Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=HounDog3;5989576]I had a few long term SB's and others that lasted no more than a couple weeks. Anybody trying / wanting to use SA like Eros, or Skip, etc, is wasting their time and money. As said in this forum recently, it is not that type of site.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Mfp79;5989303]Yes, many times. It's a numbers game on both sides. Just have to make a quick pitch to a lot of girls and the real ones will eventually bite.[/QUOTE]What kind of situations did you guys find? What kind of girls? How did the payola work?

[QUOTE=ThizzleHats;5990240]What kind of situations did you guys find? What kind of girls? How did the payola work?[/QUOTE]For me, always FWB situations. Meet for coffee or lunch once, see if there's chemistry. If so, meet up at a hotel or her place for a few hours of fun. Cash, always for me. Usually 3-5, sometimes less (had some free situations before). I am limited to weekday afternoons though when here. I have had more "date" like situations when traveling (dinner, then fun) but similar ranges.

As for the kinds of girls, it varies. College students, drop outs, young professionals, married women looking for fun on the side, it depends. Generally I have the best luck with girls who are like 7-8/10. The 9-10/10 girls tend to have GPS. Some are doing it for extra cash, some are treating it like a full time gig, some are just bored / lonely. Those tend to be the slightly less attractive girls. There's a whole other segment of girls who are just looking to be paid because they exist / they just talk to you. Or are just straight up scammers (my car is broke, I need gas, I'm running out of minutes on my phone, etc). Those tend to be the super hot ones. I weed these out pretty quickly and just move on.

Like I said, it's a numbers game. I probably miss lots of gems because I didn't write a bespoke message to them or whatever but if I did, I'd be doing this as a full time job.

[QUOTE=ThizzleHats;5990240]What kind of situations did you guys find? What kind of girls? How did the payola work?[/QUOTE]Like many of the guys here I have gotten acquainted with many women from SA. Many different needs and wants, some want more than others. I've done the 35 yo bored housewives, 44 yo Latin mamas etc. They sometimes want more commitment. I just want it when I want it! I'm still friendly with a couple of young 25-29 year old who know what I want and will meet me if they have the time. It's become a fwb only I give them some fun money. Satisfying.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5986437]The second profile reads classic scammer. "State, State" format for location.[/QUOTE]Not commenting on this particular profile but a lot of girls will just put Massachusetts as their location because they're way out in Western MA or or somewhere else far from Boston and if they put their actual location they'll get filtered out of a lot of searches (I'm pretty close to Boston and I personally search for people within 25 miles). Not necessarily the sign of a scammer.

As I've written before, my experiences are very similar. 3-5 (now a days 4-5 is most common) and it's pure fwb. Now that I've met these girls many times it's just texting to figure out what time and at what hotel. Got a text last night "Can I see you this week it's my horny week" (I know from experience she gets particularly horny the week before her period). 7/10 looks, MIT recent grad, super down-to-earth (no makeup), loves sex.

[QUOTE=Mfp79;5990553]For me, always FWB situations. Meet for coffee or lunch once, see if there's chemistry. If so, meet up at a hotel or her place for a few hours of fun. Cash, always for me. Usually 3-5, sometimes less (had some free situations before). I am limited to weekday afternoons though when here. I have had more "date" like situations when traveling (dinner, then fun) but similar ranges.

As for the kinds of girls, it varies. College students, drop outs, young professionals, married women looking for fun on the side, it depends. Generally I have the best luck with girls who are like 7-8/10. The 9-10/10 girls tend to have GPS. Some are doing it for extra cash, some are treating it like a full time gig, some are just bored / lonely. Those tend to be the slightly less attractive girls. There's a whole other segment of girls who are just looking to be paid because they exist / they just talk to you. Or are just straight up scammers (my car is broke, I need gas, I'm running out of minutes on my phone, etc). Those tend to be the super hot ones. I weed these out pretty quickly and just move on.

