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I have had some issues with trying to get together with her also,"in the past". She had assured me that she was back and issues behind her. I am not going to make excuses for her. She is almost as good as it gets when she shows! But I can understand anyone who would be totally pissed off about a provider wasting their time!
Don't know if it was an issue about references or not, sounds like she should make it up to you in some way.
Ez
She is very good but the common thread here is her reliability. I enjoyed my visit with her but the first one was delayed and then canceled because of her driver's license issues. It would seem if it were not one thing it would be something else. I hope that she will be more accountable for the new year.
Naam,
I am fortunate (or my misfortune!) to know Crissybelle better than anyone else as many on this board knows. I have known her for over two years and we are quite close as friends. She is almost always late, horrible about returning calls and always seems to runs out of minutes on the phone! That being said, she is also one of the most sweetest, funny and personable ladies to know and is well thought of by many. Now I am not sticking up for her behavior on standing you up. That is just wrong and without a call or text to you is unexcusable. This will addressed with her and I can only hope she will give you an answer as to her behavior. Happy New Years to you and let's all look to a better year!
Wingman.
[QUOTE=Naam456; 1114300]I must just have bad luck. After reading all of the good things about Amari Rayne, I tried to connect with her a few months ago. Made an appointment with her and when it came time for me to get the details of her exact location. I couldn't reach her and wasted my afternoon.
Yesterday, I decided to try again. Again, I made the appointment over the phone. I later texted her and asked to move the appointment back 30 minutes. She said that was no problem, but then asked for referneces, which I gave her via text.
A short while later, she texted me back and confirmed that we were on for 4:30 and to come to Sharonville and then call her for her exact location. Sure enough, after driving almost an hour to get to Sharonville, I called her and got no answer. I texted her as well. After several unanswered calls and texts, I gave up and went home.
A second wasted afternoon over this provider. It's a shame. Her pics are hot and her reviews are excellent, but she pulls this on me twice. I'd say she owes me a free hour at this point! LOL.
Anyway, if something didn't feel right to her, or she couldn't verify my references, at least have the decency to send me a quick text to cancel. That takes like 30 seconds. Even a lame excuse would have been OK. Just don't make me come all the way to Sharonville and then blow me off.
Oh well. I'm done trying on this one. What a shame. [/QUOTE]
Gents,
It seems she owes a number of people, including myself, an explanation, at the very least. I have also been a long time, very close personal friend, and was proud to say so. And can vouch for everything WM says; she is one of the absolute sweetest, most delightful, fun and personable ladies around, or at least she used to be that way.
Whatever her issue is, I hope she gets it sorted out.
CFG
[QUOTE=Wingman Todd; 1114399]Naam,
I am fortunate (or my misfortune!) to know Crissybelle better than anyone else as many on this board knows. I have known her for over two years and we are quite close as friends. She is almost always late, horrible about returning calls and always seems to runs out of minutes on the phone! That being said, she is also one of the most sweetest, funny and personable ladies to know and is well thought of by many. Now I am not sticking up for her behavior on standing you up. That is just wrong and without a call or text to you is unexcusable. This will addressed with her and I can only hope she will give you an answer as to her behavior. Happy New Years to you and let's all look to a better year!
Wingman. [/QUOTE]
Earlier this week I had the pleasure of hooking up with Sara. She was first brought to my attention by ixrubicon in post #2438 in this thread. She is a cutie with some seriously small a cups (if they're even a?) but her ass is very nice to look at and I enjoyed her company a great deal. I thought the skills were good and will definitely repeat. To echo rubicon she is a student and lives in a decent neighborhood in Clifton. It's not the Ritz but we've all seen worse.
Not just true for providers, but for anyone. Treat others as you'd like to be treated = It's just common courtesy, decency and respect.
CFG
[QUOTE=Nkykinkyguy; 1114304]There have been many reports posted here about this provider. Seems that once she has meet with a hobbyist and is comfortable with them she becomes one of their ATF's. The problem seems to be that in the past she has gone UTR from time to time and then when she is back, getting that first "Date" is extremely difficult.
I totally am on board with a provider screening but I do think that it is only fair that she should screen prior to setting a "Date". If it gets to the point of scheduling a "Date" she should at least have the courtesy of calling to cancel. I have heard many a tale from hobbyist that no called, no showed where the provider blew up his cell because of his inappropriate behavior.
Bottom line for all parties is if you have to cancel,"For whatever reason" at least make a phone call. It is just common courtesy.
JMHO,
KG. [/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Mrrdfun;1114423]Earlier this week I had the pleasure of hooking up with Sara. She was first brought to my attention by ixrubicon in post #2438 in this thread. She is a cutie with some seriously small a cups (if they're even a?) but her ass is very nice to look at and I enjoyed her company a great deal. I thought the skills were good and will definitely repeat. To echo rubicon she is a student and lives in a decent neighborhood in Clifton. It's not the Ritz but we've all seen worse.[/QUOTE]How does one find this Sara in Clifton? I tried to search BP with no luck.
