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Man, it's like all these ladies went to the same web page to get rates. Every single one I talk to is $500 per date. Every one. I've varied my search. Hot, dull, round, flat, tall, short. Doesn't matter. Five bills.
Do I need like a dude that has actual game to close for me?
[QUOTE=Sapuer;6808658]Man, it's like all these ladies went to the same web page to get rates. Every single one I talk to is $500 per date. Every one. I've varied my search. Hot, dull, round, flat, tall, short. Doesn't matter. Five bills.
Do I need like a dude that has actual game to close for me?[/QUOTE]Hoflation. 5 is cheap nowadays.
What am I missing? Been coming across more and more SBs looking for exorbitant allowances. Was quoted $2 k per week from a 38 y / o, average attractiveness SB. Why would anyone spend that much for one girl, when you can have multiple at PPM for the same or lower? Unless you're vetting them for long term relationship or marriage, it just seems like a scam. By paying allowance, you don't get anymore than someone who pays PPM. And to add to that, most of them say Non-monogamous and no strings attached. That's crazy! Ironically, the same 38 y / o came back a couple of weeks later willing to do $600 ppm. I'm fairly attractive, successful, and could pick up most of the girls at SA at a bar. SA just gives the flexibility with not having to deal with the drama or craziness.
What am I missing?
There are over 100 pages of member contributing to this forum. Nobody is paying for allowance.
However, this is against the teaching from "Tictok / Reddit. " On those sites, some influencers "teach" wannabes that getting allowance is the "ultimate goal." (Go ahead, do a quick search and you will see)
[QUOTE=Ramsayew;6811121]What am I missing? Been coming across more and more SBs looking for exorbitant allowances. Was quoted $2 k per week from a 38 y / o, average attractiveness SB. Why would anyone spend that much for one girl, when you can have multiple at PPM for the same or lower? Unless you're vetting them for long term relationship or marriage, it just seems like a scam. By paying allowance, you don't get anymore than someone who pays PPM. And to add to that, most of them say Non-monogamous and no strings attached. That's crazy! Ironically, the same 38 y / o came back a couple of weeks later willing to do $600 ppm. I'm fairly attractive, successful, and could pick up most of the girls at SA at a bar. SA just gives the flexibility with not having to deal with the drama or craziness.
What am I missing?[/QUOTE] The older the SBs the more they ask, I've actually seen the same trend with escorts, doesn't make any sense to me, I'd rather pay more for someone in their early 20's than someone almost my age, but to each their own. For me the reason is that before being 22-23, they generally have their parents helping and don't need much money and are only doing this SB thing for pocket money. But after they start getting a real job, they start having real expenses and some don't want to not work anymore and just do the SB thing, so they end up asking for more and generally try to get a monthly allowance instead of ppm. So for me the rule is don't look if they are above 25, unless you have deep pockets, or stick to the ones who are brand new, but chances are they also watched stupid tiktok videos or reddit pages full of delusional women as well, I think the SB thing got too popular and attracted a lot of naive women who thought they could make a lot of money that way.
[QUOTE=Sapuer;6808658]Man, it's like all these ladies went to the same web page to get rates. Every single one I talk to is $500 per date. Every one. I've varied my search. Hot, dull, round, flat, tall, short. Doesn't matter. Five bills.
Do I need like a dude that has actual game to close for me?[/QUOTE]There are girls accept lower than 500. You just have to find them and make a deal.
[QUOTE=JojoSamDinelli;6824018]New to SA. How do you all handle the photo situation? I imagine many of you are trying to do this with discretion so you don't have your face attached to your profile. Do the ladies respond to blank profiles? At what point do you show them a pic of yourself before meeting?[/QUOTE]I don't have a picture attached to my profile. I haven't had a paid account in a couple years but I had no issue with it. On occasion some of the ladies would ask but I would say I have to be discreet. Most of them would meet me anyway. My profile isn't blank. I didn't answer all the questions but a few of them. A few ladies insisted on pictures and I would suggest meeting in a public place. If they don't like what the see, they can walk away. One time a lady saw me and did turn around and walk away. I felt bad about that one.
[QUOTE=JojoSamDinelli;6824018]New to SA. How do you all handle the photo situation? I imagine many of you are trying to do this with discretion so you don't have your face attached to your profile. Do the ladies respond to blank profiles? At what point do you show them a pic of yourself before meeting?[/QUOTE]I used a generic photo from google that looks like an ugly version of me. So when we meet, they feel like it's a good surprise. Reverse catfish?
[QUOTE=KingBaby;6811633]There are over 100 pages of member contributing to this forum. Nobody is paying for allowance.
However, this is against the teaching from "Tictok / Reddit. " On those sites, some influencers "teach" wannabes that getting allowance is the "ultimate goal." (Go ahead, do a quick search and you will see)[/QUOTE]Yeah those ladies are unrealistic, LOL I had to respond to some of there comments on redit / tiktock and they got all heated but I'm still not agreeing with them. Most of the time if I'm respectful and not to pushy I get luck, supper lucky. Just stand your ground gentlemen we got to stand our ground haha.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a9d761ef-cb53-4e3a-983a-840fc436e2e1[/URL]
Going to be in town next week and I've set up a date with this gal. Just wondering if anyone has seen her and if not I'll report back after I do.
[QUOTE=JohnnyLovesIt;6828068]I don't have a picture attached to my profile. I haven't had a paid account in a couple years but I had no issue with it. On occasion some of the ladies would ask but I would say I have to be discreet. Most of them would meet me anyway. My profile isn't blank. I didn't answer all the questions but a few of them. A few ladies insisted on pictures and I would suggest meeting in a public place. If they don't like what the see, they can walk away. One time a lady saw me and did turn around and walk away. I felt bad about that one.[/QUOTE]Really? You haven't had a paid account in a couple of years but still meet chicks. How does that work when you can't send them messages on the site? If you put your contact info in your profile they will slap that down immediately.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6847530]Really? You haven't had a paid account in a couple of years but still meet chicks. How does that work when you can't send them messages on the site? If you put your contact info in your profile they will slap that down immediately.[/QUOTE]Do you find it's worth paying the $$ for SA? I like the idea of having "chemistry" with a regular, but I don't want to waste my mongering money. Thoughts?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/99e3235d-6052-4a18-b3cb-ad06ef0a14b2[/URL]
Anyone see this one? She's on other websites too, quoted me 300 for the hour, with lots of promises.
It used to work then stopped working.
Does it work now?
Thanks.
[QUOTE=HermanMiller;6848650][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/99e3235d-6052-4a18-b3cb-ad06ef0a14b2[/URL]
Anyone see this one? She's on other websites too, quoted me 300 for the hour, with lots of promises.[/QUOTE]Haven't seen her either. She first came across my radar as JessPresley, part of Jason's Bella. Bunnies crew, then PD, LC, sugar sites, etc. There's no way she's only 28. I hit her up a while back for info, rate was higher than she quoted you, with lots of upgrades / add on's available. I didn't respond as the quote was higher than I was willing to spend on her. Then a few hours later, I get a text with a "special", by then it was too late. So it seems like she's open to negotiation if that's your thing.