"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=Spitfire;1655801]Google 'seeking arrangement' and you'll see the URL[/QUOTE]Thanks for the help. It worked like a charm today, I did that a few day a go and got nothing.

Thanks again

If you look at sdfm there is a space for age preference. I noticed that most of the HCG twenty somethings want someone in the under 40 age range, more specifically 20 to 30. Rarely a SB puts 30 to 80. My guess is that unlimited age requirements mean that SBs are more into the Sugar alone rather than finding someone who might also be a potential partner. This explains why older SDs do not get any response from some likely candidates. If HCBs are not your preference then you have no problem. I have not noticed this as much on SA. Perhaps there are more sophisticated girls there who appreciate age and wisdom (not to mention a bigger bank account)

[QUOTE=Hernando;1658521]If you look at sdfm there is a space for age preference. I noticed that most of the HCG twenty somethings want someone in the under 40 age range, more specifically 20 to 30. Rarely a SB puts 30 to 80. My guess is that unlimited age requirements mean that SBs are more into the Sugar alone rather than finding someone who might also be a potential partner. This explains why older SDs do not get any response from some likely candidates. If HCBs are not your preference then you have no problem. I have not noticed this as much on SA. Perhaps there are more sophisticated girls there who appreciate age and wisdom (not to mention a bigger bank account)[/QUOTE]I don't see a field on SA that states Age Preference so I believe the SBs don't really think about it until they are contacted. Leaves them more open-minded in my opinion.

It is 3:23AM and I am writing this report just so I can get some sleep. I have been posting on this site for a short while and I have been attempting to get into the sugar bowl down in FLA. I am transitioning over from the Strip Club world but not without a few rough patches along the way.

So last week I was into Stripclub POT Baby named C. very nice 7 head 8. 5 very athletic body. Studying physical therapy in the University of Central Florida. She has texted me repeatedly and always responded to my texts and last week she complained about money and I told her I could help her out if she could help me out. She said yes. Then everything went south. If you think young SB's are flaky that is nothing compared to Strippers. But I always try to stick with the ones that have something going on. Either another job. Actually going to college etc. But still no luck. She just quite answering my texts.

Then there is R. She is my favorite POT Baby at the moment. So hot melado light skinned black girl with white girls hair. Absolutely beautiful. The couple of times I have been in the club with her she has done just about everything you could do without fucking in there. And I have hardly ever paid her much. Student new to the club. Perfect natural perky breasts. Her idea to meet outside of the club. But when I get her on the phone text or voice. She does not seem so anxious. I honestly think she may have a problem with the P4P thing and want to just see me straight up. I actually offered to help her last week and she refused on the phone. She is a fickle one she is. Need to let a little more line out. Frustrated. Tempted to reel in my line and head for another reef. (we fish for real fish down here, the kind that are as big as you).

So I called my first and only real SB her name is F. and she readily agreed to meet me. Now F is a Strip club SB but she has no drama to speak of. Other than always hinting around about more money. But we get along great and no complaining no stripper shit, nothing. She has kids and takes care of them and lives in a decent neighborhood and a nice house. She is divorced. She is always on time and reliable. So it's hard to classify her as a Nando1. Beautiful head, nice body. So we got together went to lunch and had a truly pleasant time. Lots of interesting conversation. She has also cut down on the smoking and drinking. No BS. Honesty like Scott says is truly liberating. I can say anything I want to her and she does the same. And she fucked my like a $2 working girl. In fact my dick was sore after this. And she was bleeding afterwards. She says she has polyps on her ovaries or something like that. She worked my dick over like it was gumby. I waxed that ass every way I could think of. Both came twice. It was quite a day. But she is very expensive. First one, paying way too much. Need to get some more fish in the boat.

Then we come to today. Traveling to Austin and I go to my favorite SC in Austin. And there is the knockout AA chick that is a dead ringer for Tyra Banks. And just as tall as her except very small titties. So you know how beautiful she is. We get some dances and she gets my number and promises to meet me at my hotel after 2:00 Am to fuck me. No talk about money. And so as I am leaving I am accosted by this other stunning little thing that is Cajun Puerto Rican. Those mixed race girls are so gorgeous. Student at UT, physical therapy. See a pattern here. Perfect pierced breasts, an ass you could serve a beer on and a head like an angel. With these deep dark eyes that look right through you. We start talking and I tell her to come see me at my hotel. She immediately talks money. We settle on $300 and I tell her multiple pops she says yes. I go back to hotel to wait all excited that I am going to get me some first class Cajun / Peurto Rican pussy tonight. Boner all the way back to the hotel. She calls me on my cel and texts me no kidding about 12 times within the next 2 hours, several times asking about the money. Finally she gets to the hotel and wow is she even better in the light of the hotel lobby. Well now she asks me to pay the cab. I say ok. Jake the one eyed snake says what the fuck is another $20? Ok I tell him. But you better not get in this fine pussy and just get all excited and throw up right away. You got to make this pussy last.