Can someone PM me, or provide me with a link?
Thanks
[QUOTE=Wingman Todd; 1114399]Naam,
I am fortunate (or my misfortune!) to know Crissybelle better than anyone else as many on this board knows. I have known her for over two years and we are quite close as friends. She is almost always late, horrible about returning calls and always seems to runs out of minutes on the phone! That being said, she is also one of the most sweetest, funny and personable ladies to know and is well thought of by many. Now I am not sticking up for her behavior on standing you up. That is just wrong and without a call or text to you is unexcusable. This will addressed with her and I can only hope she will give you an answer as to her behavior. Happy New Years to you and let's all look to a better year!
Wingman[/QUOTE]Thanks Wingman. I appreciate your post. Give her a spanking for me next time you see her.
Naam
I just found while taking a liesurely peruse through the site (self education). I think I'm going to print it, frame it and hang it on the wall!
Nice job JRW!
[QUOTE=Jry Wild1; 1082211][b][i]I am asking every member of the Cincinnati Forum to [u]Please Read This Entire Post[/u][/i][/b]
As all of you know, the Cincinnati forum has turned to crap over the past month or so."Newbie" bashing. Abusive language. Disrespecting each other. Disrespecting the Providers. Basically, treating each other like garbage.
In a recent discussion via PM with a member with whom I have had disagreements regarding their posts, I was asked if the advice I gave him applied to everyone. That started me thinking.
YES, the advice I am giving you applies to [b][i]EVERYONE[/i][/b].
New Members, Old Members. Young Persons, Old Persons. New to the Hobby, Old to the Hobby. Regular Members [b]and[/b] Seniors. Hobbyists and Providers. All of you and myself included. Frankly, even if you have not been directly involved or vocal in what has been going on, it includes you too!
I am asking [u]each and every one of you[/u] To join with me in an effort to return this forum to what it is meant to be. It has been said before, [b]we are all here for the same thing[/b]. The childish behavior exhibited by so many Members (both Regular and Senior) of this forum is disgraceful. We are all adults and we should be acting like it. This has degenerated to the point where there is almost no reason to even read this forum anymore.
I am calling for a Truce. A Cease Fire. An Amnesty. By [b][i]EVERYONE[/i][/b]
That means no more "bashing" by the Seniors of the "new" or "low report count" Members.
No tirades by the New Members about how the Seniors are acting "holier than thou"
No degradation, name calling, nastiness, or abusive language used against Regular Members, Senior Members, or Providers by ANYONE.
I am asking that you begin treating each other with courtesy and respect. Like civilized Human Beings.
If we do not join together and accomplish this goal as a unified community, we all might as well just never come back here. No matter what has been said, we all need each other on this forum. Seniors, Regular Members, Providers. If information and advice is not shared by ALL members, NO ONE will benefit.
Every time someone replies to a previous "inflamed" comment with another mocking or abusive comment, the turmoil escalates. Then there is yet another acerbic comment. And things escalate a little further.
Hear me when I shout,"IT HAS GONE TOO FAR AND GONE ON LONG ENOUGH". I'm not trying to preach at you or anything, because based on what has been posted by many of you, [u]I think you all already agree with me[/u]. If we as a group do not make a conscious effort to stop this, it will not happen and this insanity will perpetuate.
Does this mean that the "lazy" posts by Members (Senior or Regular) who just want to leech off the forum will stop?
Does this mean that everyone will contribute and be a productive Member (Senior or Regular) of the forum?
Does this mean that the "clueless" posts by Members (Senior or Regular) who don't know better will stop?
Unfortunately, the answer to these questions is "NO". If you look in ANY forum, you will see that this happens everywhere.
So what do we do? I propose that we don't just GIVE these members intel. We advise them of how to post, how to do the research themselves, and how to ask for help. [b]BUT, [/b] The important part is that we don't just "bash" them or deride them in the open forum or reply with "RTFF". That only leads to where we are today.
Old adage: "Give a man a fish and he eats for a day. Teach him to fish and he can feed himself for a lifetime"
If we just [b][i]give[/i][/b] These members intel, they will not learn. Teach each other instead. Help every member to become a productive member of the forum. Some might want choose to ignore the "ignorant newcomers", hoping they will just go away. Some may, but ignoring them will not solve the problem. There will always be another new member who needs guidance.
I am willing to write a set of guidelines that could be offered to those who are willing to learn and accept the guidance of those who have come before. I would welcome the input of [b][i]anyone[/i][/b] (Senior, Regular, Provider, old or new) who would like to collaborate with me on that endeavor.
I understand that many of the current group of seniors are tired of trying. I truly understand that and the frustration that they are feeling. If they want to step back, feeling that they have already done enough, I accept that. I hope that some of the seniors will continue to help or come back to help. They really DO have a lot of experience to share with the newer members of this forum and and new members of this hobby. I have learned much from them. Regardless, a new group must always step up to take leadership at some point. Which is as it should be. The student becomes the master.
