Strip Club Reports

Visited Dancers on the West side last night out of convenience. Along came Mary Jane to sit down beside me. Youngish, over-tanned brunette with lots of tattoos and piercings. Looked like she might be fun, so I took her back for some dances. After a couple dances I usually test how much fun they might be by allowing my hands to get closer and closer to the promised land. I got a "careful" from her relatively quickly, and it was off. She squeezed one more dance out of me anyway which I was pissed at myself about after the fact.

Remembered some advice I got on here which was "the server and bartenders are your best friends". Server came to get me another beer. I overtipped her and then asked her who is the most fun in the back. She pointed me to A, who wasn't the hottest girl there, but was attractive and had all the requisite curves. The server even sent her over to my table. We made some really awkward small talk and headed for the back. Her hands weren't really roaming, But she didn't mind that mine were. She knew what I was working toward and didn't seem to mind. When it was over 3. 1 songs later, I left her. 9 and walked out.

Moral of the story: a $5 tip is well spent on a server that can get you to what you are looking for.

Happy Hunting,

TDM

[QUOTE=JimBeamCoke; 1423253]So visted a couple of clubs on the east side recently, babes and HH (like I go anywhere else, because they are the closet drive to me). Got to question for you all. Got some dances from one girl, then awile later got some dances from a second girl. The second girl I did 4 dances with. She said I did 5. I said we did 4. Even though I had plenty to drink (and sometmes I loose count) I said we did 4 but gave for 100 for 5 dances. Then went straight up to the dj both and asked him how many dances did we do, becuase I know he keeps track at this club. He said we did 4. When I turned around the girl was there with a 20 in her hand and said sorry my mistake. This isn't the first time a girl tries to raise the number of dances we do when they know I have been drinking heavly. It pissed me off cause I thought this girl was smoking hot and would like to have dances with her in the future but now I don't trust her.

How do you all handle a girl trying to overcharge you for dances you do?[/QUOTE]Wow that sucks. Why do they seem so short sited? Especially with a regular. What is the chance you will get dances with her again?

[QUOTE=JimBeamCoke; 1423253]So visted a couple of clubs on the east side recently, babes and HH (like I go anywhere else, because they are the closet drive to me). Got to question for you all. Got some dances from one girl, then awile later got some dances from a second girl. The second girl I did 4 dances with. She said I did 5. I said we did 4. Even though I had plenty to drink (and sometmes I loose count) I said we did 4 but gave for 100 for 5 dances. Then went straight up to the dj both and asked him how many dances did we do, becuase I know he keeps track at this club. He said we did 4. When I turned around the girl was there with a 20 in her hand and said sorry my mistake. This isn't the first time a girl tries to raise the number of dances we do when they know I have been drinking heavly. It pissed me off cause I thought this girl was smoking hot and would like to have dances with her in the future but now I don't trust her.

How do you all handle a girl trying to overcharge you for dances you do?[/QUOTE]It is a shame that there are dancers out there that can't see the forest for the trees. Chances are if she was honest with you from the start, she would have gotten more than the 20 extra she was trying to get from you at that time. I applaud you in checking with the dj and making sure you had proof of the right charge. Then with her standing right there to give you the overcharge money back you knew she was dishonest in the dance room. You probably should have talked to the manager on duty to make it known that she is deceitful to the customers.

As far as how I handle situations like that, I definitely make sure that I don't get anymore dances from that dancer. I don't know how many djs or other staff members at the clubs keep track of the dances that the gals do at a single time but I would go get verification if I knew who to go to. Sometimes it could be a he said / she said situation.

[QUOTE=Inboater01;1423364]Wow that sucks. Why do they seem so short sited? Especially with a regular. What is the chance you will get dances with her again?[/QUOTE]I think that is what got me pissed off the most is that she seemed so short sited in that 20 bucks now is better than the dough I would have dropped on her in the next few weeks. Everyone there knows I drop money.

As far as another dance with her, well she did have a nice butt and boobs were good so we will see.

[QUOTE=Tuls2011; 1423460]It is a shame that there are dancers out there that can't see the forest for the trees. Chances are if she was honest with you from the start, she would have gotten more than the 20 extra she was trying to get from you at that time. I applaud you in checking with the dj and making sure you had proof of the right charge. Then with her standing right there to give you the overcharge money back you knew she was dishonest in the dance room. You probably should have talked to the manager on duty to make it known that she is deceitful to the customers.

