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[QUOTE=MwmForHotFun;3965812]Used to have some luck meeting up with non-pro ladies and couples on CL, but that's gone. Anyone have any ideas on where to find their posts now?[/QUOTE]I've had some good luck with Adult Friend Finder. Hooked up with a few couples and one single lady nearby. Takes some time and effort on your part, but the payoff has been worth it (for me at least).
Thanks. Might give it a try if I can work around the credit card requirement
[QUOTE=Avogadro;3989450]I've had some good luck with Adult Friend Finder. Hooked up with a few couples and one single lady nearby. Takes some time and effort on your part, but the payoff has been worth it (for me at least).[/QUOTE].
So I noticed a sharp decline in number of asian ads, I wondered if LEO was involved so I checked mugshots and that doesn't seem to be the case. Wondering if anyone knows anything about why this is.
Did see three arrests in past week, none asian, all related to New Bern ave area. I only recognize one as advertising, another one listed residence as knights inn and was arrested on appliance so yeah. Just another reminder to myself to stay away from New Bern ave.
Edit*, I didn't check city x this morning. Lots of Asian ads are up this morning.
[QUOTE=MwmForHotFun;3994088]Thanks. Might give it a try if I can work around the credit card requirement
.[/QUOTE]Can't you just use a pre paid Visa card?
[QUOTE=DP1234;3998215]Can't you just use a pre paid Visa card?[/QUOTE]Pre-paid Visa cards have worked for me.
Still searching! Has anyone had any luck? Not interested in the Brazilians.
Are the list crawler sites down for you also?
Looks like the adultsearch website is the latest to bite the dust. I can't even get it to come up in a Google search. I know it wasn't heavily used as some of the other sites but it came handy every once in awhile. Maybe it's only temporary but it's been gone for a couple weeks now.
[QUOTE=Panama7996;4003093]Still searching! Has anyone had any luck? Not interested in the Brazilians.[/QUOTE]List Crawler and Adult Search are still up.
Just type the address in the bar.
Panama7996 are you fluent in Espanol. Try a Spanish classified website and report back. [URL]https://www.evisos.com/[/URL].
[QUOTE=LarryLeisure;4038776]Looks like the adultsearch website is the latest to bite the dust. I can't even get it to come up in a Google search. I know it wasn't heavily used as some of the other sites but it came handy every once in awhile. Maybe it's only temporary but it's been gone for a couple weeks now.[/QUOTE]I used it this afternoon and tried it just now. I've had no problems. Perhaps your cache on your computer needs clearing? Not sure. I'm using a cellphone and I never put in location when it asks.
I saw someone post today in an escorts section about catching an STD from a provider. I must be lucky as in 20 years of having dreams with gals, I've never caught anything.
However, the fear of it doesn't elude me. One thing I've always wondered.
I've heard in that NC if you go to a doctor and you test positive, in NC they have to report this to the CDC who in turn informs your local county health department. Then people in the health department have a responsibility to contact you (via mail or phone) to find out what partners you may have had so they can anonymously inform them they have been with someone who has tested positive to encourage them to be tested. I've heard this probably 2nd or 3rd hand so not sure how true.
That is a scary as hell scenario for married guys who could have a letter or phone call to their house from the health department that might get opened by a spouse. Life changer.
Is what I've heard true? I'd rather know the facts now than be trying to scramble for info if I was to come down with something. It all seems overkill for stuff that typically a few pills or a shot will cure if it is true.
I had an odd dream about a recent provider. She had a very strong smell. Not fishy but more of a porta-john odor. It was off putting and I could only finish myself with her doing BLS and her ass end pointed away. I made a mistake of taking off the cover with my right hand then finishing off with same right hand. Later that day, even after washing, both my hand and junk still had the stink. So I was worried. After some time passed, no issues but I figured it was time for a check up. In a relationship now, I needed a private option. I tried a prominent STD check website that connects users directly with a lab, all results by email. It went really well. I paid with a pre-paid card, gave my burner phone and burner email, and used a PO Box address. The only concern was having to give my full name and DOB online and at the lab, but with HIPA laws, I feel somewhat safe. They did not ask for I D but I heard that could happen, plus I needed real info in case I needed a follow up Dr consult, so I did not think using an alias was a good idea. Tests were all clear, the process was easy and felt private. To tie this in with the last post, I supose an agency could track down my real info but they won't reach me at the info I provided. I had the same concern about agencies tracking down partners but I felt like it was more of a risk if I got tested at a government funded clinic, based on other info I had read. In the end, I guess we all have to accept that if we are going to take the risk, we have to accept the possibility of failure. It pays to be safe. I don't BB anything anymore, and I have noticed more provider bathrooms lacking mouthwash which helps me avoid weakness when BB is offered.