I know egos have been bruised. Sensibilities have been shattered. Mob behavior has taken over. I am asking you all to put it aside and try to work together once again.
I believe I already have the support of a few of the Seniors and some of the Regular Members, notably Nkykinkyguy and CooperLamar. I believe they have both agreed to set aside their personal "feud" that has raged the Escorts Reports thread for several days now. I hope that both of them will vocally support my idea of reunification for the Cincinnati Forum. As I hope others will too.
I will leave you with a couple of last thoughts on how to accomplish some of this. It is not all inclusive, but it is a basic start.
[u]THINK before you post[/u].
1) If what you want to say is personal or directed to one person, send it via PM. Not the open forum.
2) If you disagree with something that someone posted, send it via PM. Not the open forum. Have an open discussion with them. Not an argument. Give them a chance to explain, maybe you misunderstood. Maybe if you express your point of view, they might agree with you and revise their post. Remember, not everyone agrees with each other. Be prepared to let it be.
3) If what you want to say benefits multiple people or the whole forum. Post an open report.
I believe using PM's effectively is probably the single most important thing that could be done to cut out all of this crap.
[b][i]More importantly, [/i][/b] Express yourself with tact and respect. Do not use abusive language or name calling. Be articulate and reasonable. I am willing to state unequivocally that if you approach another person with respect and grace, they will respond likewise.
Sorry for taking up so much space and in all of the threads, but I believe this had to be said.
JR[/QUOTE]
A friend of mine saw Hotsquirt for the 3rd time at her incall location in Cheviot and left very happy. Very easy to set up appointment, she was available right away. She has pics on here, they are accurate. Seniors may PM for details.
[QUOTE=Ezenuf; 1093958]Anyone seen her? I've got a apt, for tomorrow and didn't want surprise! She has some reviews (useless) , so she probably not a total rip, but wanted better intel. Pm's are fine!
Ez[/QUOTE]EZenuf,
How did it go with Erika? I saw her on e. Com with couple good reviews, and just want to hear from someone from here.
Thanks
Yes it has turned to crap! To many Seniors and respected regulars turning away from posting. The Professor "Wild Thang" has stated many good points. How many will live by this is unknown. For myself, I will respect his "truce" even though some of the idiotic posts boils my blood. So to all, take his advice about research, read the forums (notice I didn't say RTFF!) , learn the intel put out here!
But after talking to my brother from a second mother (Handle starts also with a "W") , we are both stepping aside for a time to see where this leads. As JR said "Regardless, a new group must always step up to take leadership at some point. Which is as it should be. The student becomes the master".
To the close circle of our friends, contact us in the normal way. Other then that, we will lurk in the backround but will be gone from posting for some time. Yes, again it has come to this! Have a good year.
Good luck to all.
WingmanTodd.
[QUOTE=Cincyfunguy; 1114867]I just found while taking a liesurely peruse through the site (self education). I think I'm going to print it, frame it and hang it on the wall!
Nice job JRW! [/QUOTE]
Leaders set the example. They lead by example.
I've never thought it appropriate to tell a newbie to RTFF. We should not give him the phone number of our latest new find, but we should offer advice so he won't get himself hurt. The board needs newbies to grow. Today's newbie is tomorrow's senior member and leader.
It all starts with kindness. Then follow your nose. Everything will fall into place.
When some drama comes along, ignore it. Ignored, drama dies.
Well said WM!
[QUOTE=Wingman Todd; 1115573]Yes it has turned to crap! To many Seniors and respected regulars turning away from posting. The Professor "Wild Thang" has stated many good points. How many will live by this is unknown. For myself, I will respect his "truce" even though some of the idiotic posts boils my blood. So to all, take his advice about research, read the forums (notice I didn't say RTFF!) , learn the intel put out here!
But after talking to my brother from a second mother (Handle starts also with a "W") , we are both stepping aside for a time to see where this leads. As JR said "Regardless, a new group must always step up to take leadership at some point. Which is as it should be. The student becomes the master".
To the close circle of our friends, contact us in the normal way. Other then that, we will lurk in the backround but will be gone from posting for some time. Yes, again it has come to this! Have a good year.
Good luck to all.
WingmanTodd. [/QUOTE]
You are semi right, and I want to reply, but am holding off."The truce". After tonight, I will drift into the night! Kindness is good, be so is is accurate intel! Let's see who steps up and let's see@RTFF!
[QUOTE=Golfcart; 1115606]Leaders set the example. They lead by example.
I've never thought it appropriate to tell a newbie to RTFF. We should not give him the phone number of our latest new find, but we should offer advice so he won't get himself hurt. The board needs newbies to grow. Today's newbie is tomorrow's senior member and leader.
It all starts with kindness. Then follow your nose. Everything will fall into place.
When some drama comes along, ignore it. Ignored, drama dies. [/QUOTE]