Like I said, it's a numbers game. I probably miss lots of gems because I didn't write a bespoke message to them or whatever but if I did, I'd be doing this as a full time job.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ThizzleHats;5989046]Anybody ever get an actual sugar baby from Seeking? Seems like a lot of people posting on this forum just use it like Eros that you got to pay $100+/ mo for.[/QUOTE]As supposed to the glory days of seeking pre-2019 (when I was juggling 3-5 at a time), my tenures with girls I meet on current SA have been getting shorter and shorter for various reasons: mostly they start asking for cashapp after a few meetings and I deny it and they move on OR I find more "semi-pros" on there (esp in the single mom circuit).

It's no big deal for me b / c in the end of the day, we aren't here for commitment but goes to show the girls are getting more jaded / pro-ey (not a bad thing if they like sex but just don't expect exclusive or low volume gems to be widely available as they used to) and that deteriorates the site's value less and less.

When you find the UTR gem though, its way better than Eros or anything else out there today so enjoy that shit when you find it and while you have it.

Can someone tell how to get a visa vanilla card to work on SA.

[QUOTE=ThizzleHats;5989046]Anybody ever get an actual sugar baby from Seeking? Seems like a lot of people posting on this forum just use it like Eros that you got to pay $100+/ mo for.[/QUOTE]There is a rather wide range to what an "actual sugar relationship" and thus "actual sugar baby" might look like.

There's the Insta version of a 12/10 model who spends time with you on your 80 foot yacht.

What exactly are you meaning?

I've established a number of long-term but casual relationships via Seeking. In addition to sleeping together and me giving them a ppm for that, we may go out to lunch, dinner, hear live music, either as part of a date that includes sleeping together, or not. That's a "sugar relationship" to me.

[QUOTE=SwimSays;5967153]She has same contact info, number ends in 6854 - talked with her on this number in the last week. Chances are if she blocked you on SA and you continue to call and text regularly. Your number is blocked as well.

I spent time with her through SA a couple years ago and she was just OK. Pictures are heavily filtered / altered. Tits are absolutely huge but aren't great once the clothes come off. She talks a good game but when it comes down to it did not deliver on what was promised. Since she's been sporadically posting to STG the last 6 mos and is on SA 24/7, I've heard she is spiraling down and becoming higher and higher volume. I did not repeat 2 years ago and I would not recommend her now based on recent intel.[/QUOTE]Hey SwimSays I'm looking to get with her can you pm me her number thanks.

Like Bran I have established a wide array of arrangements from SA / SB. All have worked best as PPM. I have had two monthly arrangements in the six or so years that I have been pursuing the sugaring girls. The first started right before the pandemic. Single mom from Wellesley with two kids in high school there. We had had a PPM situation two or three times and she was hot and had a nice suburban place to visit so no hotel expense. So I bit the bullet and made my first monthly payment March 1, 2020. Twelve days later the world exploded into Covid quarantine and although I got a couple of texts from her after that I never saw her again (and no refund was offered, of course). Then, toward the middle of 2021 things began to open up again and I met this former professional model who was everyone's ideal body type. Tall and photogenic natural blonde. So we established a monthly thing, but my schedule is not easy. I had begun traveling for work and I'm married so although she was usually available I was often not. I had to end it because it was making no sense. I was paying and not able to connect. Now, I have two arrangements going. One lady from just north of Boston who is super hot and does not want any money, just that I cover the hotel. She has a responsible job and does not want a relationship. A second woman from south of Boston who does want money and is also super hot, but who has her own place that is convenient for other reasons. The cost of each is about the same because the lady from north of Boston likes a nice hotel and spends the night and has breakfast. Bottom line, there is no true sugar arrangement in my book. You work it out based on circumstances and needs. Having multiple options going at the same time keeps it entertaining!

[QUOTE=Bran001;5995109]There is a rather wide range to what an "actual sugar relationship" and thus "actual sugar baby" might look like.

There's the Insta version of a 12/10 model who spends time with you on your 80 foot yacht.

What exactly are you meaning?

I've established a number of long-term but casual relationships via Seeking. In addition to sleeping together and me giving them a ppm for that, we may go out to lunch, dinner, hear live music, either as part of a date that includes sleeping together, or not. That's a "sugar relationship" to me.[/QUOTE]

You have the bar set high!

