Providers asking for I'd screening info
As of recent, so many providers are asking for a photo and I'd showing your full name as a screening method. For guys who have gone along with this, can you help me understand the rationale of sending a provider your full name and I'd when they are using a fake name?
I find it really confusing as a request from providers like "Elle James" who doesn't even show her full face on her ads. A shame because she's my type too.
Any clarity or tips to navigate are appreciated.
Doesn't address the fundamental issue
Are you sure that's what they are doing? "I guess" and "Idk the details" doesn't give me any sense of confidence that's the actual reason. No offense.
And yes more pricey providers tend to request government name identification. I personally tend to stay around 300-400 with the occasional trip to Peaches on the low end LOL but MUCH less hobbying nowadays based on the current offerings. But that still doesn't address why we should go along with it. Again, especially when they are using fake names.
I've been around for a while in the RDU scene and best practice was to always keep as much separation between personal life and the hobby as possible. For example, is anyone using their real personal phone numbers? Traditionally that was a bad practice and it was encouraged to use a burner instead, no? So unless that has changed, since when did it become a norm to give out your full government name and identification to these ladies? If they also provided their real names then I'd be ok with it, but they don't. I mean, they are using pseudonyms for a reason, right? Think about it.
Completely understand these providers can do as they please and implement whatever rules they want, but as market participants, we should collectively push back on things that transgress boundaries.
[QUOTE=AncientFlame;6972694]They use a 3rd party service that uses your information to I guess prove you aren't LEO. I don't know the details or what the service is called. For me the rationale is a well reviewed provider (often more pricey) is probably not out to get me. I'd worry about a low end provider. I haven't had issues and usually feel safe with a higher end tryst experience.[/QUOTE]
More about taking precaution
"Probably not out to get me" is putting a lot of faith into a woman who has sex for money. You just never know. I wish trusted people as much as you do AncientFlame.
[QUOTE=AncientFlame;6972694]They use a 3rd party service that uses your information to I guess prove you aren't LEO. I don't know the details or what the service is called. For me the rationale is a well reviewed provider (often more pricey) is probably not out to get me. I'd worry about a low end provider. I haven't had issues and usually feel safe with a higher end tryst experience.[/QUOTE]