I can not answer your question, however this is what I do know. This past July, I contracted Salmonella poisoning from a restaurant in Burlington. About after a week or so after treatment and cure, my phone (cell) rang. The caller I'd said Wake County something or other. Since I was unaware of any business I had with Wake Co. , I just figured it was a wrong number and let it go. This happened several times over the course of a couple of days. Finally, the caller left a voice mail asking me to return the call, which I did. On the other end was a nurse with the health department, wanting to know if I was willing to answer some questions, which I did. She basically just wanted me to describe the events leading up to me getting this, if anybody else in my family had gotten it, what course of treatment was I prescribed, etc. She also wanted to know if I had a good idea of where I came into contact with the virus, and I told her exactly where I thought I got it from (was easy to do due to process of elimination).
So based on my experience above, the scenario you described certainly seems possible or even probable.
TS24.
[QUOTE=PlasterKaster;4045576]I saw someone post today in an escorts section about catching an STD from a provider. I must be lucky as in 20 years of having dreams with gals, I've never caught anything.
However, the fear of it doesn't elude me. One thing I've always wondered.
I've heard in that NC if you go to a doctor and you test positive, in NC they have to report this to the CDC who in turn informs your local county health department. Then people in the health department have a responsibility to contact you (via mail or phone) to find out what partners you may have had so they can anonymously inform them they have been with someone who has tested positive to encourage them to be tested. I've heard this probably 2nd or 3rd hand so not sure how true.
That is a scary as hell scenario for married guys who could have a letter or phone call to their house from the health department that might get opened by a spouse. Life changer.
Is what I've heard true? I'd rather know the facts now than be trying to scramble for info if I was to come down with something. It all seems overkill for stuff that typically a few pills or a shot will cure if it is true.[/QUOTE]
My buddy went to a private clinic (one of the doc in a box places) and gave his PO box, got a shot in the ass and all was well. No letters, no calls. I'm not sure what counts for this. Did you go to the county health dept? In that case, I'd say you leave yourself wide open.
I have had some first hand experience. First was with the county health department for salmonella just as described below. Some time later I had some unsettling symptoms after a uncovered oral dream. Dreading the probability of what I suspected was going on I knew I needed to make a medical visit. I went to a clinic I had never been to, not to my regular doc. I was too scared for that. Anyhow I told this doc what was going on. He wanted to swab and culture my urethra but knowing if it was positive he would have to report, I refused the test. He said even without the test if his diagnosis was an STD he still needed to report it to the state. I felt trapped and screwed by our system of "confidential" testing with mandatory reporting. Confidential does not mean anonymous, by the way. There is no way I want my name in any state database like this. The doc took some pity on me and made the diagnosis urethral inflammation or something similar, and wrote me two Rx that cleared everything up promptly. I feel I got lucky that time. It was quite some years ago. Now with the drug resistant strains of STD's out there they may be less inclined to do what was done for me. Also, since the time this occurred there have been many advances in patient data sharing between doctors and pharmacies. If this were to happen now, it's quite possible it would be in a record accessible by any doctor you see. I say this because I have considered any such future visits will be under a fictitious name and paid by cash without insurance. I'm fairly sure medical insurance is the means for much or all of this data sharing.
Since that time I have traveled out of state to get routine tests (no symptoms, no treatments needed) in a locale that has true anonymous tests. Lucky for me it's usually coincided with work travel. It's been a while since I've looked into it, but IIRC the nearest anonymous state to NC is WV. CA is also anonymous.
Stay well, all!
[QUOTE=TheSting24;4046666]I can not answer your question, however this is what I do know. This past July, I contracted Salmonella poisoning from a restaurant in Burlington. About after a week or so after treatment and cure, my phone (cell) rang. The caller I'd said Wake County something or other. Since I was unaware of any business I had with Wake Co. , I just figured it was a wrong number and let it go. This happened several times over the course of a couple of days. Finally, the caller left a voice mail asking me to return the call, which I did. On the other end was a nurse with the health department, wanting to know if I was willing to answer some questions, which I did. She basically just wanted me to describe the events leading up to me getting this, if anybody else in my family had gotten it, what course of treatment was I prescribed, etc. She also wanted to know if I had a good idea of where I came into contact with the virus, and I told her exactly where I thought I got it from (was easy to do due to process of elimination).
So based on my experience above, the scenario you described certainly seems possible or even probable.
TS24.[/QUOTE]