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BB Daddy, a man of 18 posts and not one request for information, contributed more to this board these past 6 weeks than any new member in recent history and made a gigantic contribution last evening when he reported hooking up with two civies at a Pacer game and scoring with each of them. I do not want to see him leave. I'm hoping for more reports on the blond and the brunette, Katie and Jayma, whatever. Some of us might even be favored with some digits at some point (hint).

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[/QUOTE]Tim P14, a man of experience and with a solid reputation is firm that married civies are off limits to us.

Those positions were clearly staked out last evening and a free and open exchange of ideas is the best way for the cream to reach the top on this issue and all others.

Big Mack, encourage BB Daddy to stick around.

[QUOTE=Golfcart;1431183]BB Daddy, a man of 18 posts and not one request for information, contributed more to this board these past 6 weeks than any new member in recent history and made a gigantic contribution last evening when he reported hooking up with two civies at a Pacer game and scoring with each of them.[/QUOTE]I'm trying to figure out what the gigantic contribution was. Other than a self serving narrative saying I met someone and got some, where's the contribution? And why is it so gigantic?

It is out of respect for your opinion GC that I took the time to search and read BBD's posts. Frankly, didn't get anything from them. Some info, not a lot, mostly narrative type stating opinions. And while he's not like most newbies asking for everything to be handed to them, he does have a post or two requesting info.

[QUOTE=Chelli4me; 1431198]I'm trying to figure out what the gigantic contribution was. Other than a self serving narrative saying I met someone and got some, where's the contribution? And why is it so gigantic?

It is out of respect for your opinion GC that I took the time to search and read BBD's posts. Frankly, didn't get anything from them. Some info, not a lot, mostly narrative type stating opinions. And while he's not like most newbies asking for everything to be handed to them, he does have a post or two requesting info.[/QUOTE]We read the same post. Picking up two civie women at a Pacer's game, getting BBBJCIMNSNQEIEIO from one girl, a girl unwilling to go all the way, followed by full service from the other, for my standards, is pretty gigantic. It's the total picture of the play by play, none of which I doubted. Maybe I'm like my friend in the 4th grade when he discovered a banana was in a banana split.

I read BB Daddy's earlier posts. I think he did ask a question or two but he isn't our typical. He seems like a guy who can bring a little spark around here and I hate seeing him chased off from being called an adulterer by a guy who pays women to screw him. It's a matter of intellectual honesty.

The bottom line was the total picture how this board played out last evening, all because of BB Daddy, new and fresh. A banana in a banana split.

[QUOTE=Golfcart; 1431508]We read the same post. Picking up two civie women at a Pacer's game, getting BBBJCIMNSNQEIEIO from one girl, a girl unwilling to go all the way, followed by full service from the other, for my standards, is pretty gigantic. It's the total picture of the play by play, none of which I doubted. Maybe I'm like my friend in the 4th grade when he discovered a banana was in a banana split.

I read BB Daddy's earlier posts. I think he did ask a question or two but he isn't our typical.

BB Daddy seems like a guy who can bring a little spark around here and I don't want him leaving on account of being called an adulterer by a guy who pays women to screw him. It's a matter of intellectual honesty.

The bottom line was the total picture how this board played out last evening, all because of BB Daddy, new and fresh. A banana in a banana split.[/QUOTE]I didn't call him an adulter, I called him a moral degenerate. The women were the adulters. His story in my opinion did not belong here. I am not naive to think this kind of thing doesn't happen everyday, but guys that prey on vulnerable women and then brag about it with no regard to the pain that their selfishness can cause the families of the adulteress are pretty low on my morality scale. The two women in my opinipn are worse than he is, but they didn't run to this forum and give a complete account of the encounter.

He obviously knows what he did was not morally acceptable or he wouldn't have tried to defend himself through his friend saying we would have all done the same thing. I personally would not have. If any of you chose to it is your decision and it's non of my business unless you post it on a blog expecting discussion. Again I understand discussing morality on this site is awkward, but paying to for a service between two consenting adults is a lesser morality issue in my opinion than being a person that knowing has a one night stand / affair with a married person behind the spouses back. Again maybe I'm old fashioned.

I am not shilling for him or speaking for him. He has limited posts but I believe he is right in doing what he did. I posted from my conversations with him that the two women were in loveless marriages and both ladies had been cheated on before. I see no where where he "snaked" into a seat next to them. I do see where he sat by them and talked to them. I posted they live no where close to e burg but it was a meeting place. They entered into this consensually so I see no issue with what he did but that is just me. Others might feel differently. I don't. If they had been cheated on they were simply exercising the adage that what is good for the ganders is good for the geese or a variation thereof. If they want to continue a relationship with him to me it is no different than a provider who wants to step outside and do it consensually with no exchange of gratuities. It does happen but just like he found two probably not as easily. Trying to put that nicely. I wished him good luck in that he shared with me their husbands had been doing it on the side for years. The give away in BBD's post that initiated my contact with him was the first ladies saying her husband hadn't gone down on her for almost a decade. To me if you have a good sexual relationship and you are into sex regardless of marital status, eating pssy is a great part of making love to a woman as is sucking a man until he cums regardless of where he puts it at the finish. That is just my opinion also. I personally think you are way out of line but just my opinion. He found what he found on his own, didn't ask for it, just shared with us all by saying that there are women out there who are open to sex with us men without need of donations and he found two, by luck as he said. He also indicated a willingness to post it and share. I appreciate he posted it to show there is more than one side to us men getting what we need.

