"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

What is it with the flaky women on this site? I've had a lot of nibbles on the line but to actually reel one in is getting tougher.

This one started out promising. Single mom, two kids and she wanted a PPM arrangement. She gave me her digits and we started texting. We had a lot of very productive text and agreed to meet for drinks to discuss terms of our arrangement and then crazy showed up. The six hour lapse in text response had me giving up hope so I sent the,"sorry for wasting your time, good luck in your search" response. An hour later I get the,"I'm sorry for not responding but I really want to meet you" text from her. I give it one more shot and agree on a meet and as of now nothing, ten hours later.

Anyone else had any dealings with this one?

[URL]www.seeking.com/member/d166b22b-bef4-4fb1-b83a-2ca704f42ecf[/URL]

This one laughed at my offer for 3 and told me to go back to backpage and blocked me. However I found her profile with my second account. Her primary location changed from Atlanta to Chattanooga too. Also, she said she could host if I split the cost of the room WTF.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a699652b-6ede-472d-9c32-13683d9670b2[/URL]

[QUOTE=CagerCoach;3990629]What is it with the flaky women on this site? I've had a lot of nibbles on the line but to actually reel one in is getting tougher.

This one started out promising. Single mom, two kids and she wanted a PPM arrangement. She gave me her digits and we started texting. We had a lot of very productive text and agreed to meet for drinks to discuss terms of our arrangement and then crazy showed up. The six hour lapse in text response had me giving up hope so I sent the,"sorry for wasting your time, good luck in your search" response. An hour later I get the,"I'm sorry for not responding but I really want to meet you" text from her. I give it one more shot and agree on a meet and as of now nothing, ten hours later.

Anyone else had any dealings with this one?

[URL]www.seeking.com/member/d166b22b-bef4-4fb1-b83a-2ca704f42ecf[/URL][/QUOTE]Since you asked what's going on I think stuff like this is the natural evolution of letting prostitutes think they are compensated girlfriends and not providers of a service. If they are advertising they are prostitutes. Sugarbabies, real sugar babies have A guy who pays the bills, they don't have GUYS who help with the bills. These ladies are prostitutes, sometimes part time prostitutes, sometimes prostitutes with limited clientele but they are prostitutes. Don't get me wrong, I fucking love prostitutes but you got to know the game you're playing not the game they are telling you that you are playing.

If she doesn't understand it's a service then as soon as you know that you go dark and move on to the next one. You can pretend WITH her that she's not a hooker if it helps (though I think it doesn't) but in your head don't lose sight of what's going on. You are paying them to AVOID this kind of shit. If you got to pay them AND put up with the shit then you go dark, no need to wait for them to do it. Just move on to the next one.

A2.

She's been favorably reviewed elsewhere in this forum, and I can confirm the positive experiences. Completely lovely, tall, beautiful parts. Cannot host, will come to you. BBBJ is nice, CIM discouraged, YMMV. FS covered (my experience), multiple pops, no rush. Loves doggy & will tell you so. Semi-pro-like. No negotiating from $2, which is a good find. I think she's worth more and even went beyond. A tad shy, especially if you start in public. She'll get over that when it's time. Note 420 friendly, so this may bother some of you. Also hates alcohol, brush your teeth!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/60576f92-749e-4235-ab98-7a4d1342edac[/URL]

I'm pretty sure this one is a pro, and has been talked about on here before. We went straight to text, quoted me 400, and I passed.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/855cc848-94e0-414a-a7f3-7bd426e1572d[/URL]

This one is quick to tell you she has a friend. They want to meet at a bar for 150 EACH, and might "show you stuff". I proceeded to tell her I can find all the strange I want for 200 on SA, she said "I'm not a prostitute". Well your on the wrong site then honey!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fb917cab-7a74-430e-96f2-934df0f9794d[/URL]

This one sent me an unsolicited message "hey! I am looking to provide texting, calling, accompanying you on dates, hanging out, pics and vids for some financial help to achieve goals. If we have chemistry it could turn into a long term thing and maybe it could turn intimate later down the road. Just being straight forward so we don't waste each-others time! Open to discussing details. Let me know if you're interested. ".

If her pics are real, she is hot as fuck. But I doubt it. And I would never pay for pics and vids.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fd1762d3-1be7-4a03-92a4-743009bddfb6[/URL]

[QUOTE=Admin2;3990925]Since you asked what's going on I think stuff like this is the natural evolution of letting prostitutes think they are compensated girlfriends and not providers of a service. If they are advertising they are prostitutes. Sugarbabies, real sugar babies have A guy who pays the bills, they don't have GUYS who help with the bills. These ladies are prostitutes, sometimes part time prostitutes, sometimes prostitutes with limited clientele but they are prostitutes. Don't get me wrong, I fucking love prostitutes but you got to know the game you're playing not the game they are telling you that you are playing.