Gets to the room and starts asking for the money. I said relax about the money. She says I have been burned before. I said I will put the money on the table. And she says ok. Then she starts talking about a tip. I let out a big sigh. And rolled my eyes. Then we get naked. OMG what a body. She is all over my cock. And Jake is yeah suck me dry, revvo give her what ever she wants and shut up. But I stop her because she can suck a dick like no one else I have ever seen. She is sucking it perfectly. I mean no teeth not even gums. Lots of sloppy spit. But one thing. She literally stops mid suck and starts talking about a tip. FUCK, FUCK, FUCK. Fucking strippers. Someone needs to teach these crazy bitches something about customer service.

I tell her to forget about the money. Suck my cock and don't stop. Until I come in your mouth. You know what she does. She goes down on Jake even better. Now she is really working on him OMG. She is deep throating Jake, and she is making this noise this gagging gurgling sound like she is going nuts. I was astounded. It was like I was watching a porno. But it was my dick I was watching. Here is a stone cold solid 9. 5 deep throating my dick like in a porn movie. You have to understand this does not happen to me. I am a married man. So I can't take it anymore and I explode. She swallows it and keeps on sucking. She is now milking me dry. It was wonderful. We lay down on the bed and cuddle. Nice moment. Until wait for it. SHE STARTS TALKING ABOUT A FUCKING TIP AGAIN! Oh my fucking god! I am going to loose my mind.

Now you have to understand. I am going nuts inside. But on the outside we are having the most pleasant conversation. I don't get angry. And she is not mean or bitchy she is quite pleasant. And intelligent. She just will not stop with the money talk. I tell her forget about the money. She brings it up again. I say. Make my dick hard again. I figure that should shut her up. And she does. She starts deep throating me again. This time I got to get Jake into the pussy. He needs to see the inside of the pussy. It has been two days since F. We go through the major positions. I splooge again. She is all excited but I doubt she ever came. Her mind is just on the money. She sends me some pictures of herself naked and clothed. Maybe I will post one on here if I can protect her anonymity. I gave her a $40 tip. It is all I had left. I would have given her a $400 tip if I had it just to shut her up. I told her I come to Austin often. If she can chill about the money I will call her and no one else. She agreed. We will see. She is a world class cocksucker.

Damn these strippers. I will send another report about my little bit of experiences on SA so far.

Good job Rev. What you lose in bedding % you make up for in enthusiasm. Strippers really seem to be the consummate tip oriented providers since they are paid by the dance. They never really lose that mindset. In my experience the absolute best girls are those single students who have their own apartment and who's financial needs are covered by the parents. Your funds go for extras and they are still young enough to be impressed by a simple dinner out. My former HCB loved chain restaurants so dinner and drinks were only $50 and she liked Walmart. Gee I miss those days!

Re: Age preferences

The majority of new enrolees (again talking SDFM since they list age preferences) desire men in the 20 to 32 age groups I observed before. I have a question for the Board. How many of you gents are under 40? How many under 30? I'm just wondering how many under 30 yr old guys can afford to " blow" (pun intended) $ 1000 to 3000 / month on Sugar plus entertainment costs, hotel, etc? I know there are plenty of totally loaded young guys, but I would think the average Joe is not.

Nando,

I hear ya brother. This is a complex and fluid sport we have signed up for. There were some frustrating times this past week. To use the fishing narrative a little more. There was a couple of times I felt like taking my rods and breaking them over my knee, and throwing them and all of my fishing tackle overboard. And saying fuck it. But I put it in perspective and realize I need to give this a real serious try and learn from these mistakes that many times are mine.

I agree on the stripper mentality. I am in the process of transitioning from the strippers to real full time SB's. However the kind of sort of scratch the itch in the meantime. It wasn't all bad last night. It was something watching L do the porn star thing on my dick. And there were times I sat in amazement at how she pranced around my hotel suite completely buck naked such a beautiful creature. Without any modesty at all.

Yeah. You had a winner there. She covered all of the basis. But they all go eventually. In fact there is a quote that says "in every relationship someone will always get left".