[QUOTE=Banjomania;5996695]Like Bran I have es
tablished a wide array of arrangements from SA / SB. All have worked best as PPM. I have had two monthly arrangements in the six or so years that I have been pursuing the sugaring girls. The first started right before the pandemic. Single mom from Wellesley with two kids in high school there. We had had a PPM situation two or three times and she was hot and had a nice suburban place to visit so no hotel expense. So I bit the bullet and made my first monthly payment March 1, 2020. Twelve days later the world exploded into Covid quarantine and although I got a couple of texts from her after that I never saw her again (and no refund was offered, of course). Then, toward the middle of 2021 things began to open up again and I met this former professional model who was everyone's ideal body type. Tall and photogenic natural blonde. So we established a monthly thing, but my schedule is not easy. I had begun traveling for work and I'm married so although she was usually available I was often not. I had to end it because it was making no sense. I was paying and not able to connect. Now, I have two arrangements going. One lady from just north of Boston who is super hot and does not want any money, just that I cover the hotel. She has a responsible job and does not want a relationship. A second woman from south of Boston who does want money and is also super hot, but who has her own place that is convenient for other reasons. The cost of each is about the same because the lady from north of Boston likes a nice hotel and spends the night and has breakfast. Bottom line, there is no true sugar arrangement in my book. You work it out based on circumstances and needs. Having multiple options going at the same time keeps it entertaining![/QUOTE]

I usually go to a nearby Marriott or Hilton because they allow me to check in on my phone app and use a digital key so I don't have to go to the front desk. But they are getting expensive and less accommodating about my early check in. Does anyone know another hotel where I can check in on an app and go straight to my room with a digital key with no going to the front desk?

[QUOTE=BostonNorth16;5998176]I usually go to a nearby Marriott or Hilton because they allow me to check in on my phone app and use a digital key so I don't have to go to the front desk. But they are getting expensive and less accommodating about my early check in. Does anyone know another hotel where I can check in on an app and go straight to my room with a digital key with no going to the front desk?[/QUOTE]Most AirBnbs or VRBOs do this, you just get a door key. But probably not going to be cheaper.

Why is going to the front desk a problem?

For cheaper options I am using dayuse to generally good results, but still have to go to the front desk.

[QUOTE=BostonNorth16;5998176]I usually go to a nearby Marriott or Hilton because they allow me to check in on my phone app and use a digital key so I don't have to go to the front desk. But they are getting expensive and less accommodating about my early check in. Does anyone know another hotel where I can check in on an app and go straight to my room with a digital key with no going to the front desk?[/QUOTE]You really should learn to not care about stopping at the front desk. Unless you know someone who's working there They don't care what you're doing in the room, and neither should you care.

And even when I use Dayuse, it doesn't matter. Some of the front desk people remember me and it's helped me get a free upgrade or an early check-in when they had no rooms ready right away.

[QUOTE=Tdg222;5994957]Can someone tell how to get a visa vanilla card to work on SA.[/QUOTE]The one time I had an issue I had to register the zip code. Of course it has to match the zip used on SA.

Anyone else have an experience with her? Married / open relationship. Willing to trade stories, PM Me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/39f3ad64-8a42-4ebe-9f3a-e55c2c1669b1[/URL]

Want $600 and won't give me details on what that includes. Anyone else have more info?

She's young and cute but 600. Geez.

[QUOTE=McBright;5999989]Anyone else have an experience with her? Married / open relationship. Willing to trade stories, PM Me.[/QUOTE]Do you have a link?

[QUOTE=Sitteb36;6000330]Do you have a link?[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d9241239-3d21-4a67-9896-a51aa4291e13[/URL]

[QUOTE=McBright;5999989]Anyone else have an experience with her? Married / open relationship. Willing to trade stories, PM Me.[/QUOTE]All that negativity in the profile is generally a red flag for me. I know. Women can get jaded, fast, on Seeking. But still it's a downer to read all that negativity and try to imagine having FUN with her. She'd be a pass from me for that reason.

I try to create a new account. Different Email, VPN on my computer and different credit card number, but same name. Any help would be great.

