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Seeking is asuch a failed site. The management is block trigger happy I was blocked twice. For asking for 100 $ dates. And mst of the girls on there expect money when those botches look straight ugly af. Female entitlement. Listcrawler is like 1000% better than seeking.
My question applies to any of these sugar sites, for those of you that have had success with a sugar baby relationship, are you honest with the girl as to being married, kids, what you do for work, town you live in? That type of stuff or do you lie, or just keep it completely vague? I got together with one girl a year ago and she was a fucking nut job, I thought I was going to have to end up taking her fishing, after that I got off the site for awhile but still browse, every once and awhile if there is a girl that peaks my interest I'll favorite her, had no bites at all until last week, I've been messaging this girl and it's seeming like the perfect situation, I'm just thinking before too much longer she will start asking those important questions?
If your time is very limited. And you require an immediate sure thing (usually) payoff, then yes SA is not for you. Listcrawler, Eros etc. Will be more productive / rewarding for you. I will say that when I compare young, fresh, clean college sorority girls that I am fucking off SA, they usually exceed any quality of girl I can see off Listcrawler. Just my preference, just my opinion.
[QUOTE=MaxDaDesi;4623051]Seeking is asuch a failed site. The management is block trigger happy I was blocked twice. For asking for 100 $ dates. And mst of the girls on there expect money when those botches look straight ugly af. Female entitlement. Listcrawler is like 1000% better than seeking.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Amppro95;4623478]My question applies to any of these sugar sites, for those of you that have had success with a sugar baby relationship, are you honest with the girl as to being married, kids, what you do for work, town you live in? That type of stuff or do you lie, or just keep it completely vague? I got together with one girl a year ago and she was a fucking nut job, I thought I was going to have to end up taking her fishing, after that I got off the site for awhile but still browse, every once and awhile if there is a girl that peaks my interest I'll favorite her, had no bites at all until last week, I've been messaging this girl and it's seeming like the perfect situation, I'm just thinking before too much longer she will start asking those important questions?[/QUOTE]I like the seeking relationships because it's really up to y'all. Reveal as much as you're comfortable. That money kinda allows girls to gloss over things that would normally be taboo. It really is up to why'all to make the rules. Be vague. Or not. If they get too close, you can talk to them. If they're being bad. Just cut them off. No money, no sugar. No sugar, no money.
[QUOTE=Amppro95;4623478]My question applies to any of these sugar sites, for those of you that have had success with a sugar baby relationship, are you honest with the girl as to being married, kids, what you do for work, town you live in? That type of stuff or do you lie, or just keep it completely vague? I got together with one girl a year ago and she was a fucking nut job, I thought I was going to have to end up taking her fishing, after that I got off the site for awhile but still browse, every once and awhile if there is a girl that peaks my interest I'll favorite her, had no bites at all until last week, I've been messaging this girl and it's seeming like the perfect situation, I'm just thinking before too much longer she will start asking those important questions?[/QUOTE]If you plan to see them once keep it vague. If you are looking for more of a long term thing most of this stuff will come out at some point so reveal it when you feel it's to your advantage. I tell all of them I am married, I have kids, and in general where I live. Any psycho vibes I block them immediately and move on. There are way too many girls on SA and WYP to get hung up on one. And because of the absolute sheer number I believe there is something for everyone's desire and dollar amount.
Don't use a personal phone, buy a burner. Don't use personal credit cards, buy Visa or Amex gift cards. Create a fake Venmo account with funds in it from a secret credit card. Don't share real social media profiles with them (I know a guy who friended a baby on Facebook and he literally got so screwed). Deal in cash whenever you can. Anyone who really wants to dig into your details is suspect in my book.
Good luck!
[QUOTE=Aardvarks;4624254]If you plan to see them once keep it vague. If you are looking for more of a long term thing most of this stuff will come out at some point so reveal it when you feel it's to your advantage. I tell all of them I am married, I have kids, and in general where I live. Any psycho vibes I block them immediately and move on. There are way too many girls on SA and WYP to get hung up on one. And because of the absolute sheer number I believe there is something for everyone's desire and dollar amount.
Don't use a personal phone, buy a burner. Don't use personal credit cards, buy Visa or Amex gift cards. Create a fake Venmo account with funds in it from a secret credit card. Don't share real social media profiles with them (I know a guy who friended a baby on Facebook and he literally got so screwed). Deal in cash whenever you can. Anyone who really wants to dig into your details is suspect in my book.
Good luck![/QUOTE]Any ideas on how to pay for a hotel without a credit card??
Thanks CM.
[QUOTE=Aardvarks;4624254]If you plan to see them once keep it vague. If you are looking for more of a long term thing most of this stuff will come out at some point so reveal it when you feel it's to your advantage. I tell all of them I am married, I have kids, and in general where I live. Any psycho vibes I block them immediately and move on. There are way too many girls on SA and WYP to get hung up on one. And because of the absolute sheer number I believe there is something for everyone's desire and dollar amount.
Don't use a personal phone, buy a burner. Don't use personal credit cards, buy Visa or Amex gift cards. Create a fake Venmo account with funds in it from a secret credit card. Don't share real social media profiles with them (I know a guy who friended a baby on Facebook and he literally got so screwed). Deal in cash whenever you can. Anyone who really wants to dig into your details is suspect in my book.
Good luck![/QUOTE]I'd second all of this except the burner phone. Almost impossible to explain away a second phone to the SO. An app that allows a second, private, number to be added to your phone may be a preferable option. Check out Google Voice. Gives you a second phone number on the same phone. Hides your original number on both incoming and outgoing calls. All you need is a Google email account also hidden from callers (in and out). No service fees for the app and calls are free in the US. Great for texting as well, again, hides your actual number and email from texts. Only the Google Voice number is exposed which is what you want them to see.