When you really think about that. And accept it. It is very liberating. It kind of mutes the need for attachment.

Anyway thanks for the words,

Revvo

Well it is 3:03 AM this time and my sweet little Cajun delicacy L, just left. Man that girl can fuck. So after our last visit she started texting me the next morning and throughout the day. Of course she wanted to get together again. She is going to UT and runs track but only as a walk on. Her mother kicked her out of the house when she was 18 and she is 21 now. She is hurting for money. Needs to pay $2k for sorority dues. I am debating if she would be characterized as a Nando type 1. I don't think so. She does not do drugs, she does not smoke or drink. She is a stripper, so I guess she would classify as a semi pro? And is financially strapped.

So anyway I told her yesterday that look. I like her and she is truly a beautiful girl. So exotic looking you cannot imagine. Huge almond shaped eyes, lips as full and succulent as a peach. But oh I digress. Any way I said. We can get together on Thursday, and I will take care of you and pay you the $$$, but you got to shut up about the money. And she happily agreed. And seemed kind of contrite since I had corrected her just a little. You have to understand she has never said a foul word to me or me to her, or even any attitude. In fact with this entire group of girls I have been working on. Not one hard word or action has come from this. And I pride myself on this. Because these type girls can be very volatile at times. I think picking the right ones and using lots of humor and never treating them like a working girl or a ****. And I think the fact that I truly like them all helps a lot.

Anyway she came over and instead of asking about money 37 times she told me she would behave so she only brought up money about 17 times! And once again at one point I told her to put my cock in your mouth just to shut her up. And of course she did. She is without a doubt the best dick sucker I have ever encountered. Truly amazing this act alone is worth the price of admission. Deep throat sucked on my balls until I thought they were going to come out. I am a truly lucky man.

We fucked for about two hours with breaks in between and I threw her around this hotel suite like a rag doll, and she loved it. I believe she came twice. At least that is what she screamed. I got two pops out of it before I cramped up my back. I was feeling pretty cocky and young up until then. What with her repeatedly telling me how handsome I am and all the girls in the club were jealous and all. Now I don't really believe this, I just chalk it up to good customer service.

I must be on multicultural kick lately. Because Jake the one eyed snake is loving all these different kinds of pussy. I am going to have to write my own book. 50 shades of brown. With all the different types I am working on.

As a good AA friend of mine once told me. You got to bust them down and fuck them rugged! And you know come to think of it. I don't think I have ever fucked any woman that did not like to get really pounded hard.

On the SA front. Not so good. I am not sure what I am doing wrong. I put a picture in the private area. Made more adjustments to my profile and offer letter. I have sent letters to 34 girls over the last week. And will send more tomorrow. Only have one quality response a couple of good winks who never responded again. And about 7 undesirables. And about 99 looks at my profile.

I think I need help getting traction with this part of the process. If anyone has any suggestions please help?

Also where is everyone. There most be more stories out there. I love to read these things.

Gentlemen,

Things have been puposefully slow in my Bowl since my return from New Orleans and Asheville, as I wanted to concentrate on the holidays, and now getting work projects going again in the new year. I did have time for a romp with Naughty Brit, and reacquaint myself with just how erotic all that dirty talk can be when said with a posh British accent! At this point, since the departure of my ATF, she and I have the most natural, normal relationship I have had with a baby. We text, talk or email once a week or so, often nothing more than "thought of you last night as I was falling asleep." She also has started to send me funny pictures from the web that relate to things we have talked about at lunch, or in bed. While I love a good one-off as much as the next, I have to admit that the level of connection, and attendant comfort and pleasure, that comes with an on-going relationship with an intelligent, beautiful, sexy 20 something is the goal of the Bowl, at least in my opinion. I would defend anyone's right to think otherwise, but I would also deal harshly with anyone who chose to call my Brit a working girl. I'm sure she has other arrangements, but I am also sure of the connection that exists which goes beyond sex and money. 'Nuff said. You either get it or you don't, and I for one do not judge, unless I find myself judged.

