[/URL]#.

This one asked for 5. But said her BF has to be there to watch or join in. Figured I'd post since I know some of you guys are into that. I'm contemplating, never done it before, scares me a little bit tbh.[/QUOTE]This one reached out to me and was willing to drive to me. She wanted her straight boyfriend to come and join in too. She mentioned DVP. Similar donation and was willing to do anything but anal uncovered. I never met with her as it is not yet my thing but throwing it out there. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9f9079bc-b372-4e55-8425-64b209397b9d[/URL].

I'm fed up with paying for hotels. Trying to find girls in the 350-400 range who could host and who aren't weirdos?

Any advice.

Anyone meet up with her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/10dbde74-7100-428a-b9fb-f167bc7ac25b[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/411278e2-1db8-4647-8db7-2fd59b96941f[/URL]

Link attached above. Honestly she looks so hot but I never got a response from her though she checked my profile. Now I am wondering if the site is reserved for those billionaires?

[QUOTE=CSheen1;6090934]Anyone meet up with her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/10dbde74-7100-428a-b9fb-f167bc7ac25b[/URL][/QUOTE]Your link is to your messages so we can't see who you are referring to.

[QUOTE=Boston234;6090563]I'm fed up with paying for hotels. Trying to find girls in the 350-400 range who could host and who aren't weirdos?

Any advice.[/QUOTE]Narrow your search to Winchester area and hope for the best. Typically the older ladies have hosting options and very few of the younger girls are not going to be able to provide hosting due to the price of rents. Single moms are another option however it may take some time for them to allow you into their save space. I had a single mom that warmed up to me and would visit her regularly after she put her daughter to bed. She was 23 and had her own apartment subsidized by her parents that eventually ended and she had to move back home. Rents are high and most girls usually have to have roommates.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;6091439]Narrow your search to Winchester area and hope for the best. Typically the older ladies have hosting options and very few of the younger girls are not going to be able to provide hosting due to the price of rents. Single moms are another option however it may take some time for them to allow you into their save space. I had a single mom that warmed up to me and would visit her regularly after she put her daughter to bed. She was 23 and had her own apartment subsidized by her parents that eventually ended and she had to move back home. Rents are high and most girls usually have to have roommates.[/QUOTE]Man I think I know the mom you are talking about. I would really like to know more about her. I will really appreciate it if you could help. Thanks! (I privately messaged u).

[QUOTE=Joe1223;6091429]Your link is to your messages so we can't see who you are referring to.[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a894f5f4-6e06-4032-9404-e9d2c5f248a6[/URL]

Thanks.

[QUOTE=CSheen1;6092185][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a894f5f4-6e06-4032-9404-e9d2c5f248a6[/URL]

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Used to host out of Pawtucket. Liked to be dominated. Was into the whole daddy thing. No condoms asked for and anal was okay. Originally settled for 3 but have heard she now starts negotiating at 6. She's a little chunkier than she was back then. Good luck.

[QUOTE=LaurentDing;6091463]Man I think I know the mom you are talking about. I would really like to know more about her. I will really appreciate it if you could help. Thanks! (I privately messaged u).[/QUOTE]There are a lot of single Moms out there so I don't think you know her?? I would never give out her info anyway as she was UTR and I actually picked her up off FB. A
I was referring to single m9ms because you said you were looking for a no hotel option. You can either host yourself, if you have that option, most don’t, or find a girl that has an apartment and is willing to trust you to invite you to her home. This may take a few hotel visits as she probably won’t want to risk it or her having to explain who you are.

I ended up there once. I cannot remember what I paid, but somewhere between 3 and 6. One of my more unusual episodes. The house was nice. She had a room on the second floor. I walked in and noted quite a few domination toys. After a few preliminaries I bent her over the bed, took a paddle she had on a bookcase and started spanking her with the paddle. She LOVED it. So I kept her bent over and stuck my cock in bare and drove it home for some time, all the while continuing to spank her ass with the paddle. Eventually I blew my wad and was on my way. She's actually quite nice and seems intelligent. Just likes to be dominated. Her ass was quite red when I left. Never went back.

[QUOTE=BR1201;6092587]Used to host out of Pawtucket. Liked to be dominated. Was into the whole daddy thing. No condoms asked for and anal was okay. Originally settled for 3 but have heard she now starts negotiating at 6. She's a little chunkier than she was back then. Good luck.[/QUOTE]

Is it just me or has there been an explosion of late 40's and 50+ year Olds on Seeking? I have chatted with one and was looking for a 300+ donation. I politely told her I would be happy wining and dining her but I can easily be with women my age.