WeChat may offer comparable features. It's not clear from their website and I've yet to try it.
[QUOTE=HounDog3;4624720]I'd second all of this except the burner phone. Almost impossible to explain away a second phone to the SO. An app that allows a second, private, number to be added to your phone may be a preferable option. Check out Google Voice. Gives you a second phone number on the same phone. Hides your original number on both incoming and outgoing calls. All you need is a Google email account also hidden from callers (in and out). No service fees for the app and calls are free in the US. Great for texting as well, again, hides your actual number and email from texts. Only the Google Voice number is exposed which is what you want them to see.
WeChat may offer comparable features. It's not clear from their website and I've yet to try it.[/QUOTE]Thanks for all the info guys, especially houndog, that's brilliant!! First meet is tomorrow morning so I'll post an update, she says that she is polyamorus, which is my only concern that I could catch something through oral or DFK?? I'll obviously wrap it up for sex, cool thing is she wants to have a 3-way with another girl and so she is trying to set that up. Fingers crossed!!
[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4624419]Any ideas on how to pay for a hotel without a credit card??
Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]Let me know if you figure this problem out. Could be helpful to all of us.
[QUOTE=Amppro95;4624893]Thanks for all the info guys, especially houndog, that's brilliant!! First meet is tomorrow morning so I'll post an update, she says that she is polyamorus, which is my only concern that I could catch something through oral or DFK?? I'll obviously wrap it up for sex, cool thing is she wants to have a 3-way with another girl and so she is trying to set that up. Fingers crossed!![/QUOTE]"polyamory". You need to look that up. She might have a big problem with keeping secrets.
[QUOTE=Amppro95;4624893]Thanks for all the info guys, especially houndog, that's brilliant!! First meet is tomorrow morning so I'll post an update, she says that she is polyamorus, which is my only concern that I could catch something through oral or DFK?? I'll obviously wrap it up for sex, cool thing is she wants to have a 3-way with another girl and so she is trying to set that up. Fingers crossed!![/QUOTE]Spend time reading around here and you'll quickly figure out that you don't count your chickens until they're hatched. Cold feet, ghosting, no-shows, are all part of the bowl. Wishing you luck.
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Greek_Girl_ about 2 hours ago.
Thank you for you interest but I am very picky and I'm not sure I like the fact you like all ethnicities.
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Greek_Girl_ about 2 hours ago.
Thank you for you interest but I am very picky and I'm not sure I like the fact you like all ethnicities.[/QUOTE]Wow! Sign of the times.
I ask myself all the time why I bother? I'm always searching for the perfect situation and always find myself in the exact opposite. Met this girl last week on WYP, cute little black girl, 20 years old about a half hour away, says she's in school, poor, but most importantly absolutely loves sex, so she's like we can get together whenever you want, kick me whatever you can afford, just fuck me, fuck me hard, fuck me over and over and let me suck your dick and eat your cum. Her pics on WYP are her, but probably a cpl of years ago, she did text me some pics but only one was a body shot which looked very much like her body on wyp.
Met with her today, she was at least 60 lbs heavier then her pics. She was wearing a skirt with no panties, got in my truck immediately started making out, I thought I smelled something that kinda smelled like the bottom of a dumpster mid-summer but wasn't 100% sure, she's rubbing my cock, trying to unbutton my pants, I reach under her skirt and she is soaked. As soon as I rub back and forth it releases this odor that nearly turned my stomach, I almost said. " hey, this isn't going to work, " but she already had my cock in her mouth and was DT like a pro. After I shot, I couldn't escape the smell. The cab of my truck was permeated with stink. I buttoned up, told her some stupid story then dropped her off and said I had to go, threw her a few bucks. I used half a bottle of hand sanitizer on my hand and then on my dick, raced home, showered, scrubbed myself, especially my tainted hand. Got out of the shower, washed my hand again. It still smells. I'm about to pour gas on it. Why do I do this?
[QUOTE=Amppro95;4627150]I ask myself all the time why I bother? I'm always searching for the perfect situation and always find myself in the exact opposite. Met this girl last week on WYP, cute little black girl, 20 years old about a half hour away, says she's in school, poor, but most importantly absolutely loves sex, so she's like we can get together whenever you want, kick me whatever you can afford, just fuck me, fuck me hard, fuck me over and over and let me suck your dick and eat your cum. Her pics on WYP are her, but probably a cpl of years ago, she did text me some pics but only one was a body shot which looked very much like her body on wyp.
Met with her today, she was at least 60 lbs heavier then her pics. She was wearing a skirt with no panties, got in my truck immediately started making out, I thought I smelled something that kinda smelled like the bottom of a dumpster mid-summer but wasn't 100% sure, she's rubbing my cock, trying to unbutton my pants, I reach under her skirt and she is soaked. As soon as I rub back and forth it releases this odor that nearly turned my stomach, I almost said. " hey, this isn't going to work, " but she already had my cock in her mouth and was DT like a pro. After I shot, I couldn't escape the smell. The cab of my truck was permeated with stink. I buttoned up, told her some stupid story then dropped her off and said I had to go, threw her a few bucks. I used half a bottle of hand sanitizer on my hand and then on my dick, raced home, showered, scrubbed myself, especially my tainted hand. Got out of the shower, washed my hand again. It still smells. I'm about to pour gas on it. Why do I do this?[/QUOTE]WYP is the worst. Unless you hit it up with a pro (and they will overcharge) you're not getting lucky.