I also have had a moment to meet the baby whose SO came home early on our first visit, necessitating a hasty, half-dressed exit of yours truly while said SO was peeing. I nicknamed her Bond Baby, if you recall, and recently met her, this time in a nice boutique hotel downtown, for a few hours of spirited playtime. She is still just as sexy as before, and in fact, after a few minutes of wonderful making out, suggested that she draw us a bubble bath, an idea I instantly agreed with. More groping and kissing went on as the tub filled, and we got in facing each other and she then sat on my lap. God, the girl has a gorgeous body. Thin, toned, completely unblemished. I think the guys her age just don't realize how lucky they have it. Well, I guess we SDs now are the lucky ones, but anyway. It was quite erotic, with one exception. The whole time we were in the tub, she kept trying to sneak Scottie inside her, and he wasn't dressed yet for the occasion. As I have stated many times before, I always play safe, so I really wanted none of it, but after the sixth or seventh time of her sitting down directly on top of him, it did start to seem like not such a bad idea after all. Fortunately, the big brain had an ounce of strength left in it, and I moved onto the rim of the tub for a glorious BJ, no teeth or hands, and reciprocated with my Super Secret Oral Speed Orgasm Treatment for her, by which time the water was cold and we moved to the bed.

As Rev, I believe, has observed, these babies have no sense of shyness or modestly about their bodies whatsoever, and really, why should they? They are hot and they know it, and they know we know it, and I think it is a turn-on for both parties. These are not normal girls, nor are they pros (if you screen well enough) , but rather some kind of uber-girl who likes sex and is not getting what she needs from guys her own age. This is a recurring theme in a lot of the profile texts I read, and it may be a little bit of marketing on their part, but I think there is a grain of truth to it. Any of the babies I have spent time with could easily have all the sex they want, and probably get guys their own age to buy them shit, but instead they are on SA looking for an older guy. It is more complex, I believe, than we in our collective wisdom have yet to detail. Mandy, weigh in on this, please. I believe all your daddies have been older, though some not much. What is the dynamic at work there?

Back to Bond Baby for just a moment, I have been thinking for a few weeks about her having no second thoughts about going bareback with a guy she had met a total of three times. And she is not the only one I have encountered like that. Polo was ready to ride without a saddle the first time we got together, as were a few others I may not have posted about. Has anyone else encountered such a phenomenon? Do they not know what kind of world we live in these days? Back when I was in college, it was Standard Operation Procedure, but that was way before all this scary shit that's going around now. I'd be interested to hear what others have encountered, and how you handled it.

I'm still infatuated with my NOLA baby, and we are still in very frequent, though no longer daily, contact. I am trying to figure out a way to either get myself down there again, or her up here, without arousing the suspicions of my parole officer. It is not easy, but I just have to see her again. As I said before, some days she's all I can think about.

Onward, my brothers,

Scott

Awesome!

Any repeats?

[QUOTE=SubCmdr; 1652725]HG's methods work. I got more $ SB's than I have time for. And I stumbled upon a 24/26 year old bisexual couple. They are both smoking hot solid 8's. Lipstick lesbians. Revealing outfits and four and five inch heels respectively. They decided they needed some money and some real dick. We had some conversation over wine. I told them, I felt more of a connection with the 26 year old, but I'd really like to have them both. They were like "let's go upstairs". Best threesome I've ever had in my life! And I've had a lot of threesomes. It's amazing the difference when the women are truly bisexual and into each other. It was a full on three hole affair with nothing off limits. Real kissing, pussy licking and orgasms all the way around. In fact, I made a real connection with the 26 year old. We took her partner home after round one and she came back to continue play time and spend the night. She is coming back over tonight sans partner. Chemistry is everything gentlemen. Don't ever discount it.

Now this was a pair of true sugar babies. They told me what their needs were before playtime. But said "we will not ask for money or tell you an amount because that would make us prostitutes. A Sugar Daddy gives what he wants to give." They get it. And even better I do too.

Chief of the Boat."Prepare to Dive."

SubCmdr Out!

P. S. I actual thought about not even reporting it. Forgiveness is requested if this is considered bragging.[/QUOTE]

I know it is not PC, but I will always bareback unless forced to by a responsible SB. Now I must admit that I no longer see Nando 1s or Pros (that I know of) , but I know that even a classy looking girl can carry STDs. I no longer am able to enjoy normal function with latex in the way. I have some knowledge of ovulation timing for what that's worth, so the pull out method is employed from time to time.

Scotty, I admire your responsible behavior.

