[QUOTE=BastardChorum;5703213]Of course it would become a much more welcoming experience for new and old players alike in the kgirl scene if such predatory tactics were stopped. However, it won't.[/QUOTE]It won't if nothing is done about it. That's what they want to happen. But if we emphasize every lie or mistreatment and keep a black book on then, it might change. Change doesn't happen instaneously. It is a function of time.
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So long as there exists kgirls that are average looking, out of shape, (insert any number of dud characteristics here) and bookers that are willing or mandated to push them, these practices will continue. What we can do is to alert others of bookers or girls that have such a history or track record to hopefully preempt another monger from experiencing it.[/QUOTE]Exactly. In other words, to make sure each org / booker / ring of girls have a reputation that they can't wash away with rebrand or rename. So many protect the girls but where's protection of mongers from predatory practice?
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That's why I advise against disclosing that you write reviews do to bookers or girls. Just play dumb and say that you don't, full stop. Now for whatever reason you did or somehow your reviews / posts contained details that could be traced back to you. Well, you fucked up.[/QUOTE]I completely disagree here. Why do you shift the blame to mongers instead of entity that does unfair shit? Its a piece of shit tactics to rag on mongers reviews if they are honest and truthful. The orgs can take a dick, they can take a harsh but truthful review.
You want a tale? From some reviews posted in a private, mind you, group, org lackeys were able to connect a review to the monger. This is a private fucking group for bay area with only about 100 members and maybe 35 active. Forget about public forum.
If you want to warn others of bad product, you ideally do on day 1. There are only so many mongers who see a girl on the first day, so it can be traced back easily. Either more mongers are misled or you are caught by org lapdogs. It's really not as easy as tell them you don't write reviews. And it's really not your fault that you got caught by them deciphering your monger persona. Any details you mention, any specific deeds, etc will further expose you. But you want there to be more details for your fellow mongers! Why do we have to cower in fear that some org will threaten us for writing truthful and honest recap. Even worse, if they have all your pii info they can go far with blackmail.
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Retire the handle and take up a new one if you want help others, the community, and as a result yourself going forward.[/QUOTE]Many handles build up cred to be credible. A new handle review is often viewed through a prism of suspicion. Changing handles all the time is not even a bandaid solution, much less a solution. I personally never trust new handles with glowing reviews. They are usually shills or fake reviews aimed to stir up business. And they are rather obvious.
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I never said reviews shouldn't matter. I stated that it should be inconsequential in the matter of how standing is determined.
[/QUOTE]But they are! Many mongers reported a situation during covid where a PO texted a monger and chided them for "harsh" reviews during "harsh" times. The fuck? If your product sucks don't let the door hit it on the way out. Harsh review my ass. Mongers have reported an org telling them to not write a negative review again to take it down or else they be BLd. The only time orgs are ok with negative review is when a girl leaves. Then they don't give a shit. Hell I knew an org that would have own shills write bad review of girl right after she left, trying to preserve the illusion of credibility of these shills.
If orgs can bl you for a truthful and honest review, reviews surely impact your standing. Come on now.
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1. I already addressed this above. This is not going to change and is out of our immediate control. PSA's, posts, and reviews are the only mitigation measures we can take.[/QUOTE]It is not outside of our immediate control. If we point finger and say the name of every single agency org and girl that employs such tactic, loudly on a public forum, after doing it for a long time, they might just start putting out more truthful info out there. Shiiit even some gilf corgs in my area have more truthful body pics than korgs do. And worst thing is? You can't walk or they threaten to bl you. You are paying for a pig in a poke, a blind date, and rolling the dice. And you can't even walk because booker got you spooked with threats of bl that extends to other orgs in your area. And if they got your pii you might be done for.
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2. By how frequently you circle back to this point, I can only assume that you or monger (s) you know were in that type situation. Ideally, you don't want any bookers or girls to know that you write reviews. As this can and will become a weakness that can be leveraged against you. Again, addressed above. Restart with a new handle and learn to limit information that can be tied to you. This also goes for sharing with other mongers directly, there's no need to divulge any details specific to you to anyone. If questioned why you stopped writing reviews, just come up something plausible. I don't think they'll punish you for no longer writing reviews. As for me, I've been questioned by bookers about reviews / handles and have been asked by many girls to review them but I've always been consistent in saying that I don't review. Consistency is the key as you never know if the girls or bookers are back channeling on you with each other. Keep in mind that the amount of mongers that do review is a very small slice of the active monger pool.
[/QUOTE]And once again, I disagree.
Orgs have long reach. They got some insider mongerd doing errands and watching boards for them. Many many times I've had mongers complain that the org figured out who they were. The review and feedback system is for them to get feedback. , not to advertise their product. I don't give two shits about their biz. It is not our fault that in order to warn mongers many write their review on the same day or the day after, therefore letting orgs figure out who is who.
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3. This is a matter of perspective in my opinion. And as such I can only speak for myself. We're all adults here. Who I ultimately choose to see, how it turns out, and the consequences that arises thereafter falls squarely on my shoulders. I have a responsiblity to myself to research and evaluate to the best of my ability that a specific kgirl is worth seeing. The mentalities of others and their willingness to share information or post reviews are out of my control. Therefore, I can only rely on what's available to me, red herring and all. It's all a part of this broken and dysfunctional system we call kgirls which even leaves the best of us muddled at times.[/QUOTE]I don't disagree but you again did not give a direct answer. Here, let's reduce it to absurdity. Stand by truth and lose all access to Korean pussy as peddled by all org in your metro area. Or appease the org and keep your standing. This was my question from the beginning. I feel like I might understand what your answer is, but I prefer to have it said more directly without sugarcoating or fluff. You know my answer. Bros hoes. Truth lies.