As far as how I handle situations like that, I definitely make sure that I don't get anymore dances from that dancer. I don't know how many djs or other staff members at the clubs keep track of the dances that the gals do at a single time but I would go get verification if I knew who to go to. Sometimes it could be a he said / she said situation.[/QUOTE]It is my understanding that at every club either the dj or the manager keeps track of every dance done and there is no he said / she said. They know how many dances you do every time.

Have any of you guys ever fallen for a stripper? I have been at this for a long time but recently one from BBF has got me all smitten. Obviously this is a poor idea for my wallet, my life, and my sanity. How do you get over it? Have you ever actually had a "real" connection with a stripper that turned out to be more than just a few hundred bucks a week in her pocket for a little smoochy smoochy? Ahhhhh, damn. Advice appreciated.

[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Have any of you guys ever fallen for a stripper? I have been at this for a long time but recently one from BBF has got me all smitten. Obviously this is a poor idea for my wallet, my life, and my sanity. How do you get over it? Have you ever actually had a "real" connection with a stripper that turned out to be more than just a few hundred bucks a week in her pocket for a little smoochy smoochy? Ahhhhh, damn. Advice appreciated.[/QUOTE]Otherwise you would know about the book I wrote and all the chapters that guys here donated. There was talk lately about a Volume two, but after a while no matter how amusing and unique the stories were they most all had similar threads and endings. Not quite all, but damn near. All I can say is, sorry about your luck bro, this ain't going to be pretty

P,S. oops, I forgot to add, I have dates planned with three of them this weekend, but if you had read the book you would know what that is worth LOL probably sorry about mine too

[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Have any of you guys ever fallen for a stripper? I have been at this for a long time but recently one from BBF has got me all smitten. Obviously this is a poor idea for my wallet, my life, and my sanity. How do you get over it? Have you ever actually had a "real" connection with a stripper that turned out to be more than just a few hundred bucks a week in her pocket for a little smoochy smoochy? Ahhhhh, damn. Advice appreciated.[/QUOTE]Advice? Stop going to BBF. You don't specify what "smoochy smoochy" means, but if you're dropping hundreds on the same girl every week, it's only going to work out if all you need is that smoochy smoochy. You're a sugar daddy, but if she's got you smitten chances are she's got 10 other regulars wrapped around her finger, too. If you're really in over your head, just cut yourself off cold turkey and hit somewhere else. Saves you the most money and gives you an excuse for an adventure.

[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Have any of you guys ever fallen for a stripper? I have been at this for a long time but recently one from BBF has got me all smitten. Obviously this is a poor idea for my wallet, my life, and my sanity. How do you get over it? Have you ever actually had a "real" connection with a stripper that turned out to be more than just a few hundred bucks a week in her pocket for a little smoochy smoochy? Ahhhhh, damn. Advice appreciated.[/QUOTE]I have had a lot of strippers for friends and have had a fling or two with them. First of all, is this girl interested in you for anything other than your wallet? If not, then forget her before you go broke. The best way to test for this is just go see her a couple of times, get to know her a little and be pretty much open about yourself. Then ask her if she would be interested in meeting somewhere for dinner. Don't come on like you are asking for take out. If she accepts, then you are good to go. If she makes a bunch of excuses, forget her because all she wants is your money.

There are a bunch of things to remember about these girls. First, they probably already have a husband or boyfriend. They're not going to tell you about it though. They often have a habit or two that can make life with them miserable. There is always a lot of drama involved with nearly every girl in the clubs, some worse than others but there is always something. They work a schedule that makes it difficult to spend any time with them unless you are dropping bucks where they work. If you have any jealousy in body at all, forget your feelings for this girl or you will go through hell if she likes you too. The only way to get over it is to control your urges to go see her and spend money on her while you wait for her to stop working, get fired, or move away.

I have known about a dozen girls outside of the clubs when I lived in South Carolina and here in the Cincy area. A couple have passed away, I lost track of most of the others over time as they moved away or got out of the business and moved on. I still have one good friend who got out of the business and moved to another state. I'm supposed to go see her in a couple of weeks. The other one is still working and I will be spending Sunday (the only day that we are both off from work) with her either bicycling or going to a flea market. I'm nor in love with this girl, we are just good friends but I still get to hear all the details about the drama in her life and it gets damn depressing at times.

