Follow his post. That's exactly how to work Fet in your favor.
I've been involved in BDSM for over 25 years, and started back in the days of [URL]bondage.com[/URL] and [URL]alt.com[/URL] (which bought and subsequently destroyed [URL]b.com[/URL]) and got laid on the regular. [URL]Collarspace.com[/URL] (used to be called [URL]collarme.com[/URL]) also was fertile with horny women, especially immediately after the 50 Shades of Gray phenomenon, though it seems to have dried up in the last few years.
Have been out of the scene for a couple of years, but Fet can help you get laid, for real.
[QUOTE=Monfortu;4568997]I found fet very difficult when I was on the prow and attached. Most of the people there shun anyone trying to be discrete with someone at home. However, if you're single then fet is great. Don't assume just because they post pictures / videos of themselves fucking, being abused, posing naked that they are easy. If anything they are more guarded. You have to get into their cliques. You have to be one of them. Going to their meetups helps. If I were to do it again, I would set up a proper profile, with decent pictures. I would create a good profile describing myself, what I'm into, etc. You clearly need fetishes here to begin with. I would choose the common ones, call myself one of the easy, benign titles like kinkster and then create a blog where I ruminate on various topics. Enough to let people peer into my "soul" and not be superficial and bullshit, but not too much to let the world know about me. I would then join groups based on my interests level, scour through the profiles of people, introduce myself, begin a chat, then add them as friends if they are receptive. They love the group meetups that are safe and non-commital to anything. From there it's easy game. It's a shit ton of work unless you meet a freak who just wants to be banged by you because of XYZ reason.[/QUOTE]