Boys,

Thanks for the comments Scott. Your input is always appreciated. My adventures into the mysterious world of the bowl are very new but I can say they are exciting, invigorating, and even somewhat fulfilling. I am writing this on a late night flight from Austin back to the medium security facility, that is also known as my home. When I arrive for the weekend I will hand over the keys to the warden and she being the owner of the testicle lock box. (credit Rush Limbaugh on that one)

To comment on Scott's issue about babies going for the nasty without a demand for a glove. The first stripper I ever fucked many years ago. About 14 years ago, told me in no uncertain terms no glove no love. And she was quite strict about unauthorized access to that fabulous body. Long dark hair down to her perfect 22 yo ass, and a set of breasts that were perfect plump and pink. She was French decent from Rhode Island. Anyway she was one of the few that demanded. On the other hand I have had several that did not care either way or the other. In fact the little Cajun fried shrimp I just finished defiling this week did not demand it. I had to stop her and put it on when waxing that ass. Of course she did BBBJ a yeoman's job by the way. Yes she did prance around the hotel suite totally nude once again like being naked was how it was supposed to be. In fact when I asked to take a picture of her. She said I got some pictures in my phone already if you want those. The were taken at her dorm common bathroom mirror and funny thing was there was another chick running by naked in the background of one of the pictures. Another example was my current and first SB, F. Jumped on my dick in the moment of passion and we went at it like high schoolers. I actually came inside her and started worrying about it later. And asked if she was on birth control and she said no. That she did not need another kid and she would just get the morning after pill if needed! I about had a heart attack. Needless to say this did not stop the ice from flowing through my veins. I got tested about a month later. She did too. And she had her period on time.

Now I consider myself an intelligent and successful man. But that was just plain stupid. I still find that after that with F, I have to initiate the wrapper or she will just let me pound her au natural. And of course Jake certainly does not mind. In fact he leans a little the other way. I have some comments to make about this and the risks involved and at the risk of going against our politically correct culture. I believe everyone on here should consider this when fucking so much strange poon tang. But I want to save that for another post otherwise this one is going to be a novel.

Just to give a quick update. After some not so great results the past week. I am starting to get some quality hits. Made some minor adjustments to my offer letter. And out of the blue magically I got 4 responses. One appears to be a stripper. Which of course is a semi-pro, and says she is 38 which probably means 43. She even emailed me to come out to her strip club. Not going to happen. If I want to bag strippers I do not need SA for that. I want what you guys got. Loved you comments about this Scott and the unique connection and intimacy that a LT SD / SB arrangement can have. Another POT was very cute and she was texting me and I asked her if she ever had an SD before and she disappeared. I think she misunderstood and thought I asked her if she ever had an STD. Won't do that again. Another is ready to meet sent me pictures very strong thin body little boobies. Maybe a 8 body and a 6to7 head. Black hair and some tats, a personal trainer and she is bisexual. Looking forward to this. The last one seems really promising she has had two long term SD's in the past she is 27 and ready to jump in the bowl again. Wants to make her man happy and to be happy herself. I look forward to next week. Going real fishing offshore this weekend. Kingfish and Cobia have been biting. So no rest for the weary.

Finally some comments on Scotts comment about the dynamic of the sugar bowl. There is a lot here. For starters I believe the women that know what they want the SB's that are doing it for the fun of it, are light years ahead of other women who are sexually repressed and frustrated. I have seen very little in the way of anger or resentment in the ones I am dealing with. On another note and I think this is a key to the women in general and SB's even more that they are feminine and we are masculine.

And in any relationship there is a masculine and a feminine and the masculine is dominant and the feminine is submissive. And sometimes in our society the masculine and the feminine roles are switched because you cannot have both parties be one. So if the man stops leading giving up his masculine role then his woman will take over the masculine gender role and the male will revert to the feminine. This will lead to the loveless, sexless marriages many of are experiencing. Examples of this are not leading, letting wives make all the decisions, couch potatoes, not having a life outside of the marriage. And that is what the sugar bowl offers. A return to the correct masculine and feminine gender roles. Same for these young women. They date some guy who cannot provide for them, hell he can't or won't even pay for a dinner. He does not have any direction or a career. Probably lives at home with mommy or daddy, hell the 'manchildren' even brag about it. How they are getting everything from their parents for free. And to top it off these boys are overly concerned with their looks (see an episode of that Jersey Shore train wreck.)

So these poor girls are stuck with these pretty boys that do not provide anything that a woman truly wants. A man, who is dominant, assertive, can provide for her figuratively and monetarily, knows how to fuck her well, and is not hiding who he is to her. Guys this is powerful stuff. Women may be liberated. But we have only been domesticated for about 5, 000 years. We have over 200, 000 years of evolution running thorough these girls veins. And if I ever learned anything about women is that they do not think they feel. And if you make a woman feel like a woman. She will do anything for you. I don't pretend to have all of the answers but I have done quite a bit of reading on the subject. And if you want to read something that is truly revolutionary and non PC. Read 'Way of the superior man' by David Dieada. It will change your outlook forever. And help you understand how this stuff works.

