General Reports

[QUOTE=Sweet Melissa]You have a conversation with the boyfriend of the provider you are dreaming with and sometimes he just sits and watches? WOW! I guess I come from a different era. If I had a man in my life I sure as H*LL would not be participating in my current hobby. You know me. Always with the questions and the "what if; s". Does this guy have a job or does he live "literally" off his girlfriends back? Does she fake moan when she is with him, too? Does she NOT fake moan when he is NOT in the room? What guy wants to know that another man is making his woman wiggle and squirm in a way that HE can't? I have no desire to put anyone down or stir up trouble. I am just curious. As usual. How do you have fake "dreams" with guys and then turn around and have "real" dreams with your so called boyfriend? I think I want to start a poll. How many regular providers have a man in their life that they would call their boyfriend? How many of those boyfriends know what your hobby is? Do the providers with boyfriends pay most of the bills and support the boyfriends. THIS inquiring mind wants to know. Please no flames. I'm just curious. I am not judging or dissing anyone. Nothing personal towards anyone! I would just like to know.

Kisses,

Melissa[/QUOTE] I agree completely! Inquiring minds want to know! And I can't think of a better place for this poll than Memphis.

Problemchild is back quiet.

Most of these boyfriends are pimping the the provider in the first place they care about the money first.No real man is going to let someone fuck their old lady right before their face .

Miss Bliss,

I think you have a rare situation with your husband. Especially since you lived the lifestyle in Phoenix. I did not know that was the swingers capitol of the world. Ha! Any way, I think what I was most curious about was what boils down to boyfriends being pimps. Not boyfriends. Babee and other providers who charge extra for a voyeur experience is different in my mind because it's not an emotional relationship they are having with the non-monger guy. I can't now or ever have been able to separate emotion from sex when I am doing it for a relationship. That's why having this hobby serves multiple purposes for me. I get to enjoy the perks of having a guy around from time to time without the hassle of a boyfriend. Thanks for giving me some insight.

Kisses,

Melissa

[QUOTE=Lmb69]Most of these boyfriends are pimping the the provider in the first place they care about the money first.No real man is going to let someone fuck their old lady right before their face .[/QUOTE]

That would be a matter of opinion. Otherwise, swinger websites would not have so many happy couples.

[QUOTE=Lmb69]Most of these boyfriends are pimping the the provider in the first place they care about the money first.No real man is going to let someone fuck their old lady right before their face .[/QUOTE]In the swinger's world this happens quite often. I have had the priviledge of being with several women while their boyfriends or husbands watched.

Now, it may be different with providers.

I am Michelle's bf and I also own 2 businesses in Memphis. We started doing this for fun and to clear some things she had to fix herself. I introduced her to the swing life (first at the Treehouse), and then we took it from there. I am the one who casme up with this idea for her and I enjoy it when possible for me to watch. For me to be in the room is strictly per client choice and request; otherwise I do not interfere in anyway with it. She does not NEED the money and it took me quite a while to talk her into meets w/o me. When we first started, she wouldn't do meets w/o me but that has been quite awhile ago now. Also, as a couple looking to go to the next step in the near future, she wouldn't do this at all without my consent and not for herself by herself. I was familiar with the lifestyle and the business when we met and so it was easy to set this up for her. I encourage her to keep things honest as she has addressed the confusion with "kinkymemphisman" and tried to clear that up. So, in summary, she does not NEED the money, nor do I, we were just having fun and also looking to let her finish her degree. I am just a huge voyuer and still enjoy every chance I get to watch her work but respect needed privacy as well. I am also very confident in myself and sexuality and there is nothing I haven't or can't do to her or for her that I worry about anyone "outdoing" me. Just thought my.02 might help here. I had a good time myself "kinkymemphisman" and hope to do it all again in the near future!

We were together for almost 2 years before we started this and we don't do anything without agreeing first.

Thank you for your time - Michelle's bf

I don't think there was any confusion in my post. I was honest and upfront about it. I never degraded her or anything of that nature. I even took partial blame for the upsell. I felt like I was defending her because she is a good provider in my book. I just didn't agree with some things as I metioned. Yes she did email me and offered to make it right. But what is right anyway? I would recomend her to senior members. I also had a blast with her and she was very accomendating to my fetishes, which most providers are not . As far as me seeing her again we will just have to see.



[QUOTE=Michelle 2356]I am Michelle's bf and I also own 2 businesses in Memphis. We started doing this for fun and to clear some things she had to fix herself. I introduced her to the swing life (first at the Treehouse), and then we took it from there. I am the one who casme up with this idea for her and I enjoy it when possible for me to watch. For me to be in the room is strictly per client choice and request; otherwise I do not interfere in anyway with it. She does not NEED the money and it took me quite a while to talk her into meets w/o me. When we first started, she wouldn't do meets w/o me but that has been quite awhile ago now. Also, as a couple looking to go to the next step in the near future, she wouldn't do this at all without my consent and not for herself by herself. I was familiar with the lifestyle and the business when we met and so it was easy to set this up for her. I encourage her to keep things honest as she has addressed the confusion with "kinkymemphisman" and tried to clear that up. So, in summary, she does not NEED the money, nor do I, we were just having fun and also looking to let her finish her degree. I am just a huge voyuer and still enjoy every chance I get to watch her work but respect needed privacy as well. I am also very confident in myself and sexuality and there is nothing I haven't or can't do to her or for her that I worry about anyone "outdoing" me. Just thought my.02 might help here. I had a good time myself "kinkymemphisman" and hope to do it all again in the near future![/QUOTE]

Nothing wrong with a guy watching me do his lady. We all have our fetishes or we wouldn't be here. So what is the deal? If you don't like it. Move on.

[QUOTE=OldFriend77]In the swinger's world this happens quite often. I have had the priviledge of being with several women while their boyfriends or husbands watched.

Now, it may be different with providers.[/QUOTE]

I guess to be politically correct, it was confusion for me because I had to ask her what happened to get the story. When she said this, how much, etc., because it was between you guys as business. My mistake on the word "confusion." I even agreed with what you said and told her she should make it right; as well she agreed too.

Any one had any dreams with her? PM if you like.

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[QUOTE=Hungmantn2002]Any one had any dreams with her? PM if you like.

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This one looks TGTBT. If you want to TOFTT, I would like a full report.

Take Care,
Nucks

[QUOTE=Michelle 2356]I guess to be politically correct, it was confusion for me because I had to ask her what happened to get the story. When she said this, how much, etc., because it was between you guys as business. My mistake on the word "confusion." I even agreed with what you said and told her she should make it right; as well she agreed too.[/QUOTE]I think Michelle's boyfriend should have a different screen name than Michelle. It causes "confusion" when reading posts from the same name that are from two different people. Make a name for yourself, dude! Stop riding on your girlfriend. If you have opinions and thoughts of your own then state them on your own member name! Just my.02 worth. I know you stated that the two of you thought long and hard about starting this hobby and you were swingers LONG before she became a provider. You made a HUGE point that you don't need the money. Well, if that is the case, then why is she a provider? Why not just still be swingers? Why give discounts to people who aren't happy with her service? You two were swingers who did multiple people in front of each other for fun/free, right? So why go to such lengths to please unhappy PAYING customers now? not trying to upset anyone or cause trouble. I just notice inconsistencies in statements and I am looking for answers. Of course you don't have to answer to me, but I'm sure I'm not the only one thinking the same thing. I just happen to be the first one, or the brave enough one to say something about it. Make a separate name for yourself instead of being Michelle's bf. I think people will take you seriously if you are your OWN man with your OWN name.

Be good or good at it
KR

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