[QUOTE=Golfcart;1431508]We read the same post. Picking up two civie women at a Pacer's game, getting BBBJCIMNSNQEIEIO from one girl, a girl unwilling to go all the way, followed by full service from the other, for my standards, is pretty gigantic.[/QUOTE]But I don't see any real contribution let alone a gigantic one. He told a story, yes. But, by the stated purpose of this site, helping men find women for sex, I don't see where that occured.

I assume BBBJCIMNQNS is sex and DATY is sex to you Chelli, and FS is sex so what part of sex are you missing? The only man I have ever known who did not believe oral was sex was a President or so he said LMAO. BBD from what I have read went to a Pacer game found two women willing to have sex with him and did so. Is that not the reason we come on here to exchange information. Once more they were willing, consensual and I believe he stated that you can find monger fun or civie fun. What's the difference except the cost. Have to disagree with you in part Sx is sx no matter how you slice it and whether it is gratis or on the clock. I would say on either woman he got sx assuming you subscribe to the belief that oral from one or both is sx. I believe I have read more than once on here that some mongerers want oral only on occasion and some prefer and get the full ride. He got both. SX is SX.

Count me among the "morally degenerate assholes" since I've been lucky enough to have married women as playmates in the past. No manipulation, no snaking, no coercing, etc. These women have needs not particularly different from ours, simply looking for a sexual, safe and trustworthy person to help meet those needs. They've been in lousy marriages or had husbands unable to perform, so who am I to judge them for getting their needs met? A big difference is that ladies really don't have to pay for it, they just express an availability and they can generally have whatever they want.

I count some of these women among my best friends. So, I'm on the side of "more power to him."

I've been with a married woman before. If a married woman comes up to a man and she's interested in having sex with him. Not very many men are going to say, No thanks. You're married! I'm glad that he posted it. Hell, I want to go to a Pacers game with him. LOL

In Tampa there's a UTR site for Providers and Hobbyist. It's been up for about the last 7-8 years. You have to be invited in by a Verified Guy or Girl. Once you get in you have to be verified twice by someone already verified there. Has over 1000 members. If you are good with sites send me a PM, Indy needs one like that. There's no rip offs, Bad service, LEO It's a great site! I can tell you what's in it but I can't set anything like that up. Best thing about it is NOTHING in it shows up on Google.

You just Reg it out of the country and hide the owners name so LEO can't touch you.

[QUOTE=TheDistance; 1431827]Count me among the "morally degenerate assholes" since I've been lucky enough to have married women as playmates in the past. No manipulation, no snaking, no coercing, etc. These women have needs not particularly different from ours, simply looking for a sexual, safe and trustworthy person to help meet those needs. They've been in lousy marriages or had husbands unable to perform, so who am I to judge them for getting their needs met? A big difference is that ladies really don't have to pay for it, they just express an availability and they can generally have whatever they want.

I count some of these women among my best friends. So, I'm on the side of "more power to him."[/QUOTE]Moral degenerates. Exclusively.

I really want to be there when Best Swimmer, TheDistance and the others that feel that when their wife or GF goes to another man for sex because they wanted to and they're completely OK with it because they had needs that had to be met. I for one would be pissed, then hurt, then blame myself, then try to understand why, then try to recover and find the courage to trust another woman.

It sure would be a lot easier to just not care about anyone else and do exactly what you wanted to whoever you wanted regardless of how it effects anyone else. I wish I was raised differently.

And therefor should not utilize this forum for your own brand of therapy and armchair psychology. This is a place, as it has been stated, where men come to seek out and report women for sex and also us women can advertise whatever we wish and contribute. My advice to you is don't hate the player hate the game and get off your high horse of bibles and get some tang! Have some fun, obviously you are trolling the board still so check out the classified section and the reviews and get you some man!

Be good to yourself. KB.

[QUOTE=Tim P14; 1432157]I really want to be there when Best Swimmer, TheDistance and the others that feel that when their wife or GF goes to another man for sex because they wanted to and they're completely OK with it because they had needs that had to be met. I for one would be pissed, then hurt, then blame myself, then try to understand why, then try to recover and find the courage to trust another woman.

It sure would be a lot easier to just not care about anyone else and do exactly what you wanted to whoever you wanted regardless of how it effects anyone else. I wish I was raised differently.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Chelli4me;1431788]But I don't see any real contribution let alone a gigantic one. He told a story, yes. But, by the stated purpose of this site, helping men find women for sex, I don't see where that occured.[/QUOTE]It's a good story but one that doesn't fit a P4P forum. If we all enumerated our best sex stories here, I'm sure it would be good reading, but aren't there other forums for that type of thing? I personally have some doozies accumulated over the years. Anyone want me to post the top ten? Probably not. I've also had stories that HAD to be shared, but I called a friend or related my experiences over some drinks with a few buddies. To me, the story smacks of someone who wants others to know how much women want them or how big their package is (mentioned it three times in two paragraphs). Although the encounter might have actually taken place, how does it fit the forum? Send a mass PM or call a friend.

[QUOTE=Tim P14; 1432157]I really want to be there when Best Swimmer, TheDistance and the others that feel that when their wife or GF goes to another man for sex because they wanted to and they're completely OK with it because they had needs that had to be met. I for one would be pissed, then hurt, then blame myself, then try to understand why, then try to recover and find the courage to trust another woman.

It sure would be a lot easier to just not care about anyone else and do exactly what you wanted to whoever you wanted regardless of how it effects anyone else. I wish I was raised differently.[/QUOTE]Tim, if I'm with a woman that wants some sexual variety, I'll help her find it myself. I have no issues with that at all. Been there, done that, had some great times with it. What's good for the gander is definitey good for the goose. I think I have a different relationship with my lovers than you do. I don't expect them to meet every one of my needs and on the flip side, I don't expect to meet every one of theirs.