[QUOTE=PlayTrey;6001736]I try to create a new account. Different Email, VPN on my computer and different credit card number, but same name. Any help would be great.[/QUOTE]Some Mongers here use certain pre-paid cards, not sure if the site caught on or not.

There once was a time where if you put in an effort, sugar was to be found on SA. The last several months have been semi-pro, picture sellers or pay just to meet.

Over the last few years, I've enjoyed 3 long term sugars, a few 2 or three meet ups and several one timer. Most were worth the time and $, of course a few were duds, but more often than not, all had a good time.

Might be time to take a break from the game. Good luck to a and thanks for you advice along the way.

[QUOTE=Discretion23;6001965]There once was a time where if you put in an effort, sugar was to be found on SA. The last several months have been semi-pro, picture sellers or pay just to meet.

Over the last few years, I've enjoyed 3 long term sugars, a few 2 or three meet ups and several one timer. Most were worth the time and $, of course a few were duds, but more often than not, all had a good time.

Might be time to take a break from the game. Good luck to a and thanks for you advice along the way.[/QUOTE]There is a reason the shit is on sale for $73 right now.

Wonder how low they go if the market keeps tanking.

[QUOTE=EuHunter;5976584]Anyone see this one? Seems to be dtf.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4812be9e-babe-4dab-8ccf-312ba50e02b3[/URL][/QUOTE]Anyone got her updated number? I get crickets now.

[QUOTE=Discretion23;6001965]There once was a time where if you put in an effort, sugar was to be found on SA. The last several months have been semi-pro, picture sellers or pay just to meet.

Over the last few years, I've enjoyed 3 long term sugars, a few 2 or three meet ups and several one timer. Most were worth the time and $, of course a few were duds, but more often than not, all had a good time.

Might be time to take a break from the game. Good luck to a and thanks for you advice along the way.[/QUOTE]Stg is really dry to. There's literally no one to see. All I see is scammers, Trans, Asian ad and same old junkies.

I had the Seeking app set to send me notifications when I received a message, and it worked fine until about a week ago when all of a sudden I stopped receiving the notifications. I checked the settings on the app and nothing had been changed. Anyone else had this problem? It's very annoying to have to constantly open the app to check and see if I have any messages, I like to be able to respond immediately because it's hard to keep a girl's attention sometimes on there.

[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6004360]I had the Seeking app set to send me notifications when I received a message, and it worked fine until about a week ago when all of a sudden I stopped receiving the notifications. I checked the settings on the app and nothing had been changed. Anyone else had this problem? It's very annoying to have to constantly open the app to check and see if I have any messages, I like to be able to respond immediately because it's hard to keep a girl's attention sometimes on there.[/QUOTE]You tried to uninstall, reinstall or reboot? Could be a problem with the App program itself and not your phone. Could send a message to the developer of the App.

[QUOTE=Mattis1775;6004379]You tried to uninstall, reinstall or reboot? Could be a problem with the App program itself and not your phone. Could send a message to the developer of the App.[/QUOTE]Android App?

Because if you actually use Seeking you know that there is no iOS app any more.

Scammer avoid.

[QUOTE=PlayTrey;6001736]I try to create a new account. Different Email, VPN on my computer and different credit card number, but same name. Any help would be great.[/QUOTE]I think you should use IP address complete, I think having a VPN sets of some red flags

[QUOTE=Tribeca67;6005220]Scammer avoid.[/QUOTE]Thanks for flagging. I initiated a chat and after a few exchanges I realized she was a scammer.

Using picture of pornstar Violet Starr.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/afa29300-3807-4999-9646-f365cffc174b[/URL]

Just had a good date with a senior member on SA and she said with the discount for the 4th she had hundreds of messages on Monday and Tuesday. Taking a break for 30 days myself to let the newbies ruin it for themselves. Bring on the fall!

[QUOTE=Discretion23;6001965]There once was a time where if you put in an effort, sugar was to be found on SA. The last several months have been semi-pro, picture sellers or pay just to meet.

Over the last few years, I've enjoyed 3 long term sugars, a few 2 or three meet ups and several one timer. Most were worth the time and $, of course a few were duds, but more often than not, all had a good time.