Got to go. Plane landing. More comments to come. Having a blast. Sometimes life is good.

Revvo.

PS: This is a quote from my little Cajun morsel last night 'damn Revvo you tore my little pussy up, what am I going to do now'. She is 5; 2" 106 lbs.

My sugar bowl is starting to settle down. MsOxyMoron is looking for a studio to call her on with my help. Of course nothing in my name.

Had to reschedule my BigButtBeauty's trip out a couple of weeks. But we still talk almost daily and it will be a great time when we get together.

MsTeacher has moved on to a real relationship. The older MILF is still around, but no longer a top priority now (she does not have her own place or car. Too much work for me). I'm not quite sure how I'm going to handle her.

From SA, I've met a 30 year old mixed Asian / White / something else. She very cute has a great rack. She's about 5'4 and a little bigger than what I normally deal with, but she can still make it look good in tights, LOL. She knows how to dress for her body and is very passionate and sensual. We had a great meet-and-greet. I did have something happen that never ever happened before. She recognized my picture from her friend. Seems as though I went out on a M&G with her friend. Her friend decided to step away from the sugar bowl and get a real relationship. So we never had an actual date. So she calls the friend and the friend gives me this glowing recommendation. Wow!

So based on that recommendation, we chat, go out and have a great time. She has now moved into the #1 spot. So while MsOxyMoron is trying to find time and get a new place, I got 2 more dates set up with the newbie next week. I'm looking forward to it. I'm guessing by date #3, we'll be doing the Tiggabounce! (.60 was given at M&G) Like most of my SBs, her sugar requirements are very low. She was just tired of not going out or having to pay for everything when she does go out. She wants the dating life and a little cash every now and then. My kinda woman. She does not have her own place either. How do I keep meeting these types, LOL. But she's looking and expects to have one by the summer, this time I did not offer help, LOL.

BigTigg

Keeping it covered: I've also run across my fair share who were not to worried about protection. In some cases I was very strict and in some cases, not so strict. I do feel that if you are going to go about it au natural. You should have a discussion first and get some particulars out of the way. If you need more direct advice, PM me, LOL.

I'm definitely with you on the chemistry of a relationship that feels natural and "normal". Something to be said for that type of intimacy.

OMG. (I can't believe I used that term). But MsOxyMoron is exactly the same about bouncing around all naked. Now it's a great site to see, but I was so surprised by this activity. She even delayed some this last time together since I made a comment about the clothes coming off so fast, LOL. I want do that again. She didn't even hesitate when I said I wanted photos. I'm am so excited about our "up and cumming" younger generation, LOL.

I've also found that passion and romance are good and the women appreciate that too. But at some point you got to just bang them good hard an fast. My friend flying in, specially mentioned that as why she's visiting. She says the men there are ok, but she really needs my special type of attention given to the kitty.

BigTigg

Gents,

I am new to this board and want to thank you for all your posts in the sugar bowl arena. I have had some interest but nothing yet. I did set up a M&G at Starbucks but she did not show up. I guess she got cold feet. I will keep fishing in hopes of a bite.

Lovinglife

[QUOTE=BigTigger; 1662036]Keeping it covered: I've also run across my fair share who were not to worried about protection. In some cases I was very strict and in some cases, not so strict. I do feel that if you are going to go about it au natural. You should have a discussion first and get some particulars out of the way. If you need more direct advice, PM me, LOL.

I'm definitely with you on the chemistry of a relationship that feels natural and "normal". Something to be said for that type of intimacy.

OMG. (I can't believe I used that term). But MsOxyMoron is exactly the same about bouncing around all naked. Now it's a great site to see, but I was so surprised by this activity. She even delayed some this last time together since I made a comment about the clothes coming off so fast, LOL. I want do that again. She didn't even hesitate when I said I wanted photos. I'm am so excited about our "up and cumming" younger generation, LOL.

I've also found that passion and romance are good and the women appreciate that too. But at some point you got to just bang them good hard an fast. My friend flying in, specially mentioned that as why she's visiting. She says the men there are ok, but she really needs my special type of attention given to the kitty.

BigTigg[/QUOTE]Trading STD test reports is always a good idea when necessary. Chemistry is a must if its going to be more than a one or two nite stand. A solid banging is important to a lot of women. If you get totally honest with them you will find more than a few that don't really even want you to give them oral. They just want to get right down to business. Good and hard. I have always found that the best way to keep them coming back is to get them "adickted".