[QUOTE=Discretion23;6093342]Is it just me or has there been an explosion of late 40's and 50+ year Olds on Seeking? I have chatted with one and was looking for a 300+ donation. I politely told her I would be happy wining and dining her but I can easily be with women my age.[/QUOTE]I saw a 70 yr old on there the other day. I just kinda laughed.

Who is paying them so much?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c67ff9fe-0779-48a2-a406-071cfb5df2aa[/URL]

Sweet girl, lives in Nova Scotia. Canada, but expects you to fly her from there to the US.

Does anyone knows how to paid membership with prepaid card? Thanks.

[QUOTE=VikTerpentian;6093884]Who is paying them so much?[/QUOTE]I've had some ask for a bigger donation on date #1 (like 400 if the normal rate is 300) but only if we're f*ing on the first date. 1 K to meet and then 500 for platonic dates for a few months is nuts. That's the definition of rinsing. But maybe someone is paying that? Who knows.

I've started a conversation with her but I'm pretty skeptical. Newish profile and I'm sure I've seen her pic on Seeking in the past.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/06b9b355-8ff0-471d-bacb-9141f43456f3[/URL]

Any experiences good or bad?

[QUOTE=Bran001;6094846]I've started a conversation with her but I'm pretty skeptical. Newish profile and I'm sure I've seen her pic on Seeking in the past.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/06b9b355-8ff0-471d-bacb-9141f43456f3[/URL]

Any experiences good or bad?[/QUOTE]You guys need to watch more porn so you could recognize the obvious fake pornstar profiles. Annabel Redd!

There's also a lot of under the radar girls I've noticed in the city. There's one particular Blonde Latina I know who's got her whole apartment, pet dog, etc paid for by people. She used to be on the site as far as I know but has been doing the UTR thing for a while.

She says the relationships are platonic but with the amount of money she's getting I seriously doubt it.

[QUOTE=Nimbus22;6062527]I'm going to join today and try this out. Its recommended to get a vanilla visa correct?

If I find gems I will trade with trusted mongers. That is the entire reason for this blog![/QUOTE]How did you make out with the vinall card? I did that last year but have heard it may not work now?

Turned out to be a pic scammer. (Wants $ for pics before meeting.) Shocking, I know!

[QUOTE=Bran001;6094846]I've started a conversation with her but I'm pretty skeptical. Newish profile and I'm sure I've seen her pic on Seeking in the past.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/06b9b355-8ff0-471d-bacb-9141f43456f3[/URL]

Any experiences good or bad?[/QUOTE]

Had anyone seen this one.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9f243b6d-31c3-4e82-8492-5a354c6b3cfa[/URL]

Thumbs down from me. Didn't measure up to my vetting and terms.

[QUOTE=JuanRoz2011;6095809]Had anyone seen this one.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9f243b6d-31c3-4e82-8492-5a354c6b3cfa[/URL][/QUOTE]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/91ebea4c-6baa-4326-91de-3a1c8b6f88d6[/URL]

Can't host, wants $750 for any date that ends in sex. GTFO.

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6095813]Thumbs down from me. Didn't measure up to my vetting and terms.[/QUOTE]Thanks bro for the advice. She asked me 300 for covered sex and bbj but something seems off.

[QUOTE=RareFind2021;6095040]How did you make out with the vinall card? I did that last year but have heard it may not work now?[/QUOTE]I used google pay. It shows on my card as google transaction.

I believe that's only possible if you have an Android phone. The Seeking app was removed from the iPhone App Store. And I don't know about traceability, if something like an Ashley Madison hack results in the publication of a list of all members.

[QUOTE=JuanRoz2011;6096086]I used google pay. It shows on my card as google transaction.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Tostone71;6040757]Would be easier to find and understand sometimes than the some of the women on this site. Yup. Gone again. An enigma. For what it's worth the user name is "Amazing2022" in case anyone has run across it. Or does. It's now moved into "too much effort" land for me.[/QUOTE]So this one is back but have no expectations of how long the profile will be up so apologies in advance. Apparently only is active when she wants to "fish" or communicate. Have had a few good conversations but long lapses. Could be a case of chasing too much and should move on. Wondering if real or I should do just that. Appreciate any feedback if you have or do reach out. Profile is "Letsmake2022 amazing". Thanks guys -.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ec4f671f-0ca7-440a-9b03-8edd2a4cb0ab[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/335570a0-4a6e-43c2-894b-3546787d6b7c[/URL]

Wanted to share a good one since nobody actually seems to do that here. She's a cool chick, totally down to earth with a bangin body. I've chilled at her place for pretty much the whole day before just gettin sweaty and kickin it. Only problem is she really isn't that great of a lay and head game is sorely lacking. I still find myself going back though because it's a safe spot and I really actually dig this chick. Anyways, if a safe spot and bangin bod is what you lookin for then here ya go.