If she doesn't understand it's a service then as soon as you know that you go dark and move on to the next one. You can pretend WITH her that she's not a hooker if it helps (though I think it doesn't) but in your head don't lose sight of what's going on. You are paying them to AVOID this kind of shit. If you got to pay them AND put up with the shit then you go dark, no need to wait for them to do it. Just move on to the next one.

A2.[/QUOTE]Admin 2. Your wisdom is out of this world. I doff my hat to you. Very, very, very well said.

[QUOTE=ViseMonkey;3990202]What was she up-to before? 3 ?[/QUOTE]A post a few weeks back said she's asking $500. With that in mind.

[QUOTE=Faaji1;3990256]Some simp probably did pay the 600 and now she feels she is worth it. The one that wants 400 is worth no more than 150 at premium. Personally, I don't ever do more than a 100 allowance. And for the same SBs that I see people pay double for. The key is to simply tell them what you can afford. Some accept, some don't. End of the month, they always come back. And start off with " I don't normally go this low. ".

Have fun![/QUOTE]That, or at the very least she got the $500 she used to ask for, and now is thinking she was undercharging.

This one started out at $550. I ignored her and she bid against herself. She went down to 350 without me ever making a counteroffer. Nonetheless, rather than attempt to negotiate, I politely declined and made an excuse about the distance. She had said no bare and no anal before her personal reverse bidding war against herself, so I wasn't really interested. I don't mind wrapping up, but only if I can go in through the out door.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/41768518-835a-4217-93e2-dfbb2e86dbb2[/URL]

[QUOTE=CuriousInquir;3991105]This one started out at $550. I ignored her and she bid against herself. She went down to 350 without me ever making a counteroffer. Nonetheless, rather than attempt to negotiate, I politely declined and made an excuse about the distance. She had said no bare and no anal before her personal reverse bidding war against herself, so I wasn't really interested. I don't mind wrapping up, but only if I can go in through the out door.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/41768518-835a-4217-93e2-dfbb2e86dbb2[/URL][/QUOTE]Trying to figure out the need for anal. I have given it to a few gals that brought it up, but a pussy and mouth seem to be much better holes in my option. Is it the ultra nasty factor that does it for some of you 2 hole bandits? I will hang up and listen.

Looking for any intel on this one, anybody seen her? I know she was on SA a while back, and has a new profile. I'm pretty sure its to good to be true, just want to see if anyone knows better then I.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/61d38250-88b1-43c5-8a94-09009cedaeee[/URL]

[QUOTE=LogJammin18;3991117]Trying to figure out the need for anal. I have given it to a few gals that brought it up, but a pussy and mouth seem to be much better holes in my option. Is it the ultra nasty factor that does it for some of you 2 hole bandits? I will hang up and listen.[/QUOTE]That's 3 holes, for the record. (In case this comes across snarky, it's supposed to be tongue in cheek.).

But yes, the taboo and dom / sub aspects are part of it. It also feels different. It's really tight around the entry point, at least if you're avoiding a long term internet ***** already blown out back there from years of getting pounded in the starfish multiple times a day. I'll happily see a gal who says no anal, but not without at least BBBJCIM and preferably bare cat as well.

[QUOTE=Admin2;3990925]Since you asked what's going on I think stuff like this is the natural evolution of letting prostitutes think they are compensated girlfriends and not providers of a service. If they are advertising they are prostitutes. Sugarbabies, real sugar babies have A guy who pays the bills, they don't have GUYS who help with the bills. These ladies are prostitutes, sometimes part time prostitutes, sometimes prostitutes with limited clientele but they are prostitutes. Don't get me wrong, I fucking love prostitutes but you got to know the game you're playing not the game they are telling you that you are playing.

If she doesn't understand it's a service then as soon as you know that you go dark and move on to the next one. You can pretend WITH her that she's not a hooker if it helps (though I think it doesn't) but in your head don't lose sight of what's going on. You are paying them to AVOID this kind of shit. If you got to pay them AND put up with the shit then you go dark, no need to wait for them to do it. Just move on to the next one.

A2.[/QUOTE]My only two reasons for using a pro (or semi pro, haha) are 1: Lack of bullshit and 2: special talents (anal etc) are known up front. So if a pro makes me put up with shit or guess about what's on the menu, I'm done with her. If had the patience for taking shit and guessing, I'd just be fucking civilians!

[QUOTE=Airmantroy;3989494]"She" changed to a new profile.

Pretty sure this is a tranny. I got catfished by a twin about a year ago if not.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1163a7fb-60af-45f7-8e07-476914cc559d[/URL][/QUOTE]Was there an actual meeting? Want to warn us with any further detail?