Easy plausible deniability
[QUOTE=CuriousGeor;5156642]Not to discourage anyone from taking whatever precautions they feel are necessary but this is why I mostly stick with slightly higher end / more expensive places. They're not as worried about all working girls so much as they are the ones that are gonna cause trouble elsewhere.
Furthermore NEVER discuss explicit acts over text / phone. It's always just "I'd like to set up some time together" or "a session". That's easy easy plausible deniability and there's no way a the will try and file charges with evidence like that. Now if you go texting this girl "do you do BBBJ" then ask her what her rate is you've automatically put in writing that you're soliciting someone. Like not to be rude but most of the people busted for this sort of stuff are not that bright and don't think twice about straight up asking about specific acts and costs. Like all these posts I see on here where someone inquires about BB and is told it's an upcharge. That's direct evidence of solicitation in writing.
Now you might end up spending a bit of money on an experience that's a bit different than what you wanted, like maybe you show up and find out the girl only does CBJ or whatever, but at the end of the day that's an easy tradeoff for me vs having a written record of solicitation.[/QUOTE]You called it "easy plausible deniability" - now that's what I'm talking about. Whether in person in a store, or by text or email, or on the phone, there is nothing wrong with asking questions like: are you open minded, do you know anybody that does housekeeping, or even- do you know anyone that's trying to make some extra money? Since you don't mention sex for money you could easily claim that you needed a housekeeper or gardening advice. Yes anyone could say "but we know what you meant". But that's impossible to prove. If the girl knows what you mean then it's mission accomplished. If anyone else hears about it just deny it all day long.
I tried using our code word roses in another forum to ask how much certain jobs pay. I was trying to ask without actually referring to money. They didn't understand the reference and told me that nobody gets paid in roses.
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