Might be time to take a break from the game. Good luck to a and thanks for you advice along the way.[/QUOTE]

I can't link because she blocked me but don't waste your time with CharmingPregg (new account from the last couple days, huge belly, said she's 29 weeks). Appears to be real but running the usual "I do online first then meetup" scam. I had little doubt that's where it was headed but being with a hot preggo chick is on my bucket list so I had to give it a shot.

Is there a script these girls are all reading from? I swear to god it's the same lines over and over. "It's for my safety. I've had too many bad experiences. " She's been doing this "for years" yet it's her first time on Seeking? Sure hon.

Just once I would love one of them to explain to me how me sending them 150 bucks before meeting somehow ensures their safety. Do you really think that if I was some kind of kidnapper or weirdo that 150 bucks would stop me? It's so absurd.

[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6008489]Is there a script these girls are all reading from? [/QUOTE]Probably. There are a ton of forums for SBs and they are full of shitty advice like this. Just takes a few dumbasses to make it worth them trying it with everyone. Best thing to do is tell them you only do in person, then move on.

Other tip I have is I've noticed a ton of profiles with just awful grammar or in a way that nobody would write lately. Like:

"I'm very outgoing and love a good conversation. Looking for someone with mutual respect to form a companionship".

These are inevitably scams. They tend to be online for a few days then either get reported or just make new profiles.

There is a Reddit group for Sugar Babies that has a lot of information. It's comical, they are all the pro SB. Luckily most are not in our area.

[QUOTE=Mfp79;6008719]Probably. There are a ton of forums for SBs and they are full of shitty advice like this. Just takes a few dumbasses to make it worth them trying it with everyone. Best thing to do is tell them you only do in person, then move on.

Other tip I have is I've noticed a ton of profiles with just awful grammar or in a way that nobody would write lately. Like:

"I'm very outgoing and love a good conversation. Looking for someone with mutual respect to form a companionship".

These are inevitably scams. They tend to be online for a few days then either get reported or just make new profiles.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=McBright;6007876]Just had a good date with a senior member on SA and she said with the discount for the 4th she had hundreds of messages on Monday and Tuesday. Taking a break for 30 days myself to let the newbies ruin it for themselves. Bring on the fall![/QUOTE]McBright if you're taking a break for 30 days, why not share her screen name and link to her profile.

<<she said with the discount for the 4th she had hundreds of messages on Monday and Tuesday>> sounds more like a pro then the typical SA woman?

[QUOTE=McBright;6008770]There is a Reddit group for Sugar Babies that has a lot of information. It's comical, they are all the pro SB. Luckily most are not in our area.[/QUOTE]That type of SB is a type that I have zero interest in, so they can do and say whatever they want. They are the pro / semi-pro / "I know my worth" clan.

I have nothing to do with that type of woman.

They are all over Reddit telling each other how much they make at this and I'm sure that 80% of it is inflated or down right BS.

I follow many of them of social media even when I decide not to see them. And I see that they do manage to find arrangements that involve travel, or being out on a boat, or museum trips, or some such extravagance. The sort of stuff I would never do on a first date. Once intimacy is out of the way, if it went well, I might consider going for a meal or a concert or to the zoo or something. But that's where I draw the line.

Once in a blue moon they might find that unicorn SD who offers extravagance on day 1. Some are the type to hold out just for that (those are the types I also want nothing to do with). Most are the type to get by with the more run of the mill SD until the unicorn SD comes along.

I've been with gorgeous ladies for very reasonable allowances and then later seen them out on some SD's boat or holidaying in Aruba at some SD's expense (I call them photo ops).

To some extent you have to keep in mind that there are guys who don't have functioning tools. So all they can do is photo ops. Some girls are looking exclusively for that kind of guy. I never want to give a girl the impression that I'm that guy.

[QUOTE=Bran001;6010170]That type of SB is a type that I have zero interest in, so they can do and say whatever they want. They are the pro / semi-pro / "I know my worth" clan.

I have nothing to do with that type of woman.

They are all over Reddit telling each other how much they make at this and I'm sure that 80% of it is inflated or down right BS.[/QUOTE]