[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Have any of you guys ever fallen for a stripper?[/QUOTE]Yup.

[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]I have been at this for a long time but recently one from BBF has got me all smitten.[/QUOTE]Sucker.

[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Obviously this is a poor idea for my wallet, my life, and my sanity.[/QUOTE]Sure is.

[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]How do you get over it?[/QUOTE]Think with the big head.

[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Have you ever actually had a "real" connection with a stripper that turned out to be more than just a few hundred bucks a week in her pocket for a little smoochy smoochy?[/QUOTE]Yup. BAD DECISION!

[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Ahhhhh, damn.[/QUOTE]You said it.

[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Advice appreciated.[/QUOTE]Just gave it (in addition to the previous 2 responses).

[QUOTE=Ilapp; 1424386]Otherwise you would know about the book I wrote and all the chapters that guys here donated. There was talk lately about a Volume two, but after a while no matter how amusing and unique the stories were they most all had similar threads and endings. Not quite all, but damn near. All I can say is, sorry about your luck bro, this ain't going to be pretty.

P, S. Oops, I forgot to add, I have dates planned with three of them this weekend, but if you had read the book you would know what that is worth LOL probably sorry about mine too[/QUOTE]Butt I think this girl really likes me, does that make a difference? She said I am different than every other guy she meets here! Who am I do joke, I onced asked this forum if it was wise to let a stripper stay at my house for awhile because she fell on hard times.

[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]How do you get over it? .[/QUOTE]You get over it by meeting another hot stripper and give her all of your money. Thats what I do.

I used to write a lot of reviews here on clubs and have had quite a bit Of time with sitting with dancers, getting dances, and occasionally having some fun. After reading what you guys are saying I think I could give some advice. It's really easy for me to tell if the dancer just wants my money, no matter how sneaky she's trying to be. Look for signs like her suggesting dances and mentioning any need for money (rent / just got money stolen / just got kicked out / cell phone shut off and needs it to call you.). A good test is to see how she reacts if you just "drop in to see her but didn't bring cash for dances". It's really rare that you find a girl genuinely interested in you but try to see how your conversations are going and try to tune down your hormones while you do it, and make sure you aren't getting dances from others when she's there or looking. Most of the time it's a complete waste of time but with the right ones it pays off I guess.

[QUOTE=JimBeamCoke;1424882]Butt I think this girl really likes me, does that make a difference? She said I am different than every other guy she meets here! Who am I do joke, I onced asked this forum if it was wise to let a stripper stay at my house for awhile because she fell on hard times.[/QUOTE]I'd sign her up with an exclusive contract in acting. She will surly win an Oscar, or better yet be your new wife.

Hi guys,

Newb here with my first post. I've been stalking this site for months now receiving a lot of good info, so I figured I'd pay my dues and try to give some back.

I'll start with my recent visit to the new and improved Silk. It was a Friday night. I got there around 9:30pm. I had actually stopped by here a couple of weeks before (for only a few minutes) and noticed that there were a good amount of dancers and the quality was much better than in the past. Anyway, on this visit the dancer quality wasn't quite as good. It may have been because it was early in the night shift and all the girls hadn't showed up yet, I don't know.

Anyway, a decent looking dancer sat with me and I bought her a drink. The first thing you notice about this girl is her unusual body type. Large, natural breasts on a very petite body frame. We chatted a bit and I found out she was in her late twenties and had been dancing for about five years. I decided because of her experience (and those big beautiful breasts) , I would accept if she asked for a couch dance. She did and off we went to the ten dollar room.

It's semi-secluded, but it is right by where the door men are. She had me sit where, I believe, she thought we'd have the most privacy. The first couch dance was great with a lot of roaming allowed. My hands seemed to always go for the breasts. I was definitely going to get another dance. I could instantly tell she was a veteran and knew what she was doing. I continued to get dances because she told me they only get better. She wasn't lying. With each dance, I had more freedom with my hands and mouth. I got five dances in all and felt like it was worth every penny.

Ok, there's my first report. I've become a regular at a few clubs and I have much more to write but I figured this would be a good start. BTW I know this dancer's stage name but I believe the etiquette on here is to not post it. Let me know on that.